Where to meet Korean women in Cebu?

I have yet to explore the other malls in Cebu, but I know that they like to go to Ayala Mall. I’ve been opening around 4 or so today, and today I met a K-girl that was worth posting an FR. I know I don’t post many FR’s these days!

I was walking around the mall, and I opened two sets. One was another Korean girl that was waiting on her taxi, and she didn’t open well so I ejected. The next set was a Filipino girl that had a Japanese style to her. After I opened her, she looked like she was in a hurry so I didn’t pursue it…

I was a bit hungry so I went over to the third floor of Ayala Mall where the restaurants are, and decided that I wanted to get something healthier. A lot of the restaurants in the Philippines are fast food and unhealthy. I go inside Kenny Roger’s and after a few minutes I see this tall sort of tanned chick ordering some food. She was really nitpicky asking if they wouldn’t add rice to her meal and butter on her vegetables. She was talking to the Filipino workers like they were worthless pieces of shit. After she ordered her food, I laughed with the guy at the front desk saying “Wow she’s picky.” He gave me a light laugh then extended convo with me asking where I was from…

The chick that ordered the food sat down, and I thought to myself “I should open her…” Then a few minutes later she answers her phone and I hear “Yoboseyo.” For those of you who don’t know Korean, that’s how they say “hello” on the phone. I took a seat near here after I ordered my food. Eventually, she sat back down. They brought rice out to her and she said “I told you I didn’t order rice blah blah blah…” The worker listened to her with a smirk on his face and he went to the kitchen to change the order. Many of the people in the restaurant were looking at her in a strange way.

I opened her with “Annyong. You’re Korean right?” I told her I lived in Korea for some time. Then she goes over to me and sits next to me. She was really good looking and talkative. That’s what I like about Korean women a lot of them express their feelings. They are fun to sarge. We chit chat about Seoul and turns out she was from Apujeong which is the higher class area in Seoul. Her food arrives and everything looks good for her this time. I made a joke about her being nitpicky and called her “khonju pyeong” when she asked the guy working at the restaurant “Can you get me a straw?” Khongu pyeong basically means princess fever. It’s a word that Koreans use for women who can be whiny, bratty, and what things done their way…

This was a huge bt spike, and she was laughing the entire time. I set up a time to meet with her which she switched to Friday. I liked how she was into fitness, eats healthy, and was also a broadcaster. She had done some traveling so I found that nice because it showed she was open to seeing new places.

After eating our food, we parted ways. I had light kino and tried to give her a spin, but she didn’t turn around… Ahh, the failed spin move! It usually works with K-girls…

All in all, I learned something in this sarge. Just because a girl might be rude to others or she might be in her own little world isn’t an excuse to NOT open her. I opened this chick, and she turned out to be quite an interesting cute “yeoja.” Yeoja means woman in Korean

LS

This is the first time I’ve closed a Filipina chick!!!

How I met her:

I was doing beach game for about an hour and opened a few sets. It wasn’t going all that great, and I decided that I would grab a few groceries then call it a day. While I was walking towards the grocery store, this really cute chick (5’0, nice body tone) passed me in a two piece blue bikini and red flip flops… I decided to turn around and I’m thankful I did. I said hi to her then asked for her name. She was really friendly and mentioned to me that she was just walking around. This was good because it let me know that she had some time to hang out. I asked her if she wanted to go grab some coffee and she said “sure.” She seemed a bit surprised, but we went for a walk on the beach.

I didn’t really have a logistics plan which I normally like to have, but the hell with it. She mentioned pretty early on that she had a boyfriend who was in the American military. I didn’t let the fact that she had a boyfriend affect me and the discussion would come up earlier. She also had one 5-year-old daughter that her mom and brother took care of. She was 25 years old. After a bit of walking on the beach, we sat down for a bit and just talked. I mentioned that we could head over to Bulabog Beach near where I’m staying. She didn’t hesitate about coming. First, we stopped by the grocery store so I could take care of my errand of the day. On the walk to Bulabog Beach her friend kept texting her. She asked me “Is it okay if my friend comes?” I told her “Your friend can join us later.”

We went over to the beach and checked out the kitesurfing. She asked about where I planned on taking my groceries, and I told her “ We can take it back to my place later.” That didn’t go well with her, and she didn’t want to come over at all… She was even walking away like she was going to leave. I should have given more plausible deniability about going back to my place, but I went direct so I had to deal with it. She calmed down for a bit, but her vibe seemed off. We sat down on a rock and looked at the beach. It was a bit quiet… Then something happened. There was light rain falling from the sky. I actually never said anything to calm her down it was the rain that calmed her down.

HB Filipina said I’m going to have to go home it’s raining.” I told her “Okay let’s go home.” I said this way and pointed to the right. We walked up the hill to my place and were followed by a gang of little kids who found me amusing. Saying “hello” and “Can you give me some money?” They followed us all the way back to my place and even said “See ya” mimicking me as I walked into my building.

Once in my building, I thought that the people at my property weren’t going to let my target in because she didn’t have her ID with her, but I just told her to continue walking up with me. I looked at them and said “She’s my guest.” We went inside my place and she was pretty impressed with the set up. She walked outside to look at the view of the place. I asked her if she wanted a drink and got her a Coke. We hung outside for a bit then went back inside. I put on some National Geographic and tried to kino more, but she resisted my attempts saying I’m too close and mentioning the boyfriend. Later, I ended up pouring her a few rum and cokes and we danced for a bit around the apartment when I played some music from my laptop. That loosened her up a bit. I eventually put my arm around her and then I neutralized the boyfriend by telling her that we’re both on vacation so we can live in the moment. Then I asked her “Do you like me?” And she said “Yeah, your cute.” That was the last time we talked about him.

A little bit later she asked if she could take a shower. And I got a scary movie that she wanted to watch. The movie was the new Nightmare on Elm Street which had a few spooks. After she got out of the shower, she went outside for a bit to dry her hair then came back inside and asked “Why did you turn off the TV?” I told her “We’re going to watch it on my computer come on to my room.” We lied on my bed and started to watch the movie. During the first scary scene, she jumped. She was laid on her back and I got on top of her and then started kissing onto her neck. It was pretty much game on from there. One last thing, she mentioned having a period. I tend to have a habit of closing new girls when they are on their periods. “I’ll get a towel” I told her, and that was the end of it.

I ordered some food after that and we finished watching the movie. She’s only going to be here one more day so I will try to see her before I leave. I got her contact info before she left my place. This lay I’m especially proud of because it was done during the same day.

LS

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Ahh, Itaewon: the “home away from home”.

Just two years ago only foreign expats and tourists would ever come to this part of town (and they had good reasons too!) This was the first place I went to when I came to Seoul so many years ago.The place bustled with home-food restaurants, English-speaking stores, foreigner services and much more! Nowadays Koreans with a flair for the new and international come here to mingle, club and meet and date foreign men!

So how does that help you? If you’re looking for women who are most probably open to being with a foreigner then this is the place! But then where’s the best place in Itaewon to meet them? Once you meet them, where would you want to take them?What if you just want to check out the nightlife, where’s a good place to go?

Relax old buddy. I’m going to go over Itaewons’:

- sarge areas

- bounce locations

- nightlife spots

Excited yet? You will be! You’ll be able to find and meet Korean women in Itaewon with confidence once you’ve read this mini-guide.

Sarge Areas

Itaewon has more Korean women now than it ever did. You see, Itaewon is more of a hub now and if you’re looking to meet them, I recommend hanging out in the coffee shops or streets.

The best coffee shop in terms of ratio and quality is definitely Itaewon’s Coffee Bean followed by Tom and Toms and Neal’s Yard.

Coffee Bean is out of exit 3 and is overall the best women-meeting coffee shop in Itaewon. The problem is that it’s quite small and if you plan on bringing your computer to get some work done and meet women, charge it first because there aren’t any electronic sockets. The prices are steep for that area too.

Tom and Toms is a cheaper alternative. It has much more space and places to charge your computer. On the other hand, there aren’t too many sets and the ones that do come over aren’t as ‘quality’ as those from Coffee Bean.

Neal’s Yard has some of Korea’s hottest women. The problem is that it is overpriced and always full. So unless you get there early and are okay with spending more money than usual, Neal’s Yard is a great place to go.

“When’s the best time to go there to meet women?” Weekend evenings are the best time to go out there and meet women. My friends and I have found them to have the most beautiful and most worthwhile sets.

Bounce Locations

So let’s say you meet them. Where would you want to take them? Itaewon is famous for it’s restaurants but it has much more to offer as well. There’s a nice hot chocolate cafe as well as an English bookstore called ‘Watthebook’ where you can find many new topics to talk about there.

The hot chocolate cafe (can’t remember the name lol) is a 3-minute walk if you go on the street that Taco Bell is on. You’ll notice it on your left-hand side and it’s right next to another small cafe (haven’t been.) It has decently priced hot chocolate that is always a hit. The staff also give you some free chocolate, which is always nice!

If you’re a reader (which I recommend being) and want to take her on a journey, take her to whatthebook. They have books on travel (pretend that you’re going to a new country together), on hobbies that you or her might have, and other small stories as well. It’s a great place to share more about yourself. Maybe you’ll find a life-changing book there and you’ll be able to open up with her about it. Chicks dig a man who’s okay with sharing his deeper side.

If you’re up for some food there are plenty of restaurants to choose from but they are pricey and can easily set up the “on-a-date” frame. That being said, I recommend two places called Tony’s and Coffee n Soup.

Tony’s

is a little Australian restaurant that is a bit out of the way. It has decently priced finger food that your target has probably never had before (which is why I recommend the place.) On the other hand, the owner ‘Tony’ is a bit of a cockblock so if you have strong frames and if you tell her beforehand that even though the food is good but the owner is a douche (which is what I do and it works every time), it should be okay.

Coffee n Soup is a small coffee and soup (no duh!) place that has some new little things you can try. I personally haven’t been in and I usually go straight to my place but if you don’t live there and want to have some fun, that place seems nice. It might be a bit pricey for the coffee and soup but the key point is that it’s something different and fun!

Tony’s is a 10 minute walk straight out of exit 1 (just go up the hill once you see the crossroads at Itaewon’s intersection.) Coffee n soup is only 5 minutes.

NightLife spots

There are plenty to choose from nowadays. I’ll give a quick rundown.

JJs – probably the most infamous club in Itaewon. It is located inside the Hyatt hotel (just ask a cab driver to take you there – or it’s a long walk up). The crowd is usually between 25 – 35 year olds and is a classier joint. It’s getting crowded these days because it’s free!

Volume – as the name suggests, it’s loud! All that noise comes at a hefty price too – W30,000 entrance cover. On the other hand, it’s the only valid club in Itaewon. The women’s age range is 20 – 30 years old and it’s a short walk down the hill from the Itaewon/Noksapyeong intersection. Just ask around and you’ll get directions.

Luv – The latest lounge bar in Itaewon that has been doing very well. It is on the back street of Itaewon behind the Hamilton hotel. For a cover entrance of W20,000 you get into the only lounge in Seoul that I know of. You get a free drink, decent music and loads of women. The only problem I’ve had is that it’s quite ‘social circle-ly’ which is not my thing. That being said it’s Itaewon’s biggest nightspot hit his year.

Helios – Itaewon’s “meet to meat” place. Located on the main Itaewon strip, Helios has a cover charge of W10,000 and is filled with military people every weekend. It has a decent crowd and if you’re looking for an SNL (Single Night Lay) or ONS (One Night Stand) then this is a good place to start. If you want ideal logistics then you can get a room next door at hotel D’oro. Get a reservation early because it’s fills up very quickly.

B1 – Another “meet to meat” place. I’ve pulled SNLs from here successfully and have enjoyed each one of them. For W10,000 you get into a small lounge-y place that has cheap drinks and hookah. Although it has plenty of sets, it’s always packed and moving around is tough. I used to enjoy it but nowadays the sheer number of people who go there turn me off. On the other hand there’s a little bar next to it that does pretty well too.

Quick Recap

Okay! That’s about it! Itaewon is no longer just the “home away from home”. Nowadays it’s perfect ‘sarging’ grounds and filled with pre-qualified women who are more into foreigners than anywhere else in Seoul.

Just be careful not to accidently open trannies unless that’s your thing!

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The meet-up

We exchanged a few messages online and set up a time to meet. While eating with Lumiere, she mentioned she was at the bar (Heckle and Jeckle) located in Makati (Manila) with her friend. I was surprised because she never mentioned bringing a friend but hey “What are wings for?” Lumiere and I head to the bar and I didn’t notice her so I sent her a text. This is funny because it went back and forth on text messages because she didn’t want to come inside the bar and meet me. She wanted me to come meet her. I asked Lumiere about it and he mentioned that I should have her meet me. So after some text exchange which included me mentioning that I’m watching my friend play pool and that she should come inside to meet me, she went into the bathroom then texted me because she didn’t know who I was. The funny thing is Lumiere and I checked her out as she was walking into the bathroom. She had a very nice body and was tall with high heels on.

She came out and greeted me. My initial impressions were that she was good-looking, good height (5’6 w/o heels) and friendly. She had a nice smile. She mentioned that her friend was outside so if we could join. Lumiere winged me and I established the vibe. Later, Lumiere left to sign up for a poker game. My target asked me questions about where I traveled, where I planned to travel, etc. She gave me that “eye.” Over time, I have developed a keen sense to tell when a girl is into me… I noticed they give this look at me when they are attracted to me. They also ask a lot of questions. We talked about Taiwan and I busted out some Chinese for her. “Ni hao ma (how are you)” “sheh sheh (thanks)” , and “Piao Liang.” (Cute) She laughed at my Chinese… The whole time here I made sure to have light kino.

After, we went inside to watch Lumiere play poker. Lumiere wasn’t that into the friend so he went off. This was good because my target’s friend was bored and eventually left. Now, this left me with my target. I had mentioned going to the club, but at this point I wasn’t going to go there. I had a good opportunity here. She lives by herself (company paid apartment). Essentially I could set myself up with the proper logistics. I didn’t have a private room at my hostel so my gameplan was to end up at her place. How I was going to do that? I still had to figure out.

I suggested we go to a lounge in the area. At this point the kino was pretty good and she said the only lounge she knew was near her place in the Makati area. We grabbed a cab after walking around looking for a lounge .(shouldn’t have done that should have just gone straight to the one near her place) Remember to check the meter which I had the cab driver put it on. It seems like they hold off on putting the meters in the cab.

We went to this nice lounge in her area that served Bacardi cuba libre’s. I began to step up the kino now that we were in an isolated location.

Here’s the main gist from this venue
1. She had a bf (Indian Portuguese guy) for 5 years was single
2. I basically told her that I’m staying at her place tonight and I’ll cook for her another time.

By me telling her that I was going to her place, was a direct move. This was good because if I would have tried to go to her place after leaving the venue it could have made it difficult for me to bounce there. Afterwards, we left for her place. It was a really nice company paid apartment with a nice view of the area. We had some beer (I was pretty tipsy at this point so I had some water too) and I stepped up the kino a bit. Most of the time was chitchat for a bit… Later, I went for the kiss on the neck and she didn’t resist. I escalated past making out then told her “Let’s go to your room.” She said ok… I played some music for us on my Ipod. On the bed I ran strawberry fields and she had a low fence, lots of strawberries , and said “thank you” to the farmer. Strawberry fields is good to use when sexual framing. At that point, I escalated to more make-out then pulled the D-move. Dimmed the lights later. It was game on from there.

In the morning, she had to go meet a friend who rescheduled to meet her later in the afternoon. I looked out the window and thought to myself “It feels good to be in Manila.” She made me some cereal we watched some of America’s Next Top Model on her flat screen TV. We left the apartment later and took the elevator down and went outside. She left me with a parting present a huge hickey on my neck ☹

Welcome to the Philippines, Latin

This is my first close since coming back to Taiwan and it feels good. Before I left Korea, I hit a pretty nice hot streak closing a few girls. When I came to Taiwan, I thought to myself “Oh it’ll be pretty easy to get the next close.” Well, I was wrong. I met a lot of girls during the last three weeks here and I pulled a good amount back to my place, but they weren’t DTF. I even had one chick I pulled back the other night that I made out with, but when it came time to progressing past the make out she said “I can’t do this.” She left after that as I escorted her outside. This similar situation happened the day after that when a girl I met from night game I brought back and we made out… Then I went to escalate past the make out (Day2 planned Day3) and she stopped herself again. She told me she had to go so I walked her to the MRT Station. This can do a lot to your psyche when you go through these rough patches. You start to think to yourself “When will it end?”

Finally, it ended last night! This was a Day 3 close that I met from online game.

The Day 2

HB Smiles and I met at the MRT Station and went over to Carnegies which is a local pub in the area. She had a good vibe and bright smile. Her English was also really good since she lived in the States for a bit. I got this from Lumiere since he asks chicks “What do you think of Taiwanese guys?” I decided to give it a try and she mentioned their ok, but she liked American/Western guys since living in the States. Here’s where the title of the LR comes into play. I asked HB smiles when she would be free and she mentioned Saturday and Sunday was busy. I also tried to seed my place that night but she had to wake up early for work in the morning. So I asked her how about Friday “Sure, I don’t have any plans then.” I had some logistical things to cover she lives far away, but I neutralized that by telling her she doesn’t have to work the next day.

The Day 3

We met for the Day 3 and things picked up where they left off. My original bounce location had no seats so I chose this Japanese spot near my place. The music wasn’t that great, but I just carried the convo the entire time. Mental note- DO not to use this venue next time. The best venues have dim lights and good music ( I prefer house music or Top 100) Afterwards, I mentioned we were gonna get desert in the area. Grabbed some to go/went by the convenience store (beers) near my place. I had already seeded watching movies at my place so there weren’t any issues coming in. I did have Lumiere crashing with me which I’ll mention that story later…

Once inside, I showed her my pics from my travels and had light kino. We also talked about previous relationships. I escalate a bit quicker this time because I wasn’t getting any resistance from her. I think every girl is different. Some girls you can escalate quickly with and they won’t say anything as you escalate those types are my favorite. There are other girls that throw minor resistance, but you can get through it by using push pull and “keeper of secrets, hero story” can help… Then there are the types that will give u lots of resistance (these can be the most challenging.) My target fell into the no resistance category all I had to do was shift things to end up on my bed so I could escalate. We went from the desk to the couch then the couch to my mattress to watch a movie. I started kissing her early on, but I kept pulling away when I saw she was enjoying it. Once on the bed, I worked the neck then took off her clothes. There was no resistance along the way. The funny thing is Lumiere and I had some miscommunication and he knocked on the door as I was fucking her… Pretty funny. Remember to check wing communication if you are sharing an apartment.

I attribute this lay to making a date adjustment with her. Since I am only here on vacation, it’s best to get the dates you will meet girls on squared away. I was able to do that. Hopefully I’ll have more fun stories to tell you on my travels around Taiwan…

LS

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Asian men have been stereotyped in the media as been asexual, and lacking the masculine quality that has long been associated with Caucasian men.

Today, we shall investigate some of the common problems that Asian guys face when dating and how to overcome those.

One of the biggest problems that Asian guys face is that they are too shy and too much of a nice guy. It could be because of the conservative culture that Asian males were brought up in, a culture that emphasized harmony and peace, obedience and conformity rather than conflict.

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Once again, it could be because of the umbrella-culture of conformity that many Asian households preach and raise their children in. Any wise comment back is greeted with a swift slap across the face and from young, the child is educated to simply follow orders and stay quiet.

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Asian men have often been giving a rough ride by the media in general. The negative stereotypes like having a small penis, being short, asexual and lacking in confidence have resulted in many Asian men mistakenly assimilating that identity and condemning themselves to a lack of success when dating.

Today, we are going to investigate how Asian guys can become attractive to women of all races and exude the same kind of eye-catching charisma that naturally arouses a woman’s desire and sets her pulse racing.

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Being smooth, charming and witty comes with being comfortable and at ease in social settings. Many Asian guys get tense and nervous in social situations and thus clamp up in the corner and are over-looked by women.

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Many Asian guys get too caught up in the whole issue of race and thus contrain themselves with these internal, mental limitations. Yes, racism does exist but not in the same degree that most guys imagine in their minds.

Obsessing over racial disparities will do nothing but hurt your confidence and then again, another man’s lack of success does not mean that the entire race is at fault.

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Many Asian men have mixed opinions when the issue of inter-racial dating is brought up. They point to the mismatch and double standard that exists in society. In the study conducted in the popular book, Freakonomics, an average Asian man had to make a whooping $200,000 more than an average white guy in order to be seen in the same light by women.

Imagine that! That means at least $15,000 more in monthly income, to be seen as a mere equal to a white guy.

In sharp contrast, many Asian guys point to more Asian women and Caucasian male pairing as a sign that there is a huge interracial dating disparity and double standard that exists. In fact, they get extremely upset when they see Asian women dating white males. One guy even remarked that he was angry that white guys were “stealing our Asian women”.

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It is precisely this thought that traps many Asian men in a victim-mindset and condemns them to a complete lack of success in dating.

The real way out is to understand that women will date anyone that is a confident, attractive man who triggers the attraction switches within her. Even though race sometimes comes into play, universal biological attraction switches will remain eternally the same.

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In it, the creator Ryker Koh specially posed this challenge to 13 of the world’s greatest Asian dating coaches – How Can Asian Men Become More Confident and Sexually Attractive To Women Of All Races?

And each of the 13 Asian dating coaches revealed the exact, step-by-step methods that any Asian guy can immediately use to turn his life around and transform himself into the man that women are naturally drawn to.

Some of the 13 coaches are household names and they include DJ Fuji, Daniel Rose of the Sex God Method, William of ABCs of Attraction, Johnny Wolf, Xavier, Troy Dizon and more.

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Universally, they all agree that Asian men can definitely be attractive to women of all races if only they know how.

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Asian men have long been depicted in movies and the mass media in a distinctly unfavorable light, resulting in the rise of many stereotypes like the nerdy, geeky Asian or the asexual Asian.

Society rarely expects Asian men to stand up for themselves, much less have the confidence to approach beautiful women of high value. The resulting outcome is that many Asian men have placed themselves in a few mental lock-holds that restrict their success with women.

The first is bitterness and anger. Many Asian men have resorted to blaming the media for its negative stereotypes and often blog and write in rage at these unfair protrayals. They attribute their failures to external factors but rarely take any real-life action besides rage-driven posts.

Behind their rage is an inner self-loathing and acceptance of the fact that they are an inferior race and that being Asian is a distinct disadvantage.

The second is to stay seething but silent. Many Asian men who feel this way walk around in angry, silent desperation. They hate the fact that they do not have the desire they want but rarely take any action to change their situation.

Their self-pity builds up to an extent that one day they either suffer a breakdown or they lash out in uncontrollable rage. Whatever the case, theirs is a low-burn suffering on a daily basis.

The last is the escapist. The ones who give up altogether and do not play the game. They either engage in mail-order brides or take off into becoming sex tourists and never have any real connections with women.

The real way out of these negative mental barriers is to understand that continual thinking in this manner will never really result in real success with women. Instead, one should first disengage from these negative thoughts and pursuits.

The removal of negative influences – negative friends or media will accelerate the recovery process and aid him in improving his self-confidence and relationships with women.

What would really make a real difference is to find mentors or shining examples of other Asian guys who have succeeded before and use them as a benchmark, to break the whole stereotype and shatter the limiting belief.

A product available that might be of phenomenal help to Asian men is – Asian Dating Superstars.

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In it, the creator Ryker Koh asked 13 of the world’s greatest and most successful Asian dating coaches to break down the steps on how they managed to transform themselves from bitter, unsuccessful Asian males who could not get a date or a kiss to confident men who could enjoy wonderful relationships with an abundance of women they desire.

Some of the famous Asian dating coaches include DJ Fuji, Daniel Rose of the Sex God Method, William of ABCs of Attraction, Johnny Wolf, Xavier, Troy Dizon and more and one thing they all agree on is that once Asian men realize that they can be attractive, they will automatically regain their confidence and become naturally attractive to women.

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Hey guys. Bolo here. As some of you may know, I’m an Asian guy. Some of our non-Asian readers may be asking, “So what?” Well I’m tell you…being an Asian guy in the dating world can be tough. All around us we see Asian girls with all types of guys…white, black, brown…but we don’t see Asian men with other races. Why is this? I use to blame the media, family upbringings, Asian tradition…But blame is useless and took the power out of my hands. So I began my PUA journey…3 years later and my life has changed. Nowadays, it’s easy for me to go out and get girls.

Then I came across Asian Dating Super Stars….This is the resource I wish I had starting out. It’s a dating product designed especially for Asian men. My man Ryker Koh has brought together the best Asian PUAs together to share their secrets. This is something I wish I had when I first started getting into Pick Up. I caught up with Ryker…

Ryker Koh Interview

1. Tell Us A Little About Yourself And How You Got Into Pickup

Hey my fellow Asian readers, my name is Ryker and I entered pickup and seduction by complete and total accident. I first decided to aggressively improve this area of my life after I witnessed the phenomenal success of one Asian friend of mine.

This Asian dude was just a ordinary, confident yet somewhat quiet guy, but when it came to talking to women, he was a freaking beast with women. This guy was absolutely sick.

He was one of those guys who was born with pin-point precise natural ability to just enter a conversation with just about any girl he met and get her attracted in minutes. And he wasn’t even doing any magic tricks, any NLP patterns, any direct-game. Heck, this was back in 2000 before the community was famous.

All this guy did was talk about plain, simple stuff like hobbies and her life, and his life and fashion and entertainment, just about pretty normal stuff. But man, did these girls stick to him like bees to a honey.

And all the time, I stood there wondering, man, these topics he talks about are plain as peas and even sometimes about as interesting as watching grass grow but how the heck was he getting all these crazy results.

So I cornered the guy and decided to ask him and the thing was this dude had no idea what he was doing right, so everytime I started asking him for advice, he would squint and look really confused and feed me pretty feeble advice like “Just be natural, just be cool” which thinking back now, was precisely what he was doing. But because I was so way off the mark in my own skills, I still wound up getting no success.

And it was until I began aggressively studying and practicing “live” in the field, crashing and burning multiple times before I actually got good. But every since I was young, I have been blessed with a pretty thick skin, so even though I was humiliated and left embarrassed more than a few times, I licked my emotional wounds and soldiered on.

Now, all the time, I had another group of Asian friends who were also studying pickup and these guys really bought just about every course on the market. And these guys were really studious, they flooded their brains with pickup theory and could recite routines backwards in their sleep.

But their dating lives were still disappointing. No love, no girls and they still led pretty sad and lonely lives.

So one day, I asked them – “Yo guys, you have been studying this stuff for close to 2 years now, why do you still go home to a dark, empty house and sleep in your bed alone every night?”

And then, slowly, they began revealing a lot of limiting beliefs they had about being Asian, the whole Asian culture, Asian parents, Asian upbringing and as they did so, I winced and felt their pain because I too am Asian, and I had to overcome these same issues too.

And I thought to myself – hey, it’s time for the Asian man to stop feeling sorry and pathetic for himself. It’s time to get some respect, hence I created Asian Dating Superstars.

2. Why do you think Asian men have such a hard time dating and can’t get white girls? And why do Asian girls always seem to go with white guys?

This is a freaking awesome question.

Now let me break this down.

Why do Asian men have such a hard time dating?

Here’s the 3 biggest reasons.

Firstly, they spend too much time worrying and fearing that girls will mock them and dislike them straight away because they are Asian. No kidding, before they walk up, they feel the girls are already against them.

Now, most guys I know have 2 reactions to this. The first group decideds to resign himself to this sad fate and they slink away into the darkness, too afraid to approach. The second react in anger and outrage, and they approach over-aggressively, like they have a point to prove, and therefore scare the poor girl off.

Both positions assume an immediate “under-dog” mindset – that being Asian is some limitation to overcome.

Now most Asian guys feel this way because the media has been a total asshole and has flooded movies with a ton of negative Asian male stereotypes. Asians in movies are either the loser who is teased and mocked at by guys and girls alike, or the kungfu master who spends the whole show kicking ass and mouthing heavily-accented Chinese.

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Both of which are not the most attractive of male characters.

And prolonged watching of this Hollywood garbage means that most Asian guys have slowly assimilated this poisonous identity. Add to that the very lack of positive Asian male stereotypes and you have a growing generation of Asian men who think that being nerdy and geeky is the meaning of being Asian, which is a bunch of horsecrap.

Now the whole Asian upbringing by our parents and the whole Asian culture as an entity is such that we value obedience, harmony and respect, more than being vocal, over-expressive and opinionated.

Most Asian guys reading this know that when you are young and you decide to get too cocky, your boldness is not praised but immediately punished with a slap across the face.

After a while, you learn that the best way to live is to be quiet, be obedient and not say too much. We play it safe, we don’t over-step the boundaries, and we work hard – which is all and good, but it is absolutely destructive when you bring that attitude to meeting women.

The common complaint white girls and even just girls have in general about Asian guys are they are just too quiet, too stoic, too non-expressive. They sit in the corner, have barely nothing to say, just stare at the girl and after a while, the girl is either creeped out or she just plain overlooks you and thinks you are transparent.

Heck, sometimes she might even forget your name, and that you even existed. And that sucks.

Finally, as a culture, Asian guys are born thinking and analyzing a lot more. Just look at the number of computer scientists, engineers and mathematicians we produce as a culture, we are born analytical and we can break things down quickly.

Asian men vs. White men

Now, while that’s good for getting through college, that sucks for talking to girls because most Asian guys spend the whole time, plotting their next move like playing Chinese Chess. They try to over-think the interaction, second-guess the girl when they should be paying attention to her.

The end result is the conversation gets awkward, or the girl just feels she is ignored and that you are not paying attention to her and she walks off in an angry puff, leaving you there standing all alone with your drink in your hand.

Now why do Asian girls go with white guys? It’s not a race issue, I am not going to over-generalize here because I know there are Asian girls who are only into white guys but most Asian girls as a whole have no specific preference.

They are just into confident guys who make them feel good. And since Asian guys are not doing as good a job as white guys, Asian girls naturally pick the next best alternative.

As a culture, Asian guys should stop hating on white guys for “stealing” Asian women, neither should we be hating for Asian women for being “traitors” and “sleeping with the enemy”. It’s precisely that kind of thinking that leads to Asian guys struggling and failing with women.

3. What are some things Asian men can do to improve their dating lives?

Great question again. Here’s what I suggest Asian guys do.

Firstly, the only and best way to break a a stereotype in your head is to find a strong role-model, so dominant and so completely different that just watching or listening to him completely and permanently smashes all limiting beliefs you ever had.

When you feel such a role model, so strong, so capable, so full of confidence and ability and you hear his stories, his thoughts and listen to him talk, you will immediately realize that all you once believed was false, and that being Asian is not a handicap, and that Asians can get good with women.

In my product Asian Dating Superstars, I don’t just provide you with one role model – I provide you with 12!

No kidding, 12 Asian guys who have had to rise from deeper ashes than most probably all the Asian readers reading this right now.

Some of them had to endure more shame, teasing, mocking, racist Asian comments than you can ever imagine, but each of them rose above these to become successful.

So when you listen to their stories and their thoughts, you begin to think – hey these guys are Asian, they understand how I feel but they too manage to succeed, maybe I can do this after all!

And you bet they understand how you feel, because they have the same, (if not deeper) emotional scars to prove it – and having walked the path you have walked, they can fix your issues faster than anyone else can.

The next important thing is to understand that reality can definitely be shifted and changed, but ONLY if you know how.

A lot of Asian guys have gone through their entire lives so far with no success with girls, and they automatically assume it’s lights out and game over for them. They assume they are destined to die single, and that no girl will even take a fancy to them.

WRONG!

Look, the 12 Asian dating coaches on my product each started in about the same bad shape as most Asian guys. Rejected left and right, girls avoiding them or toying with them before breaking their hearts, they have all been there.

But look where they are now, the same guys who used to laugh at them are now their students. You can be just as successful if you know how.

What I have done with Asian Dating Superstars is gotten them to reveal their own personal journey and transformation, and the very best of their personal learnings – and along the way, shatter every single one of the common limiting beliefs most Asian guys have that prevents them from succeeding.

Quite a few Asian guys carry a ton of emotional baggage when it comes to meeting and attracting women and you bet the women can sense it. They can smell if you have low-esteem, if you are afraid, if you don’t think much of yourself.

The key is after listening to the Asian Dating Superstar series, you will learn to drop a lot of this emotional baggage you’ve been carrying for so long, and begin to feel better about being an Asian male, regardless of what your past history is.

It’s like that strange moment of total clarity when you realize that yes, I can actually do this and you feel absolute self-confidence.

And one final piece of advice is this. You have to take risks.

Quit being too safe, too obedient, there are times when there is an opportunity you want right in front of you, and you have to squash everything else and go and grab it.

Screw being obedient all the time, sometimes when fear pops up, you gotta kick it in the balls and just charge forward to get what you want. You gotta be bigger than your fear.

Go do it, and don’t think. Who cares what they think? Please yourself first, and if you really want to do something, go ahead and do it, without fear or need of approval.

In Asian Dating Superstars, I get the 12 Asian coaches to reveal how they used highly-effective techniques to re-wire their previously negative and harmful thinking, and enable them to achieve great confidence with women.

With this, you will learn how to get in touch with your natural masculine self and build unstoppable confidence. The fears and insecurities you had previously will melt away and you will find that your hands stop shaking, your teeth stop chattering and you stop shivering or stammering when you talk to girls.

You will be more expressive, more fluid and more natural.

I have not seen any other program out there this specific for the Asian population. I am Asian and I have been in the dumps before, girls rejecting me like I was invisible and transparent so I know exactly how Asian guys feel.

I am going to go one step further and say this – if you want to stop being rejected by women, stop feeling insecure about being Asian, stop leaving parties and social events feeling shitty and disappointed with your lack of confidence, you will find the solution right here.

Do it for yourself. You deserve it this time.

It’s time for Asian men to stop feeling sorry for themselves and to dust themselves up and get the respect we have always deserved, both as an individual and as a culture.

And I feel the journey begins here.

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