Pick Up Asia

Yup, RedpoleQ is heading to Shanghai to host the first ever bootcamp there this weekend. Are you in Shanghai and looking to improve your game and learn from one of the best pick up artists in Asia?

Click here for more info on the bootcamp. There will also be a FREE mini-seminar on Thursday night. Bootcamp details are here.

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I haven’t been posting lately and this is because I have been going through a transformation since my bootcamp. I’ve been out constantly sarging and bettering my game…

An interesting thing happened this week. You know when I started pick up I ran social circle and alot of nightgame… I have run day game some of the time, but this week I went through a realization.

I ran a street pickup and bounced the hb to a coffee shop. I was able to close her on the Day 3 it could have been a Day 2 close, but there were time constraints. The sarge was done entirely during the day. From opening to closing it was run during the day.

Now, I am more determined than ever to improve my day game. Street game probably has the lowest probably of the different types of day game. However, I find street game the most exciting

There’s so many things going on with my game right now but the main focus on this post is day game.

Day Game Tips:

1. High traffic areas- make sure to hit up high traffic areas since this has the most amount of people and potential sets to open

2. Street Game- although street game is an area I am improving I have noticed if you move the sarge quickly (kinoing early, locking in, bouncing) you can have a higher rate of success

3. Bookstores- bookstores are a great place to game during the day. One thing I have done lately is take hb’s to the travel section of the bookstore and pick out the place they would most like to travel to. From there, we sit down and look through the pictures in the book (good for kino). Also, you can bounce around other areas of the bookstore.

4. Coffee shops- these are good as well. Make sure not to talk to the hb’s from a standing position for a long time.

**Know your bounce locations during the day. You never know when you will have a set that will go well. Then, if you don’t know your bounce locations, you will be walking around looking. This is not good trust me I have been there.

Don’t be afraid to kino during the day either. Kino’ing was one of my weaker areas after my bootcamp, but I have gotten my kino calibration tighter now. Kino works well after your bt spikes…

A few tips for day game. Keep on Sarging!

By the way, the new David Guetta cd is hott!

Pick Up Asia on TV

They also have a forum which is free to join

I got into pickup by desperately needing it, and through my desperation, I found a website called ‘www.pickupguide.com‘.

I believe that the masculine and the feminine are both thrown into this ‘dating game’ by the gods with different advantages and disadvantages, and in the end want to share deeply intimate moments with each other.

I started with the end in mind.  I knew that I wanted to be an authority in dating in Asia, and so I decided to go to Korea and build my vision from the first step ‘going to Asia’. From there, I realized that I needed three things to build my skills:  Experience, support and mentorship.  I gained experience by going out regularly, support by going out with wings from the KoreaLair and mentorship from PickupAsia.  The recipe was designed for me to succeed.   Then my first niche became being successful with Korean women in their culture, and currently I’m the only PUA who is an authority in Korea.

The biggest mistake I see guys make is not take enough risks.  Guys make the mistake of either not going to talk to the woman, or not ‘pulling the trigger’ when it comes to sex, when clearly the women want them to.  In other words, the biggest mistake that men make is thinking that women will act like men when it comes to dating and lead the interaction. Men need to understand that they need to lead, and women will give them the feedback they need to take the interaction where it needs to go, just like driving a car from point A to point B.

5) In your experience, what is the best place to find a quality girlfriend?

First of all, I want your readers to know that finding a “quality girlfriend” isn’t the only ultimate goal that Pickup can offer you, or the only goal that any student of Pickup should shoot for.  To answer your question, there must be some groundwork set up.  A man must both know what qualities a woman has to be his quality girlfriend, and that he is worthy of such a woman.  Once a man knows that, he can get an idea of where to find her and what she’ll be like.  So for example, if guy#1 likes a woman who exercises a lot, and is studious, he has the best chances of meeting her at a University gym.  If guy#2 likes a woman who is extravagant and gorgeous then he can meet her in clubs.

6) What are some ways to enlarge your social circle?

Build it with the endgoal in mind.  I wanted a social circle that would allow me to accomplish my goals of being a Pickup master, businessman, teacher and lover.  Currently, my social circle involves Pickup Masters, Business Mentors, fellow PUAs, and my women.   To build a social circle, learn to cultivate value and give it to the people you want to attract into your social circle.  The next step would be to become a social node, where you make yourself the person to talk to when your social circle wants something of valuable.

When I wasn’t good with women, I lived with a little demon by my side, that would torture me daily.  The demon was the knowledge of knowing that I didn’t have any sexual partners in my life, and that I didn’t know how to bring any into it.  Nowadays, I’ve finally put that demon to rest and can confidently move into other projects, such as teaching men how to get good with women.

What is one of your favorite techniques/tactics?

One technique I learned from RedpoleQ (www.redpoleQ.com) with PickupAsia is the “D-move”.  It involves taking the girls hand and putting it on your cock.  Yes, it’s very direct. Yes, it’s very sexual. The woman has no doubts of your intentions, and now knows that it’s time for her to step up to the plate as she’s with a man who knows what he wants, or go home.

Yes I do.  Props are non-verbal ways of showing women who you are and what you’re about.  My props evolve around the theme of travelling and learning about cultures, as does my game BECAUSE my quality girl is into those things.  What gets me the most reactions are women who are into traveling and cultures.

10) What pick up artist has inspired you the most? What did you learn from them?

Kid44  (www.PickupAsia.com)  I’m fortunate enough to have him in my social circle, and have been able to learn from him.  He taught me a lot non-verbally as well as verbally. Him and RedpoleQ have really taught me about giving a lot of value to people, and how to teach PickUp as well as business ethics.

11) Describe the moment when your realized you need to work on this part of your life.

For me, I always needed to work on that part of my life. I never believed that some had “it” and some didn’t. It wasn’t until the proverbial “straw that broke the camel’s back” was when I was in love with a girl I didn’t want to be, and when I saw her with another guy yet she knew how I felt about her.

Dream big, and start small. Have a vision of what you want firmly in your mind and make sure it moves you. Whether it be to get out of a depression you’re dealing with for being lonely, or wanting to be as famous as Mystery, or being able to “just know” that you can get girls.  Then be sure to start with small goals at first, such as the “newbie missions”, joining a Lair or a forum such as www.pickupasiaforum.com WITH THE GOAL of finding wingmen and mentors.  If you really want to invest in yourself and cut down the time it takes to improve, definitely consider taking a bootcamp. If you’re in Asia, I strongly recommend the people I took a bootcamp from: PickupAsia (www.pickupasia.com)

13) In your experience, what is the biggest issue for guys getting attraction from women?

In my opinion, being able to generate ‘attraction’ is overrated.  The fact is that it doesn’t take much for a woman to be attracted to you. the biggest issue is guys not believing that they are worthy of a woman’s attraction, not to mention sexual lust, and being able to move on in the process of going from ‘meet to sex’.

14) What are you goals for the community? Your life?

My goals with it the community is to build it in Asia, and see that it’s helping people on this side of the world.  For my life, my goal is to attract better experiences in my life, including women, health and wealth, and I wish the same for everyone else.

Specialized Questions

1) Why did you choose to come to Korea/Japan/etc?

I chose Korea because of my personal fascination with it. Ever since I was a child I was involved with Korean culture through Taekwondo and loved it.  I’m also in love with Asian women, specifically Korean at this point in my life.

The clients who have been most successful with what I and fellow partners have to offer are those that learned from us and went out regularly to implement what we had to teach while coming back to us for support.  In other words, the successful ones are those who took action.

One student that comes to mind read my e-book and then took a bootcamp with PickupAsia but most importantly, he’s going out in the field and practicing what he’s paid good money to learn and has gotten some impressive results:  He went from powerlessness with respect to women, to having had sex after a bit more one month, and still making progress.

3) Why did you choose the name _BlueMystery__?
It’s really silly lol.  I chose ‘Blue’ because my favorite band at the time was, and is “Deepest Blue” (I recommend listening to them on Youtube) and ‘Mystery’ because at the time, I was using ‘mystery’ as a main tool to picking up women.  Now it’s changed and I love being open to the women I’m talking to.

4) How do you differ from other dating coaches?

My focus is specifically on Korean women and culture at this time.  PickupAsia and I are currently working on helping Foreign and Asian men have amazing relationships in Asia and with Asian women as we currently help men in both Korea and Japan.  Soon we will be able to help men in Australia, China, Taiwan and more.

5) Your known as a(n) expert in Korea in the community. How do you respond to that?
I appreciate what the community has done for me, and will always consider myself to be a brother of that group. It has helped me and I’m honored to help it back.