We went downstairs to this Japanese place and looked at the menu. Turned out HB J-Style (26 years old) was from Kaohsiung and also studied Japanese. She was very interested in Japanese fashion. The two of us looked at different restaurants then we sat down for a minute. I looked at my phone and noticed that Bolo called. I gave him a call back right away, and found out that he had a package for me that I needed to mail out. HB J-Style offered to help out so we went over to Bolo’s place to pick up the stuff I needed to get. I thought to myself “Wow this girl is really friendly doing this for a stranger.”

Afterwards, we went over to mail out the package. I had already seeded dinner near my place since she was hungry. We took the MRT to my station which was Liuzhangli. I asked her “What do you want Western food or local food?” “Western food” she said. “I know just the spot” I told her. We walked over to Carnegie’s which was in the area. I actually forgot to get there so we had to walk back and forth for a little.

Carnegie’s is a nice chill pub to take girls too. I like to go there when I have a craving for Western food. HB J style said “It’s been a long time since I’ve had Western food so I’m excited about it.” I ordered us two drinks a Corona for my target and a San Miguel for me. For dinner, we ordered a Shepard Pie and Fish N Chips. During dinner, I found out that she had a boyfriend for one month. But, something told me inside to stick with it. I began seeding my place to watch movies and she mentioned how she had to get up early tomorrow for her first day on the job. “Wait, what time do you need to be home?” I asked her. She told me “Maybe 1AM or earlier than that if I’m tired.” We split the bill then left the venue.

We walked towards my place and she mentioned she was tired, but it looked like she was going to come over. I didn’t kino too much, but I did notice she was a bit resistant to my kino. Could that be a bad sign? We arrived to my place, and took the elevator up. She said something in Japanese before entering my place. We took off our shoes and went inside. Here’s where things get interesting. To be honest with you, I didn’t know if I would be able to close this chick tonight. The outcome was a bit of a surprise, and I’m going to let you in on what happened.

She looked around my place then sat down on my mattress, and took off her socks. One thing I learned from a previous LR, was that if a girl goes for the bed/mattress first stay in that spot. That is just what I did. I f**** things up by escalating too quickly instead of easing off. I touched her a bit, but she didn’t seem like she was into the kino. I put some music on my computer and later she asked me questions like “Do you always sleep with girls on the first night?” I responded with “I’ve slept with other girls before on the same night, but I had a connection with them. I think a connection can be formed quite early when meeting someone. I usually know pretty early when I’m interested in a girl.” She mentioned how she’s Christian and doesn’t do that kind of stuff anymore.

Anymore was the key word that let me know she’s probably slept with other guys on the same night before. She mentioned how she was ending her relationship with a guy while dating this current guy. I asked her when was the last time she’s had sex which was two days ago. I rolled out strawberry fields to frame her as sexual. I told her that “I’m a keeper of secrets and a story about it” to diffuse her bf talk. I framed myself as a “secret guy” then she laughed about it. The secret guy was used so that she can see our experience as fun… I did all of these things which helped me lead into sex. To be honest with you, I didn’t think this girl was down at the beginning of the sarge. She was very resistant to my kino.

What told me that she was DTF? It was the fact that she was lying down on my bed, and not leaving. I remember back in Korea when I thought this girl wasn’t keen because she kept resisting my advances. RPQ told me “She’s staying the night right?” she’s obviously keen. He said something to the extent of that. Anyways, HB J-style was still at my place and pretending to sleep on my mattress.

I cuddled under the blankets with her then started to kiss around her neck and lips. She slowly warmed up and before you know it she took off her pants. I turned off the lights, and we made out a bit more. She then asked me the golden question “Do you have a condom?” “Yes” I told her. I had grabbed one earlier. Eventually, I took off her top/bra then things lead into sex smoothly. When I took off her panties, she was very wet…

Wow is all I can say… Things were going against me here. She wasn’t really in the mood for sex, she had a boyfriend, and she claimed she didn’t do this kind of stuff anymore. However, I managed to close based on learning from previous experiences. Take this LR as an example that you can go out there and make s*** happen.

This was one of my last sets of the day as I was getting out of my subway. I noticed this really cute girl with long dark hair waiting for her subway. I asked her about how to get to the brown line, and she said “Here let me walk you.” Off we were to the brown line. What I liked about her was that she bt spiked well, and her English was also good. I think wearing the suit today gave me added value since she asked me “Are you here on business?” Like Bolo mentioned “The suit demands respect.” I missed my train purposely so I could chat with HB Engineering more. During that time, I set up a timebridge for this weekend to meet up with her. No msn’s and no business cards were given. It was just a phone number. “Alas I numberclosed” I thought to myself…

Sidenote- She lived in Australia for two years and had a bit of an Aussie accent.

Day 2

We set up the meet for today @ 4PM and I chatted with her during the week via MSN. I reconfirmed with her today for the meet, and it was on. When I saw her, I was like “Yes” this girl is cute. She was wearing a pretty white dress and long black stockings. That’s why I love day game because it gives you the best choice of women and you are also sober. No beer googles going on! As far as a logistical game plan, I didn’t really have one. That showed when I met her and she asked me where are we going to go and I hesitated saying “Ughh we can go to this area or another area…” She even asked me “Are you nervous?” I rebounded by picking an area for us to go.

The first thing I noticed was that she grabbed my arm. This has always been a good sign for me when a girl initiates the kino. Any others with this experience? We walked for a bit down this side street near my place, and I came across a nice cafe. We went inside and ordered some sandwiches and coffee. I found out that she was 29 and only had long-term relationships. Her longest relationship had been eight years and she also hadn’t been on a date for over a year. Her reasoning was that she worked too much. Regardless, she was out to meet me so I didn’t let that bother me.

Another thing, she had a curfew of 12AM. Her parents were the traditional/strict type she mentioned. You would think that a girl being 29 would not have a curfew, but that wasn’t the case. We chilled in the coffee shop for a bit, and she was even laying on my shoulder. The seat I got was in the front where two people could sit down together. This makes it better for kino since you don’t have to sit across from each other. She took off her shoes and was laying on my shoulder again then I told her “Let’s go outside.” She went to the bathroom and paid the bill then we were off. I had seeded my place for movies and she showed no resistance in coming to my place.

There was one last stop to the convenience store to grab us two beers which she also paid for. She mentioned she wasn’t much of a drinker and that was evident when her face was turning red after half a beer. We took the elevator up to my place. We sat down on the couch and I showed her some pictures that I printed from my travels. It’s good to incorporate pictures because you can add a story element with each one.

I threw on a travel video with Anthony Bourdain. After a bit of time watching it, I went for the k close while shod to have physical pictures because you can tell a story with each one. The kino was like it was from the cafe. I suggested watching a travel video at my place. After the video, she was laying on my shoulders. There was no resistance, and she was actually a great kisser. She had very nice lips!

I continued to make out then go back to the show a few times. I asked her about how many relationships she had and she told me four. Finally, she told me “It’s been a long time.” Referring to the last time she had sex. The interesting thing is that I didn’t even have to mention sex. She knew what it was leading to from there, and it was just a matter of leading on my part. I DID NOT get any resistance from her. I passionately started making out with her and took off her dress then she took off my shirt. She went to the bathroom shortly after then that’s when I moved to the mattress which was next to the couch.. It was more making out then I progressed to f-closing. It was my fault for not defining the context of the relationship because she asked me “Are we dating?” during sex. I told her “Yes.” I will need to be more clear about defining the relationship with girls I am sarging during Phase 2. We took a shower afterwards.

What I liked about this girl was that I was REALLY attracted to her. She had a very nice body and cute face. It’s good to go after girls that are 8′s or higher because when you are sarging them it makes your game stronger. I liked how she paid for everything and had a motherly nature about her. When we went to the night market later, she used tissue to clean my hands after I ate the food. We hung out till a little bit after her curfew then I got her on a cab home. I do plan on seeing this girl again. She’s a KEEPER

LS

On Friday, I was standing outside Room 18 with RedPoleQ and Latinstylez. RedPoleQ had called me in to help him wing. I did my thing and number closed the girl I was talking too. That set ended and I turned around and saw a girl with her hair up looking at me getting ready to leave. I waved goodbye absentmindedly and chatted with the guys. Then I felt someone tap me from behind. It was the girl I had waved goodbye too. She asked “Can I have your phone number?” Whoa, direct game. We exchanged numbers and she left.

The next day I gave her a call. She sounded sleepy and told me that she had gotten home at 10AM. This one is a party girl. She’s also a nurse and often works late nights. I set up a day 2 for coffee on Sunday because she had to go to work. It’s suppose to be a thyphoon day but hopefully the weather wouldn’t be too bad.

On Sunday, it’s raining hardcore. She texts messages me and suggest that we go watch a movie. I tell her to meet me at Dunhua. We meet up. She’s an hour late but hot damn! She’s got some big ol’ titties! I spin her causing her to giggle and we head to the coffee shops.

I pay for both of our coffees and we sit down. I run through my usual attraction routine. I show her different types of handshakes, we play thumbwar, run the cube, etc .

At one point, I tell her went to art school for 4 years and draw caricatures. When I was living in Barcelona I use to draw people pictures for beer money. Then I took out some paper and a pen and start drawing her. After a few minutes I show her my picture and reveal that I’ve drawn a stick figure. She laughs. I tell her to draw a picture of me looking like Superman. Then I took both pictures and made them talk to each other.

Picture of her: “Oh Bolo! You are so sexy! I must have you! *kiss*
*Made the two pictures kiss each other*

After roll playing for a bit, I seeded in going to the Hookah bar. We take off. I take her hand. Walked and talked for a bit. I asked about the tattoo on her back. Told her I wanted to get a giant Doreamon on my stomach.

We get to the hookah bar and I start telling her about my life adventures while applying different frames. I tell her about the time I wandered into a random bar in Seoul, realized it was a gay bar, and managed to hook two guys up. (Shows that I’m not judgemental about sex). Tell her the story about my sister going out with her boyfriend and I didn’t tell Mom. (Shows I can keep a secret). Then I ran the strawberry fields to frame her as someone who enjoys sex and taking what she wants.

I’ll admit that I’m super rusty with telling these stories. I stuttered and forgot exactly what to say and how to say it to get the response I want. Regardless, she still laughed.

While we were talking she just puts her head on my shoulder and we cuddle for a bit. I don’t find out too much about her. She doesn’t seem like the super talkative type. I mess around with her iPhone and look at all her pictures. Our conversation is winding down so I decided to seed in going to a DVD room. I ask her what type of movies she enjoys watching. Then I say “Let’s go watch a movie.” We bounce and she pays for the hookah and drinks.

I run the question game while we were walked. She’s had 5 lovers. The last time she had sex was 2 weeks ago. She likes rough, passionate sex. She’s dated foreigners before.

We get to the DVD room. I choose a random action movie and go watch it. I wait for a bit and then started caressing her hand. Then kiss her. Clothes off. No LMR. Nice.

This was an easy lay. I probably didn’t even need to do sexual framing with her. She was into me and the only thing I had to do was not say anything to stupid and to have my logistics down. I gotta say…I’ve never had a girl open me directly like she did. The total number of girls who have opened me at a club…I can count on one hand. It’s pretty cool. Makes me want to spend more time at the gym.

This is the first time I’ve closed a Filipina chick!!!

How I met her:

I was doing beach game for about an hour and opened a few sets. It wasn’t going all that great, and I decided that I would grab a few groceries then call it a day. While I was walking towards the grocery store, this really cute chick (5’0, nice body tone) passed me in a two piece blue bikini and red flip flops… I decided to turn around and I’m thankful I did. I said hi to her then asked for her name. She was really friendly and mentioned to me that she was just walking around. This was good because it let me know that she had some time to hang out. I asked her if she wanted to go grab some coffee and she said “sure.” She seemed a bit surprised, but we went for a walk on the beach.

I didn’t really have a logistics plan which I normally like to have, but the hell with it. She mentioned pretty early on that she had a boyfriend who was in the American military. I didn’t let the fact that she had a boyfriend affect me and the discussion would come up earlier. She also had one 5-year-old daughter that her mom and brother took care of. She was 25 years old. After a bit of walking on the beach, we sat down for a bit and just talked. I mentioned that we could head over to Bulabog Beach near where I’m staying. She didn’t hesitate about coming. First, we stopped by the grocery store so I could take care of my errand of the day. On the walk to Bulabog Beach her friend kept texting her. She asked me “Is it okay if my friend comes?” I told her “Your friend can join us later.”

We went over to the beach and checked out the kitesurfing. She asked about where I planned on taking my groceries, and I told her “ We can take it back to my place later.” That didn’t go well with her, and she didn’t want to come over at all… She was even walking away like she was going to leave. I should have given more plausible deniability about going back to my place, but I went direct so I had to deal with it. She calmed down for a bit, but her vibe seemed off. We sat down on a rock and looked at the beach. It was a bit quiet… Then something happened. There was light rain falling from the sky. I actually never said anything to calm her down it was the rain that calmed her down.

HB Filipina said I’m going to have to go home it’s raining.” I told her “Okay let’s go home.” I said this way and pointed to the right. We walked up the hill to my place and were followed by a gang of little kids who found me amusing. Saying “hello” and “Can you give me some money?” They followed us all the way back to my place and even said “See ya” mimicking me as I walked into my building.

Once in my building, I thought that the people at my property weren’t going to let my target in because she didn’t have her ID with her, but I just told her to continue walking up with me. I looked at them and said “She’s my guest.” We went inside my place and she was pretty impressed with the set up. She walked outside to look at the view of the place. I asked her if she wanted a drink and got her a Coke. We hung outside for a bit then went back inside. I put on some National Geographic and tried to kino more, but she resisted my attempts saying I’m too close and mentioning the boyfriend. Later, I ended up pouring her a few rum and cokes and we danced for a bit around the apartment when I played some music from my laptop. That loosened her up a bit. I eventually put my arm around her and then I neutralized the boyfriend by telling her that we’re both on vacation so we can live in the moment. Then I asked her “Do you like me?” And she said “Yeah, your cute.” That was the last time we talked about him.

A little bit later she asked if she could take a shower. And I got a scary movie that she wanted to watch. The movie was the new Nightmare on Elm Street which had a few spooks. After she got out of the shower, she went outside for a bit to dry her hair then came back inside and asked “Why did you turn off the TV?” I told her “We’re going to watch it on my computer come on to my room.” We lied on my bed and started to watch the movie. During the first scary scene, she jumped. She was laid on her back and I got on top of her and then started kissing onto her neck. It was pretty much game on from there. One last thing, she mentioned having a period. I tend to have a habit of closing new girls when they are on their periods. “I’ll get a towel” I told her, and that was the end of it.

I ordered some food after that and we finished watching the movie. She’s only going to be here one more day so I will try to see her before I leave. I got her contact info before she left my place. This lay I’m especially proud of because it was done during the same day.

LS

The meet-up

We exchanged a few messages online and set up a time to meet. While eating with Lumiere, she mentioned she was at the bar (Heckle and Jeckle) located in Makati (Manila) with her friend. I was surprised because she never mentioned bringing a friend but hey “What are wings for?” Lumiere and I head to the bar and I didn’t notice her so I sent her a text. This is funny because it went back and forth on text messages because she didn’t want to come inside the bar and meet me. She wanted me to come meet her. I asked Lumiere about it and he mentioned that I should have her meet me. So after some text exchange which included me mentioning that I’m watching my friend play pool and that she should come inside to meet me, she went into the bathroom then texted me because she didn’t know who I was. The funny thing is Lumiere and I checked her out as she was walking into the bathroom. She had a very nice body and was tall with high heels on.

She came out and greeted me. My initial impressions were that she was good-looking, good height (5’6 w/o heels) and friendly. She had a nice smile. She mentioned that her friend was outside so if we could join. Lumiere winged me and I established the vibe. Later, Lumiere left to sign up for a poker game. My target asked me questions about where I traveled, where I planned to travel, etc. She gave me that “eye.” Over time, I have developed a keen sense to tell when a girl is into me… I noticed they give this look at me when they are attracted to me. They also ask a lot of questions. We talked about Taiwan and I busted out some Chinese for her. “Ni hao ma (how are you)” “sheh sheh (thanks)” , and “Piao Liang.” (Cute) She laughed at my Chinese… The whole time here I made sure to have light kino.

After, we went inside to watch Lumiere play poker. Lumiere wasn’t that into the friend so he went off. This was good because my target’s friend was bored and eventually left. Now, this left me with my target. I had mentioned going to the club, but at this point I wasn’t going to go there. I had a good opportunity here. She lives by herself (company paid apartment). Essentially I could set myself up with the proper logistics. I didn’t have a private room at my hostel so my gameplan was to end up at her place. How I was going to do that? I still had to figure out.

I suggested we go to a lounge in the area. At this point the kino was pretty good and she said the only lounge she knew was near her place in the Makati area. We grabbed a cab after walking around looking for a lounge .(shouldn’t have done that should have just gone straight to the one near her place) Remember to check the meter which I had the cab driver put it on. It seems like they hold off on putting the meters in the cab.

We went to this nice lounge in her area that served Bacardi cuba libre’s. I began to step up the kino now that we were in an isolated location.

Here’s the main gist from this venue
1. She had a bf (Indian Portuguese guy) for 5 years was single
2. I basically told her that I’m staying at her place tonight and I’ll cook for her another time.

By me telling her that I was going to her place, was a direct move. This was good because if I would have tried to go to her place after leaving the venue it could have made it difficult for me to bounce there. Afterwards, we left for her place. It was a really nice company paid apartment with a nice view of the area. We had some beer (I was pretty tipsy at this point so I had some water too) and I stepped up the kino a bit. Most of the time was chitchat for a bit… Later, I went for the kiss on the neck and she didn’t resist. I escalated past making out then told her “Let’s go to your room.” She said ok… I played some music for us on my Ipod. On the bed I ran strawberry fields and she had a low fence, lots of strawberries , and said “thank you” to the farmer. Strawberry fields is good to use when sexual framing. At that point, I escalated to more make-out then pulled the D-move. Dimmed the lights later. It was game on from there.

In the morning, she had to go meet a friend who rescheduled to meet her later in the afternoon. I looked out the window and thought to myself “It feels good to be in Manila.” She made me some cereal we watched some of America’s Next Top Model on her flat screen TV. We left the apartment later and took the elevator down and went outside. She left me with a parting present a huge hickey on my neck ☹

Welcome to the Philippines, Latin

I was recently asked by Diablo from the Korea Lair to break down Korean women and Taiwanese women. Here are his questions:

Hola Latinstylez, como estas? I got a question, how do T-girls square up against K-girls in terms of how easy it is to score them, possibility of getting SDLs or SNLs, logistics, etc. I’m planning a trip to Taiwan on Lunar New Year, and I’d like to see what’s the biz over there. Thanks for the help. Any advice or suggestions on Taiwan, sightseeing and sarging would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.

Diablo

Hope you enjoy the post.

As far as your question, I think there are some differences between Taiwanese girls and Korean girls. I wouldn’t necessarily say that’s its”easier” to sarge in Taiwan, but there are definitely some positives in Taiwan. There are also some disadvantages which I will mention.

1. The girls tend to speak better English-

This was witnessed when I got over a paragraph in a text messages and also having long conversations while on Day 2′s. I am not saying that every girl in Taiwan speaks amazing English, but overall the English level is better than Korea. That’s a relief since I do not speak Chinese. I think that conversations with girls in Taiwan are more interesting. Many of the Taiwanese girls I have talked to had a lot to talk about.

2. Closing Taiwanese women-

This is a tough one since last time I was here I closed like 3 girls in the span of two weeks. The three girls I closed two of them were from online game and one of them was an SNL that I met from night game. This time around I closed one girl (from online game) in the span of three weeks, but I am still working on my pipeline of women until my departure. I would say that Taiwanese women are more passive in terms of giving you “hints” to escalate. I think Korean girls were much more forward about their feelings. For example, if they thought you were good looking they would tell you straight up. Also, if they had something on their mind I found that they would let you know. For example, the last girl I closed in Korea told me straight up that she would pay for some dates and asked if I would pay for others. I had no problem with that and respect that she would was upfront about it. I think this can be the fact that Taiwanese girls aren’t forward (more passive) with their feelings can be good and bad. Good because you can continue to escalate and not meet any resistance along the way. Bad because you kind of don’t know where you are because she hasn’t given you many IOI’s. The IOI’s in Taiwan tend to be much less which took me some time to get used to. As far as level of difficulty, I would think Taiwan would be better for foreigners because there isn’t a negative stigma towards foreigners in Taiwan like Korea. However, I still think that if you hit it hard enough in Korea you can meet those girls that are DTF with foreigners. Korea is much more of a numbers game. In Taiwan, it’s less of a numbers game. I will talk more about this in my night game analysis.

3. SNL’s-

You know my style of game is more for Day 2 closes… But, I did have an SNL from a bar on my last visit to Taiwan. Most of my closes in Korea were Day 2+… I think from night game your chances of getting an SNL are much [b]stronger in Taiwan…

4. The Night game in Taiwan

Here’s where there is the advantage factor. In Korea, I’d go out and open like 15 sets in one night and walk out of the venue with like 3 or 4 number closes. I’d get back to them and maybe I’d get a few replies. It is totally the opposite in Taiwan. I’ve been going out here consistently opening less sets and meeting girls for Day 2′s. It’s beautiful. The other night I went to this Bar called Barcode and opened 1 set… We talked for like 15 mins… The next day I already had a Day 2 lined up with her. Korea is much more challenging in the nightgame factor DEFINITELY!

5. The Daygame in Taiwan

Here’s where I rate Korea higher. I used to live in Gangnam, Seoul. I love that place so much… I would open lots of sets during the week sometimes 15 or so sets a day and I would consistently have dates lined up. This was much more effective than night game in Korea. However, in Taiwan I haven’t experienced the daygame like Korea. Gangnam had a constant influx for street, coffee shop, subway game, the bookstore, etc… In Taipei, I haven’t had that luxury. The sarge areas I’ve found are smaller and not as large as Gangnam…

For example, the coffee shops in Taipei are much smaller than the ones in Korea. If you open one set, chances are everyone in the coffee shop will see you and it will make it pointless if you want to open another set. Additionally, the bookstore Eslite has open space so if you want to open sets everyone will see you. In Korea (Kyobo Bookstore), the sections were set up so if you did open not everyone would stare at you.

I think in the future I’m going to focus more on night game in Taipei.

If you do wanna do daygame, go to Zhongxiao Dunhua (hot fashionable girls) and Main Station MRT Station (constant influx of people).

6. Text Messaging

In Korea, girls text all the time. You can see them on the subway texting their friends… I thought that the girls in Korea were much more text compliant than Taiwan. While in Korea, I would receive messages right away after meeting girls. Text compliance in Taiwan is not a good indicator if a girl is into you because many times you will receive messages later on in the day. I think people here prefer making phone calls. I talked to one of my Taiwanese pivots about it and she said that she prefers calling people…

7. Sightseeing

I am traveling around Taiwan at the moment. I will update my blog and check it out for some city reports.

Check out Taipei 101, Shida Nightmarket (Taipower Building MRT Station- also its near where the university pubs are), and Longshan Temple.

8. Nightlife

Clubs:

Luxy- Zhongxiao Dunhua

Room 18- Warner Village Area (Near 101)

Bars:

Roxy 99-This venue is awesome. The girls here are really eager to meet foreigners.

University area ( my SNL was from there and I had a Day 2 from there with a really cute chick) http://www.latinstylez.com/lr/

Brass Monkey’s- Not a bad pub/ Lots of expats but the sets are easy to open

Carnegeis- Close to Liuzhangli MRT Station

Has a Crazy Hour from 6-7PM and Happy Hour till 9PM

Ladies Night- Wednesday’s

Lounges-

Barcode- Very good lounge, but be warned it is a lot of social circle. I opened a nice set in that venue. It’s a good place to pre-game.

Overall

I think both countries are great. I think Korea is tougher than Taiwan because of the view of foreigners and the difficulty of night game there. That is not necessarily a bad thing though. I worked hard for all my closes in Korea(and also shifted into other forms of game like doing more day game) and in the long run it helped me develop into a better pick up artist.

This is my first close since coming back to Taiwan and it feels good. Before I left Korea, I hit a pretty nice hot streak closing a few girls. When I came to Taiwan, I thought to myself “Oh it’ll be pretty easy to get the next close.” Well, I was wrong. I met a lot of girls during the last three weeks here and I pulled a good amount back to my place, but they weren’t DTF. I even had one chick I pulled back the other night that I made out with, but when it came time to progressing past the make out she said “I can’t do this.” She left after that as I escorted her outside. This similar situation happened the day after that when a girl I met from night game I brought back and we made out… Then I went to escalate past the make out (Day2 planned Day3) and she stopped herself again. She told me she had to go so I walked her to the MRT Station. This can do a lot to your psyche when you go through these rough patches. You start to think to yourself “When will it end?”

Finally, it ended last night! This was a Day 3 close that I met from online game.

The Day 2

HB Smiles and I met at the MRT Station and went over to Carnegies which is a local pub in the area. She had a good vibe and bright smile. Her English was also really good since she lived in the States for a bit. I got this from Lumiere since he asks chicks “What do you think of Taiwanese guys?” I decided to give it a try and she mentioned their ok, but she liked American/Western guys since living in the States. Here’s where the title of the LR comes into play. I asked HB smiles when she would be free and she mentioned Saturday and Sunday was busy. I also tried to seed my place that night but she had to wake up early for work in the morning. So I asked her how about Friday “Sure, I don’t have any plans then.” I had some logistical things to cover she lives far away, but I neutralized that by telling her she doesn’t have to work the next day.

The Day 3

We met for the Day 3 and things picked up where they left off. My original bounce location had no seats so I chose this Japanese spot near my place. The music wasn’t that great, but I just carried the convo the entire time. Mental note- DO not to use this venue next time. The best venues have dim lights and good music ( I prefer house music or Top 100) Afterwards, I mentioned we were gonna get desert in the area. Grabbed some to go/went by the convenience store (beers) near my place. I had already seeded watching movies at my place so there weren’t any issues coming in. I did have Lumiere crashing with me which I’ll mention that story later…

Once inside, I showed her my pics from my travels and had light kino. We also talked about previous relationships. I escalate a bit quicker this time because I wasn’t getting any resistance from her. I think every girl is different. Some girls you can escalate quickly with and they won’t say anything as you escalate those types are my favorite. There are other girls that throw minor resistance, but you can get through it by using push pull and “keeper of secrets, hero story” can help… Then there are the types that will give u lots of resistance (these can be the most challenging.) My target fell into the no resistance category all I had to do was shift things to end up on my bed so I could escalate. We went from the desk to the couch then the couch to my mattress to watch a movie. I started kissing her early on, but I kept pulling away when I saw she was enjoying it. Once on the bed, I worked the neck then took off her clothes. There was no resistance along the way. The funny thing is Lumiere and I had some miscommunication and he knocked on the door as I was fucking her… Pretty funny. Remember to check wing communication if you are sharing an apartment.

I attribute this lay to making a date adjustment with her. Since I am only here on vacation, it’s best to get the dates you will meet girls on squared away. I was able to do that. Hopefully I’ll have more fun stories to tell you on my travels around Taiwan…

LS

A few days ago someone asked me what my style of game was… which is a really interesting question and after I thought about it I realized my style of game is actually a lot different than most guys in the community, so with that taken into consideration here is a brief article on it.

Before I point out the trends in most of my lay reports and successful dates, it is important for everyone to realize that correlation is not causation, which by Wikipedia definition “is a phrase used in science and statistics to emphasize that correlation between two variables does not automatically imply that one causes the other.” Basically how this relates to my game is that I believe that just because I performed some action (preceding some pick-up “goal”) and then achieved that goal doesn’t mean that it was that particular action that necessarily caused that success, SO it is important throughout your journey of pick-up to never assume “this happened because of this” relationships.

For example, back in early 2009 I was running the M3 model and had some success, but that doesn’t mean the M3 model was necessarily what caused that success; it was likely just my social status, and because I had an abundance of it at the time the women probably overlooked the incongruent lines I was spilling and just wanted to be with a very “high status” guy.

For another example, if a really good-looking man types lay reports then you might be tempted to do whatever HE is doing to get laid… while what he’s doing actually has nothing to do with why he’s getting laid; he’s just a good looking dude sleeping with women who might be shallow, easy, or ugly and confusing everyone on a message board when the other members try the same things and then get confused when those things don’t work for them.

It took a long time for me to realize and really understand this concept and having this perception and being willing to admit that there is no “magic solution” to having success with any woman I want is one of the first things that has made me successful.

This brought me to the realization that no two women are the same, therefore no two pick-ups or lays will ever be very similar either because WOMEN ARE DIFFERENT. For example, if a woman who is a 5 approaches every guy who visits this website at a nightclub and says, “Hey wanna get out of here and fuck?” some guys would say NO and some guys would say YES. Does it make her good at picking up guys in general? Yep. Does that make her good at picking up the guys she wants? Nope. And she could probably sell a book on her “method” that will get other women laid, but that doesn’t mean she actually knows how to pick up one PARTICULAR man because she hasn’t treated them as individuals.

I listen to women when they talk and treat them as individuals. Rather than thinking of the next line or routine to use, I often capitalize on silence by thinking, “Hmm is this the type of woman who might go home with me tonight or is she the kind I’ll need to wine & dine first?” and deciding how to react to her reactions (some call it social intuition) is one thing that makes me successful. If a woman seems down to fuck on the same night, it would be STUPID to get her number and set up a date. Similarly if she seems like the relationship type then it would be stupid to try to sleep with her that same night. Because we men are logical machines and most comfortable with logical solutions, the seduction community showers guys with generic lines and routines but never emphasizes that you have to LISTEN to women and understand them as individuals in order to lead in an effective manner, and I feel that understanding that all women are individuals and listening to them is one thing that contributes to my success and also the success of my friends who are naturals.

Social status. Statistically, social status continues to be a trend in the majority of my same night lay, and it is often as SIMPLE as just having a mutual friend and sometimes even be as simple as her SEEING me briefly talk with some of MY friends. I don’t know WHY social status is so powerful and maybe someone is nerdy enough to research it but it just IS and something I capitalize on. It could possibly be effective because social status demonstrates that you are a social human being and have meaningful relationships with other people. At the peak of my nightlife job I was experimenting with stupid lines that would never work for most people and still had success with many women just because of who I was and what I was known for in the nightlife community (demonstration of very high social status). Nowadays I don’t have that crutch anymore, however what I do have are friends who know friends who know friends (a large social network) and when I hang out with them or bump into them during the day, at work, at house parties, at the club or wherever, there is usually an opportunity to meet NEW people who can introduce me to someone else and USUALLY there will be a hot girl somewhere along the line I get introduced to and have immediate social status.

For an example, on a recent Friday night I met a woman at a local nightclub and had sex less than three hours later at my place without even knowing her name. Before approaching her she probably saw me talking with someone (with social status) who knew her and before our interaction we already had a commonality (mutual friends). By seeing me with someone she had rapport with or who she knew had social status, she could INSTANTLY trust me more than most of the other guys at that venue.

Another example, when I used to work at a retail clothing store I met a lot of pretty girls and when we went out they introduced me to their friends and I slept with a few of them with minimal “game”. They just assumed I was a great guy by what other people said about me.

Another thing that has been consistent with my success in 2010 is honesty: honesty to MYSELF about my strengths and weakness, and honesty to others (particularly women) about who I am and how I feel towards them. Everyone has God-given and self-accumulated strengths and weaknesses and it is important to accept those and go out to meet women with an understanding of that. If you go out with a false sense of overconfidence then you aren’t going to be yourself and women are going to pick up on that. If you have confidence from your accomplishments, which is totally different, it will come off as extremely attractive to women and they will pick up on that also whether you actually mention those accomplishments or not. My relationship mentor Speed C owns his own business and is very financially successful, and although he is very modest about it, people can instantly tell that he is a genuinely successful person and before meeting his serious girlfriend he was having success with new women like wildfire.

Honesty to others is also important and possibly the underlying principle of “direct game”. Women have to deal with a lot of dishonest guys and it can be refreshing to meet a guy who is completely honest. Whether it be opening direct or throwing out a statement of intent some time in the interaction, being honest about who I am and my feelings towards women has always been a commonality in my new lays, successful dates, and relationships.

Leading is absolutely necessary with the majority of women. Women want to be WANTED and the way you show that is by showing them that you want them by leading. If you think that one day a woman will approach you, tell you you’re sexy, and suggest you go back to her place, she is probably either a prostitute or you’re head is up in fairy land.

And to quote Kenny Powers, “These are the hard realities, guys. Life is not a fairy tale, although sometimes it feels like our world is full of fairies…”

For example, Friday night when I pulled that same night lay, I led her around to about 5 different parts of the club and at the end of the night told her to come back to my place and she did. If I were some guy following most “game” rules by talking about stupid chick stuff, boring her trying to build attraction or comfort, or being overly playful all night like her GIRL FRIENDS probably do than it would not have happened.

Having fun. Every time I go out I am in a good mood and having fun, EVEN if I did not want to go out at first and my friends dragged me out of the house, because by the time I am at ANY place where hot women are present I am instantly excited which results in fun behavior, and that comes from having a genuine love for women. You have to love women in order to pick them up. We have all had bad experiences with women but that doesn’t mean that they are ALL like that. Most of us have actually had quite a few AWESOME experiences with women also and focusing on that positivity makes it FUN to go out and meet new ones! Before you go out hoping to meet women it might help to VISUALIZE your past success or meeting a super hot woman and her being super into you. Those visualizations alone will motivate you to go out and have fun and expect good results.

Some people say, “Being a dancing monkey won’t get you laid.” That is true SOMETIMES. Some people say, “Don’t drink when you go out because it will impair your thinking.” The last thing I want to be doing when I go out at night to have FUN is to be THINKING all the time like I’m trying to work a calculus problem or something. Sometimes I end up drinking too much and/or having so MUCH fun I DON’T get laid, which is FINE because I did have a good time anyway. Most naturals have the same mindset and are totally cool with going home alone if they had a fun night anyway. Pick-up should never be taken so seriously that you have to follow certain “rules” and every night is a win or a loss. If you had FUN that night then that should have been a successful night!

In fact, many nights I go out to meet women I dance like an idiot, drink a lot, and DO end up having success. I actually find it hilarious that Friday night I had to stop kissing the girl at one point because all the alcohol made me dizzy. Saturday night I ended up drinking a lot also and singing songs with one of my guy friends outside the club like an idiot and DIDN’T have much success, but both nights I had fun and didn’t take the outcome of the night too seriously, despite different outcomes. So the most important thing here is that whatever your idea of fun is, do it and forget whatever “rules” the seduction community says you should have that might prevent a good time.

So in summary, here is my “style” of game: Understand that correlation is not causation, treat women as individuals and listen to them, demonstrate social status, be honest, lead, and have fun. And always wear a condom =]

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I haven’t been posting lately and this is because I have been going through a transformation since my bootcamp. I’ve been out constantly sarging and bettering my game…

An interesting thing happened this week. You know when I started pick up I ran social circle and alot of nightgame… I have run day game some of the time, but this week I went through a realization.

I ran a street pickup and bounced the hb to a coffee shop. I was able to close her on the Day 3 it could have been a Day 2 close, but there were time constraints. The sarge was done entirely during the day. From opening to closing it was run during the day.

Now, I am more determined than ever to improve my day game. Street game probably has the lowest probably of the different types of day game. However, I find street game the most exciting

There’s so many things going on with my game right now but the main focus on this post is day game.

Day Game Tips:

1. High traffic areas- make sure to hit up high traffic areas since this has the most amount of people and potential sets to open

2. Street Game- although street game is an area I am improving I have noticed if you move the sarge quickly (kinoing early, locking in, bouncing) you can have a higher rate of success

3. Bookstores- bookstores are a great place to game during the day. One thing I have done lately is take hb’s to the travel section of the bookstore and pick out the place they would most like to travel to. From there, we sit down and look through the pictures in the book (good for kino). Also, you can bounce around other areas of the bookstore.

4. Coffee shops- these are good as well. Make sure not to talk to the hb’s from a standing position for a long time.

**Know your bounce locations during the day. You never know when you will have a set that will go well. Then, if you don’t know your bounce locations, you will be walking around looking. This is not good trust me I have been there.

Don’t be afraid to kino during the day either. Kino’ing was one of my weaker areas after my bootcamp, but I have gotten my kino calibration tighter now. Kino works well after your bt spikes…

A few tips for day game. Keep on Sarging!

By the way, the new David Guetta cd is hott!

It covers gaming in Lima, Peru.