Basic Questions

1) How did you get into pickup?

Like most people, it starting with “The Game” by Neil Strauss. My Dad actually bought the book home after hearing about it on the radio. After I read it I convinced most of my friends to read it. My journey started there…

2) What is your dating philosophy?

Destroy young girls lives. But seriously, I’m all about variety. I only date women from other nationalities or ethnicities (non-exclusively of course). I’m very honest with girls about my lifestyle; most of them have no problem with my non-commitment. I travel too much. I’m of the opinion they’re lucky to catch me while I’m around.

3) How did you get good at dating to become an authority on it?

Mistakes. I made a lot of mistakes. I tried everything. I spent so much time trying to emulate the gurus in the community, but it wasn’t until I developed my own style, one which I felt congruent with, did I start to see a big difference; the quantity and quality improved.

I’m no pick up guru; I’m just a specialist in exotic women. Each country is like a code waiting to be cracked. I found western game often faltered with linguistic and cultural barriers and I wanted to break past that. Over the years I had to develop new techniques to cater for different scenarios in other countries. Some shit worked, some didn’t. A lot of the stuff I was trying didn’t exist in the pick-up lexicon – things like shoring, pipelining and crunching (see blog). These were thing that sky-rocketed my flag count. Before I knew it, all my friends were using my techniques to pick up when they travelled. I was part of a new frontier – pick-up for the vagabond. I started the Naughty Nomad blog and viola.

4) What do you think guys greatest mistake with women is?

No cajones. The number one reason why most guys aren’t successful with women is the fact they never go up and talk to them in the first place. Approach Anxiety will forever be man’s downfall. Furthermore, a narrow mind. You’d be surprised the amount of men who simply refuse to read books like “The Game” on ‘principal’. Guys like us who are willing to educate themselves on social dynamics, will forever have the advantage.

5) In your experience, what is the best place to find a quality girlfriend?

I guess it depends on your values. If were talking about aesthetic quality, I’d say Eastern Europe. If were talking about quality characteristics, I’d go for Asian or African woman. It’s hard to come up with a generic answer.

6) What are some ways to enlarge your social circle?

Befriend more women. It took me a while to develop healthy platonic relationships. Other ideas? Start a band. Take up new sports. Join societies in college. Learn to Dance. Learn a language. Do a course. Go out more and travel. Try something new. Have a fucking life.

7) What was your life like when you weren’t good with women? What is it like now?

Frustrating and lonely. I used to get depressed and craved intimacy. I had zero confidence. I used to just stay indoors and get stoned with my mates.

What is it like now? Busy! But that’s not a bad complaint. I’m feeling pretty good these days, but sometimes you feel a little shallow and empty… I’ve hurt a lot of people. Life is about balance and I’m still trying to find it.

What is one of your favorite techniques/tactics?

Extreme peacocking. For those who don’t know, in September some friends and I spent 24 nights in a row travelling through the Balkans dressed as a Mexican Pirate. It was a blast.

I also tend to employ things like jealously plot-lines, anchoring and going caveman.

I’m pretty direct, but my opener is always the same “Where are you from?” Then I whip out some words in their language or some stories /knowledge from the country. It gets the ball rolling and it plays to my strengths.

9) Do you use props? If so, what gets the most reactions?

Sometimes. As mentioned, I peacock a lot. Mexican pirates get the best reactions. When I’m with my crew we buy kid’s party hats and put them on cute girls in the bar to anchor. Sometimes, I whip out my iPhone to do the work for me by showing girls some whopper pics, like my name tattooed on my crazy ex-girlfriend’s ass.

10) What is your biggest sticking point?

Approaching and transitioning – I don’t like to use canned material so I have to rely on situational openers or being direct. Sometimes, I go blank. For all my experience, Approach Anxiety still creeps in – especially when I’m sober! haha

11) What pick up artist has inspired you the most? What did you learn from them?

The Venusian Arts Handbook by Mystery is probably my core text. I’ve also used material from De Angelo, Jeffries, Style & Vin de Carlo. A lot of stuff I needed to learn was inner game based; you need to have the fundamentals. I found De Angelo provided the bones while the others provided the meat.

12) Describe the moment when you realized you need to work on this part of your life.

I was in my second year in college and I hit a 6 month dry patch. I swore to myself, never again.

13) What advice do you give to newbies starting out?

Find guys on the same wavelength. Get out there. Read everything, try everything, and make mistakes. Repeat. The key thing is stepping outside your comfort zone.

14) In your experience, what is the biggest issue for guys getting attraction from women?

They think too much or come across as too needy. Girls can pick up if you’re treating an interaction like a chess game. She’s not a playstation. You can’t copy and paste techniques and expect a certain response. Relax and have fun.

15) What are your goals for the community? Your life?

As for the community, I’m doing my part taking this game around the world. I’m happy to pave the way, but I’d like to see more guys like yourself writing about. There’s just not enough info. Personally, I want to visit every country in the world before I’m 35. Then I’ll pick a sexy foreign wife and have multi-racial, bi-lingual superkids.

Specialized Questions

When did you start your blog and what made you start it?

I started the blog in April of last year. I was living such a crazy life and I wanted share it with people. I also felt there was a serious lack of info for single guys looking to hook up in foreign countries. I wanted to help fill that void.

How did you get the name Naughty Nomad?

It literally just popped into my head one night in bed. The next day I bought the domain name.

You’re quite the traveler! What made you want to start traveling? How many countries have you been to?

I’ve been to 58 countries now, including Antarctica and a few self-proclaimed republics. It all started on my trip to Antarctica when I was 18. It was the best experience of my life. In was then I found my vocation – to vacation. Since I was a little kid I always dreamed about being an explorer. The trip rekindled that passion. Now I refuse to accept an alternative destiny, at least in the medium term.

What was the most interesting country you’ve traveled to and why?

Ethiopia. I could talk all day about it… the women, the culture, the history, the vibe… Let’s just say it’s a very special place for me. I’ll have to dedicate a whole post to it; I couldn’t do it justice in this space. Second place would have to be the Philippines – it’s a sexual playground.

What was a country that you disliked the most and why?

Egypt. It’s overrated, full of sleazy con-artists and the nightlife is shit. Egyptian men are generally scum and ruin the whole Egyptian experience. A close runner-up in Russia, the people there can be very dower, even downright hostile. For me, the people make or break a country.

I heard you’ve traveled to Africa can you tell me an interesting story from the time you were there?

Where oh where do I begin. A lot of crazy shit happened in Africa. We jumped the border to escape Sudan, smuggled a kilo of weed from Ethiopia over 7 borders and decided to travel in North Kivu, a war zone in Eastern Congo. Shit got scary, I can’t even begin to tell you what went on there… I got a lot of the stories on the blog if anyone wants to check it out…

You dressed up as a pirate with your buddies for one-week right? What was that experience like? Did you feel like it changed you in anyway?

Mexican Pirates, furthermore it was 24 nights in a row. That was in the Balkans, we also did the same thing for one week straight in Malta. It was the most fun I ever had in my life. It didn’t change me, it just got me laid a lot. It did wonders for my friends though. It certainly improved their confidence. Life is more fun in costume.

What does it mean to collect a flag? How many flags have you collected?

If you hook with a local from a foreign country, you get a flag. Guys who indulge in ‘flagging’ are called flaggers. Check out flagging headquarters for info. I’m not interested in notches, only flags. I’m 24, and I’ve gotten 32 flags so far.

You mentioned pipelining as important. Can you define what pipelining is and why it has been important to you? How can others benefit it?

I think the blog sums it up best.

“Pipelining” is a practice primarily employed by travellers wanting to meet potential sexual partners in a future destination. Meetings are typically arranged online through social networking and dating sites. The objective is to have potential mates already ‘in the pipeline’ prior to arrival in a certain location, thus vastly increasing the chances of a sexual encounter with a local. The terms ‘Pipelining’ and ‘online game’ can be used interchangeably.

Can you tell us an interesting travel story? Maybe something unexpected happened to you while you were traveling?

My passport got robbed in Cambodia and I ended up staying there for several weeks with a Khmer girl. It’s a long story but finishes with her tattooing my name on her ass. To take some recent happenings, I just got back I was just got back from the Dominican Republic and Haiti. My first night in DR I banged a Dominican super model and beauty queen. My last night in Haiti, I got robbed and laid in the same night. Good times. I recently posted both stories on the blog.

Where are you currently? What is your travel plans in the future?

As mentioned, I just got back for the Caribbean. Next month, I’m in Eastern Europe for a few days before jetting off to travel the whole of West Africa. It’s going to be fuckin’ crazy, I can’t wait!

Do you plan on releasing any products in the future?

That’s classified information

For more information on Naughty Nomad, check out his blog. This is Latinstylez signing off…

See more of them here and you can find bootcamp information if you are in Asia and are interested here

I could have taken a taxi to the hostel but even the locals caution against taking an airport taxi. There have been reports of people getting kidnapped or mugged. Not to sure how true any of that is but given that I was in Medellin, FUCKING Colombia, I wasn’t taking any chances. With the help of some very friendly people in the airport, I managed to exchange American Dollars with a guy selling snacks and drinks (the exchange office was closed) and to call LatinStylez. So here I am in the Medellin airport waiting for LS scared to take a taxi.

Allow me to introduce myself. I go by the name Bolo and I will be traveling with LatinStylez on this Latin America trip. Through this blog I want to chronicle my adventure of picking up, making money, learning Spanish and whatever else pops up. I will offer a very different view of being in Latin America from LS.

I was first introduced to Pick Up through “Double Your Dating” during college and tried to apply the techniques. As some of you know, “Cocky Funny” is one of the corner stones of the Double Your Dating System. This is were you are humorous and challenging when talking to a woman. Such classic lines as “You’re hot but you could do a few more sit ups” and “Did you just grab my ass?” were misapplied by me. Having girls call me an asshole made me shy away from the whole Seduction Community.

After college I realized that I didn’t have the relationships I wanted with women. Besides the VERY occasional drunken hook up, I felt completely powerless. I decided to go back and look through the various pick up material that I had and stumbled upon “The Game” by Neil Strauss. The book helped me realized just how big the whole scene is. Soon I was absorbing all the material I could and going out getting minor success. (make outs, number closes, Day 2s)

Deciding I wanted to take this to the next level, I took a few seminars and bootcamps. I credit Pick Up Asia for being the most helpful. Soon I was closing within 30 minutes from a coffee shop and getting more dates then I ever had.

I met LatinStylez when we were both in Korea through the Korea Lair. We sarged together and it turned out that our personalities really meshed. While, Korean girls were cute, we were both into Latinas. Our contracts in Korea were going to be over soon and LS wanted to go to Medellin, Colombia. Being a real” OK, let’s do it” type of guy I agreed to meet him there.
Anyhoot, here I am in the airport with drug dogs sniffing around, unable to speak the language, and afraid to go outside less I be kidnapped and ransomed by taxi drivers. Wait wait wait…LS said it only takes 30 minutes to get to the airport. Call. No answer. Wait wait…………….one hour passes. WHERE THE FUCK IS THIS GUY!?!? If I have to wait till the morning to take a taxi then so be it.

“Bolo!” Oh thank god. And finally we were reunited again. Turns out the taxi driver took LS for a ride through back alleys and deserted streets. He thought the taxi driver was gonna kidnap his ass! Hahahaha.

So please come and join us on this adventure. Who knows, maybe you’ll see us on the TV in the future….

PUA Lingo.com launches: an in-depth look at old, present, and new seduction definitions and terminology.

Q: What is PUA Lingo?

A: PUA Lingo is the largest dictionary of PUA terms, acronyms, and definitionson the Internet. We wanted to make seduction terms and definitions easy to find and relevant, anytime, anywhere. It was important that the content was thoroughly researched so that artists can find relevant information on their specific topics.

Q: What are your backgrounds in pickup?
A: Casual started out after a long term relationship with a crush he had, when she told him they should just be friends (LJBF - let’s just be friends). I started back in San Francisco in 2006. One night I was having a bad night in San Francisco, and decided to walk out of the bar Holy Cow for some fresh air on the streets. Next to me a friend of a friend who always AMOG‘d me (asserted alpha-ness) came up, and for some reason started spilling some of his theories on game and happened to mention Neil Strauss’s book. I didn’t think much of it at the time, and only ordered the book out of curiosity a few weeks later. When I finally opened The Game, I could not put it down! For 2 days straight, I kept on reading, and over the next 6 months I went out with fellow newbie PUAs in San Francisco to put some of the theories to the test.

Q: So are you a master PUA now?
A: Far from it. Mastery is such an elusive term. I consider myself an intermediate, and am able to auto-correct now based on my actual field experiences and manage some successful pickups occasionally.

Q: Why did you start PUA Lingo?
A: We were really frustrated during our journeys to become mPUAs. There were a lot of pitfalls, paradoxes, and also the whole industry is very commercialized. Newbies often think that the next PU product is going to be the “magic pill” to get them laid. It takes times and practice. We were also experiencing a lot of confusion over pickup terms, and what they meant exactly in the context of a specific school of thought. For example, “Identity” means totally different things in MM and in RSD. Did you know that?

Q: What if you guys are wrong?
A: We took a painstaking 3 months straight to first do the research. Before we even launched the site, we had well over 300 terms that we researched, compared and cross analyzed with all of the information (online and offline) out there. We think that the rating system, comments and the ability for others to submit new words will keep us honest and continue to have a 2 way dialogue with the users. Essentially, the aspiring artists that are here to learn.

A: We have only tapped 10% of all the terms out there, and the more we do, the more we realize we have not done! We want to make the site informative. Also, we have added pictures to terms that often eluded full meaning with only words. For example, see DDBL - essentially, Ross’s original description of a doggy look from the girl. We want to make the site fun, so that PUAs can have laugh as well as learn about a new theme or thought through our definitions. We’d also liked to get more feedback and new words – there are so many variations of PU lingo from around the world, and we have only scratched the surface.

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