The Common Problems Asian Guys Have When Dating and How To Overcome Those
March 10, 2010 by Ryker Koh
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Asian men have been stereotyped in the media as been asexual, and lacking the masculine quality that has long been associated with Caucasian men.
Today, we shall investigate some of the common problems that Asian guys face when dating and how to overcome those.
One of the biggest problems that Asian guys face is that they are too shy and too much of a nice guy. It could be because of the conservative culture that Asian males were brought up in, a culture that emphasized harmony and peace, obedience and conformity rather than conflict.
As such, most Asian males bend over backwards to please a woman and rarely open up and speak their mind for fear of being labelled as out-spoken or to avoid standig out. The end result is that they disappear into annoymity and are often overlooked by women and simply ignored.
The next biggest problem that Asian guys have is that they are sometimes too much of a follower and rarely stand up and take charge of a situation. That extends to standing up for principles that they believe in and challenging those who do not treat him with the basic respect he feels he deserves.
Once again, it could be because of the umbrella-culture of conformity that many Asian households preach and raise their children in. Any wise comment back is greeted with a swift slap across the face and from young, the child is educated to simply follow orders and stay quiet.
The end result is a noticeable stiffness in social interactions, being too much of a doormat and never contributing to the interaction with personality and humour. It is what is often referred to as the Asian Man Poker-face, a stoic expression that betrays no emotion.
Women, as a result, often over-look the Asian guy for the more colourful, expressive and masculine Caucasian male who is smooth, confortable in his own sexuality and can convey and evoke the different emotions necessary to attract a woman’s attention.
The solutions for budding Asian males who want to improve their relationships with women are simple. To first be re-acquainted with their inner masculine self and get in touch with their core personality and show-case it effortlessly.
No more Mr. Nice Guy
But with all the limiting beliefs that exist and years of disuse and lack of practice, doing so might be far easier said than done.
One product on the market that can help Asian men overcome those mental strangleholds that hold them back is Asian Dating Superstars.
It is a 13-part interview series conducted by its creator Ryker Koh and 13 of the world’s best Asian dating coaches and ladies’ men.
With keen understanding of the problems and challenges Asian men face in the world of dating, Ryker has systematically gotten all 13 coaches to reveal the precise steps that Asian guys can use to immediately be rid of limiting beliefs and turn themselves into confident, attractive men.
Some of these methods include how to react in social situations, how to approach a beautiful woman of high value even though you are not the most muscular, tall or good-looking guy around, how to overcome the dreaded Asian male stereotype and set yourself apart immediately and more …
Props man props
Some of the 13 coaches are household names and they include DJ Fuji, Daniel Rose of the Sex God Method, William of ABCs of Attraction, Johnny Wolf, Xavier, Troy Dizon and more.
One thing they all agree is that all Asian men have an equal chance of being successful with women, if they know exactly what to do.
Asian Dating Superstars can be that shortcut for all Asian men out there who want phenomenal success with women to transforming themselves into naturally attractive, charismatic men.
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Infamous scene from Fargo
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Pissed Off Asian
Hey guys. Bolo here. As some of you may know, I’m an Asian guy. Some of our non-Asian readers may be asking, “So what?” Well I’m tell you…being an Asian guy in the dating world can be tough. All around us we see Asian girls with all types of guys…white, black, brown…but we don’t see Asian men with other races. Why is this? I use to blame the media, family upbringings, Asian tradition…But blame is useless and took the power out of my hands. So I began my PUA journey…3 years later and my life has changed. Nowadays, it’s easy for me to go out and get girls.
Then I came across Asian Dating Super Stars….This is the resource I wish I had starting out. It’s a dating product designed especially for Asian men. My man Ryker Koh has brought together the best Asian PUAs together to share their secrets. This is something I wish I had when I first started getting into Pick Up. I caught up with Ryker…
