We all know opening is just the beginning this video covers it… However, it’s still an important part of game that you need to know. I prefer to go indirect, but it depends on the situation. Savoy makes some interesting comments about different types of openers: functional-which he teaches, harder to transition, lowest risk/lowest reward, direct- high risk (AIA- decision made right away), indirect, opinion- AIA made later

These are just a few more will be covered later. Want to learn more openers? Check out the Love Systems Routines Manual.

**AIA- Am I Attracted decision made by the target

5.0 is a Love Systems instructor based in London, UK. He is an expert at high-end club game and will be speaking at the Love Systems Super Conference (Oct 9-11, Las Vegas). Here’s a Q&A with him discussing high-end club game, how to build social proof, and more.

What are you going to talk about at the Love Systems Super Conference 2009?

I am going to be talking about something that I love to do almost as much as I love to teach it – social proof.

I will be covering social proofing a venue you have never been to before, as well as using social proof to create a buzz about yourself at your regular haunts. I have been fine tuning my approach to social proof over the last couple of years as I have worked my way up the London club circuit, using these techniques to allow me to frequent the most exclusive high end clubs in Europe. If you want the hottest women, you need to be able to gain access to these high-end venues, and social proof is one of the most fundamental techniques to master to make this a reality.

What are some tips to get into these high-end clubs?

As guys, the odds are massively stacked against us, even if you are willing to spend a fortune – women are the currency of these venues. Lucky for us right! I cannot break it all down here, but I will give you some bullet point tips which I have learnt the hard way.

1) Arrive early, sober, & well dressed and DO NOT linger outside the club. Walk straight to the line – bouncers have to deal with keeping the pavements/roads clear of clubbers, so don’t make their job harder and have them remember you as being awkward.

2) Talk to the bouncers, but don’t try to ‘game’ them. A great tip is to engage them first, and offer to help make their life easier e.g. “Hey man, do you need to see my ID…?” (as you take your wallet out to hand it to him) Engaging the bouncer first is very powerful as it sub-communicates you’re high value.

3) Go in with girls. Hit a bar close to the club before hand and try to bounce some girls over. Failing that, at least try to talk to some in the line as you’re waiting. DO NOT mention going in with them, just let the bouncers assume you’re all together.

Can you share a tip or routine for building social proof?

Two words: Short setting.

As SOON as you walk into a bar, talk to someone, anyone, and say ANYTHING, but make sure it’s quick, and low compliance. Ask what time the venue shuts down, where the bathroom is, are the drinks expensive etc. Make sure you’re smiling and shake the guys hand as you leave and introduce yourself. This is handy as you have already broken the ice and should you see the group/guys with any girls you’d like to meet, you now have a warm approach as you have met them already. This is so powerful because no one else in the venue knows you, and therefore doesn’t know WHO you know. The illusion created is that you know everyone – and who tends to know everyone in a venue? People of high value.

How do you approach and extract girls from the dance floor?

Thanks for giving me the simple questions! Approaching and extracting from the dance floor is actually pretty straight forward, PROVIDING, you have social proofed the venue properly. Maybe 5% of the time, you can just go up and grind a girl, make out and pull her home with none of what I’ve been describing, but the problem is if you fail, you look like the ‘creepy dance floor guy’.

You should make sure to approach sets with AT LEAST the same energy they have, if not slightly higher, as well as remembering to smile and enjoy yourself. It’s also SUPER important not to neglect her friends, make sure you’re engaging everyone in the group, then when you want to extract, make sure you go for low compliance hoops (going for a shot for example) then you can bounce her to some sofas/secluded dark area and run your favorite comfort routine.

If you want to find out more information on the Super Conference, click here. Seats are filling up fast so make sure you book your spot!

Q: What is the Love Systems Super Conference?

The Love Systems Super Conference is the big annual event for people learning, teaching, or studying how to attract, date, and seduce beautiful women. It’s where the best of the best dating coaches come to share ideas, network, and of course to present their newest and best breakthroughs. It is three days filled with seminars, live exercises, and infield (going out to meet women with dating coaches instructing you).

It started as the Mystery Method Super Conference back in 2005 but renamed to Love Systems Super Conference in 2007. Past speakers have included:
-       Mystery (aka Erik Von Markovik, of VH1 The Pickup Artist)
-       Style (aka Neil Strauss, author of The Game)
-       Savoy (author of Magic Bullets)
-       Cajun (winner on Keys to the VIP)
-       Braddock (appeared on Tyra Banks)
-       The Don (appeared on Dr Phil)
-       Sinn (Sinns of Attraction)
-       Brad P (Brad P Presents)
-       Carlos Xuma (Alpha Lifestyle)
-       Daniel Johnson (Pickup 101)
-       And more..

All Love Systems instructors will be flying in to be at the Super Conference. There will also be other guest speakers and so far Brad P, Dr Paul, and David Wygant have confirmed to come. We have a couple more in the works with a surprise guest lined up.

There are two packages: Silver and Gold. The Silver level attendees will be able to attend all the live exercises and seminars during the Super Conference. The Gold level attendees will also be able to do live exercises and seminars, but will also go out two nights with infield coaching by our instructors. The price for Silver is $947 and Gold is $3,797.

Here’s a video of the Love Systems Super Conference of last year:

Q: When and where is the Super Conference taking place?

It will take place in Las Vegas, NV, USA at the Hard Rock Hotel. The exact date is October 9-11 (three days). We chose Vegas because it’s affordable for people come to Vegas and there are plenty of beautiful women from all across the globe partying it up.

Q: What sessions can we expect at the Super Conference?

What’s great about the Super Conference is that we will have two rooms booked. There will be two sessions running at the same time in the seminar and breakout room.
The breakout room will all be interactive. That’s where people will be able to talk to instructors and work with them on a particular part of their game. These live exercises include:
..      Approaching and Transitioning – Get your approaching skills down!
..      Teasing and Bantering – How to think on your feet and build attraction FAST!
..      Physical Escalation – Touching gets results and prevents you getting in the friendzone!
..      Body Language – Project confidence with your walk, posture, and gestures!
..      Frame Control – Steer interactions the way you want it to go!

The seminar room is where the instructors and guest speakers will reveal their latest breakthroughs, give lectures, and talk about specific topics on dating.  Past subjects have included:

..      Social Circle Mastery
..      Advanced Attraction
..      Deep Comfort
..      Inner Game
..      Relationship Management and Multiple Relationships
..      Callback Humor
..      Day Game
..      Strippers and Hired Guns
..      And lots more.

You decide what you want to do because there are always two sessions running at the same time. If you want to work with an instructor, you can go to the breakout room. If you want to listen to a lecture on a specific topic, the seminar room is where you want to be. You can tailor the whole weekend to your own level of game. If you’re new to the game I would suggest you mix it up with breakout and seminar sessions.

Q: Do you need to have taken one of your bootcamps or seminars before you go can go the Super Conference?

It is true that the Super Conference will be covering a lot of advanced techniques and never before revealed secrets. However, you do not have to have taken a bootcamp or seminar of ours to go to the Super Conference. Even if you are completely new, if you take the Gold level (which includes infield) you will get the same experience as a normal bootcamp. The added bonus is that you will work with more instructors than a normal bootcamp, so you will get to see a lot of different styles of game and get feedback from a lot of different instructors.

One day before the start of the Super Conference we have set up an optional introductory program for new students. The Head Start seminar is about getting the foundations of solid game right. It will allow you to walk into the Super-Conference confident that you fully know and understand the underpinnings behind the game and to enable you to get the most out of the advanced theories that will be put forth throughout the weekend.

Q: Will there be a DVD of the Super Conference?

Short answer: no.

When we release our latest breakthroughs, we want to keep it to the people who will be at the Super Conference. Normally we release sensitive information only on the Lounge, a private forum for people who have done training with Love Systems, but we will be discussing all new theories, routines, and techniques in person at the Super Conference. That’s why we have people sign a non-disclosure agreement (NDA) to prevent our secrets and breakthroughs from leaking to the public.

Q: It’s too expensive for me. Anything I can do to still make it to the Super Conference?

We understand that in this tough economy money can be tight. We normally don’t offer payment plans but we want to help men out as much as we can so we are making an exception for this Super Conference.

If you can’t afford the Gold level ticket, you might want to consider the Silver level ticket. You can attend and participate in all seminars and live exercises, and are only restricted from the night-time bar and club live training.

Click here if you want to find out more on the Love Systems Super Conference.

Here are some reviews of students on the past Love Systems Super Conferences.

Sinn – One of my favorite things about Super Conferences is being around all of the instructors. Every one of them is a really cool guy. Can’t wait till next year!

Psilite – I had a lot of fun and thought this whole Super Conference was genius! Especially the way the rooms were set up. There was A LOT of information that was gold in the entire Super Conference! Much of it helped me a lot when I went out that same day. I wish I had a gold or higher ticker to go out with the instructors.

J The Ripper – My brain is still on overload as I’m trying to sort out all the knowledge that was handed down by the Love Systems instructors. They had a really cool format where you could basically choose your own schedule. The upstairs auditorium was dedicated to seminars, which was one speaker after another. Each speaker would discuss a different topic (ie Approach Anxiety. Routines, Day Game, Qualification, 10 Min. lays, Female Psychology, etc…) The side room and downstairs room were dedicated to group exercises, where the instructors would go over a certain aspect of game, and then coach you on it and give you instant feedback (teasing and bantering, storytelling, frame control, etc). I had a great time and recommend everyone check it out next year.

Capo – What can I say? I mean… the Super Conference offered way more than I thought, I mean, it was way better than I had anticipated, even having read all of what was posted on the site. I thought it was going to be a really fun and educational weekend… it turned out to be one of the funnest and coolest (educational as well) weekends I’ve ever had, it was really awesome. Every single instructor that took the stage or got to be in charge of the workout room was very knowledgeable and they all took as much time as needed to answer all the questions they were being asked. The Super Conference was awesome, I met a lot of really cool guys and got to hang out with some of the best instructors in the world, what more can I ask for?

SirSlick – Whatever you want, LS has instructors that are experts on different areas and you can just walk up to them and ask them whatever you need to know. I never had the idea that the instructors “were better” than the attendees. My impression of them was they were genuine in helping people and were just like “us”. I’d highly suggest for everyone to get a SC BC, it’s worth the money. I’m college student and tight on money, but the investment was totally worth it. It totally opened my reality on what I can do now and in the future. The BC definitely cut my learning curve by several months up to maybe a year, because it eliminated two sticking points and now I know what weaknesses I have in my game. With that I also have exercises and notes on how to improve my success with women.

Goodrake – While it’s great to hear someone talk about it, seeing the instructors do it, answer questions, and then watch and evaluate as the students did it was a great learning process. Almost without exception each of the presenters showed both a real depth of knowledge and experience about the subject matter, and a genuine passion for sharing this with the attendees and seeing it benefit them. If you come to one of these or a bootcamp, be sure to be prepared to take a lot of notes, in a quick and organized fashion. When the instructors are in their groove, the information is flowing. If knowledge is water, think of it as trying to drink from a fire hose. Even though I’ve been studying and applying this stuff for about a year, there’s still plenty of new insights to be gained from attending, as well as retouching on foundational stuff, and the occasional “light bulb over head” moment, when the clouds part and you see something you didn’t see before. How much is a “breakthrough” worth to you?

Monk – As I began talking to other attendees, I realized the lengths community members were willing to go to to attend this event. I met guys from all over CA, from the east coast, and instructors from London, Sweden, Paris, Thailand and other exotic locales. Everyone. Thank you. My life is different. Fears and doubts I’ve had since adolescence are gone, perhaps forever.

Guythano – I really had quite a bit of fun, but more importantly conquered some sticking points. It all just suddenly clicked. A week after I returned, it just started raining women. I would just like to thank everyone again for all their efforts to make the superconference possible and if you have the chance to go, I highly recommend that you do!

Xander – Let me just say that Love Systems truly is dating science. It’s an accurate term. It’s the most cutting edge, advanced stuff around and it’s constantly being refined by great tactical seducers. Overall a life-changing weekend and a total bargain.

Jiggawha – I was so surprised at everyone’s high levels of positive energy, and when I heard the instructors speak, I was instantly blown away. Every word that they spoke struck me with an “AHA!” moment, and shot my motivation up the roof. They were so down to earth that I felt I had a chance of becoming like them. I had already gotten my money’s worth. I usually never talk to my parents deeper than an informational level, but I called my mom Monday night, and we had a deep conversation for half an hour about my life and about her’s. It literally almost brought me to tears when I got off the phone with her; also making me realize how much I’ve changed over this past weekend. She told me how much she enjoyed the conversation, and I agreed. A conversation beyond an informational level hasn’t happened in over 5-10 years. Before that, I had dinner with a good friend of mine and we also had a really deep conversation about everything. He commented on how very different I am now, after coming out of this conference. All the attendees and instructors have changed my life and my eyes have been opened to new perspectives once more. Coming into the conference, I couldn’t even open a set properly, but after that first failed set, the learning has never stopped. Every single one of you has had an impact on me. Life has meaning again. Thank you so much.

Cleanface – The conference this year was nothing short of amazing! What an awesome event!

Zyder – The Love Systems Super Conference in Vegas was a really exceptional experience. Considering that I only first started reading Magic Bullets on my flight over from Paris then to say I was a newbie to all this material would be a bit of an understatement! The seminars covered pretty much every aspect of gaming women. Three days of seminars with the instructors often around and between sessions to answer your questions was such a great deal. I was genuinely shocked by how articulate and knowledgeable the instructors were.

Tenorio – I walked away from EVERY presentation having learned something — and that’s saying a lot, since I’ve read everything. Going out both nights in Gold Level groups…well, I don’t know what to say. There’s no better way to put theoretical lessons into action than through practice, and Gold Level was a perfect way to do this. I left the weekend with some sticking points nailed and a concrete gameplan for my evolution going forward. There’s not much more I could ask for.
SSnake – There was lots material that I had never heard or read and getting it straight from the horses mouth made all the difference. Of course, there is already more good material on-line, in books, and on CD then you could ingest in a life-time. I went to actually hang out with these instructors and network with other students. You can’t get that from media.

If you want to attend the biggest dating conference, you better sign up NOW. There are only a finite number of seats available and seats will be selling out soon. To find out more information on the Love Systems Super Conference, click here.

If a girl gives you a “maybe”-type response to a date invitation or says “I’ll let you know”, this is a test from her that is very easy to fail because it’s easy for you to fall into a low-value situation where you’re waiting around with your schedule open for her. On the other hand, if you press her too hard to commit to plans, then you’re chasing her… which is also low-value.

(By the way, my good friend Soul and I have an audio interview on Handling Tests.)

So what I typically do in response to a “maybe” response is that I typically give her a deadline (in a playful way) of when she must respond to my invite by. For example:

“I’ll hold your spot for tomorrow night’s plans until 9pm tonight… after that, my offer either self-destructs or gets offered to somebody else.  :)”

That last part — about offering the plans to somebody else — is the scariest part to type out in a text or say over the phone, but it works wonders for a variety of reasons. It triggers the attraction switch of preselection by other women, it shows that you have other options out there, it shows that you’re not afraid to talk about those other options, and it can help trigger jealousy in her as well.
(Pre-selection is one of the few attraction switches. All of them can be found in the book Magic Bullets)

Then, as it gets closer to your deadline time, you can send her a text message along the lines of:

“Going once… going twice…”

And then, if you don’t hear back from her:

“Sold! To another bidder! We’ll try again some other time for plans.”

If she says something like “Okay! Yes! Call me tomorrow to confirm”, that “calling to confirm” part is just another way of saying maybe. At that point, you need to simply call her out on it and say: “So do we have plans or not? Should I reserve time for you? Because I can make other plans.” (Credit Savoy for this.)

Now, on the day of the date, she may flake on you just a few hours before the event. If she does that, your WORST possible reaction would be to get upset. That just shows her how much of an emotional investment you’ve made into her, and if she hasn’t put the same emotional investment into you yet, then it will tremendously lower your value and she probably won’t want to see you again.

My favorite response to a last-minute flake is: “I will wait to see how you make it up to me before I pass judgment.”

Savoy’s favorite response to a last-minute flake is: “Oh, it’s no problem. I can take someone else.”

If she continually shows low compliance by not responding to date offers or says “no” too many times in a row, then I usually call up and say (in a HIGH-ENERGY PLAYFUL tone, NOT a serious or reprimanding tone!):

“Samantha, you are such a DORK!! Do you know why you are such a dork?? Because I have called you SEVERAL TIMES over the last few weeks to make plans and you haven’t called me back (or haven’t been available). So this is your LAST CHANCE, your FINAL OPPORTUNITY to make plans with me. After this, there will be no more opportunities! All future opportunities disintegrate into thin air! So if you can stop being a dork for just a minute, call me back. Bye.”

You can even expand this into a playful list of 3 reasons why she is such a dork — and include some callback humor that will remind her of why she originally liked you enough to give you her phone number. Something like:

“Samantha, you are the BIGGEST DORK for 3 reasons! One, because you’re the only person in Los Angeles who eats sushi with white wine. Two, because you still listen to pop music even though I’ve told you to get rid of all those pop songs and switch to R&B instead. And three, because I have called you a HUNDRED TIMES to make plans and you haven’t called me back. So this is your LAST CHANCE… (then continue with above).”

And speaking of calling vs. text messaging, I think that the best way to accelerate getting girls to say YES to dates is to switch to PHONE CALLING instead of TEXTING. Texting is so low compliance, and the more you text a girl back-and-forth, the more she just sees you as words on a screen, and forgets all about your personality and why she gave you her number in the first place. Texting builds very little comfort or rapport. In fact, I urge all guys to try to start making PHONE CALLS more often than text messages… you will notice dramatic improvements in the responses you get from women. Yes, it’s more risky, but as I always say: with big risk comes big rewards.

Another thing to think about in regards to text messages, girls LOVE collecting text messages from guys, just like they love to collect friends on Facebook. It’s an ego boost for them — it validates that they are sexy & that they have tons of options — and they love getting text messages from all sorts of “orbiters” while they’re out fucking other guys. They love to giggle with their girlfriends about all these guys that are texting them and they fully admit to their girlfriends which ones they’re never going to sleep with. So the sooner you stop texting her, the sooner you can stop validating her for NOT seeing you in person. You can still text once in a while, but you need to use the phone to keep the emotional momentum going.

Switch to the phone, and things will get much easier. Switching to the phone will also help you realize sooner if a girl isn’t into you and it’s not going to go anywhere. Text messages can go on for MONTHS & MONTHS before you realize that it’s not going anywhere.

As Soul says, “The relationship does not begin until sex.”

A few other pointers:

- Always refer to your dates as “dates”. Be as clear as possible with your intentions, so she knows EXACTLY why you’re asking her out. Using the word “date” will force the girl to tell you “let’s just be friends” if she feels that way. Saves you time for those girls who aren’t interested.

- Always be willing to walk away from any girl that isn’t living up to your expectations. Think about how you’d treat your friends that weren’t living up to your expectations — you probably wouldn’t yell at them, but you would call them out in a playful way on their bad behavior.

If you want to learn more on how to prevent flakes, grab the interview series on preventing flaking. You can listen to the first 10 minutes for free here.

Nick Savoy and Nick Braddock, both dating coaches for Love Systems, appeared on the Tyra Banks show. In case you have missed it, here’s a video of the show:

The name of the episode was “The Secret Code of Men” where the Bro Code was discussed. This was actually copied from the show How I Met Your Mother where Barney Stinson (played by Neil Patrick Harris) is one the best pickup artists. But Love Systems was there to show how men can learn to pickup women like Barney does.

Super model Tyra Banks critiques the approach of Love Systems to meet and attract women. These are field tested techniques and routines that can be found in Magic Bullets and the Routines Manual. In the video you will see Savoy and Braddock take an average Joe from zero to hero. He learns some Love Systems techniques and ends up getting phone numbers from girls.

Tyra was now convinced of the power of Love Systems.

Check out the video if you want to learn more about Love Systems. If you want to learn the lines, routines, and techniques, you should grab a copy of the Love Systems Routines Manual.

You have no wingman to rely on. It is all on you.

Sometimes you have no choice. You’re on a business trip for a few days or your friends don’t want go out or whatever excuse. Either way, that is not a reason not to go out by yourself to meet women.

So how do you pickup women by yourself?

First off, you have to deal with the excuses that will be coming up that prevents you from going solo. Do you recognize some of these?

-Won’t it look strange if I am by myself?
-I will do a lot better with wings or friends.
-What do I say if they ask me why I am out alone?
-Going out alone is boring.

These are all just (bad) beliefs and excuses in your head that are preventing you from taking action. Your approach anxiety is a lot higher for  sarging solo because you have no safety net to fall back on (your friends and wings).

However, there are a lot of advantages to go out alone. It can be done anytime you want. No longer do you have to wait for your wing to come over or meet you somewhere.

You will learn how to be self-sufficient; no more reliance on others for your success.

Another added advantage is that going out alone will improve your confidence level a lot. Yes, it is very scary to go out by yourself.

Once you overcome that fear of being a bar or club by yourself you will feel a lot more confident. Knowing that you can go anywhere alone and feel comfortable will boost your confidence by leaps and bounds.

When you can pickup women by yourself then sarging with wings and friends is like shooting fish in a barrel. It is too easy.

Above all, you will get more practice to improve your game. The fastest way to improve any skill set is doing a lot of practice.

So what are you waiting for? Take action today!

“But sarging solo is so hard…..”

Sarging solo is no doubt very hard. To jumpstart your game you might want to check out this interview.

Love Systems just released an audio interview called “Sarging Solo” that is full of practical advice to learn how to pickup women by yourself.

What do you say when woman asks you “where are your friends?” or “are you here by yourself?”

Knowing how to properly respond to these questions can make or break your interaction.

Also specific routines work better when you are alone whereas some routines might backfire. (If you need more routines, check out the Routines Manual Vol 2. It’s 200 pages full of routines.)

Since you don’t have a wingman there are certain obstacles you need to overcome. The interview includes several solo wingman tactics you can use to prevent friends from pulling away your girl. Plus it includes advanced tactics to make instant wingmen.

And many more tips and strategies are given to successfully pickup women by yourself…

If you want to learn more on picking up women by yourself, grab a copy of the Sarging Solo interview today by clicking here.