Many guys want to achieve their maximum potential with women ultimately with intentions of finding an optimal mate. In order to do this it often requires meeting MANY women and figuring out what works and what doesn’t work for that particular individual. Success is only possibly if one is willing to spend a LOT of time in the “field” doing this. Some men who want to get particularly good at meeting women decide to skip getting the phone number, skip the dating process, and engage in sexual activity the same night they meet a woman. In the seduction community we call this “Same Night Lay” game rather than one night stands because we allow the possibility of sleeping with these women again in the future.

There are many benefits of SNL game. Firstly the quicker a woman sleeps with you the quicker she will start to like everything else about you. To avoid feeling like a slut, which is simply a negative term invented by her social peers, she will backwards-rationalize all the logical reasons she did sleep with you so quickly, although in reality it was an emotional reaction to your charm.

Because most SNL’s take place in bars and clubs, much of what is taught by other instructors is also effective in this situation such as projecting attractive qualities, disarming obstacles, and sexualizing. Firstly a woman needs to feel comfortable with you approaching her so if she realizes you are a social person, she will be more comfortable with your approach. One of the best ways to do this is to SHOW her that you have healthy relationships with others by simply talking to other people who are in her visible range. If she sees other women displaying attraction for you, this will be even more powerful, whether these other women are attractive or not. Most bars and clubs have dozens of women “dolled up” with make-up, high heels, and revealing clothes so very rarely do they feel like the hottest girl in the place, even though to you she might be. It is important to understand this before approaching and you will feel much more confident.

Most attractive women arrive to the venue in groups. Because it is your objective to get her alone, the best way to do this is to make friends with the group she is with. This can be easily achieved by talking to her male friends about sports and/or giving her female friends compliments or telling the group funny stories. In SNL game the woman you like NEEDS to feel sexual early in the game so one quick way to do this is to use sexual cold reads. A cold read is simply a situation where a woman provides you with basic information about herself and you interpret what it says about her personality. This principle is based on a Japanese study called “kokology” and there are many books on it. After a woman shows you something about herself, such as her astrological sign, her profession, or her choice of clothing or accessories, you can say something like, “Uh oh I shouldn’t even be talking to you right now.” When she predictably asks “Why not?” you reply with something sexual such as “Because girls like that are always horny and just want to have sex all the time.” Other than influencing her to immediately think about sex, this displays several attractive qualities about you such as social intuition, a break in rapport, sexual experience, and possibly having a history of dating women similar to her. During the attraction phase it is also very important to be touching her physically more and more, which is a process that the community refers to as “kino escalation”.

Once she is clearly displaying indicators of attraction, she should verbally agree to do something with you after the bar/club closes and you should have this planned out before you go out for the night. One easy offer is to “Continue the fun at your place” or suggest other after-hour activities such as hookah, wine, and/or a hot tub. A woman needs a REASON to leave with you so make sure you provide her with some kind of justification other than having sex with you. If she is definitely attracted to you and still hesitant to leave, you must do whatever is necessary to be with her after the venue closes. Many women make up “rules” such as “no going home with a guy the first night” so you have to bypass this. One way to do it is to say, “Hey I don’t have my car here so since we’re getting along so well it would be great if you could drop me off at my place.” If she agrees then simply tell her to park and assume she is coming inside. You might want to say something like, “I will give you a quick tour of the place however I have to wake up early so you can’t stay for long.” Again women make decisions based on their emotions so if complications ever come up in your game, remember to “change her mood, not her mind.” When most women say, “I can’t leave my friends” most guys would give up or take her number and go home alone, while a pick-up artist would say something like, “Don’t worry I’m sure your friends are having a great time. Just text them in a bit and let her know you’re safe. I’m sure they’ll do the same.”

8 hours? Try 30 minutes.

Lately, in the community there has been more of an interest in SNL Game. Here’s the misconception. Many guys believe there is a 7 hr rule that you must follow to getting the close. Take that and throw it down the drain. There’s guys closing in less than 4 hours and my SNL’S usually average about 4-5 hours with my last one being in 2 hours. Well, Latinstylez what are the keys to SNL Game?

1. Logistics

Yup, this is where most guys fail. A friend of mine by the name of RedpoleQ always stresses logistics. If you have a solid game plan, of where you will take the girl from point A-Z, then you will be that much better off when you are running game. Combine that with being comfortable in the venues and also knowing the people there. Guess what that creates? It creates a person who is comfortable within himself in the areas he goes to and it shows by the way you act and also by the way you talk to other people in the venue.

Tip: Start looking around your area for some good venues to bounce your girls to. Think of at least 3-4 venues that you can rotate between.

2. Use plausible deniability to bring her back to your place

Plausible deniability is created when she doesn’t feel responsible. Again, my buddy RedpoleQ and BlueM stress this in their teaching. I have used this technique and have been able to escalate at a quicker pace and also deal with less LMR when I pull her back. A good example would be to tell her about vacation photos that you want to show her or some funny you tube videos. What this does is it doesn’t make her responsible. Remember the man is responsible!

3. Escalate

Escalating is where most guys fuck up on. You have a guy who is clearly interested in the girl he is sarging but when it comes to kinoing her he freezes out. Afraid to touch her the guy goes into a state and loses out on the girl he is interested in.This is one of the most important parts of SNL game because physical touch is very important in the HB feeling comfortable with you. Without touch, there is nothing!

Escalation tips:

Start small. This can be your hand on her shoulder or lightly touching  her arm and progressing. RedpoleQ teaches a bootcamp where he goes over this with guys. Remember to continue progressing!

4. Sexualize

Well what is sexualizing, Latin?  Here are some quick sexualization tips. Make sure to run Questions Game later on in the sarge. This is typically done at the seduction location or prior to the seduction location.

You want to make sure to find out how sexual she is…

Start by asking questions on how many people she has kissed and slowly progressing from there. The key here is to progress with each question.

Strawberry Fields is another great way to sexualize typically in the bounce location before the seduction location or you can roll it out in the seduction location. Sexualizing takes practice; I am still working on getting it tighter.

5. Pull the trigger

She’s laying there in the bed looking at you all sexual. You look down and decide that you “feel” right now is not the time after you have progressed this far in the SAME DAY! We’ve been there. This is the main reason I am writing this post. Well, don’t just sit there looking  at her pull the f…. trigger… Go on that bed and play with her hair and give her a kiss.

I’m sick of hearing crap about all these games in the community. Just go in for the k close and escalate. Pulling the trigger means going after what you want. Do you want that girl? Then pull the trigger!

SNL Game:

Just a few tips from someone who has experience in SNL Game. Most of the time I don’t even go for the SNL’s they just happen. They happen because of some of the steps I have listed above. There is much more to expand on this topic and we are working on ways to make our game harder, better, faster, and stronger. Most commonly in SNL Game, faster!

Latin

Centre of Miraflores district, Lima, Peru.

FR: Insta date from shopping mall with HB8…

You can game anytime and anywhere. We were walking to the shopping area and I opened an HB8 that just finished working out. I asked her about where to buy phones in the area and she was pretty unhelpful… Asked her about her tattoo and she was unresponsive and waiting for the bus which ended up coming. ON to the next set

Next set was with her friend opened them with are you two sisters? Friends phone rang and I moved along the set with HB7 Tall… Friend gets off phone… On to the next set…

Third set went really well. It was a really hot HB8 (nice brown hair and a few tats) that was walking around the make up aisle by herself. I opened her with “Who lies more men or women?” This got her going and she wanted to practice her English with me- she had an English book…

I got her times and she had an hour. I told her I was craving some cafe so we bounced over to a coffee shop nearby. Made sure to kino more from the start- palm reads, handshakes, etc.

We bounce over to the coffee shop and I ran some more cold reads on her then went into comfort. I’ve been moving at a fast pace lately thru the phases and I’m working harder and harder to have the SNL game down in a short amount of time. Her times sucked tho she had class and she lives pretty far.

Walked her to the park and she didn’t have a driver’s license so I pretended we were driving while we walking down the street- made it interactive… She also told me she was a bit shy so I just knew i had to build more comfort…

From there I grab her arms and lead her before she has to get on the bus to head out… She also told me I looked like Marc Anthony the Spanish singer- is this a DHV? I’ve been told this before by other girls in sets too. They have looked at me and smiled then said it haha… Timebridged for this Saturday… On full momentum for the rest of the week till Buenos Aires, Argentina.

FR: Lil Hottie from the Bar

Continued on later in the night at a local bar… Met up with a girl from online before and planned on using her as a pivot for the next venue the cool bar in the area… We had dinner first livened up the mood…

Bolo tagged along and we head to the venue. Upon entering I notice a two set and one guy talking to one of the girls. The other girl HB 7 was just chilling there looking kinda bored. I open her with “What beer do you recommend me trying here in Lima.” She starts going thru the list I introduce her to pivot and Bolo…

They hit it off with the pivot and I had a game plan all along. Once I had the time, I went into the set with all the stuff I mentioned previously. Portraying my body language alpha like, kinoing from the start, making her laugh, qualifying, and frame control…

She met my qualification standards and from there I got her into isolation on the corner of the bar later. Picked her up and we started dancing to some reggaeton. Tried to seed a bounce outside which her friend wanted to go to a food place. I was stuck to work inside the venue. I did what I could do with it. Got into some more comfort building stories she threw me a lot of reverse kino. I could tell my stories were hitting a punch line because at the dramatic parts of my comfort stories she would grab my palms. Ended up k closing before her and her friend had to leave…

She wanted to timebridge me for a bar hangout with her friends on Friday. I know this would make it tough for logistics so she threw in “What are you doing tomorrow?” From there, I seeded in coffee shop and wine bar near my place. The funny thing is which I later realized is I have another day 2 set up with bar girl from Saturday night. I’m going to do a toss up here make the calls and pick the one I had the best connection with for the night. I was in set longer with this girl so I will call her first. If she is unresponsive, I have a back up plan…

FR: Gaming at the Park…

There’s a park near where we are staying at which has plenty of hotties. Bolo and I head over there. On my way there, I warm up with some street game. Hb6 walks by me I open her over the shoulder with “Do you know where the park is?”

She lets me know where the location is. I continue walking with her on the way there and just vibing. Number closed and went on to the next set…

Bolo meets up with his target and my other wing is in a set. I guess I better get to work! I walk the park area which is called Parque Kennedy. This area is awesome for logistics. A ton of bounce locations!

I walk around for a bit and I spot a hottie HB7.5 sitting by herself. I open her with “What is the name of this park?” She gives me the name and has a book open next to her. It is an English book and I tell her “Let’s practice some English.” She starts laughing and doesn’t want to practice. Then, I said a word then she told me the rest of them. She was studying to work on a cruise line…

From there, I got into doing some cold reads on her and could tell she was bit shy so I slowed it down a bit. Kinoed a bit and from there I told her “Hey let’s go get some cafe and grabbed her hand.” Bounced her over to the nearest coffee shop…

Inside the coffee shop, I went into some funny stories about my travels and also the interesting things that happened getting down to Peru… I had her laughing the whole time. She had to get to class so I timebridged for a Day 2 tomorrow. Walked her hand and hand across the street.

The next set was interesting. I opened her with the same opener before I would rate her an HB 7.8. She was from Vegas down in Lima visiting. We talked for a bit I would have continued with the set but her bus was leaving soon and she was married with kids. I prefer girls without kids and who aren’t married. Just one of my preferences and qualification standards…

On to the nightime… More to post

Largo Mar Lima

Sent out a bunch of messages on various sites this also includes hitting the local bars and clubs and also doing day game. I sent out a message on an internet site that basically said I’m here for a limited amount of time and to meet up. The message was intended ONLY FOR GIRLS who want to meet.

She responded with hey I’m up for meeting and left her phone number. Ok, I send her a text then she said “Why don’t you call me?” From there, I called her and asked for times to meet. She said how about right now since she was in the area. I set it up in an hr.

My Logistical Plan

Meet>>Place>>> Wine Bar>>> Park>> Back to Place=Seduction

I met her up a bit late… Introduce give her the hand shake not too receptive. She’s pretty hot and petite just how I like em 7.5

She was also pretty uptight which I read from her. She asked “What are we going to do?” We walk around for a bit then I grab a cab to my area. Walk past the wine bar literally next door to where I’m at- how good for logistics?

Once at my place, I introduce her to Bolo. He cracks some jokes and livens up the mood. I tried to bounce her up to the room as she kept asking what we are going to do. She kept looking at her phone so I told her if she wants to keep talking to her friends she can go off with them. We are here to get the women we want and if she wants to occupy her time on the phone and not me she’s not WORTH MY TIME.

She has this shocking look on her face like I can’t believe you just said that to me. She stayed and put the phone away. From there, I tried to bounce her up to my room. She didn’t wanna come up so I brought some pics down stairs. She kept looking at her watch and I could tell she was giving me some shit tests here.

I tell her ok we’re leaving. She says “Where?” Bounce over to the wine bar. We take a seat and here she begins to liven up a bit asking me questions. I order us some wine and pull out the 5 animals cold read and run it on her. At first, she seems disinterested in the animals cold read. But, towards the end she started to warm up. ** During the wine bar, I made sure to run the cold reads on her with palms. At first, she didn’t want me touching her hands too much, but she was receptive after I push/pulled with the hand touching…

From there, I bounce her over to the park area. I grab her hand and LEAD. At the park, I wanted to sexualize the interaction and build some more COMFORT. I have strawberry fields translated in Spanish thx Lumiere and pull it out and run it on her. She asked me after “What is your favorite part about sex?” And this got her talking about the subject. She was a psychology major so she was like is this a psychological test? haha…

She was much more laid back after this. I go right in for the kiss close in the park. I made sure to seed a movie back to the place. We make out some then she’s like I have to go to the bathroom. I tell her ok you can use the bathroom at my place. Once inside, I grab my laptop and when shes comes out of the bathroom I said ‘Let’s check out a cool movie.” She said ok and we head upstairs.

I am staying at a hostel and we have a dorm, but it’s only Bolo and I staying there and the hostel ppl are chill. We head into the room and I look for a movie go out of the room come back in and she has some music playing. Once back in the room, she wants a drink so I make one. I kiss her again but I pulled back made sure to do push pull.

Once we were laying there, she asked me what do I want to do with her. I remember Bluemystery saying something a while back and that was to be upfront and tell her you want to fuck her. I told her I wanted to and she later told me she was on her period. This doesn’t immediately mean I won’t have sex with her. I continue making out with her. Then she jumps on top of me and I start dry humping. Then, she talks about how she’s on her period and not to- LMR stuff. I continue dry humping then she says “Ok let’s have sex…”

Closed it from there with no more LMR. It was sure nice rocking her hott petite body (what I like is petite girls). Afterwards, she said that she was glad we got past the differences we had in the beginning and that she wants to see me again… Bolo also noticed she was much more laid back after which I def did notice too. Got her on her taxi and we said our goodbyes… Another thing she told me is when she first got there and I tried to pull her up to the room that she didn’t want to cuz she barely knew me. Know this for next time to hang with them downstairs then pulling upstairs after a few bounces outside.

Things I did well

1. Dealing with her shit tests
2. Perfect execution with strawberry fields
3. Sexualizing quickly- closed in 2 hrs