Those are the eyes of a man who has died on the inside….

Found these photos of Mystery with his baby mama and daughter. It’s interesting to see him like this…and scary. I wonder if he planned this out or if his baby mama planned it out…

Lately I’ve been reading books like “The Predatory Female” and “The Manipulated Man” in preparation for taking the Relationship Mastery Seminar offered by Pick Up Asia. They’re both pretty eye opening books that show females aren’t just sugar and spice and everything nice. Nuh uh, they can be cold and calculating ready to suck you in so you have to support them no matter what.

I’ve been reading into divorce laws and see just how much a marriage can truly cost you. The woman can get half your pay check, your retirement and your kids if you get a divorce. It doesn’t matter if she had nothing to do with your job. Somehow she’s entitled to half your pay check.

These recent events with Tiger Woods are a good reminder to be careful where you stick your dick. All of a sudden all these chicks are coming out of the wood work claiming to have fucked him. His wife stands to get $100 million dollars is she gets a divorce. Is you for fucking real? How the hell does that even make any sense? She didn’t earn any of that.

I wonder if something like that happened to Mystery. I remember watching some seminar videos where he talks about his daughter and how she was unexpected. He might not have expected it but I wonder if his baby mama did. She has a lot to gain from having his child.

Whatever the situation is with Mystery, I hope he’s doing ok. The dude changed my life and he’s also a warning to make sure your jimmy hat is on tight and to screen your women…because you never know if you have to deal with them for the rest of your life.

Ali On The Air (Ali MAcLean) goes behind the scenes at the PUA Wold Summit to speak to the top pick up artists about why pick up lines are gross and how these puas are actually teaching guys to be better men.

For more info on the PUA Summit for 2010 check out the official site.

5.0 is a Love Systems instructor based in London, UK. He is an expert at high-end club game and will be speaking at the Love Systems Super Conference (Oct 9-11, Las Vegas). Here’s a Q&A with him discussing high-end club game, how to build social proof, and more.

What are you going to talk about at the Love Systems Super Conference 2009?

I am going to be talking about something that I love to do almost as much as I love to teach it – social proof.

I will be covering social proofing a venue you have never been to before, as well as using social proof to create a buzz about yourself at your regular haunts. I have been fine tuning my approach to social proof over the last couple of years as I have worked my way up the London club circuit, using these techniques to allow me to frequent the most exclusive high end clubs in Europe. If you want the hottest women, you need to be able to gain access to these high-end venues, and social proof is one of the most fundamental techniques to master to make this a reality.

What are some tips to get into these high-end clubs?

As guys, the odds are massively stacked against us, even if you are willing to spend a fortune – women are the currency of these venues. Lucky for us right! I cannot break it all down here, but I will give you some bullet point tips which I have learnt the hard way.

1) Arrive early, sober, & well dressed and DO NOT linger outside the club. Walk straight to the line – bouncers have to deal with keeping the pavements/roads clear of clubbers, so don’t make their job harder and have them remember you as being awkward.

2) Talk to the bouncers, but don’t try to ‘game’ them. A great tip is to engage them first, and offer to help make their life easier e.g. “Hey man, do you need to see my ID…?” (as you take your wallet out to hand it to him) Engaging the bouncer first is very powerful as it sub-communicates you’re high value.

3) Go in with girls. Hit a bar close to the club before hand and try to bounce some girls over. Failing that, at least try to talk to some in the line as you’re waiting. DO NOT mention going in with them, just let the bouncers assume you’re all together.

Can you share a tip or routine for building social proof?

Two words: Short setting.

As SOON as you walk into a bar, talk to someone, anyone, and say ANYTHING, but make sure it’s quick, and low compliance. Ask what time the venue shuts down, where the bathroom is, are the drinks expensive etc. Make sure you’re smiling and shake the guys hand as you leave and introduce yourself. This is handy as you have already broken the ice and should you see the group/guys with any girls you’d like to meet, you now have a warm approach as you have met them already. This is so powerful because no one else in the venue knows you, and therefore doesn’t know WHO you know. The illusion created is that you know everyone – and who tends to know everyone in a venue? People of high value.

How do you approach and extract girls from the dance floor?

Thanks for giving me the simple questions! Approaching and extracting from the dance floor is actually pretty straight forward, PROVIDING, you have social proofed the venue properly. Maybe 5% of the time, you can just go up and grind a girl, make out and pull her home with none of what I’ve been describing, but the problem is if you fail, you look like the ‘creepy dance floor guy’.

You should make sure to approach sets with AT LEAST the same energy they have, if not slightly higher, as well as remembering to smile and enjoy yourself. It’s also SUPER important not to neglect her friends, make sure you’re engaging everyone in the group, then when you want to extract, make sure you go for low compliance hoops (going for a shot for example) then you can bounce her to some sofas/secluded dark area and run your favorite comfort routine.

If you want to find out more information on the Super Conference, click here. Seats are filling up fast so make sure you book your spot!

Q: What is the Love Systems Super Conference?

The Love Systems Super Conference is the big annual event for people learning, teaching, or studying how to attract, date, and seduce beautiful women. It’s where the best of the best dating coaches come to share ideas, network, and of course to present their newest and best breakthroughs. It is three days filled with seminars, live exercises, and infield (going out to meet women with dating coaches instructing you).

It started as the Mystery Method Super Conference back in 2005 but renamed to Love Systems Super Conference in 2007. Past speakers have included:
-       Mystery (aka Erik Von Markovik, of VH1 The Pickup Artist)
-       Style (aka Neil Strauss, author of The Game)
-       Savoy (author of Magic Bullets)
-       Cajun (winner on Keys to the VIP)
-       Braddock (appeared on Tyra Banks)
-       The Don (appeared on Dr Phil)
-       Sinn (Sinns of Attraction)
-       Brad P (Brad P Presents)
-       Carlos Xuma (Alpha Lifestyle)
-       Daniel Johnson (Pickup 101)
-       And more..

All Love Systems instructors will be flying in to be at the Super Conference. There will also be other guest speakers and so far Brad P, Dr Paul, and David Wygant have confirmed to come. We have a couple more in the works with a surprise guest lined up.

There are two packages: Silver and Gold. The Silver level attendees will be able to attend all the live exercises and seminars during the Super Conference. The Gold level attendees will also be able to do live exercises and seminars, but will also go out two nights with infield coaching by our instructors. The price for Silver is $947 and Gold is $3,797.

Here’s a video of the Love Systems Super Conference of last year:

Q: When and where is the Super Conference taking place?

It will take place in Las Vegas, NV, USA at the Hard Rock Hotel. The exact date is October 9-11 (three days). We chose Vegas because it’s affordable for people come to Vegas and there are plenty of beautiful women from all across the globe partying it up.

Q: What sessions can we expect at the Super Conference?

What’s great about the Super Conference is that we will have two rooms booked. There will be two sessions running at the same time in the seminar and breakout room.
The breakout room will all be interactive. That’s where people will be able to talk to instructors and work with them on a particular part of their game. These live exercises include:
..      Approaching and Transitioning – Get your approaching skills down!
..      Teasing and Bantering – How to think on your feet and build attraction FAST!
..      Physical Escalation – Touching gets results and prevents you getting in the friendzone!
..      Body Language – Project confidence with your walk, posture, and gestures!
..      Frame Control – Steer interactions the way you want it to go!

The seminar room is where the instructors and guest speakers will reveal their latest breakthroughs, give lectures, and talk about specific topics on dating.  Past subjects have included:

..      Social Circle Mastery
..      Advanced Attraction
..      Deep Comfort
..      Inner Game
..      Relationship Management and Multiple Relationships
..      Callback Humor
..      Day Game
..      Strippers and Hired Guns
..      And lots more.

You decide what you want to do because there are always two sessions running at the same time. If you want to work with an instructor, you can go to the breakout room. If you want to listen to a lecture on a specific topic, the seminar room is where you want to be. You can tailor the whole weekend to your own level of game. If you’re new to the game I would suggest you mix it up with breakout and seminar sessions.

Q: Do you need to have taken one of your bootcamps or seminars before you go can go the Super Conference?

It is true that the Super Conference will be covering a lot of advanced techniques and never before revealed secrets. However, you do not have to have taken a bootcamp or seminar of ours to go to the Super Conference. Even if you are completely new, if you take the Gold level (which includes infield) you will get the same experience as a normal bootcamp. The added bonus is that you will work with more instructors than a normal bootcamp, so you will get to see a lot of different styles of game and get feedback from a lot of different instructors.

One day before the start of the Super Conference we have set up an optional introductory program for new students. The Head Start seminar is about getting the foundations of solid game right. It will allow you to walk into the Super-Conference confident that you fully know and understand the underpinnings behind the game and to enable you to get the most out of the advanced theories that will be put forth throughout the weekend.

Q: Will there be a DVD of the Super Conference?

Short answer: no.

When we release our latest breakthroughs, we want to keep it to the people who will be at the Super Conference. Normally we release sensitive information only on the Lounge, a private forum for people who have done training with Love Systems, but we will be discussing all new theories, routines, and techniques in person at the Super Conference. That’s why we have people sign a non-disclosure agreement (NDA) to prevent our secrets and breakthroughs from leaking to the public.

Q: It’s too expensive for me. Anything I can do to still make it to the Super Conference?

We understand that in this tough economy money can be tight. We normally don’t offer payment plans but we want to help men out as much as we can so we are making an exception for this Super Conference.

If you can’t afford the Gold level ticket, you might want to consider the Silver level ticket. You can attend and participate in all seminars and live exercises, and are only restricted from the night-time bar and club live training.

Click here if you want to find out more on the Love Systems Super Conference.

Here are some reviews of students on the past Love Systems Super Conferences.

Sinn – One of my favorite things about Super Conferences is being around all of the instructors. Every one of them is a really cool guy. Can’t wait till next year!

Psilite – I had a lot of fun and thought this whole Super Conference was genius! Especially the way the rooms were set up. There was A LOT of information that was gold in the entire Super Conference! Much of it helped me a lot when I went out that same day. I wish I had a gold or higher ticker to go out with the instructors.

J The Ripper – My brain is still on overload as I’m trying to sort out all the knowledge that was handed down by the Love Systems instructors. They had a really cool format where you could basically choose your own schedule. The upstairs auditorium was dedicated to seminars, which was one speaker after another. Each speaker would discuss a different topic (ie Approach Anxiety. Routines, Day Game, Qualification, 10 Min. lays, Female Psychology, etc…) The side room and downstairs room were dedicated to group exercises, where the instructors would go over a certain aspect of game, and then coach you on it and give you instant feedback (teasing and bantering, storytelling, frame control, etc). I had a great time and recommend everyone check it out next year.

Capo – What can I say? I mean… the Super Conference offered way more than I thought, I mean, it was way better than I had anticipated, even having read all of what was posted on the site. I thought it was going to be a really fun and educational weekend… it turned out to be one of the funnest and coolest (educational as well) weekends I’ve ever had, it was really awesome. Every single instructor that took the stage or got to be in charge of the workout room was very knowledgeable and they all took as much time as needed to answer all the questions they were being asked. The Super Conference was awesome, I met a lot of really cool guys and got to hang out with some of the best instructors in the world, what more can I ask for?

SirSlick – Whatever you want, LS has instructors that are experts on different areas and you can just walk up to them and ask them whatever you need to know. I never had the idea that the instructors “were better” than the attendees. My impression of them was they were genuine in helping people and were just like “us”. I’d highly suggest for everyone to get a SC BC, it’s worth the money. I’m college student and tight on money, but the investment was totally worth it. It totally opened my reality on what I can do now and in the future. The BC definitely cut my learning curve by several months up to maybe a year, because it eliminated two sticking points and now I know what weaknesses I have in my game. With that I also have exercises and notes on how to improve my success with women.

Goodrake – While it’s great to hear someone talk about it, seeing the instructors do it, answer questions, and then watch and evaluate as the students did it was a great learning process. Almost without exception each of the presenters showed both a real depth of knowledge and experience about the subject matter, and a genuine passion for sharing this with the attendees and seeing it benefit them. If you come to one of these or a bootcamp, be sure to be prepared to take a lot of notes, in a quick and organized fashion. When the instructors are in their groove, the information is flowing. If knowledge is water, think of it as trying to drink from a fire hose. Even though I’ve been studying and applying this stuff for about a year, there’s still plenty of new insights to be gained from attending, as well as retouching on foundational stuff, and the occasional “light bulb over head” moment, when the clouds part and you see something you didn’t see before. How much is a “breakthrough” worth to you?

Monk – As I began talking to other attendees, I realized the lengths community members were willing to go to to attend this event. I met guys from all over CA, from the east coast, and instructors from London, Sweden, Paris, Thailand and other exotic locales. Everyone. Thank you. My life is different. Fears and doubts I’ve had since adolescence are gone, perhaps forever.

Guythano – I really had quite a bit of fun, but more importantly conquered some sticking points. It all just suddenly clicked. A week after I returned, it just started raining women. I would just like to thank everyone again for all their efforts to make the superconference possible and if you have the chance to go, I highly recommend that you do!

Xander – Let me just say that Love Systems truly is dating science. It’s an accurate term. It’s the most cutting edge, advanced stuff around and it’s constantly being refined by great tactical seducers. Overall a life-changing weekend and a total bargain.

Jiggawha – I was so surprised at everyone’s high levels of positive energy, and when I heard the instructors speak, I was instantly blown away. Every word that they spoke struck me with an “AHA!” moment, and shot my motivation up the roof. They were so down to earth that I felt I had a chance of becoming like them. I had already gotten my money’s worth. I usually never talk to my parents deeper than an informational level, but I called my mom Monday night, and we had a deep conversation for half an hour about my life and about her’s. It literally almost brought me to tears when I got off the phone with her; also making me realize how much I’ve changed over this past weekend. She told me how much she enjoyed the conversation, and I agreed. A conversation beyond an informational level hasn’t happened in over 5-10 years. Before that, I had dinner with a good friend of mine and we also had a really deep conversation about everything. He commented on how very different I am now, after coming out of this conference. All the attendees and instructors have changed my life and my eyes have been opened to new perspectives once more. Coming into the conference, I couldn’t even open a set properly, but after that first failed set, the learning has never stopped. Every single one of you has had an impact on me. Life has meaning again. Thank you so much.

Cleanface – The conference this year was nothing short of amazing! What an awesome event!

Zyder – The Love Systems Super Conference in Vegas was a really exceptional experience. Considering that I only first started reading Magic Bullets on my flight over from Paris then to say I was a newbie to all this material would be a bit of an understatement! The seminars covered pretty much every aspect of gaming women. Three days of seminars with the instructors often around and between sessions to answer your questions was such a great deal. I was genuinely shocked by how articulate and knowledgeable the instructors were.

Tenorio – I walked away from EVERY presentation having learned something — and that’s saying a lot, since I’ve read everything. Going out both nights in Gold Level groups…well, I don’t know what to say. There’s no better way to put theoretical lessons into action than through practice, and Gold Level was a perfect way to do this. I left the weekend with some sticking points nailed and a concrete gameplan for my evolution going forward. There’s not much more I could ask for.
SSnake – There was lots material that I had never heard or read and getting it straight from the horses mouth made all the difference. Of course, there is already more good material on-line, in books, and on CD then you could ingest in a life-time. I went to actually hang out with these instructors and network with other students. You can’t get that from media.

If you want to attend the biggest dating conference, you better sign up NOW. There are only a finite number of seats available and seats will be selling out soon. To find out more information on the Love Systems Super Conference, click here.

Want to approach her? You can.

I haven’t been posting lately and this is because I have been going through a transformation since my bootcamp. I’ve been out constantly sarging and bettering my game…

An interesting thing happened this week. You know when I started pick up I ran social circle and alot of nightgame… I have run day game some of the time, but this week I went through a realization.

I ran a street pickup and bounced the hb to a coffee shop. I was able to close her on the Day 3 it could have been a Day 2 close, but there were time constraints. The sarge was done entirely during the day. From opening to closing it was run during the day.

Now, I am more determined than ever to improve my day game. Street game probably has the lowest probably of the different types of day game. However, I find street game the most exciting

There’s so many things going on with my game right now but the main focus on this post is day game.

Day Game Tips:

1. High traffic areas- make sure to hit up high traffic areas since this has the most amount of people and potential sets to open

2. Street Game- although street game is an area I am improving I have noticed if you move the sarge quickly (kinoing early, locking in, bouncing) you can have a higher rate of success

3. Bookstores- bookstores are a great place to game during the day. One thing I have done lately is take hb’s to the travel section of the bookstore and pick out the place they would most like to travel to. From there, we sit down and look through the pictures in the book (good for kino). Also, you can bounce around other areas of the bookstore.

4. Coffee shops- these are good as well. Make sure not to talk to the hb’s from a standing position for a long time.

**Know your bounce locations during the day. You never know when you will have a set that will go well. Then, if you don’t know your bounce locations, you will be walking around looking. This is not good trust me I have been there.

Don’t be afraid to kino during the day either. Kino’ing was one of my weaker areas after my bootcamp, but I have gotten my kino calibration tighter now. Kino works well after your bt spikes…

A few tips for day game. Keep on Sarging!

By the way, the new David Guetta cd is hott!

Olalala...

This was sent in by a reader who remains anonymous. My answers are italicized in blue.

hey, i just graduated from college and was planning on going to central or south america to learn spanish for a year. I’m really drawn to buenos aires for the girls, but i’ve heard that colombian girls are pretty too. can you tell if a certain pu approach worked better in argentina than in colombia?

Hey. I’d say between the two the Colombian girls are more exotic than the Buenos Aires girls, but BA has a better nightlife. Also, the Spanish in Colombia is a bit easier to understand. Have you looked into Peru? The girls there aren’t bad either.

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Are you more about the nightlife or the women? If you are just looking for hot exotic women, then check out Colombia or Lima, Peru. But, if you like nightlife and pretty cute girls, then check out BA.
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No problem if you have anymore questions let me know. You won’t be dissapointed in Lima.

What should you say to them? Ask Karea.

Karea is one of those dating coaches who you’ve probably never heard of but who your favorite Pick Up Guru knows and respects. He’s currently traveling South America and it was a crazy coincidence that LatinStylez and I met him (He found us by googleing for Colombia Wings and turns out he knows the Pick Up Asia crew). It just goes to show you all the different types of people you can meet when you travel.

1) How did you get into pickup?

I got lucky: when I was 16, I had a music teacher who was a real Casanova. He always had 4 girl-friends, he pushed me into sets when I was too shy to talk to girls and taught me more about women than about chords and scales. Years later, I met a natural who taught me a few more things and that’s when I really started cold approaching on my own. Only another 2 years later, in 2004, a friend of mine told me: “You know, there is a community on the internet of guys like you. They call themselves pickup artists.” I was skeptical – how much could these computer geeks really know about women? Haha. Little did I know. (:

2) What is your dating philosophy?

“Stack work is no less important for a PUA than it is for a comedian.” All the very best PUAs I know have a gameplan – Sinn, Captain Jack, Vision, Mystery, Style… If you write a stack, and then go out and run it often, it’s almost inevitable that you will improve. It’s also almost inevitable that your dating life will be more abundant than you will have free time for. I see the whole “natural game” trend in the community and it’s something I did for several years myself… until I got invited on Mystery’s Lounge in 2006 and realized that it’s the only forum where people consistently post 6-8 new lay reports a month each! Now, whether that’s your goal or not is a different question – but it sure showed me that there is something to this stack work.

3) How did you get good at dating to become an authority on it?

Enthusiasm. I love talking about girls and I love talking to them. What I was really looking for in the community were like minded people – cause most of my friends just got bored when I talked about chicks all the time. (:

4) What do you think guys greatest mistake with women is?

Rather than answer this question myself, I recommend you ask some of your girl-friends about the lame things guys do to try and pick up on them or impress them. It’s actually pretty funny (:

5) In your experience, what is the best place to find a quality girlfriend?

Day game. Two years ago I made a list of all my ex girl-friends, to look for patterns. All relationships with girls I had met in night game were chaotic, to say the least. Some of the most wonderful girls I’ve dated, I met in day game. Other great PUAs I’ve talked to about this topic confirm this experience.

6) What are some ways to enlarge your social circle?

You really only need one friend… he can introduce you to 5 people, who introduce you to 5 more people each, and soon there is no stopping it. The only limit on the size of your social circle should be the free time at hand. And once you have more friends than time to spend with, you can start to be more picky.

7) What was your life like when you weren’t good with women? What is it like now?

I already had a few little “girl-friends” in primary school that I snuck in the bathroom with to kiss, but around age 8 I got into the wrong peer group and ended up being mostly AFC until I was 19. From 19 – 21 I dated one of the prettiest girls from my year, which didn’t really help my social life much at all because the popular guy was in love with her and so all his peer group hated on me. Now? I’m now at a point where, because of my travels, I often have to start a life in a new city where I don’t know anybody – but I know that within a week or two I will have a beautiful girl-friend and a cool social circle.

What is one of your favorite techniques/tactics?

I’ll share a technique here that I came up with years ago when I was reverse engineering the secret to charisma. It is to treat everybody like they were your best friend from high school that you haven’t seen in ages. Not just any friend… your BEST friend. Really imagine you’re not talking to some dude you just met or to some girl with a bitch shield – imagine you’re talking to that one friend from high school that you had all these inside jokes with.

9) Do you use props? If so, what gets the most reactions?

Well, sometimes. I wouldn’t recommend to be dependant on props, but one thing I did for a while was to show girls some pics on my digital camera. You can obviously choose interesting pictures that make you look good, pictures of yourself being social, travelling, doing sports, being on stage, etc. But the one that always got the best reaction was a picture of a cat with two different eyes – a green one and a blue one. The girl would call her friends over and be like “oh my God, look at this cat! That is amazing”. By the time her friends looked at the cam, I’d already flipped to the next picture – a picture of a perfectly normal cat – and show it to her friends. They’d all look at her like “What’s wrong with you? That’s just a normal cat”. Haha. Good times.

10) What is your biggest sticking point?

State dependence. When I’m in state, I’m a rock star. When I’m not, I have AA… even after 7 years of cold approaching.

11) What pick up artist has inspired you the most? What did you learn from them?

There are four I’d mention. David D is great for inner game, Mystery for outer. David Shade is the man when it comes to sexual mastery, and Captain Jack when it comes to Framing.

12) Describe the moment when your realized you need to work on this part of your life.

When I was 16, the music teacher I mentioned above told me that he used to be shy as a kid. I didn’t believe him… he was the most charismatic and social person I ever met, always the center of attention and flirting with beautiful women. But it showed me that these social skills are something that can be learned and practiced… and so I wanted to improve. Now, 12 years later, I’m the one who tells people that I was shy as a teenager – and they don’t believe me.

13) What advice do you give to newbies starting out?

It depends a lot on where they’re at and where they wanna go. But if somebody is not getting results with women, I warn them to stay away from “natural game” products. If being yourself hasn’t helped you so far, it won’t help you in the future just because you watched a DVD. In fact the schools that teach natural game are usually the ones that have forums almost void of lay-reports.

14) In your experience, what is the biggest issue for guys getting attraction from women?

Fear. Fear of approaching, and fear of taking things to a romantic / physical level. Fear of saying something wrong and thus staying on safe, polite conversation. What helped me over this was to tell myself: “She is not my dream girl… she is not the perfect 10 that I will marry some day in the future… so this interaction doesn’t matter… at all.” Outcome independence, if you will.

15) What are your goals for the community? Your life?

Truth be told, I have achieved all the goals I set for myself in this area of my life… be it dating several dancers and models at the same time, or falling in love with one 10 and building an amazing, deep, exclusive relationship. So at the moment I’m enjoying the ride… but since I constantly work on my skills, the goal is mastery. You can always get better – there is no ceiling.

Specialized Questions

1) Why did you choose to come to South America?

I fell in love with this continent when I was a child, maybe 8 years old… we have family friends from there, and whenever they were around, I’d run up to them and go: “Cecilia, tell me about South America!” (: I was fascinated by her stories about the country… eternal summer, salsa music, perpetual smiles and beautiful people, great food and a cocktail under palm trees.

2) What’s the difference between sarging in North America and South America?

The three main differences, in my experience, are:
1.) Latinas don’t usually have bitch shields – they will be polite even if they’re not interested
2.) Latinas don’t cock block. If a girl sees that her friend likes you, she will usually help her get laid rather than sabotage it.
3.) Many Latinas are very catholic and conservative. They’re more flirtatious than Western girls and may even kiss you faster, but wait longer before they go all the way with a guy.

3) Can you relate a success story about one of your clients?

In 2008, I was teaching a lot of guys about relationship mastery, and I received great feedback from all my students. One of them was totally in love with a girl, but he didn’t know what to do about it and how to communicate with her… she obviously walked all over him. I coached him through the issues and I regularly get emails from him about how happy he is with the relationship now… it’s very satisfying for a teacher to see that.

4) Why did you choose the name Karea?

LOL. I had a different handle before, until a chick hacked into my email. Heaven hath no rage, nor hell a fury… The good side is, this made for a funny stalker story that I now tell in set sometimes.

5) What are your fundamental teachings?

There’s a lot… But one fundamental thing is definitely charisma – despite what I said about stack work above, I think it’s far more important to develop personal magnetism than it is to do body rocking or time constraints or negs or BHRR.

6) How do you differ from other dating coaches?

Much like Brad P, I figured a lot of stuff out before the community. So I know both perspectives – natural game and learned game – and how to integrate them with each other.

7) Your known as a “moral PUA” in the community. How do you respond to that?

Haha… yeah, I had a bunch of discussions with other famous PUA about this topic. I believe in pickup with harm to noone. I think it’s neither good nor necessary to destroy other people’s relationships, to cheat on your girl-friend or to lead girls on about your motives. If you truly have an abundance mindset, you will surely be able to find girls who are single, and be honest about it if you’re not ready to commit. Hey, I’m not pointing fingers here… I made mistakes in the past myself. But I experienced that there are ways to play this game win – win.

Tell me about your products.

I used to teach a Relationship Mastery Seminar with a major pickup company last year, and I’m also working on a product about Relationship Mastery myself, but it will be a few months at least before I’m ready to publish that. I also wrote some chapters for the number one Mexican pickup book, and for a book that will soon be published by LoveSystems (former Mystery Method) – about very fast lays in day game (within 15 minutes to 1 hour from meeting a girl).

Currently, I only do private consultations (over the phone or in person) about both those topics – pickup and relationships. So if you’re interested in talking to me and unfuck some sticking points, or simply to take your game to the next level, get in touch through the blog and we’ll have a chat. (:

My best to you all,

-Karea.

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I’m going to be breaking my Day 2 or insta bounce Fr’s and LR’s a bit different now. I will be using it running the M3 Model and a step by step basis of what I did with the set. If you don’t know the M3 Model, then I suggest looking over it before reading my FR’s.

Intro

I’m in Tallahassee for the weekend to visit.I met with the Local Lair guys Falcon and a newbie.  I decide on heading to a good Cuban restaurant in town, but last minute make a right at a Mexican burrito restaurant called Moe’s. We head inside and I’m thinking about what to order. Then, this HB 7.5 walks in by herself.

A1

I approached her over the shoulder. I used an on the fly opener.

Me:What do you recommend on the menu?
Her: You probably won’t like what I’m eating…
Me: Oh lemme guess your a vegetarian…
Her: I actually am
Her: What’s your name? (IOI)
Me: I give her my name
Her: Where are you from?
Me: Guess

Skipped to A3 due to massive IOI’s

I skipped to A3 because she was giving me lots of IOI’s. I stopped talking to her after we were ordering our food. My friend the newbie needed some napkins and she was heading over to the drink section. Perfect opportunity to go back into the set. I go in and began qualifying her about if she has traveled.

She met all the qualifications. She was into nutrition, spoke Spanish, (her ex was Panamanian)
traveled….

She was ordering her food to go so I set up a timebridge with her…

Me: Listen, I’m in town for the weekend… Why don’t you leave me your number and we’ll hang out tomorrow let’s say around 1?

Her: I don’t think that’s a good idea… Your cute and everything, (IOI) but I think I’m a lot older than you…

Me: I bet you can’t even guess my age…

Her: 21

Me: Wrong… Higher

Her: I’m gonna need to see some ID mister

Me: Cool, I pull out my ID

Her: K that’s cool… Well, I don’t know anyone in town I just moved here for school, so just give me a call tomorrow…

I sent her a few text messages from there and it was on. Set up the timebridge for 630PM

Continue with A3 roll into C1

I had her meet me where I am staying at. My friend let me have an extra room at his apartment complex, and I had my car there. Logistics were in my favor, so I thought.

She meets me outside and she’s lookin cute- Jewish chick from Miami with a smoking body damn their some hot 1’s. K, let’s go over to my car I have some fun things were gonna do today. Hope you like hookah I tell her. She says “of course.”

Checked her times it could be an issue she had to meet with her mom the next day to get furniture for her apartment. I only have one day so I would take it as far as I could…

Ran some more qualification. Can you cook? She does, Also, she was an aerobics instructor in the last town she lived in….

C1- Chilli’s

We head over to Chilli’s for some 2-4-1 Margaritas. I sit across from her, which limited my kino escalation….

Had some stories lined up that hit many DHV spikes like being a successful risktaker and also a vulnerability story … Here’s an overview of what I did during C1.

My Risktaker Story:

I just got back from South America. A lot of my friends thought it was pretty crazy that I went down there- especially Colombia. I know people say it’s dangerous, but you only live once. I met my friend there and we ended up backpacking all the way down to Argentina.

This opens up multiple conversational threads into several topics about my travels. I have a kidnapping story from Colombia I use for vulnerability and also helping Bolo out in times of need with Spanish as a protector of loved ones along with having a close relationship with my sister (story).

We split an appetizer and I found out her passions which was her work as a research assistant. She kept going on and on about it… I just listened and smiled and was intrigued as well with some of the things she had to tell me- she worked doing regenerative research.

The bill came and I told her I would take care of this and she could take care of the bill @ hookah. She’s cool with it and we head out of the venue…

After that, she had not seen the campus. I gave her a tour of the campus while I was driving in the car naming all the buildings and different things about it…

C2- Hookah Lounge

There’s this really good hookah lounge in town called Cafe Sheesha. Like most hookah lounges, it is a good place for kino escalation and building an emotional connection with the target thru stories and games…

We ordered a blueberry hookah and some tea. In this venue, I amped up the kino and worked more on storytelling…

The keys at this venue

1. Questions Game- It’s funny because my first question about the craziest thing she’s ever done received a response that she had sex with two guys. I didn’t even have to throw out a sexual question she did it. We talked about sex and past relationships. I can’t tell you how important this game is…

From there, it was really relaxed and it was more about vibing along with building kino. One thing I have really learned with this material, is to refrain from k-closing inside venues. I save that for the seduction location…

They had a bellydancer come out and it was fun watching girls and guys go up there and dance with the girl bellydancing… Afterwards, she clears up the tab and we head back to my place…

My friend promotes the main venues in town so he already has a group of people at his place for a pre game. I had already seeded the place so she could meet some people and to watch a movie…

She tells me I should go off with my friends. No, I’m cool I went out last night. My friends leave and it’s just her and I in the apartment- isolation…

C3- movie and make out

I throw on the movie and we watch it. I k close and she lays on my lap while watching the movie.

S1

I tell her to come with me to the room to watch some you tube videos. The room wasn’t really set up no sheets on the bed because his roommate just moved out. I worked with what I had. A blanket and a pillow. Put on some music and I tell her she can sit down… She had thrown her time constraint about her mom coming before going into the room…

I threw on some music on you tube but my itunes was not playing. I like music during seduction that’s just me… Eventually, I just play music from the speakers of the Ipod…

I cavemanned her and just went on top of her and was making out. Kissing on the ears and neck, got her horny. I made sure to do freezeouts…

S2-LMR

I ended up meeting LMR about her having to leave and how she just met me yesterday. Cool, I take a step back and change the conversational topic.

We go back to making out again then this time I dry humped her and continued making out and started playing with her titties…

I met LMR again. Another freezeout. I was going back and forth with this for some time. Normally, I can close with not that much resistance, but every set is different…

I went back in again and took it the furthest. She said look I want to change + sleep in a bed with sheets and I want you to come with me back to my place so we can….. hint hint

ONE HUGE PROBLEM

My friend left the place and I didn’t have a key. I wasn’t going to leave the door unlocked (the lock was a top lock no bottom lock you have to lock it from the outside) and have someone potentially go in his place. He would be gone till later on in the night…

Go back to hooking up on the bed again. Pulled D-move to success, but she says she has to go…

Set is over. If I had a key to the place, I woulda closed. I’m leaving tomorrow, but I’ll probably be back in a few weeks. She’s down to meet up again. I walked her back to her car. Made out some more next to her car then sent her off….

Fun night… All from opening a set at a restaurant I love this GAME!!

We head over to another members place and he says here’s your first guys. One of them, I found out later had a g/f, and didn’t want to go into PUA just yet. However, the other newbie was interested and took in everything. The coaching started earlier in the day with a friend of mine going over the Mystery Method and actually working some sets with him in the coffee shop. He texted me the next day astonished at this stuff and was thanking for me to introduce him to it…

Back to newbie. We go over his history and we discuss game. This was totally informal as I didn’t have anything really prepared and didn’t even know about the coaching opportunity… I go over general game with him and let him know about how it has changed my life.

Venue-  Club Rayn

We head over to the venue. 3 PUA’s, 1 newbie in training, and another one who was “curious.” Once in the venue, it is pretty slow. I remember going over the new Mystery Project Hollywood and he mentioned even if the venue was slow to open whoever. Newbie is watching me and I open a 3 set with the “Drunk I Love You’s Opener”

The opener goes like this

PUA: Hey Quick Question, Do you think Drunk I Love You’s Count?
Her: No
PUA: My friend called his girlfriend last night when he was drunk and told her that he loved her. This morning he called her back and said he was taking it back…
Her: Always receives an emotional response

I worked my target for a few, but didn’t call in the newbie yet. I went over wing rules with him and walked around the venue with him as I was greeting other people.

I open another set obstacle for Falcon- HB 8 Colombiana. This girl was pretty hot and visiting from Ft. Lauderdale. I talked to her about my recent vacation to South America and was running the set in Spanish. Did some cold reading, qualifying, and hit my DHV stories that I have been working on. I get occupied and another girl I know walks past me. I introduce the two of them and say bye to Colombiana and go off with the other girl. I had gamed this HB the previous week. I sit down and she sits down next to me. I would use her later in the night as a pivot in other sets.

One area I would like to work on is taking advantage of using pawns/pivots in my sets more.

I have newbie open a set and he goes in with no AA. Good job he calls me in and I talk to the obstacle HB8 Dental Hygienist. This girl was cute and Southern, too. She had a nice lil Ga accent. Newbie stays in his set for a bit then ejects. I stay in with mine ran some cold reads, qualification, and went into DHV Stories… Number closed her…

I compliment newbie on opening his set and gave him some tips on opening game and how to approach a set better IE not leaning in and not fidgeting… I was really impressed at the fact that he had very little AA and would approach. His opening game needs work, but he has a lot of potential.

The rest of the night I was focused on helping newbie open more sets and getting to know him as a person. He was a great guy and we will be working together tonight. I will have some planned material to go over with him before we head out to the venue… We head to IHOP and all debrief over the night. You could tell we made an impact on him.

Things I did well

1. Got a dose of my first on the field coaching experience
2. Even though the venue was slow, I approached what was there and made the best of it
3. I showed the newbie some stuff that could potentially change his life

Things I need to work on

1. Work more on my coaching skills- I’m new to this
2. Continue to work more on my bi-wing game
3. Using pivots/pawns more in sets

There will be a bootcamp on May 15th that I might be helping with if I am in town. I really enjoyed this and would like to continue coaching other guys…

Background: I met this girl a year and a half ago when I was running promoter game. Back then, I had a few chances to close, but I never pulled the trigger. She clearly wanted it, but because I didn’t fully escalate she wasn’t going to. To sum it up, we made out in my bed and I got a handjob from her. She stayed the night, too.

What I learned now that would help me- Sexualizing the sarge, building on storytelling

Sent her a message on facebook that I was in town. I number closed and ran textgame throughout the week. Tonight I messaged her and asked her what she was doing. She replied back that she wanted to hang out and needed a ride. Thanks to Tallahassee Lair Member Tallanasty for picking me up to get her and take me to the pre party

I pick her up and she’s looking cute dirty blonde hair and a nice little black dress on. She’s a 7.5 in my book. We get in the car and head to the pre party at Falcon’s frat house. Talked to her while she was in the back seat about catching up with everything in the time frame we missed each other….

Logistics

1. Pre Game
2. McDonald’s
3. Club
4. Walk back to pad

I didn’t have a car but luckily the venue was close to where I am staying. My plan was to walk with her there.

Started out at the frat house talking to everyone introducing her to Falcon and my other friends and interacting with other ppl. From there, we bounced to the party bus… I had some kino on but I made sure this time to start the sarge from scratch like the advice from my fellow Tallahassee Lair member.

1st Bounce

I made a promise to get her in for free at the venue, but my contact would be there later. Perfect time to bounce. She had hurt her hand so I told her I would take care of her and we could get some ice at McDonald’s… In there, I ran some solid kino, did the kids test off the palm read (sexualizing quicker now but calling her sexual from her relationship line), talked about my travels, and general vibing with the set…

She had some ice in the cup and was putting her hand it. She talked about how she’s clumsy and lights herself with cigarettes. ” I better stay away from you when you are lighting a cigarette!” I told her. She was laughing and kinoing my arm more…

Texted my promoter friend and he was @ the door of the venue Baja’s Beachclub.

2nd Bounce- Baja’s

My Original plan was to stay in the club for a brief period of time. My friend had a table with bottles in the best part of the club. Awesome set up may I add.. I was working a lot of pre-selection in the venue, because even after one year I still know a lot of people. I was introducing her to people left and right, making exits to talk to other people, and talking to other girls. Poured her drinks from the many bottles (DHV)

Highlights of Club Game-

Ran Questions Game- This turned the furnace on sexualizing the sarge. My first question was “Where is the craziest place you’ve had sex?” Her: at the frat house in the bathroom, Partners this year:3, Favorite position: Depends on size

As you can see, her responses showed she was a pretty sexual girl.

Bounce out of the club and back to the place

I had already seeded hookah back at the pad to which she was down for. The venue was near closing although still packed. We walk outside and I have her grab my arm and we walk back to where I am staying. She told me she needed to catch a ride home to go on a jog in the morning- she likes to exercise. I don’t have my car here so she would later call her roommate. Time constraints all over the place. Could I escalate in enough time?

In the pad

** She mentioned inside that I have changed since the last time we met. She said I have more confidence and that I looked like I was in more control. Looks like all the PUA stuff has changed me and she could tell.

Got her some water and we lit the hookah. My goal was to get her upstairs and sexualize it more. I had time on my hands as she texted her roommate to come get her pretty soon. After a few lights of the hookah, I tell her “I’m going to give you a tour of the place come with me.” I grab her hand and bring her upstairs.

Once in the room, we start making out and she’s keen. Then she says “Let’s go downstairs and finish the hookah.” Ok so we go back downstairs and she talks about how her roommate is on her way…

I had sexualized this before and I got her to agree to have sex with me.  I say to her ” Let’s have sex we don’t have much time.” She says, “I don’t usually have sex with guys on my period but ok.” Once upstairs, it was on. I cavemanned her and threw her on the bed and got on top of her to make out. From there, she grabs my cock and starts to give me head…  Then, she takes off the panties and I grab the condom.

Problems Getting it up

I think the alcohol I got for free all night impaired me (this normally doesn’t happen.) I couldn’t get it up for long after she was giving me head. I think the longest I fucked her was 5 minutes before going soft. I feel so ashamed and tell her it’s cuz of the alcohol. I could have gone in bareback, but I don’t take risks. She respected that.

We try a few more times to no avail. But, she wants to hang out again when we are sober… Her friend picks her up and I give her a kiss goodbye.

Lesson Learned: If you are on a Day 2 and you have a good chance of closing, don’t drink too much. The effects of alcohol can impair your judgment and also lead to having whiskey dick.

Things I need to work on

1. Even if the drinks are free, drink less

Things I did well

1. Getting her to agree to have sex with me and to hang out after not pulling the trigger a year and a half ago
2. SEXUALIZING the sarge from the get go…