While Gambler and AFC Adam may be some of the best pickup artists in the world, they can not out-game the people of PUA Training Korea for one reason: PUA Training Korea are more familiar with Korean culture, and thus, understand Korean women better than anyone else.

This boot camp will not teach any canned routines, and instead, will focus more on teaching natural game, teaching a man how to teach his own natural charm instead of acting like someone he’s not. Each trainee will be paired with a trainer who speaks fluent English. This trainer will be one who’s character is most compatible with that of the trainee. There will hours of theory sessions, teaching a person how to show their attractive qualities. This will be followed by intense field training. This field training will include day game in the coffee shops, bookstores, and streets while night game will be in the clubs, in which the trainees will be given VIP access.

After the training, the trainee may call his trainer to wing with him. This service will be free for the first three times during the first two months after the training. He will wing with you, hook you up with girls, and give you feedback on your performance.

This bootcamp by PUA Training Korea, which is normally 1,180,000 won for Koreans, will only cost 800,000 won for foreigners. You can apply by writing an email to info@puatkorea.com. Tell them you’re interested in the boot camp, and write a bit about yourself, dating experiences, level of pickup skill, weaknesses and strengths of character, and motivation for doing this bootcamp.

Woo! Latinstylez.com’s first ever video interview!

We got to speak with Arash Dibazar (aka. Achilles) of SeductiveInstinct.com. This guy has a lot to say and you’ll watch a few gems in this interview.

Bolo:  Alright guys. This is Bolo from Latinstylez.com with my friend Arash, who’s currently… Uh, where you at?

Arash:  I’m in San José, California baby!

Bolo:  He’s in San Josey.  [LAUGHS] Arash is also known as Achilles from The Game. And he’s an up and coming PUA. And it’s a privilege to talk to you Arash.

Arash:  Thank you for having me. And uh, I’m glad to be alive.  Let’s go.

Bolo:  Alright, cool. Alright, first question. Most people don’t know that much about you.  You’re coming up.  And I’m just curious. Like, how did you get into The Game? How did you get into Pick Up?

Arash:  It’s a long story.  Let’s make it short. Well, I grew up and when I was six years old I had to leave my country which was Iran. And between the age of 6 and 11, I lived in Iran. I live in Turkey, in Syria, in Kuwait, in London, and Nebraska, and California.  In about 5 years I moved that much.  And uh, naturally, when I got to the United States, I wanted, you know, I started liking girls. And I wanted to have beautiful girls around me. And I liked the white, pretty cheerleader type. But they weren’t going to talk to me because I was a complete, just culture shock. You know what I mean? Like, everything was wrong about me at the time.

Arash:  So anyways, I got into the martial arts at a very young age. And I was interested in two things. One – how to defend myself. Two – how to get chicks. Which is survival and replication value, if you know anything about it now, right? So I spent all my life, every moment I could get my hands on, studying something about the mind, whether it was NLP, hypnosis, Dianetics. Anything you could think about. And martial arts. Because, one, I was getting beat up in school. So I had to learn how to defend myself. And two, I wanted the girls and nobody wanted to talk to me. Not the girls, not the boys.

Arash:  Until about two and a half years ago, I came across Mystery. It’s a really cool story how that happened. And, whatever, we got to talking and I became his student. And Matador, if you know who he is, James Matador, ended up becoming my personal mentor. And now I am a mother fucking beast. Beep. You know, without [INAUDIBLE], but we do cuss in California, San Jose.

Bolo:  Alright. That’s fine. You can cuss as much as you want here.

Arash:  Okay.

Bolo:  Alright. So how long have you been doing Pick Up for? Like 2, 3 years or something.

Arash:  About 2 and a half. Two years and four months, learning game. But prior to that, everything I studied, I tried to apply to picking up girls. I just didn’t have a structure or anything. So I was successful getting chicks but I didn’t know there was a group of Pick Up Artist. A community that was working at it. I understood that there was such a thing called Game. Being taught at two years and three months ago.

Bolo:  Interesting. So you use to be a dork and everything and you didn’t get any chicks. What’s your life like right now?

Arash:  [LAUGHS] Well, I did get chicks because at some point I achieved high status in the martial arts. And I was really bold and I, you know, I was the shit. So I would get girls, but it was so direct. And it was, again, lucky. But I would go after the hottest chicks. So I got girls after a certain point. When I was around, I think, 18 was when I got my really hot girlfriend and then it just moved forward.

Arash:  I’m 34 right now. But the difference is, the life that I live now… I’ll be honest with you, if I explained it to you, it would be out of reality and it wouldn’t fit. So if you could take the book The Game and go to the end and watch Neil’s life and what happens to it, I could tell you that’s very real to me. You know, when I first met Matador, after the first night he said to me, “Arash, you could live like a rock star. You could have so many women in your life that you won’t have time for them. And you wouldn’t know what to do. And that is what I have right now in my life. And I have a current, I have a girlfriend also.

Bolo:  Really nice dude. And it only took you two and a half years to get there?

Arash:  Yeah. It’s still a journey. I’m still evolving man. My game is still tightening up and I don’t think it’ll ever end. Just like martial arts. But it’s pretty high level. It really is. You ask some of the people who have seen me do stuff or talk to people who I have taught, who have been taught by the best in the world, and they’ll tell you I’m better than everybody right now. And I know that to be true.

Bolo:  Very nice. I’m curious, like, about your style. Like, do you have a dating philosophy? You know, like in the community, there’s all these different styles. Direct, indirect. You follow Mystery Method or what?

Arash:  Mystery’s my original teacher. And his method is the base for everything. I believe who is very successful at Pick Up has that as a base. So, my style is my style now. But it has Mystery Method as a base, for sure. Does that answer your question?

Bolo:  Yeah. Yeah, it does. Okay. That’s cool. Now, I’m curious, how did you become good enough at dating to become an authority at it?

Arash:  An authority is somebody who can do the job. That’s an authority to me. You know what I mean? It’s not someone who has a certificate. It’s not someone who other people think knows. It’s the person who can do the job. I can do the job. I’m surrounded by 9s and 10s. Now, in the Bay area, people thought they knew what 9s and 10s were until I got into the Game. Now, the guys, the guys that are the legit Pick Up Artists and quote, are some saying, you hear them, they meet around, they say, “No, we don’t get girls like Arash does. Those are 9s and 10s.” So I’m an authority in quotes, first, because people listen. But more importantly because I can get the job done. I can take someone and teach them from zero to be able to get hot chicks. And I can demonstrate it in my life. I live a life of Pick Up. You know?

Bolo:  Very nice. Like, when you first started, I mean, were you just going out every single day or…

Arash:  No. Well, let me explain something else on that. I just popped in my mind. I think the moment that it became really clear to me that I was okay to teach was when I was out with Matador and he introduced me to Laurence Fishburne. I think he was the black actor from The Matrix.

Bolo:  Yeah. Yeah. Ne-, Morpheus. Yeah.

Arash:  That’s right. And he introduced me. He said, “This is my former student, Arash.” And he goes, “The reason I say former student is because he is a master of Pick Up.” And that was a big moment for me. And there was many conversations after that. So being acknowledged by him, bona fide like that, I was like, “Okay.” You know? And I know I can really change people’s lives. ‘Cause this shit is powerful dude. You know what I mean? It’s fucking powerful. You can change a person’s life. Completely turn it around. No matter what is going on in their live; men are struggling with women. And I’ve seen it.

Bolo:  That’s interesting.

Arash:  I missed the other question you said.

Bolo:  Yeah. Just… What was it? How did you get good enough to become a dating authority? How did you start out? Were you just going out a whole lot or…?

Arash:  I actually barely went to the clubs. On this, I was in LA visiting and I would go with Matador. But other than that, here, my game was created in a way where when I would go shopping I would game everybody there. I would go eat, I would game all the waitresses. Then I would go and, let’s say I’m working out, I would game everybody there. Wherever I was I would game. So, then I created this thing where, for me, game and life are the same. It’s a lifestyle. For me it’s not like, “Oh, now I’m gonna go to the club and game.” So you said, did I go out every night and game? I didn’t go out, but I gamed almost every moment when I was around a chick. Almost every moment. You know? It was unbelievable. So I got very good at it. And my hired gun game is pretty ridiculous. What I can…

Bolo:  Oh. Really nice. Like, do you teach boot camps or what exactly, what type of coaching do you do?

Arash:  Oh yeah. We do boot camps. We do Skype coaching. We do webinars. I have a boot camp coming up this weekend. We do one on ones. Man, you name. I’m just interested in creating the next generation of incredible Pick Up Artists. I benefit from that. It’s important to me.

Bolo:  Yeah. You’ve had a lot of students at this point, right?

Arash:  A lot, you know, is a relative term. No, I don’t think so. I’ve had students and they’ve been very successful. But I was very picky and I still am. I don’t teach everybody. There’s a lot of people that want to learn, but they don’t want to learn. You know what I mean? So I teach people, we go put them in the interview. We find out what they’re all about. If they have a passion for this. If they really want to do this. If they do, I meet with them. And I accept them as students and I change their life. And if again, if they’re not a good student while I’m teaching them, I actually will get rid of them. And I did that to four people.

Bolo:  You’re kidding.

Arash:  No, I can because my name is on it. It’s a brand. You know? I’m a brand name. I’ve done martial arts long enough. I have a very successful martial arts business. And this is now my business in Pick Up. And I want to have a brand. I want it to be, if you were trained by Arash, if you were trained by Achilles, if you’re from SeductiveInstinct.com, you are good. Or you’re on your way to being very good. I don’t want people to say, “I studied with him, but I don’t get any chicks.” No, no, no. Not me. So I’m very selective. The ones that don’t make it, I give them a few chances. You know, if they’re not doing their reading, if they’re not doing their practice, if they’re not showing up, they need to go somewhere else. I don’t care how much they pay. It’s just not the way that I do things.

Bolo:  Okay. Like, during the interview process, what are you looking for, like, in a prospective student?

Arash:  A few things. One is that they really have to want to make a change. They’re not just talking. You know what I mean? They have to have a passion for doing it. They have to be willing to go through rough times. It’s not roses man. Are you kidding me? It was difficult getting good. Very difficult. Thank God it was difficult because now if it wasn’t, everybody else would be running around getting chicks. I put in my time and my dues. So those are the basics. More than that. It’s a vibe, you know? Lucky, he does the interviews and I trust his judgment. So he does the interview and you’d ask him what he specifically goes for. What I look for in a student are those things. Passion. A person who’s willing to go through the ups and downs. And a person who really wants to make a change in their life. Then I’ll make it happen.

Bolo:  Sounds good dude. Now, what about the guys who don’t make it. The four guys you had to kick out? Like, what common traits do they have?

Arash:  Well, they can go fuck themselves as far as I’m concerned.

Bolo:  [LAUGHS]

Arash:  You know what I mean? Probably looking at the pictures of my girls online. But anyways, they, the traits they have is they don’t want to get better man. They don’t do it. You know, you have to take the next step. That’s it. You know? So if they don’t do their reading, if they don’t show up, if they don’t look like they really want to get better, they just want to sit around and talk about it. No dude. This is an action based activity. There’s theory and there’s application. You gotta put them together.

Arash:  There’s people that can sit there and talk all theory all the time. But they can’t demonstrate shit. On the other hand, there’s some guys that get chicks, but they don’t know any theory. So when they teach, there’s a guy, a joke, you know, he was like, you know, I did a seminar, and then he did one right after me and he was like, “Well, just go out there and be yourself. And just be ballsy and be confident.” I’m like, “Dude, you’re a joke. Get the fuck outta here.” You know what I mean?

Bolo:  Yeah.

Arash:  How are you going to teach someone that? That’s not game. That’s ridiculous. You’re the good looking guy. So he gets to do that. I wasn’t a good looking guy. I’m an interesting looking guy, I know. But I’m not a good looking guy.

Bolo:  Yeah dude. I know what you’re saying. It’s a little too, too much esoteric, you know, advice. Like, “Oh, be yourself. Grab your balls and just go.” You know?

Arash:  Yeah. Find out who you really are. It’s like, “Yo man. If I knew the answer I’d be Buddha right now.” You know what I mean?

Bolo:  Yeah. [LAUGHS] Yeah dude.

Arash:  Don’t fucking go there. Give me some specific technique, like look over your shoulder, lean away, smile, tell them you gotta take off in a minute, and ask a neutral question. Those are techniques any person can apply. And that technique will improve their chances just by doing that, talking to a chick. And that was directly from the Mystery Method. An open.

Bolo:  Yeah. Now, what do you think the greatest mistake guys make with women is? Just like in sarging in general.

Arash:  They show too much interest too fast.

Bolo:  And what can they do to correct that?

Arash:  Well, keep doing it. Keep losing the chick. Keep doing it. Keep losing the chick. And then some point get sick of your sickness and say, “Fuck! What am I supposed to do?” At that moment, stop showing her so much interest. So she has to earn, she has to earn it from you. Honestly, that’s the very first thing I ever learned in game when I started studying it. That was the first thing. I applied it that night and it completely changed my experience with women. She has to earn you. You know?

Arash:  They demonstrate interest when they walk up. Already opening a girl you’re showing interest. So as quickly as you can you gotta calibrate and take that away as soon as possible. So she knows that okay, well, you were playing on level ground with her. Or even you gotta be higher really. You gotta have more value. So I think the biggest mistake is they show interest too quickly. The way they can correct is just recognize that’s not the way to get the girl man. It’s just not. I mean, where do you get that from? It’s not proven. It’s lucky. I don’t want to be, I don’t want to get lucky when I get chicks. I want to have skill. You know what I mean?

Bolo:  Yeah.

Arash:  It’s like do you want to be lucky if the parachute opened or do you want to know you fucking put that shit together. You know what I mean? And you put the parachute together. You check everything. And then you jump. Even then, some people’s chutes don’t open. Just like Pick Up. You could be a master Pick Up Artist. Sometimes you ain’t gonna get the chick dude. You gonna fuck up. Big deal. But you do all the pieces right and your chances are greatly improved. And you jump, still with adrenaline, but trusting your chute which is the game. Damn, that was…

Bolo:  Okay. [LAUGHS] Yeah, I’ve jumped out of a couple airplanes before and it helps to be prepared.

Arash:  Oh. Have you really jumped out?

Bolo:  Yeah. I’ve done AFF and Tandem. You do AFF by yourself , you go train for like 10 hours. Like, I had to go at 6 in the morning. Didn’t jump until like 6 in the afternoon.

Arash:  Wow.

Bolo:  It’s a fun time dude. You should give it a shot.

Arash:  I will never jump out of a plane unless it’s burning. Otherwise, I’m good. I’ll just take it from one place to the other.

Bolo:  Well, any tips or techniques you can give the guys? Like, any newbies listening here. Or any, like, you know, just any, anything that your particularly like to do.

Arash:  Yes. Yes, I have so many fucking hints and techniques and shit. So let me just go over a few basic ones. This goes, talk about for everybody, inner game is so important man. Inner… That’s what I had. That’s what… You asked me what made me so good. I had monster inner game. Monstrous. Because of martial arts and the study of the mind that I had all my mind been doing.

Arash:  So ,anyways, let’s get into this. Just like anything worth achieving, whether it’s a black belt in a legit martial arts or its surgeon, become a surgeon or anything legit, you have to put in your time.   And you gotta be willing to do what it takes and go through the hard times. So anybody picking up Pick Up for the first time should understand, you  know, you are going to get the chick one day. You’re totally going to get the chick one day, but you better be willing to go through some shit to get there. Like, really go through it. You gotta put yourself out there, so if you’re not willing have both sides of the coin, my teacher would say, Manu, that was his name, then you can’t have one or the other. You can’t just study game and go get all the hot chicks.

Arash:  The guys who are getting the supremely hot chicks using game, the way it’s taught, have put in their time. Personally, me, I’ve been picked out of two restaurants in San José because I was miscalibrated. Manager came up, “Sir. You’re going to have to leave.” And it’s fucked up. It’s an uncomfortable, uncomfortable experience. That’s the least of it man. I’ve got story after story of shit I’ve done. Boyfriends threatening me. Husbands threaten to kill me. It’s, like, fucked up.

Arash:  But now I’m at a point where it’s rare to get any reaction like that. So the advice is to recognize what you’re getting into, but it’s worth it. If it’s worth it for you to be able to get super-hot chicks and handle this part of your life once and for all. Once and for all, where you just know you have some skill. Then do it. For more advanced Pick Up Artists, I tell you this, straight up, if you have not studied and understood the Mystery Method, you’re missing out. And I guarantee you’re not as good as you could be. I guarantee you’re not as good as you could be, okay? You gotta study it and understand it, even if you’re good.

Arash:  I have Pick Up Artist here who are already good. And now they’re all going back and their game is tremendously improving. Because it’s scientific method. It has a structure where you can always find out where you are if you’re fucking up. It’s incredible. That’s for the people that have been studying game and maybe haven’t had the experience of the Mystery Method done correctly. A lot of people talk about it. They can’t demonstrate it, right? Find a good teacher. And thirdly, for people who have and they’re still struggling, you need to find a good teacher. You got to find a good teacher. How many good teachers do I know? I know four. You and Mystery and you know Matador. ‘Kay? The other two? Don’t worry about it. [LAUGH]

Bolo: [LAUGH]

Arash:  Legit, legit teachers. You would never in the field of martial arts, if your life is on the line, if someone’s gonna knock you out or break your limb or choke you out, you’re not going to go to some shmoe who hasn’t demonstrated his skills before. Doesn’t matter how many certificates he has. No matter what kind of website he has. You need to find a legit teacher who can teach and has already demonstrated who he is.

Arash:  That’s why it’s important for me to have a family tree. Mystery taught Matador. Matador, Arash. Good. We can trace that shit. I didn’t come out of nowhere, right? And if you call him up or if you see Matador, you say, “What do you think of Arash’s game?” He’ll tell you. It’s the way it is. That’s life, right? So for everybody else who’s been studying, maybe stuck somewhere, find a real teacher who can help you. Period. Simple. Done.

Bolo: Oh, very… Yeah dude. Very nice. Like, you seem to live a really kick ass life. You’re an accomplished martial artist. You met all these famous guys. You met Mystery. You met Matador.

Arash:  Ross Jefferies.

Bolo: You met Ross Jefferies before. Manu. I looked up his stuff on youtube. He was on the A-Team!

Arash:  Yeah. Manu was incred-. Man. Yeah, I’ll talk all day about Manu. But yes, he was my original teacher. Everything I can do is because of him as a base I have. Manu Tupou.

Bolo: Like, I’m curious. How did you build up this lifestyle. How did you meet all these people?

Arash:  That I still… Hey. Your voice, by the way, is really faded. So if you could fix it ‘cause I’m trying to desperately hear you, right now.

Bolo:  Can you hear me?

Arash:  That’s better.

Bolo:  Alright. I’ll just have to hold up my mike up like this. Alright, so yeah. How did you meet all these guys?

Arash:  I really can’t answer that with a fact because I thought about that question all my life. I don’t know. I don’t know. I do know when I met them , I instinctively knew how to act. And they saw something in me that they appreciated. And I dedicated, like, really dedicated myself to these teachers. I really did.

Arash:  Right now I’m doing Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu with them, one of the best Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu masters in the world. And I’ve dedicated my whole life to the guy, you know? For the last 10 years I’ve been studying with him. September is 10 years. That’s, I love that. I love being a good student. You know? So, I don’t know how I met them. I really don’t know. If you try to work out the math of it, it’s impossible. So, I can’t figure out how I met them, but after I did I knew what to do.

Bolo:  Like, I’m sure a lot of these people, like, they have students all on them. Wanting to be, you know, their students personally. Like, what do you think separate you from the other guys?

Arash:  You gotta ask them that question. I can only guess. You know what I mean? I know my qualities, that if I was, you know, I am a teacher. As a teacher, I would see this sincere determination, desire and passion of this person to really learn and give proper acknowledgement to that teacher. That’s very important. That’s why I keep dropping Matador’s name or Mystery’s name because, and even Manu who’s passed away 7 years ago. That’s important to me.

Arash:  People have lost that tradition. You have to give respect to the people who came before you. There’s people who have said to me,” Man, your game is so great.” You know, it’s better than so-and-so. I say, “Listen. I don’t even compare myself to Matador. I don’t even compare myself to Mystery. I would be foolish. I don’t even… Who cares? Who cares?” Without them, there would be no me. So let’s just get that straight. Right? But it’s this Western mentality of, like, step over everybody. Get to the top and blah blah blah. And be the best. Shut the fuck up. You know? So, I don’t know. Maybe that’s what they saw. I don’t know. You would have to ask them. I think I would see this in myself. A guy who knows that he’s going to do whatever it takes to be the best.

Bolo:  Very nice. Alright. I looked up some of your videos on YouTube, you know? And are you, like, a club promoter?

Arash:  No, I’m not. I’m not. I actually use the game to create a lifestyle of a rock star. I want to be on the stage. I want to have a mike. I want to have girls around me. I want to perform. But I don’t have a voice. Besides what you hear. I can’t sing worth shit. So , it’s my secret how I did it. But I used game to position myself where I’m at now. I do shows. I get hired as an artist to go into a club and put on a show. A promoter is someone who promotes people to go to the club and get paids off of it. I get hired by the club as an outside. I go in. I do a show and I leave. That’s what I…

Bolo:  Okay. Can you drop any hints if one of the guys wants to do something similar?

Arash:  Absolutely. Hints are this. First of all, I have skills. You know? I’m on stage. I’m capable because of Manu. I’m a theater, master of theater. I know what I’m doing. And so you have to have something, right? So I can produce. I can produce a show. I can direct and produce shit. So that’s what I have. But the big hint in regards to game is if you have beautiful women around you, enough of them, it opens many, many doors for you. And I knew that. So I knew that having that, I could open doors. And I did.

Bolo:  Okay. So, like, social circle.

Arash:  You better believe it man. You wouldn’t believe my life. You should add me on Facebook. You literally… I tell you. I bet you there’s nobody else, nobody else in the world that we know that has a Facebook like me unless it’s Hugh Hefner. There’s nobody surrounded… Because even the celebrities bro, they get chicks, but they don’t have them in their social circle the way I have them. You gotta believe… We’ll you’ll see it for yourself.

Bolo: Okay. I saw your Facebook. You do… I saw, like, I think your Picasa web photos. Yeah, I can attest to what you’re saying.

Arash:  That’s my life. That’s what I do.

Bolo: Like, how did you build up your social circle? How do you get that many females around you?

Arash:  By having very tight, meticulous game. Very tight game. That’s it. Because…

Bolo: It all just goes back to game.

Arash:  If you know the structure of the Mystery Method , there’s comfort in the middle, C2 is deep comfort and connection. If you have a comfort and connection with a beau-… And I just did it with the 9s and 10s. Now, just like that, every relationship will end eventually. You gotta know how to end it. So girls will come and go. But the core group keeps getting stronger and stronger.

Arash:  My vision is to one day have, be the guy who establishes what is sexy in our current culture because of the way I look and who I am, I’m a rebel. You see how I look. And my girls are the new playmates. They’re the new, you know what I mean, the new Playboy Playmates. They’re the IMC Sinful Angels. That’s who we are. And you’ll see this. ‘Cause it is in our area, we’re known as the hottest girls in the Bay Area our under Arash. So now all we gotta do is get the word out to bigger than Bay Area. And it’s happening already. You know?

Bolo:  Very nice. Like, I’m curious though. What do you think is your biggest sticking point right now?

Arash:  Hmm… Good question. At the moment, I haven’t… My confidence has not caught up to my game. If that makes any sense. My confidence is lower than my ability to do game. So I’m starting to see that at some point they’re reacting to my game, which is really tight. But I start to fuck it up because my confidence is not there yet. And that incongruency  has been killing me. And now I’m getting it.

Arash:  That’s what I’m currently working on right now, is to see myself as they see me. Because I still have in me that little boy who was fucked up, with a lot more confidence now, but I see it come out at times. Somewhere in that structure that shit comes out. And now I’ve been in the progress… It’s funny you ask. For the last 3 days, I’ve seen it. To just nuke it out. It’s, like, it’s incongruent. That’s it. And you may never see. My lifestyle and what I can do, but that’s why I’m stuck, what’s what I need to fix right now.

Bolo:  Okay. Well, what about, like, the rest of your life. What other goals do you have? I mean, you seem to be doing pretty damn well already.

Arash:  You know who Lil Wayne is?

Bolo:  Yeah.

Arash:  My goal is to achieve material and fame, success higher than him. He’s the one, his picture is in the background for that purpose. It’s in the back. Point to him. There.

Bolo:  Yeah. I see him.

Arash:  Yeah. To spread the teachings of my teachers and help, honestly, because that seems to be the one activity that fulfills me at the end of the night, more than anything else is when I help people. And it’s very selfish. And it’s not all fucking vain and shit, “Oh. He wants to help people.” I only want to do it ‘cause it actually makes me feel better.

Arash:  The final analysis; that’s what it is. And to really just open my eyes and see… There’s a lot of goals. I’ve very goal orientated and shit. But in the big picture, Lil Wayne status and higher. Than use that and what I know to help as many people as I can. And on a personal level, just continue evolving as an individual and see, see what it is man. I mean, like, you know, it’s quiet a journey – living. It’s a trip. You know, it’s a trip. So I enjoy thinking about life and philosophizing about it and seeing what it’s all about.

Bolo:  Okay. Yeah. Sounds good to me dude. Like, what’s your day to day life like nowadays?

Arash:  I have a very strict schedule, I’ll tell you. I get up a 9AM every single day. I make myself some kind of smoothie juice for breakfast. I go and I do Jiu-Jitsu from 11. I finish at 2. I get home. I showered. This is every day. I shower. Hang out with my girlfriend till around 4. Some days at 3:30 or 4, I come to this office, what you’re seeing, and I teach game on Skype or meet with people. At 5 I’m in my martial arts academy teaching till 8:30. At 8:30, I head back to this office. Teach. Lecture. Or hangout with a friend. This goes Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday. Friday is very similar to that except at the end of the night I hang out with my girlfriend. Saturday I teach in the morning. I have an open schedule in the middle of the day, where I hang out with a friend or go out gaming, whatever. And then I hang out with the girlfriend. Sunday I hang out with the girlfriend, having a meeting. Sunday night, hang out with a friend. Literally every single week is like that. And it’s been like that for years now.

Bolo:  What about your products? Can you tell us, like, just what you have? Like, you got boot camps? What else do you have?

Arash:  If a person if interested in learning from me, it’s really easy. They go to SeductiveInstinct.com. Can they email us there? They just shoot an email and they say what they want to learn, okay? Then somebody. 48 hours is my turn around time for everything man. If you haven’t heard in 48 hours from us, we didn’t get it. Straight up. Two days is long enough to go to another country and come back, you know? So, they say what they want. Based on that, we’ll email them. And say, “Look. Here are the options dude.”

Arash:  You know, and money is an issue for a lot of people. I don’t know from where you are, but in this economy in the United States it is. And I don’t give a shit about that too much. It has to be fair. It has to be something where, you know, I feel like it’s worth the time. You know, I gave you my schedule. Somewhere in there I fit somebody. That’s it. Straight up. That’s my schedule.

Arash:  So there’s an infinite number of products because it’s tailored to the person. Now, on the other hand, there’s, we just released that Alpha Male series. It’s a 6 DVD set. 5, 6 DVD set. I don’t remember. And that’s really cool because  that has so much, so much information, up and down the scale, on alpha males. And there’s language patterns, and there’s everything. Okay? So that’s for somebody who just wants to check it out. And there’s also, you know, again, webinars. We have this thing called Secret Diaries, where I interview some of these 9s and 10s. And you can see me talking to them and there’s a lot to learn. So those are some of the actual products that are out.

Arash:  But what I like my business to be is someone contacts us, we develop a personal relationship, find out what they’re all about. Based on that, we give them a few options. The one that fits their budget, they take it. I change their life. They go out and they tell the world how incredible I am. And then Lil Wayne can be my little bitch afterwards.

Bolo: [LAUGH] Alright dude. Sounds good. Anything else you want to say to the audience from here?

Arash:  Yeah man. First of all, thank you for doing this. You get the word out. You know what I mean? We all have our jobs. So now because of you more people are going to have an opportunity to learn from me and the stuff that I know. To the audience, any final messages, bottom line, and it’s going to sound weird and cheesy, but it is what it is. Let’s just make it a better place for everybody. You know what I mean? Somehow, someway. Whatever your skills are. Whether you’re, you know. Whether you work as a doctor. Whatever the fuck you do. You sweep the streets. You know, let’s wake up and go to bed and try to make it a little bit better for everybody. You know what I mean? Then it’s worth it. Teacher Manu would always say, “Be the best and fuck the rest.” So that’s the message. Be the best and fuck the rest.

Bolo: Alright. Thank you Arash and it was good talking to you.

I think of limiting beliefs as a major deterrent in developing your game. It’s always easy to make an excuse right. I’ve been in the game for a while, and you wouldn’t believe the excuses I sometimes here guys make.

1. “I don’t want to talk to her because I don’t know what to say”- Alot of guys get caught up in the opener. They think that they must have some amazing opener so they can attract the girl. Not really actually. If you have trouble deciding what to open with, just ask for the time or the directions. Make it seem natural as to the reason why you are talking to your target.

2. “What’s the point in wasting my time talking to women”- You aren’t wasting your time. Your developing a skill set, and over time you will develop relationships with women. You have to look at it as a time investment. We invest time in approaching women to reap the rewards later as our skill set improves.

3. “What if she doesn’t want to give me her number?”- I know the truth that many guys are afraid of rejection. When I first started picking up, I also felt bad if a girl wasn’t interested in me. You know what I do know? I don’t let it bother me if she doesn’t want to have further contact with me. I go out there and approach more girls because at the end of the day I will find a girl that wants to invest in our relationship.

4. “I don’t know how to talk to girls during the day.”- Many PUA’s focus on approaching at night. As a matter of fact, I specialize in day game these days for that very reason. There is less competition when you are out there during the day. Alot of guys need some beer to give them the courage to approach. When I first started approaching girls during the day, I had alot of approach anxiety. It took months and months of practice to get more comfortable approaching during the day. So my advice for this limiting belief is to get out of your shell, and just start talking to a few girls a day. Set a goal of how many women you want to approach. Start small then work towards bigger goals.

Those are a few limiting beliefs. If you can think of some more you have had or you know others have had, post them on here.

LS

We went downstairs to this Japanese place and looked at the menu. Turned out HB J-Style (26 years old) was from Kaohsiung and also studied Japanese. She was very interested in Japanese fashion. The two of us looked at different restaurants then we sat down for a minute. I looked at my phone and noticed that Bolo called. I gave him a call back right away, and found out that he had a package for me that I needed to mail out. HB J-Style offered to help out so we went over to Bolo’s place to pick up the stuff I needed to get. I thought to myself “Wow this girl is really friendly doing this for a stranger.”

Afterwards, we went over to mail out the package. I had already seeded dinner near my place since she was hungry. We took the MRT to my station which was Liuzhangli. I asked her “What do you want Western food or local food?” “Western food” she said. “I know just the spot” I told her. We walked over to Carnegie’s which was in the area. I actually forgot to get there so we had to walk back and forth for a little.

Carnegie’s is a nice chill pub to take girls too. I like to go there when I have a craving for Western food. HB J style said “It’s been a long time since I’ve had Western food so I’m excited about it.” I ordered us two drinks a Corona for my target and a San Miguel for me. For dinner, we ordered a Shepard Pie and Fish N Chips. During dinner, I found out that she had a boyfriend for one month. But, something told me inside to stick with it. I began seeding my place to watch movies and she mentioned how she had to get up early tomorrow for her first day on the job. “Wait, what time do you need to be home?” I asked her. She told me “Maybe 1AM or earlier than that if I’m tired.” We split the bill then left the venue.

We walked towards my place and she mentioned she was tired, but it looked like she was going to come over. I didn’t kino too much, but I did notice she was a bit resistant to my kino. Could that be a bad sign? We arrived to my place, and took the elevator up. She said something in Japanese before entering my place. We took off our shoes and went inside. Here’s where things get interesting. To be honest with you, I didn’t know if I would be able to close this chick tonight. The outcome was a bit of a surprise, and I’m going to let you in on what happened.

She looked around my place then sat down on my mattress, and took off her socks. One thing I learned from a previous LR, was that if a girl goes for the bed/mattress first stay in that spot. That is just what I did. I f**** things up by escalating too quickly instead of easing off. I touched her a bit, but she didn’t seem like she was into the kino. I put some music on my computer and later she asked me questions like “Do you always sleep with girls on the first night?” I responded with “I’ve slept with other girls before on the same night, but I had a connection with them. I think a connection can be formed quite early when meeting someone. I usually know pretty early when I’m interested in a girl.” She mentioned how she’s Christian and doesn’t do that kind of stuff anymore.

Anymore was the key word that let me know she’s probably slept with other guys on the same night before. She mentioned how she was ending her relationship with a guy while dating this current guy. I asked her when was the last time she’s had sex which was two days ago. I rolled out strawberry fields to frame her as sexual. I told her that “I’m a keeper of secrets and a story about it” to diffuse her bf talk. I framed myself as a “secret guy” then she laughed about it. The secret guy was used so that she can see our experience as fun… I did all of these things which helped me lead into sex. To be honest with you, I didn’t think this girl was down at the beginning of the sarge. She was very resistant to my kino.

What told me that she was DTF? It was the fact that she was lying down on my bed, and not leaving. I remember back in Korea when I thought this girl wasn’t keen because she kept resisting my advances. RPQ told me “She’s staying the night right?” she’s obviously keen. He said something to the extent of that. Anyways, HB J-style was still at my place and pretending to sleep on my mattress.

I cuddled under the blankets with her then started to kiss around her neck and lips. She slowly warmed up and before you know it she took off her pants. I turned off the lights, and we made out a bit more. She then asked me the golden question “Do you have a condom?” “Yes” I told her. I had grabbed one earlier. Eventually, I took off her top/bra then things lead into sex smoothly. When I took off her panties, she was very wet…

Wow is all I can say… Things were going against me here. She wasn’t really in the mood for sex, she had a boyfriend, and she claimed she didn’t do this kind of stuff anymore. However, I managed to close based on learning from previous experiences. Take this LR as an example that you can go out there and make s*** happen.

We walked out of the MRT and I asked her “Can you help me get to the HSR station?” She walked with me and showed me where it was. Before I was about to leave, I asked her “Let’s get some coffee @ Starbuck’s you can teach me some Chinese hehe ”She gave me her number and then I went to pay for my ticket to Kaohsiung. I wanted to grab some food before I made the trip so I went to look for an ATM since the person at the convenient store wouldn’t let me use my card. I went upstairs and walked past another convenience store… That’s when I ran into another cutie.

She walked out of the convenience store and I decided to open her. “Where’s the nearest ATM?” I asked her… She was looking around to help me find it, but after walking around the station she offered to get me some lunch. Pretty cool I thought. We walked over to the 7/11 and she asked me “What would you like?” I pointed to this pork and rice dish. “Thanks” I told her. I suggested to her we should hang out sometime and I took down her number.

I was off to Kaohsiung. The trip was relatively quick and when I arrived I had planned to meet with two different girls. In the MRT, I opened another set named HB Shiny. I call her Shiny cuz that’s what her nickname was. She was pretty cute and I asked her “How do you get to the cultural center?” She showed me and the thing I liked about her was her good energy. She lived in Tainan so I took down her contact info and told her we could plan a time to meet.

My logistics weren’t good since I didn’t have a place lined up for the night, but one of the girls I met in Taichung said her parents were okay with me staying the night @ her place. I wouldn’t really call that the greatest logistics, but I was tired and wanted a place to stay so I agreed.

I met the first chick then I made a bold last minute decision to have the two girls meet each other. This would be interesting because I sarged the two of them, but I wanted to try something different. We all met at Kaohsiung Train Station. We went around to a night market then over to the lantern festival, which was really cool. I highly recommend checking it out. They had street performers, a night market, and a fireworks display.

Afterwards, the three of us left the night market. The funny thing is that both girls were kinoing me and they also offered me their jackets since it was cold. I wanted to get isolation time with the girl that was hosting me. The other chick had a curfew anyway so once we got to the main station she left. I did find a nice Spanish restaurant on the walk back that I’ll do a write up on next time I’m in Kaohsiung.

I was tired, and HB Tall (tall, stockings, boots, blue contacts, nice makeup/style) and I went over to my locker to get my stuff. “You do want to stay the night here right?” she asked for verification. I told her “yes.” I had another option, which was get a hotel room, and then head there… I was quite tired though so I went with her back to her place. I also plan on meeting her this Thursday since I’ll be in Taichung then.

I had good kino compliance when we went back to her place by locking arms. We went inside her house and her mom was inside. I greeted her with “Ni hao ma.” She gave me a nice smile, but was on the phone. HB Tall went and set up my room for me while I went in to her brother’s room to check some emails. Her brother was gone @ the time.

When she came back in her brother’s room, I joked with her and said “You could sleep with me.” She laughed and said “I would, but my parents will get angry.” After I was done on the computer, we went over to her room where I would be staying. She was going to sleep in her brother’s room. I had some light kino with her (holding hands, hugs) while we drunk some Taiwanese aboriginal wine. We both gave each other massages and I went for the k close but she pulled back saying “No, not now.”

The door was shut at this time, and I knew that we were @ her parent’s house so I told her “I respect that and I know your parents are in the other room.” I was so tired that I fell asleep right after she went over to her brother’s room.

The next morning I awoke to her lightly saying “Wake up.” Her parents were gone for the day, but she had to leave around the same time I was heading to Taipei. She asked me “When will you be heading to Taipei?” I joked with her and told her that “Oh you want me to leave so soon?” She said “no” I just wanted to know. Her dog (the cockblock Chihuahua) I would like to call it kept coming in the room and ran around seeking attention.

She brought me some dumplings for breakfast and I had light kino with her. To make a long story short, I did go for the k close and we ended up making out. The dog kept running around her brother’s room during this time. It didn’t progress pass the make-out. She even referred to me as “dangerous” when I asked her to get the dog out of the room so we could be alone. Later, when we left her place to go to the train station she said something to the extent that’s she’s not a good girl in a playful way. What I also thought was interesting is when I touched her in certain places she made a moaning sound. Def an indicator of her being sexual…

She has her own place in Taichung, but with 5 cats. I am allergic to cats so that won’t work out. I asked her to book me a hotel room for that night near her place. We parted ways at the train station. She even bought me a huge Japanese style cookie… Very cool girl and I look forward to meeting her again.

When I reflect on this, I think that I should have lined up a hotel room. I also don’t know if it was a good idea that I met both girls at the same time, but it was nice to experiment with something different. I could sense a little bit of jealousy with the two of them during our time out. Nonetheless, it was a fun experience crashing @ my targets parent’s place.

LS

Here are a few solutions that I use pretty regularly:

1) Observations. Make an observation about ANYTHING around you. It could be, “Isn’t this weather great?” if you’re day gaming or, “Hey look at those two over there ya think they’re gonna hook up later?” if you’re at a nightclub. Women LOVE talking about people so if you can make a comment about people around you then they will have fun with it.

2) “So how do you and your friends here know each other?” Anyone who have ever been in set with me a lot knows I use that line about as frequently as Charlie Sheen uses prostitutes. It’s a SOCIAL question that will get your target talking and she will eventually say something you can easily make a comment on to continue the conversation.

3) LEAD her somewhere. Those of you who know what I teach or are familiar with social psychology know that I’m a big fan of INVESTMENT. Basically the more she says, “yes” to your requests the more likely she will be to say “yes” later. SO if you say something simple like, “Let’s go to the bar and get shots,” or “Let’s go outside for some fresh air,” or “Let’s find somewhere we can sit down and hear each other talk better,” not only is it something NEW and FUN to do and demonstrating that you’re a leader; it’s also making her start to invest in you.

4) Say something you notice about her OTHER than her looks. For example, all the time I tell women that I appreciate a woman with a sense of style or a woman who actually has a REAL passion for something and is going somewhere in life. Saying something like that to a woman will help establish the type of connection she possibly hasn’t had all her life. She probably gets compliments about her hotness 10 times a day but NEVER about where she’s actually going in life and spends most of her time during the week working towards.

5) Basic flirting. There’s a million ways to flirt; my favorite is playful cockiness and role-reversal and pretending like she keeps trying to have sex with me. Kill the silence with, “Listen I know my good looks are distracting but it’s okay to talk with me also,” or something like, “You know what we should do. We should travel the world teaching people how to be awesome. If we did that years ago then there wouldn’t be so many idiots on TV like the Jersey Shore and the Kardashians.” Yes I know, my lines are brilliant, however the important thing isn’t to use lines; it’s to understand the PRINCIPLES behind them because then you can create your own on the spot!

6) Just shut up. Seriously. A lot of my female friends complain about when they meet hot guys and then the hot guys talk too much and it comes off as insecurity and they get turned off. Enjoy a few seconds of silence by just looking around and smiling and she’ll probably eventually say something to you. Thinking SUCKS and it’s against our male nature so the less thinking you do the more comfortable you will feel and the more opportunities SHE will have to speak and ask the right kind of questions she needs to ask to feel comfortable enough to hook up with you later.

7) Preparation. Before I have REALLY good nights I’ll usually get ready 2 hours before I plan on going out then for the hour before I go out I’ll have an energy drink, listen to some good music, and IMAGINE every possible situation I could get into that night and how to handle it properly. If you are prepared for every possible situation then you will win every time. If you KNOW how you’re going to open groups and singles, what conversation topics you can start, you know the venue you’re going to be gaming at, what you can say to get your target’s friends on your side, how you’re going to handle possible AMOG’s, have possible closing locations in mind and prepared if you’re going for a same night lay, and you’ve set up every advantage possible then your game is going to be better than 99% of the other guys who you will be competing with you for that target and you will be her best option.

On Friday, I was standing outside Room 18 with RedPoleQ and Latinstylez. RedPoleQ had called me in to help him wing. I did my thing and number closed the girl I was talking too. That set ended and I turned around and saw a girl with her hair up looking at me getting ready to leave. I waved goodbye absentmindedly and chatted with the guys. Then I felt someone tap me from behind. It was the girl I had waved goodbye too. She asked “Can I have your phone number?” Whoa, direct game. We exchanged numbers and she left.

The next day I gave her a call. She sounded sleepy and told me that she had gotten home at 10AM. This one is a party girl. She’s also a nurse and often works late nights. I set up a day 2 for coffee on Sunday because she had to go to work. It’s suppose to be a thyphoon day but hopefully the weather wouldn’t be too bad.

On Sunday, it’s raining hardcore. She texts messages me and suggest that we go watch a movie. I tell her to meet me at Dunhua. We meet up. She’s an hour late but hot damn! She’s got some big ol’ titties! I spin her causing her to giggle and we head to the coffee shops.

I pay for both of our coffees and we sit down. I run through my usual attraction routine. I show her different types of handshakes, we play thumbwar, run the cube, etc .

At one point, I tell her went to art school for 4 years and draw caricatures. When I was living in Barcelona I use to draw people pictures for beer money. Then I took out some paper and a pen and start drawing her. After a few minutes I show her my picture and reveal that I’ve drawn a stick figure. She laughs. I tell her to draw a picture of me looking like Superman. Then I took both pictures and made them talk to each other.

Picture of her: “Oh Bolo! You are so sexy! I must have you! *kiss*
*Made the two pictures kiss each other*

After roll playing for a bit, I seeded in going to the Hookah bar. We take off. I take her hand. Walked and talked for a bit. I asked about the tattoo on her back. Told her I wanted to get a giant Doreamon on my stomach.

We get to the hookah bar and I start telling her about my life adventures while applying different frames. I tell her about the time I wandered into a random bar in Seoul, realized it was a gay bar, and managed to hook two guys up. (Shows that I’m not judgemental about sex). Tell her the story about my sister going out with her boyfriend and I didn’t tell Mom. (Shows I can keep a secret). Then I ran the strawberry fields to frame her as someone who enjoys sex and taking what she wants.

I’ll admit that I’m super rusty with telling these stories. I stuttered and forgot exactly what to say and how to say it to get the response I want. Regardless, she still laughed.

While we were talking she just puts her head on my shoulder and we cuddle for a bit. I don’t find out too much about her. She doesn’t seem like the super talkative type. I mess around with her iPhone and look at all her pictures. Our conversation is winding down so I decided to seed in going to a DVD room. I ask her what type of movies she enjoys watching. Then I say “Let’s go watch a movie.” We bounce and she pays for the hookah and drinks.

I run the question game while we were walked. She’s had 5 lovers. The last time she had sex was 2 weeks ago. She likes rough, passionate sex. She’s dated foreigners before.

We get to the DVD room. I choose a random action movie and go watch it. I wait for a bit and then started caressing her hand. Then kiss her. Clothes off. No LMR. Nice.

This was an easy lay. I probably didn’t even need to do sexual framing with her. She was into me and the only thing I had to do was not say anything to stupid and to have my logistics down. I gotta say…I’ve never had a girl open me directly like she did. The total number of girls who have opened me at a club…I can count on one hand. It’s pretty cool. Makes me want to spend more time at the gym.

When you walk past the Starbuck’s, go down the stairs and get past the security guard. Yes, they have security guards just about everywhere in the Philippines. However, I think they are necessary to prevent bad people from getting inside locations. It’s better to be safe than sorry right. After passing the security guard, you are free to explore the mall.

The mall has four floors all filled with clothing stores, restaurants, and other types of shops. You can spend hours just wandering the mall it is huge. It’s also nicely air-conditioned which is much better than being outside. I think of the malls in the Philippines as a mini city. Cebu has poor infrastructure and you can’t walk around the city. It seems like investors in Cebu dumped money into malls, but the city has failed to improve its infrastructure. Nonetheless, it’s a nice place to sarge.

The food selection in Ayala Mall is impressive and the food court is on the fourth floor.

If you want to get Filipino style food, I recommend checking out the food court. There is a gym on the last floor as well. The third, floor which is below the food court, also has restaurants ranging from: Kfc, Jollybee’s, Kenny Roger’s, Greenwich, etc. Many of the restaurants on this floor are unhealthy.

However, I did come across Kenny Roger’s chicken where I sarged the Korean girl. This restaurant is a healthy alternative to the fast food restaurants on this floor. If you are craving American food, there is a TGI Friday’s on the first floor. The TGI’s is actually outdoor as well and close to the Starbuck’s. There are plenty of restaurants outside of the mall so I recommend checking them out.

One of the best parts of this mall is the really hot Korean girls you see walking around. Be warned though they come in big groups because of that I usually stuck to opening the solo girls or two sets. Also, they usually aren’t smart enough to get Filipino phones with sim cards so you are left with an email address. I’m not a big fan of emailing and my results from it have proven that it’s better to get a phone number.

Another major advantage of the mall is that you have tons of bounce locations if you decide to take a girl you just met somewhere. I recommend checking out the Starbuck’s and Coffee Bean outside of the mall. Here is a picture of the ground floor of the Starbuck’s and yes another security guard protecting it.

There are plenty of women to talk to in there. There is also an arcade named Timezone on the last floor. It has lots of fun games inside like basketball, fighting games, and DDR. There is an internet café on the fourth floor called Netopia and they have a 100MB connection, which is difficult to find in the Philippines.

The one major disadvantage of the mall is that you feel like you are walking in one big circle on the third and fourth floor. This had me feeling a bit nauseated today. You have been warned!

Vang Vieng is a strange place. It is located in the middle of Laos, yet people come from all around the world to party. The main attraction of Vang Vieng is tubing; people sit on tubes and float down the river, stopping at bars along the way. There are many bars along the river, but only about 4 or 5 that people go to where you’ll find crazy parties. People start at the first bar and end up at the last. Not only are there bars, but there are also ziplines, rope swings, and water slides. Drunk people going on ziplines is always a good idea… This party begins around 1PM and ends at 6 or 7PM, or whenever the sun goes down over the mountains. By 4pm most people are too drunk to stand straight. After tubing,people eat dinner, then get ready to party again at night. The thing with Laos is that due to government regulations, bars must shut down by midnight. Some bars stay open later, but they either have a late license or do so illegally.

My first night out in Vang Vieng I saw this guy handing out free shots. I said that I’d be interested in working; 2 minutes later I found myself talking to the owner of the bar and agreed to start working the next day. In exchange for work I’d get free accommodation, free food, and all the free alcohol I wanted. The bar wasn’t particularly crowded, but why not. I’m always down for a new experience. I showed up at the river the following day at 12:30 PM. My job on the river was to hand out free shots, tie wrist bands around people, and promote for the night time. I got completely shit faced my first day on the job. Later that night I went out to the bar and got completely shit faced again. At 11:30 PM I was done for the day and was able to either stay out partying, or go to sleep.

I hadn’t gotten laid since I left Korea and was going on a 5 week dry spell. I was a bit rusty, to say the least. The good thing about working at the bar forced me to talk to A LOT of people in a short period of time. After a few days of work I started getting more on point and was making out with a new girl every day. My first make out was with this cute South African broad. The following night this Australian girl approached me and started making out with me about 8 seconds later. I was starting to get more on point.

One night at work I noticed these 2 Korean girl walking around the bar taking pictures of themselves. Surprising to see Asian girls taking unnecessary pictures of themselves, huh??? Haha. One of them was hot, the other fat. I approached them and asked if they were from Korea. They were surprised that I knew that they were Korean (I spent 5 weeks in Korea recently and live in the northeast of the USA, so I know damn well what Korean girls look like). I told them I spent 5 weeks in Korea and that I crashed at a friend’s place in Gangnam. They were Gangnam girls, so it was instantly on. I started talking about bolgogi and kimchi after this. They asked if I worked at the bar, and I said what I said, then offered them jobs at the bar. Of course my main motivation in doing this was to fuck the hot one. They started working at the river the next day.

The following day at the river I spent a lot of time talking to the cute one (as well as every other hot girl that came to party on the river). Great thing about working on the river was that it was an easy way to meet every girl who stopped by. When a girl hung out at my bar on the river and I actually had a conversation with her, if she came out to my bar later that night it was easy to continue where we left off. In addition to this, working at a bar is a great way to gets lots of social proof. Working at a somewhat low-key bar is nice because it makes it easy to meet everyone there. Working at a crowded bar is probably great, but it’s less obvious to the girls that you work there so you don’t stand out as much.

Later that night at the bar, it was me, my chick, her friend, and my friend. I suggested that we all go back to my room and smoke a joint. After the joint my friend and his chick went off to his room to fuck, so it was me and my chick in my room. She wasn’t ready to fuck that night. I went for the make out and got D-NIED. She went to her room after this. The following night I found myself in a hammock with her. We went back to my room and I got whiskey dick. I drank a bit too much. The next night we went back to my place again, except this time I railed her out really hard. After that night we fucked every night until she left. If I ever go back to Korea I’ll rail her brains out again.

Every day at the river this German girl would come down. This girl was absolutely gorgeous; cool girl too. I’d basically talk to her the entire time she was at my bar. I’d always tell her to come out to the bar at night, but she thought I was just promoting and not being sincere about it. Finally on her last night she came to the bar. She said to me “would it make you happy if I kissed you?” I said sure, and made out with her. I tried pulling her back to my hostel but she declined, due to a 5 AM bus ticket the next morning. This was also the Korean girls last night in town; luckily she showed up late… this gave me plenty of time to game the German girl. However I probably would have gamed the German girl regardless of if the Korean girl was there or not. Shortly after the German declined my attempt to go back to my hostel the Korean girl showed up. Being honest seemed like the best thing to do in this situation so I said to the German “I’ve been sleeping with this girl for the past week, but I want you tonight. Let’s go back to my place now.” She said no. She was getting ready to go to sleep anyway. We made out again, and she left. Not closing this girl was painful though. If I ever go to Germany I’ll finish what I started…

This was a cool night for me though. In the first part of the night I was making out with a hot German girl, and after she left I hung out with my Korean girl and banged her. It’s as if all of my hard work in the past was paying off right before my eyes…

The day after my Korean chick left town I moved into a new hostel. A hostel called Spicy Laos. I HIGHLY recommend this place if you ever visit Vang Vieng; it is by far the best and easiest place to meet new people. There’s a common area where everyone hangs out, and the beds are separated by nothing more than thin bamboo walls and mosquito nets. Very cool place but a bit cold at night. Plus, it’s literally the cheapest place in town and there’s free wifi, free breakfast, and hot showers. (There’s also a Spicy Laos in Luang Prabong. I highly recommend this hostel for all backpackers visiting Laos).

So pretty much everybody had quit working at the bar except for me and my English friend. He was ready to quit and move to a new bar, but I told him that the rewards would be GREAT if we both stuck it out… we both moved into Spicy Laos at the same time. Seize the day and jump on good opportunities. Shortly after moving into my new hostel I found myself talking to this cute Aussie girl. At the time she was travelling solo, but her friends were arriving the next day. Our conversation was very casual and pretty short. My English friend and I told everyone to come out to our bar later that night. Another benefit of staying at this hostel was that it was a great location for us to promote the bar to everyone.

That night the bar was decent, but I was exhausted. At 11:30 PM, I was ready to go to sleep. One of the Lao guys who owned the bar told me that I should stay until 12. I said why not, and stayed… at about 11:35 PM everybody from the hostel showed up, including the Aussie broad. She came up to me and was ALL over me. We went to the dance floor… I was wearing these thin Thai-style pants, and she was wearing those stretchy black pants (I fucking love those things). She started grinding on me and I told her “be careful… these pants are REALLY thin…” After this she suggested we go to a hammock. Hammocks are a fun place to take girls. She jumped me and started kissing my neck. I had to physically push her off to make her stop. After she stopped, I said to her “I’m going to FUCK THE SHIT out of you later…” She liked this. I found myself with the biggest hickey of my life, on my neck. I said that we should go back to the hostel. She replied with, “we’re going to end up there anyway, let’s wait a bit. This quote really stuck with me; it’s a great mindset to have, one of patience. We went back to the hostel 15 minutes later. No resistance. Only problem is that I got whiskey dick (story of my life). I fucked her for a solid 20 seconds then lost it. Get a good night sleep and don’t get too drunk! After this she was not sexually attracted to me anymore. It wasn’t awkward between us and we’d still talk, but she didn’t want to fuck again.

The night I pulled the Aussie girl was particularly fun for me though. My English friend I worked with was the next bed over from me. He had a new girl with him and I had a new girl with me. At one point he goes “Travolta, is that you?” I said back to him, “Yep. What’s up?” and continued with my business. Good good times.

The day after I sort of banged the Aussie broad I felt like the man. I was overly exhausted from partying so much and was feeling narcissistic. I didn’t want to do anything but sit around all day and not speak to anyone. About 3 days later I quit working at the bar; it was far too draining for me to be around drunk people all day. I could not deal with that shit any longer. Two days after I quit I left Vang Vieng and went to Luang Prabong. The cool thing about working in a bar is that is teaches you to be unreactive to all of the external stimuli going on around you. Everybody would be getting drunk and going crazy, but I’d be standing there completely chilled out. I was used to the environment from working there, so it had absolutely no affect. Girls would approach me every night because there was something different about me and everyone else in the bar. I miss working at a bar… I hope to do it again someday somewhere else.

My 2 weeks spent in Vang Vieng was the time of my life, hands down. I made out with some really hot girls, banged 2 different girls, and also did some amazing things. I went rock climbing and went on this intense and dangerous trek through the mountains. Traveling Southeast Asia made me discover that I love hiking through the mountains. It has actually inspired my near-future plans to go to Nepal. In Nepal I am planning on taking a 2 week trek to the base camp of Nepal. The majority of people go to Vang Vieng for the sole purpose of partying. The partying is great, but the best thing about the place has got to be the scenery. The town is surrounded by tall, steep limestone mountains. Every day I was there I’d stare at the mountains and they never failed to amaze me.

Vang Vieng was amazing, but I have no plans on returning for AT LEAST another few years. Go there if you ever get the chance. I could write another few pages about the rest of my experience in Laos, but I don’t want to get carried away.

Where to meet Korean women in Cebu?

I have yet to explore the other malls in Cebu, but I know that they like to go to Ayala Mall. I’ve been opening around 4 or so today, and today I met a K-girl that was worth posting an FR. I know I don’t post many FR’s these days!

I was walking around the mall, and I opened two sets. One was another Korean girl that was waiting on her taxi, and she didn’t open well so I ejected. The next set was a Filipino girl that had a Japanese style to her. After I opened her, she looked like she was in a hurry so I didn’t pursue it…

I was a bit hungry so I went over to the third floor of Ayala Mall where the restaurants are, and decided that I wanted to get something healthier. A lot of the restaurants in the Philippines are fast food and unhealthy. I go inside Kenny Roger’s and after a few minutes I see this tall sort of tanned chick ordering some food. She was really nitpicky asking if they wouldn’t add rice to her meal and butter on her vegetables. She was talking to the Filipino workers like they were worthless pieces of shit. After she ordered her food, I laughed with the guy at the front desk saying “Wow she’s picky.” He gave me a light laugh then extended convo with me asking where I was from…

The chick that ordered the food sat down, and I thought to myself “I should open her…” Then a few minutes later she answers her phone and I hear “Yoboseyo.” For those of you who don’t know Korean, that’s how they say “hello” on the phone. I took a seat near here after I ordered my food. Eventually, she sat back down. They brought rice out to her and she said “I told you I didn’t order rice blah blah blah…” The worker listened to her with a smirk on his face and he went to the kitchen to change the order. Many of the people in the restaurant were looking at her in a strange way.

I opened her with “Annyong. You’re Korean right?” I told her I lived in Korea for some time. Then she goes over to me and sits next to me. She was really good looking and talkative. That’s what I like about Korean women a lot of them express their feelings. They are fun to sarge. We chit chat about Seoul and turns out she was from Apujeong which is the higher class area in Seoul. Her food arrives and everything looks good for her this time. I made a joke about her being nitpicky and called her “khonju pyeong” when she asked the guy working at the restaurant “Can you get me a straw?” Khongu pyeong basically means princess fever. It’s a word that Koreans use for women who can be whiny, bratty, and what things done their way…

This was a huge bt spike, and she was laughing the entire time. I set up a time to meet with her which she switched to Friday. I liked how she was into fitness, eats healthy, and was also a broadcaster. She had done some traveling so I found that nice because it showed she was open to seeing new places.

After eating our food, we parted ways. I had light kino and tried to give her a spin, but she didn’t turn around… Ahh, the failed spin move! It usually works with K-girls…

All in all, I learned something in this sarge. Just because a girl might be rude to others or she might be in her own little world isn’t an excuse to NOT open her. I opened this chick, and she turned out to be quite an interesting cute “yeoja.” Yeoja means woman in Korean

LS