Pissed Off Asian

Hey guys. Bolo here. As some of you may know, I’m an Asian guy. Some of our non-Asian readers may be asking, “So what?” Well I’m tell you…being an Asian guy in the dating world can be tough. All around us we see Asian girls with all types of guys…white, black, brown…but we don’t see Asian men with other races. Why is this? I use to blame the media, family upbringings, Asian tradition…But blame is useless and took the power out of my hands. So I began my PUA journey…3 years later and my life has changed. Nowadays, it’s easy for me to go out and get girls.

Then I came across Asian Dating Super Stars….This is the resource I wish I had starting out. It’s a dating product designed especially for Asian men. My man Ryker Koh has brought together the best Asian PUAs together to share their secrets. This is something I wish I had when I first started getting into Pick Up. I caught up with Ryker…

Ryker Koh Interview

1. Tell Us A Little About Yourself And How You Got Into Pickup

Hey my fellow Asian readers, my name is Ryker and I entered pickup and seduction by complete and total accident. I first decided to aggressively improve this area of my life after I witnessed the phenomenal success of one Asian friend of mine.

This Asian dude was just a ordinary, confident yet somewhat quiet guy, but when it came to talking to women, he was a freaking beast with women. This guy was absolutely sick.

He was one of those guys who was born with pin-point precise natural ability to just enter a conversation with just about any girl he met and get her attracted in minutes. And he wasn’t even doing any magic tricks, any NLP patterns, any direct-game. Heck, this was back in 2000 before the community was famous.

All this guy did was talk about plain, simple stuff like hobbies and her life, and his life and fashion and entertainment, just about pretty normal stuff. But man, did these girls stick to him like bees to a honey.

And all the time, I stood there wondering, man, these topics he talks about are plain as peas and even sometimes about as interesting as watching grass grow but how the heck was he getting all these crazy results.

So I cornered the guy and decided to ask him and the thing was this dude had no idea what he was doing right, so everytime I started asking him for advice, he would squint and look really confused and feed me pretty feeble advice like “Just be natural, just be cool” which thinking back now, was precisely what he was doing. But because I was so way off the mark in my own skills, I still wound up getting no success.

And it was until I began aggressively studying and practicing “live” in the field, crashing and burning multiple times before I actually got good. But every since I was young, I have been blessed with a pretty thick skin, so even though I was humiliated and left embarrassed more than a few times, I licked my emotional wounds and soldiered on.

Now, all the time, I had another group of Asian friends who were also studying pickup and these guys really bought just about every course on the market. And these guys were really studious, they flooded their brains with pickup theory and could recite routines backwards in their sleep.

But their dating lives were still disappointing. No love, no girls and they still led pretty sad and lonely lives.

So one day, I asked them – “Yo guys, you have been studying this stuff for close to 2 years now, why do you still go home to a dark, empty house and sleep in your bed alone every night?”

And then, slowly, they began revealing a lot of limiting beliefs they had about being Asian, the whole Asian culture, Asian parents, Asian upbringing and as they did so, I winced and felt their pain because I too am Asian, and I had to overcome these same issues too.

And I thought to myself – hey, it’s time for the Asian man to stop feeling sorry and pathetic for himself. It’s time to get some respect, hence I created Asian Dating Superstars.

2. Why do you think Asian men have such a hard time dating and can’t get white girls? And why do Asian girls always seem to go with white guys?

This is a freaking awesome question.

Now let me break this down.

Why do Asian men have such a hard time dating?

Here’s the 3 biggest reasons.

Firstly, they spend too much time worrying and fearing that girls will mock them and dislike them straight away because they are Asian. No kidding, before they walk up, they feel the girls are already against them.

Now, most guys I know have 2 reactions to this. The first group decideds to resign himself to this sad fate and they slink away into the darkness, too afraid to approach. The second react in anger and outrage, and they approach over-aggressively, like they have a point to prove, and therefore scare the poor girl off.

Both positions assume an immediate “under-dog” mindset – that being Asian is some limitation to overcome.

Now most Asian guys feel this way because the media has been a total asshole and has flooded movies with a ton of negative Asian male stereotypes. Asians in movies are either the loser who is teased and mocked at by guys and girls alike, or the kungfu master who spends the whole show kicking ass and mouthing heavily-accented Chinese.

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Both of which are not the most attractive of male characters.

And prolonged watching of this Hollywood garbage means that most Asian guys have slowly assimilated this poisonous identity. Add to that the very lack of positive Asian male stereotypes and you have a growing generation of Asian men who think that being nerdy and geeky is the meaning of being Asian, which is a bunch of horsecrap.

Now the whole Asian upbringing by our parents and the whole Asian culture as an entity is such that we value obedience, harmony and respect, more than being vocal, over-expressive and opinionated.

Most Asian guys reading this know that when you are young and you decide to get too cocky, your boldness is not praised but immediately punished with a slap across the face.

After a while, you learn that the best way to live is to be quiet, be obedient and not say too much. We play it safe, we don’t over-step the boundaries, and we work hard – which is all and good, but it is absolutely destructive when you bring that attitude to meeting women.

The common complaint white girls and even just girls have in general about Asian guys are they are just too quiet, too stoic, too non-expressive. They sit in the corner, have barely nothing to say, just stare at the girl and after a while, the girl is either creeped out or she just plain overlooks you and thinks you are transparent.

Heck, sometimes she might even forget your name, and that you even existed. And that sucks.

Finally, as a culture, Asian guys are born thinking and analyzing a lot more. Just look at the number of computer scientists, engineers and mathematicians we produce as a culture, we are born analytical and we can break things down quickly.

Asian men vs. White men

Now, while that’s good for getting through college, that sucks for talking to girls because most Asian guys spend the whole time, plotting their next move like playing Chinese Chess. They try to over-think the interaction, second-guess the girl when they should be paying attention to her.

The end result is the conversation gets awkward, or the girl just feels she is ignored and that you are not paying attention to her and she walks off in an angry puff, leaving you there standing all alone with your drink in your hand.

Now why do Asian girls go with white guys? It’s not a race issue, I am not going to over-generalize here because I know there are Asian girls who are only into white guys but most Asian girls as a whole have no specific preference.

They are just into confident guys who make them feel good. And since Asian guys are not doing as good a job as white guys, Asian girls naturally pick the next best alternative.

As a culture, Asian guys should stop hating on white guys for “stealing” Asian women, neither should we be hating for Asian women for being “traitors” and “sleeping with the enemy”. It’s precisely that kind of thinking that leads to Asian guys struggling and failing with women.

3. What are some things Asian men can do to improve their dating lives?

Great question again. Here’s what I suggest Asian guys do.

Firstly, the only and best way to break a a stereotype in your head is to find a strong role-model, so dominant and so completely different that just watching or listening to him completely and permanently smashes all limiting beliefs you ever had.

When you feel such a role model, so strong, so capable, so full of confidence and ability and you hear his stories, his thoughts and listen to him talk, you will immediately realize that all you once believed was false, and that being Asian is not a handicap, and that Asians can get good with women.

In my product Asian Dating Superstars, I don’t just provide you with one role model – I provide you with 12!

No kidding, 12 Asian guys who have had to rise from deeper ashes than most probably all the Asian readers reading this right now.

Some of them had to endure more shame, teasing, mocking, racist Asian comments than you can ever imagine, but each of them rose above these to become successful.

So when you listen to their stories and their thoughts, you begin to think – hey these guys are Asian, they understand how I feel but they too manage to succeed, maybe I can do this after all!

And you bet they understand how you feel, because they have the same, (if not deeper) emotional scars to prove it – and having walked the path you have walked, they can fix your issues faster than anyone else can.

The next important thing is to understand that reality can definitely be shifted and changed, but ONLY if you know how.

A lot of Asian guys have gone through their entire lives so far with no success with girls, and they automatically assume it’s lights out and game over for them. They assume they are destined to die single, and that no girl will even take a fancy to them.

WRONG!

Look, the 12 Asian dating coaches on my product each started in about the same bad shape as most Asian guys. Rejected left and right, girls avoiding them or toying with them before breaking their hearts, they have all been there.

But look where they are now, the same guys who used to laugh at them are now their students. You can be just as successful if you know how.

What I have done with Asian Dating Superstars is gotten them to reveal their own personal journey and transformation, and the very best of their personal learnings – and along the way, shatter every single one of the common limiting beliefs most Asian guys have that prevents them from succeeding.

Quite a few Asian guys carry a ton of emotional baggage when it comes to meeting and attracting women and you bet the women can sense it. They can smell if you have low-esteem, if you are afraid, if you don’t think much of yourself.

The key is after listening to the Asian Dating Superstar series, you will learn to drop a lot of this emotional baggage you’ve been carrying for so long, and begin to feel better about being an Asian male, regardless of what your past history is.

It’s like that strange moment of total clarity when you realize that yes, I can actually do this and you feel absolute self-confidence.

And one final piece of advice is this. You have to take risks.

Quit being too safe, too obedient, there are times when there is an opportunity you want right in front of you, and you have to squash everything else and go and grab it.

Screw being obedient all the time, sometimes when fear pops up, you gotta kick it in the balls and just charge forward to get what you want. You gotta be bigger than your fear.

Go do it, and don’t think. Who cares what they think? Please yourself first, and if you really want to do something, go ahead and do it, without fear or need of approval.

In Asian Dating Superstars, I get the 12 Asian coaches to reveal how they used highly-effective techniques to re-wire their previously negative and harmful thinking, and enable them to achieve great confidence with women.

With this, you will learn how to get in touch with your natural masculine self and build unstoppable confidence. The fears and insecurities you had previously will melt away and you will find that your hands stop shaking, your teeth stop chattering and you stop shivering or stammering when you talk to girls.

You will be more expressive, more fluid and more natural.

I have not seen any other program out there this specific for the Asian population. I am Asian and I have been in the dumps before, girls rejecting me like I was invisible and transparent so I know exactly how Asian guys feel.

I am going to go one step further and say this – if you want to stop being rejected by women, stop feeling insecure about being Asian, stop leaving parties and social events feeling shitty and disappointed with your lack of confidence, you will find the solution right here.

Do it for yourself. You deserve it this time.

It’s time for Asian men to stop feeling sorry for themselves and to dust themselves up and get the respect we have always deserved, both as an individual and as a culture.

And I feel the journey begins here.

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Pay attention to class students!

Two types of game exist in a college atmosphere – both of which I feel are important to master: cold approach game and social circle game. Most PUA’s are fluent in methods and strategies of cold approach game – which essentially focuses on closing a new girl as soon as possible. The quicker you close, the quicker she will backwards-rationalize sleeping with you and essentially put the future direction of the relationship in your hands, so it is important to close as soon as possible. Many naturals are skilled at social circle game and are able to close “friends-of-friends” by unconsciously running basic attraction spikes/switches. With most of the local night clubs in college towns heavily populated with social circles, it is important to learn the skills to effectively gain access to these “tribes” for pre-selection purposes.

Cold approaching in college can be divided into two categories – day game and night game. Day game is extremely effective due to the non-threatening environment and opportunity to quickly isolate without dealing with obstacles or interrupts. The best venues for day game in a college atmosphere are campus, shopping malls, and book stores. On campus, the best time to sarge is in the late afternoon when classes are almost over near dorms and basic class buildings. I typically run situational openers that allow me to say something funny and spike BT right away. After that a bounce or #close comes easy.

In shopping malls, the best places to sarge are retail clothing stores and the food court. I typically bounce girls from there to a restaurant bar then my place for hookah and if kino has been effectively escalated throughout the process, the same day close comes easily. The best venues for night game are the most exclusive and expensive clubs because they typically have the hottest girls, the lowest noise levels, and are the least crowded – which essentially provides optimal logistics.

Great social circle game skills will not only give you instant social proof in large social circles such as sororities, but also save you thousands of dollars in cover charges, allowing you to go out more often and reach a higher level of success in a shorter period of time. Working my way up the social ladder and becoming a club promoter saves me an average of $15/night, 7 days/week, which saves over $400/month and allows me to open around 140 sets/week (at night) opposed to the practically affordable 40 sets/week.

Once both styles of college game have been optimized and calibrated effectively, you will be closing more beautiful women than you ever imagined.

-Falcon (Leader of the Tallahassee, FL, USA Lair)

Want to approach her? You can.

I haven’t been posting lately and this is because I have been going through a transformation since my bootcamp. I’ve been out constantly sarging and bettering my game…

An interesting thing happened this week. You know when I started pick up I ran social circle and alot of nightgame… I have run day game some of the time, but this week I went through a realization.

I ran a street pickup and bounced the hb to a coffee shop. I was able to close her on the Day 3 it could have been a Day 2 close, but there were time constraints. The sarge was done entirely during the day. From opening to closing it was run during the day.

Now, I am more determined than ever to improve my day game. Street game probably has the lowest probably of the different types of day game. However, I find street game the most exciting

There’s so many things going on with my game right now but the main focus on this post is day game.

Day Game Tips:

1. High traffic areas- make sure to hit up high traffic areas since this has the most amount of people and potential sets to open

2. Street Game- although street game is an area I am improving I have noticed if you move the sarge quickly (kinoing early, locking in, bouncing) you can have a higher rate of success

3. Bookstores- bookstores are a great place to game during the day. One thing I have done lately is take hb’s to the travel section of the bookstore and pick out the place they would most like to travel to. From there, we sit down and look through the pictures in the book (good for kino). Also, you can bounce around other areas of the bookstore.

4. Coffee shops- these are good as well. Make sure not to talk to the hb’s from a standing position for a long time.

**Know your bounce locations during the day. You never know when you will have a set that will go well. Then, if you don’t know your bounce locations, you will be walking around looking. This is not good trust me I have been there.

Don’t be afraid to kino during the day either. Kino’ing was one of my weaker areas after my bootcamp, but I have gotten my kino calibration tighter now. Kino works well after your bt spikes…

A few tips for day game. Keep on Sarging!

By the way, the new David Guetta cd is hott!

I’m going to be breaking my Day 2 or insta bounce Fr’s and LR’s a bit different now. I will be using it running the M3 Model and a step by step basis of what I did with the set. If you don’t know the M3 Model, then I suggest looking over it before reading my FR’s.

Intro

I’m in Tallahassee for the weekend to visit.I met with the Local Lair guys Falcon and a newbie.  I decide on heading to a good Cuban restaurant in town, but last minute make a right at a Mexican burrito restaurant called Moe’s. We head inside and I’m thinking about what to order. Then, this HB 7.5 walks in by herself.

A1

I approached her over the shoulder. I used an on the fly opener.

Me:What do you recommend on the menu?
Her: You probably won’t like what I’m eating…
Me: Oh lemme guess your a vegetarian…
Her: I actually am
Her: What’s your name? (IOI)
Me: I give her my name
Her: Where are you from?
Me: Guess

Skipped to A3 due to massive IOI’s

I skipped to A3 because she was giving me lots of IOI’s. I stopped talking to her after we were ordering our food. My friend the newbie needed some napkins and she was heading over to the drink section. Perfect opportunity to go back into the set. I go in and began qualifying her about if she has traveled.

She met all the qualifications. She was into nutrition, spoke Spanish, (her ex was Panamanian)
traveled….

She was ordering her food to go so I set up a timebridge with her…

Me: Listen, I’m in town for the weekend… Why don’t you leave me your number and we’ll hang out tomorrow let’s say around 1?

Her: I don’t think that’s a good idea… Your cute and everything, (IOI) but I think I’m a lot older than you…

Me: I bet you can’t even guess my age…

Her: 21

Me: Wrong… Higher

Her: I’m gonna need to see some ID mister

Me: Cool, I pull out my ID

Her: K that’s cool… Well, I don’t know anyone in town I just moved here for school, so just give me a call tomorrow…

I sent her a few text messages from there and it was on. Set up the timebridge for 630PM

Continue with A3 roll into C1

I had her meet me where I am staying at. My friend let me have an extra room at his apartment complex, and I had my car there. Logistics were in my favor, so I thought.

She meets me outside and she’s lookin cute- Jewish chick from Miami with a smoking body damn their some hot 1’s. K, let’s go over to my car I have some fun things were gonna do today. Hope you like hookah I tell her. She says “of course.”

Checked her times it could be an issue she had to meet with her mom the next day to get furniture for her apartment. I only have one day so I would take it as far as I could…

Ran some more qualification. Can you cook? She does, Also, she was an aerobics instructor in the last town she lived in….

C1- Chilli’s

We head over to Chilli’s for some 2-4-1 Margaritas. I sit across from her, which limited my kino escalation….

Had some stories lined up that hit many DHV spikes like being a successful risktaker and also a vulnerability story … Here’s an overview of what I did during C1.

My Risktaker Story:

I just got back from South America. A lot of my friends thought it was pretty crazy that I went down there- especially Colombia. I know people say it’s dangerous, but you only live once. I met my friend there and we ended up backpacking all the way down to Argentina.

This opens up multiple conversational threads into several topics about my travels. I have a kidnapping story from Colombia I use for vulnerability and also helping Bolo out in times of need with Spanish as a protector of loved ones along with having a close relationship with my sister (story).

We split an appetizer and I found out her passions which was her work as a research assistant. She kept going on and on about it… I just listened and smiled and was intrigued as well with some of the things she had to tell me- she worked doing regenerative research.

The bill came and I told her I would take care of this and she could take care of the bill @ hookah. She’s cool with it and we head out of the venue…

After that, she had not seen the campus. I gave her a tour of the campus while I was driving in the car naming all the buildings and different things about it…

C2- Hookah Lounge

There’s this really good hookah lounge in town called Cafe Sheesha. Like most hookah lounges, it is a good place for kino escalation and building an emotional connection with the target thru stories and games…

We ordered a blueberry hookah and some tea. In this venue, I amped up the kino and worked more on storytelling…

The keys at this venue

1. Questions Game- It’s funny because my first question about the craziest thing she’s ever done received a response that she had sex with two guys. I didn’t even have to throw out a sexual question she did it. We talked about sex and past relationships. I can’t tell you how important this game is…

From there, it was really relaxed and it was more about vibing along with building kino. One thing I have really learned with this material, is to refrain from k-closing inside venues. I save that for the seduction location…

They had a bellydancer come out and it was fun watching girls and guys go up there and dance with the girl bellydancing… Afterwards, she clears up the tab and we head back to my place…

My friend promotes the main venues in town so he already has a group of people at his place for a pre game. I had already seeded the place so she could meet some people and to watch a movie…

She tells me I should go off with my friends. No, I’m cool I went out last night. My friends leave and it’s just her and I in the apartment- isolation…

C3- movie and make out

I throw on the movie and we watch it. I k close and she lays on my lap while watching the movie.

S1

I tell her to come with me to the room to watch some you tube videos. The room wasn’t really set up no sheets on the bed because his roommate just moved out. I worked with what I had. A blanket and a pillow. Put on some music and I tell her she can sit down… She had thrown her time constraint about her mom coming before going into the room…

I threw on some music on you tube but my itunes was not playing. I like music during seduction that’s just me… Eventually, I just play music from the speakers of the Ipod…

I cavemanned her and just went on top of her and was making out. Kissing on the ears and neck, got her horny. I made sure to do freezeouts…

S2-LMR

I ended up meeting LMR about her having to leave and how she just met me yesterday. Cool, I take a step back and change the conversational topic.

We go back to making out again then this time I dry humped her and continued making out and started playing with her titties…

I met LMR again. Another freezeout. I was going back and forth with this for some time. Normally, I can close with not that much resistance, but every set is different…

I went back in again and took it the furthest. She said look I want to change + sleep in a bed with sheets and I want you to come with me back to my place so we can….. hint hint

ONE HUGE PROBLEM

My friend left the place and I didn’t have a key. I wasn’t going to leave the door unlocked (the lock was a top lock no bottom lock you have to lock it from the outside) and have someone potentially go in his place. He would be gone till later on in the night…

Go back to hooking up on the bed again. Pulled D-move to success, but she says she has to go…

Set is over. If I had a key to the place, I woulda closed. I’m leaving tomorrow, but I’ll probably be back in a few weeks. She’s down to meet up again. I walked her back to her car. Made out some more next to her car then sent her off….

Fun night… All from opening a set at a restaurant I love this GAME!!

We head over to another members place and he says here’s your first guys. One of them, I found out later had a g/f, and didn’t want to go into PUA just yet. However, the other newbie was interested and took in everything. The coaching started earlier in the day with a friend of mine going over the Mystery Method and actually working some sets with him in the coffee shop. He texted me the next day astonished at this stuff and was thanking for me to introduce him to it…

Back to newbie. We go over his history and we discuss game. This was totally informal as I didn’t have anything really prepared and didn’t even know about the coaching opportunity… I go over general game with him and let him know about how it has changed my life.

Venue-  Club Rayn

We head over to the venue. 3 PUA’s, 1 newbie in training, and another one who was “curious.” Once in the venue, it is pretty slow. I remember going over the new Mystery Project Hollywood and he mentioned even if the venue was slow to open whoever. Newbie is watching me and I open a 3 set with the “Drunk I Love You’s Opener”

The opener goes like this

PUA: Hey Quick Question, Do you think Drunk I Love You’s Count?
Her: No
PUA: My friend called his girlfriend last night when he was drunk and told her that he loved her. This morning he called her back and said he was taking it back…
Her: Always receives an emotional response

I worked my target for a few, but didn’t call in the newbie yet. I went over wing rules with him and walked around the venue with him as I was greeting other people.

I open another set obstacle for Falcon- HB 8 Colombiana. This girl was pretty hot and visiting from Ft. Lauderdale. I talked to her about my recent vacation to South America and was running the set in Spanish. Did some cold reading, qualifying, and hit my DHV stories that I have been working on. I get occupied and another girl I know walks past me. I introduce the two of them and say bye to Colombiana and go off with the other girl. I had gamed this HB the previous week. I sit down and she sits down next to me. I would use her later in the night as a pivot in other sets.

One area I would like to work on is taking advantage of using pawns/pivots in my sets more.

I have newbie open a set and he goes in with no AA. Good job he calls me in and I talk to the obstacle HB8 Dental Hygienist. This girl was cute and Southern, too. She had a nice lil Ga accent. Newbie stays in his set for a bit then ejects. I stay in with mine ran some cold reads, qualification, and went into DHV Stories… Number closed her…

I compliment newbie on opening his set and gave him some tips on opening game and how to approach a set better IE not leaning in and not fidgeting… I was really impressed at the fact that he had very little AA and would approach. His opening game needs work, but he has a lot of potential.

The rest of the night I was focused on helping newbie open more sets and getting to know him as a person. He was a great guy and we will be working together tonight. I will have some planned material to go over with him before we head out to the venue… We head to IHOP and all debrief over the night. You could tell we made an impact on him.

Things I did well

1. Got a dose of my first on the field coaching experience
2. Even though the venue was slow, I approached what was there and made the best of it
3. I showed the newbie some stuff that could potentially change his life

Things I need to work on

1. Work more on my coaching skills- I’m new to this
2. Continue to work more on my bi-wing game
3. Using pivots/pawns more in sets

There will be a bootcamp on May 15th that I might be helping with if I am in town. I really enjoyed this and would like to continue coaching other guys…

Background: I met this girl a year and a half ago when I was running promoter game. Back then, I had a few chances to close, but I never pulled the trigger. She clearly wanted it, but because I didn’t fully escalate she wasn’t going to. To sum it up, we made out in my bed and I got a handjob from her. She stayed the night, too.

What I learned now that would help me- Sexualizing the sarge, building on storytelling

Sent her a message on facebook that I was in town. I number closed and ran textgame throughout the week. Tonight I messaged her and asked her what she was doing. She replied back that she wanted to hang out and needed a ride. Thanks to Tallahassee Lair Member Tallanasty for picking me up to get her and take me to the pre party

I pick her up and she’s looking cute dirty blonde hair and a nice little black dress on. She’s a 7.5 in my book. We get in the car and head to the pre party at Falcon’s frat house. Talked to her while she was in the back seat about catching up with everything in the time frame we missed each other….

Logistics

1. Pre Game
2. McDonald’s
3. Club
4. Walk back to pad

I didn’t have a car but luckily the venue was close to where I am staying. My plan was to walk with her there.

Started out at the frat house talking to everyone introducing her to Falcon and my other friends and interacting with other ppl. From there, we bounced to the party bus… I had some kino on but I made sure this time to start the sarge from scratch like the advice from my fellow Tallahassee Lair member.

1st Bounce

I made a promise to get her in for free at the venue, but my contact would be there later. Perfect time to bounce. She had hurt her hand so I told her I would take care of her and we could get some ice at McDonald’s… In there, I ran some solid kino, did the kids test off the palm read (sexualizing quicker now but calling her sexual from her relationship line), talked about my travels, and general vibing with the set…

She had some ice in the cup and was putting her hand it. She talked about how she’s clumsy and lights herself with cigarettes. ” I better stay away from you when you are lighting a cigarette!” I told her. She was laughing and kinoing my arm more…

Texted my promoter friend and he was @ the door of the venue Baja’s Beachclub.

2nd Bounce- Baja’s

My Original plan was to stay in the club for a brief period of time. My friend had a table with bottles in the best part of the club. Awesome set up may I add.. I was working a lot of pre-selection in the venue, because even after one year I still know a lot of people. I was introducing her to people left and right, making exits to talk to other people, and talking to other girls. Poured her drinks from the many bottles (DHV)

Highlights of Club Game-

Ran Questions Game- This turned the furnace on sexualizing the sarge. My first question was “Where is the craziest place you’ve had sex?” Her: at the frat house in the bathroom, Partners this year:3, Favorite position: Depends on size

As you can see, her responses showed she was a pretty sexual girl.

Bounce out of the club and back to the place

I had already seeded hookah back at the pad to which she was down for. The venue was near closing although still packed. We walk outside and I have her grab my arm and we walk back to where I am staying. She told me she needed to catch a ride home to go on a jog in the morning- she likes to exercise. I don’t have my car here so she would later call her roommate. Time constraints all over the place. Could I escalate in enough time?

In the pad

** She mentioned inside that I have changed since the last time we met. She said I have more confidence and that I looked like I was in more control. Looks like all the PUA stuff has changed me and she could tell.

Got her some water and we lit the hookah. My goal was to get her upstairs and sexualize it more. I had time on my hands as she texted her roommate to come get her pretty soon. After a few lights of the hookah, I tell her “I’m going to give you a tour of the place come with me.” I grab her hand and bring her upstairs.

Once in the room, we start making out and she’s keen. Then she says “Let’s go downstairs and finish the hookah.” Ok so we go back downstairs and she talks about how her roommate is on her way…

I had sexualized this before and I got her to agree to have sex with me.  I say to her ” Let’s have sex we don’t have much time.” She says, “I don’t usually have sex with guys on my period but ok.” Once upstairs, it was on. I cavemanned her and threw her on the bed and got on top of her to make out. From there, she grabs my cock and starts to give me head…  Then, she takes off the panties and I grab the condom.

Problems Getting it up

I think the alcohol I got for free all night impaired me (this normally doesn’t happen.) I couldn’t get it up for long after she was giving me head. I think the longest I fucked her was 5 minutes before going soft. I feel so ashamed and tell her it’s cuz of the alcohol. I could have gone in bareback, but I don’t take risks. She respected that.

We try a few more times to no avail. But, she wants to hang out again when we are sober… Her friend picks her up and I give her a kiss goodbye.

Lesson Learned: If you are on a Day 2 and you have a good chance of closing, don’t drink too much. The effects of alcohol can impair your judgment and also lead to having whiskey dick.

Things I need to work on

1. Even if the drinks are free, drink less

Things I did well

1. Getting her to agree to have sex with me and to hang out after not pulling the trigger a year and a half ago
2. SEXUALIZING the sarge from the get go…

Travolta replies ” Hey it’s my 21st tnite it’s gonna be crazy.” Being done with my Day 2 and wanting to get some fresh time to game I agreed for tnites activity. The venue would be Rayn.

Travolta calls up some people and we head over to West 10 to meet up with the group. We meet up with some of his friends then head over to another PUA’s place. Travolta pounds the drinks as its his bday.

After midnight, we head to the venue. Travolta is pretty tipsy so it was gonna be tough for him to be running sets because hey it’s his bday and he’s gonna drink and have fun!

Go into the venue and I have that initial shock of gaming in a new environment. I absorb it all in- head to the bathroom. I come out and see Travolta’s pivots. Say hi to them then head to the bar to help Travolta to order his first drink of being 21…

I open my first set about what my wing Travolta should order for his 21st… I give her the handshake then she says “That’s no way to greet a girl.” I laugh it off then ask her if she’s an East coast girl. I order a drink and she asks “Are you buying us shots?” I laugh at her and go “I barely know u… Maybe if I know you a little more.” She gives me a funny look and walks off with her friend… I see a three set open them and it goes well… Travolta occupies them.

Not gonna lie the sets I was opening weren’t going to well. This was due to miscalibration on my part. It has been a while gaming in English so I was adjusting to my stories, kino, and all the other fun stuff gaming in America!

I opened a two set with another opinion opener. Into the set, I went for the palm read and got called out from being a PUA like Mystery on the TV show.

Season 2

She asked me if I was one and I told her I was. What do you guys think about admitting that you are? It was tough to get back into the set, but they did ask me things like my avatar and other questions which they were intrigued about. But, when I tried cold reading or anything else the obstacle said I am not going to believe a word u say. I have heard of other PUA’s admitting they are and it go well, so I will have to play around with it.

Finally, I regain some momentum towards the end of the night. This was due to plowing my sets. I hit a good set with HB Bracelet I commented on her bracelet then talked about how people thought my arm band was some type of medical brace. She was just laughing after that and went into talking.

This set hit nicely. Had good kino compliance, she leaned into me, ioi’s, etc. Then a guy sits down who she knows. I ask them how they know each other and turns out he’s the roommates friend. Travolta comes by and says hi. At this point he is pretty f**** up. As a friend, I drop the set to go over to him. He’s nearly falling asleep. It’s gonna be time to take him home soon…

I work another set hb tall brown hair towards the end of the night. I hit her with an opinion opener and got her talking. She was with her friends. I made sure to ask cold reading questions like ” You look like your from the East Coast…” Their reactions are always fun to watch… She looked over at Travolta and asked if my friend was ok… At this point, I took care of him and brought him back to his place.

Tonight was all about recalibrating my game. Looking forward to tomorrow night!

As you can see in the pic, the airport is right in the middle of the city. I heard from an Ecuadorian couple that the airport is dangerous to fly into. Hince why they are building the new airport. It was pretty cool flying into the aiport seeing all the buildings, though.

Had 6 hours to kill and thought about walking around Quito. Wait I have all my luggage dammit. Reminder never to pack heavy for a backpacking journey lol… Got some food and walked around the airport… Looks like the new airport will be finished in 2010..U think they would have a design layout for the airport instead they showed pictures of people working on a project that looked like they had just started lol…

Pretty much killed the time and was ready to fly into Bogota before heading to Orlando… Well, after killing several hours, the flight was canceled. The airline was also not reimbursing us for rooms or any other expenses… U gotta be kidding me LMAO (Airline was Avianca for future reference)

Turn a negative into a positive. As I am waiting for my plane, an HB 7.5 is waiting next to me (smokin bod, brown hair, dark eyes)… I open her about the flight being delayed… Turns out  she’s from Colombia and on vacation… I just ran the normal stuff I’ve been doing through South America. Cold read, Qualify, kino, and create a fun environment. I also used future projections about hanging out if there wasn’t another flight coming out that night…

Shes goes along with it and then I head to the counter to get the flight changed. We ended up catching the flight back and she’s like “Que hacemos?” I suggest we share a room… She then talks about how we don’t know each other that well… Then, I tell her that I don’t want her to try anything with me cuz I barely know her. Simple role reversal here. She makes some calls then we head to a room. She was cool split everything cab and room…

We check into the room and she throws in a lot of resistance cards. I knew this was gonna happen cuz I didn’t spend much time in comfort and bouncing. We only hung out at the airport. I play it cool just pull back then I get cleaned up. I’m pretty hungry so we go on a food mission late night in Quito. She kinos me right away and puts her arms around me.

Find a food place the guy who ran it lived in NYC and was cool then we head back to the hotel. From there, I went into comfort (story telling, pictures of travels). There was one problem though. At the beginning of the day, I was suffering from allergies. I mean constant sneezing and congestion due to the flying and climate changes. It gets worse in Quito. Let’s just say it affected my sarging lol… She ended up nursing me as I looked for meds.

I escalate with resistance to k closing… Took me a while to get to it… Ran strawberry fields… She was also a MILF with 3 kids, only had sex twice, and listens to Christian music actively (from that I knew she wasn’t SNL material)… Usually I don’t game chicks with kids, but it was an aiport cancellation so what the hell lol…

My allergies kept bothering me to the point where I couldn’t breathe out of both nostrils lol.. Well, finally k closed but couldn’t get past resistance and I was tired… Slept well after finding some allergy meds.

Next day, we kiss some more and have to run to the airport to catch the flight. She bought me breakfast, but I was busy on the computer…At least something good came out of being in the Quito International Airport!

Another night in the world of LatinStylez…

We got in this morning dead tired from the bus ride from Buenos Aires. About 10 hours total time in a nice luxurious two story bus with dinner and a breakfast. But, the breakfast was full of candies, way to get the caffeine in your system in the morning huh?

Didn’t do much exploring during the day. My body has been compensating itself for lack of sleep lately so my sleep hours have changed. I slept the rest of the day and finally woke up around 6. Bolo already did some things around town so he was now passed out.

Looking over Roosh’s old posts and the Lonely planet we decide on heading to Nuevo Cordoba and plan to get a cab. Well, the cab driver tells us “Estas en Nuevo Cordoba.” Which means you are in Nuevo Cordoba. We walk down the street and end up at a bar playing some pretty nice electro music. We sit down and order some drinks. I can’t drink much, because I am on antibiotics. I got sick in Lima from the food and caught a bad case of traveler’s diarreah. Man did it suck. Don’t eat ceviche I am warning you!!

I see a two set… I ask Bolo ” U gonna open?” I decide to open and head over there. It’s a 3 set and it didn’t go well at all. I opened them with “Do you know any good clubs around here?” The one I opened tells me one then she gets up and the other friend sits down. The friends are there and I tried to talk to them, but I was getting shut out by them. They weren’t having it. I say whatever then I sit back down with Bolo. He opens his next sit and they didn’t speak much English- he is working on his Spanish.

I have to rebound from that last set I am thinking to myself. I look to my left and see a group of three young college girls having a drink and socializing. I get up off my seat and head in their direction. I ask them about cool bars in the area. They say “No somos de aqui…”  (We are not from here.).I look over at them and ask them where they are from. The Patagonia. Wow, so you must like the mountains and the wilderness I ask my target to my right. She starts laughing and from there I sat down and locked in. I called my wing Bolo in who handled one of the obstacles.

In set

Ran the how many kids you are going to have palm read, kinoed, qualification, and frame control. She was a Psychology major at the University here in Cordoba… I asked her if she could read my mind? Bolo was stalling out towards the end because of the friends English inability. It was time to eject the set. Email closed- she said she didn’t have a phone? HMMM…. I’ll have to have something ready for that one because everyone has a phone these days…

Rest of the night

After that, the rest of the night was great. I couldn’t believe how many young college students there are in Cordoba. Some looked too young to be college students! We kept walking around the bar area and got handed a flier to a club called Bebederos. Bolo opens a set in there and the venue wasn’t too great so we head out….

I see a street set walk to my left… Bolo says open Latinstylez! I want to, but I’m caught off guard and don’t. We walk further past a park area and I see them to my left. This time I would… Asked about local clubs in the area and we kept walking with them… Bolo’s target was def into him and you could tell she was SNL material by the way she was looking at him… The problem was that she didn’t speak too much English. I would have ran obstacle for him- I can speak Spanish, but he had me run the apocalypse for him… She wasn’t having it… We moved on….

Last Venue of the Night

The last venue of the night was cool looking club in the Nuevo Cordoba area. Didn’t have the name of it on me… I’m going to start carrying around a notepad… As soon as we went in, Bolo was opened by a set of five hotties who were grabbing on to his newly shaved head… This definitely got the positive mood going… We talked to them for a bit to build social proof then walked around the venue. I spot a 3 set dancing… Open Latinstylez… I opened with “Quien da mas mentiras mujeres o hombres?” (Who lies more men or women) I have been using it down here in Latin America and it works well as a good opinion opener for two sets or more. They started talking and I picked my target out of the group… She had a piercing and I asked her if it hurt… She said no, then I asked her if she had any tats… Nope she didn’t have any…

I called Bolo in and he ran obstacle for me and his target ended up speaking English. The problem here is it was a 3 set. I have to work more on my isolation skills(I know build enough compliance with the friends)…with 3 sets as most of the sets I have been seeing in Cordoba are mixed sets. I was able to isolate for a bit when I number closed her… She was tall and very compliant to all of my compliance tests… I also joked around with her about being from the countryside cuz she was from a small town… She couldn’t have enough of it she was laughing so much…

The target and her friend went to get a drink so I opened a set of girls who looked pretty young. Found out they were 21… Again, Bolo’s target spoke English… And it was another three set… From another small town so I ran the same routine which worked well… Number closed…

End of the night

We were both pretty tired and decided to head home. As we were walking back, I thought to myself ” Cordoba wouldn’t be a bad place to stay for a while!” The young college population and fun nightlife make this city worth checking out… While everyone else is cold in Buenos Aires, we are all pretty warm here in Cordoba

Come join us on our next few days here and the next city we travel to!

Centre of Miraflores district, Lima, Peru.

FR: Insta date from shopping mall with HB8…

You can game anytime and anywhere. We were walking to the shopping area and I opened an HB8 that just finished working out. I asked her about where to buy phones in the area and she was pretty unhelpful… Asked her about her tattoo and she was unresponsive and waiting for the bus which ended up coming. ON to the next set

Next set was with her friend opened them with are you two sisters? Friends phone rang and I moved along the set with HB7 Tall… Friend gets off phone… On to the next set…

Third set went really well. It was a really hot HB8 (nice brown hair and a few tats) that was walking around the make up aisle by herself. I opened her with “Who lies more men or women?” This got her going and she wanted to practice her English with me- she had an English book…

I got her times and she had an hour. I told her I was craving some cafe so we bounced over to a coffee shop nearby. Made sure to kino more from the start- palm reads, handshakes, etc.

We bounce over to the coffee shop and I ran some more cold reads on her then went into comfort. I’ve been moving at a fast pace lately thru the phases and I’m working harder and harder to have the SNL game down in a short amount of time. Her times sucked tho she had class and she lives pretty far.

Walked her to the park and she didn’t have a driver’s license so I pretended we were driving while we walking down the street- made it interactive… She also told me she was a bit shy so I just knew i had to build more comfort…

From there I grab her arms and lead her before she has to get on the bus to head out… She also told me I looked like Marc Anthony the Spanish singer- is this a DHV? I’ve been told this before by other girls in sets too. They have looked at me and smiled then said it haha… Timebridged for this Saturday… On full momentum for the rest of the week till Buenos Aires, Argentina.

FR: Lil Hottie from the Bar

Continued on later in the night at a local bar… Met up with a girl from online before and planned on using her as a pivot for the next venue the cool bar in the area… We had dinner first livened up the mood…

Bolo tagged along and we head to the venue. Upon entering I notice a two set and one guy talking to one of the girls. The other girl HB 7 was just chilling there looking kinda bored. I open her with “What beer do you recommend me trying here in Lima.” She starts going thru the list I introduce her to pivot and Bolo…

They hit it off with the pivot and I had a game plan all along. Once I had the time, I went into the set with all the stuff I mentioned previously. Portraying my body language alpha like, kinoing from the start, making her laugh, qualifying, and frame control…

She met my qualification standards and from there I got her into isolation on the corner of the bar later. Picked her up and we started dancing to some reggaeton. Tried to seed a bounce outside which her friend wanted to go to a food place. I was stuck to work inside the venue. I did what I could do with it. Got into some more comfort building stories she threw me a lot of reverse kino. I could tell my stories were hitting a punch line because at the dramatic parts of my comfort stories she would grab my palms. Ended up k closing before her and her friend had to leave…

She wanted to timebridge me for a bar hangout with her friends on Friday. I know this would make it tough for logistics so she threw in “What are you doing tomorrow?” From there, I seeded in coffee shop and wine bar near my place. The funny thing is which I later realized is I have another day 2 set up with bar girl from Saturday night. I’m going to do a toss up here make the calls and pick the one I had the best connection with for the night. I was in set longer with this girl so I will call her first. If she is unresponsive, I have a back up plan…

FR: Gaming at the Park…

There’s a park near where we are staying at which has plenty of hotties. Bolo and I head over there. On my way there, I warm up with some street game. Hb6 walks by me I open her over the shoulder with “Do you know where the park is?”

She lets me know where the location is. I continue walking with her on the way there and just vibing. Number closed and went on to the next set…

Bolo meets up with his target and my other wing is in a set. I guess I better get to work! I walk the park area which is called Parque Kennedy. This area is awesome for logistics. A ton of bounce locations!

I walk around for a bit and I spot a hottie HB7.5 sitting by herself. I open her with “What is the name of this park?” She gives me the name and has a book open next to her. It is an English book and I tell her “Let’s practice some English.” She starts laughing and doesn’t want to practice. Then, I said a word then she told me the rest of them. She was studying to work on a cruise line…

From there, I got into doing some cold reads on her and could tell she was bit shy so I slowed it down a bit. Kinoed a bit and from there I told her “Hey let’s go get some cafe and grabbed her hand.” Bounced her over to the nearest coffee shop…

Inside the coffee shop, I went into some funny stories about my travels and also the interesting things that happened getting down to Peru… I had her laughing the whole time. She had to get to class so I timebridged for a Day 2 tomorrow. Walked her hand and hand across the street.

The next set was interesting. I opened her with the same opener before I would rate her an HB 7.8. She was from Vegas down in Lima visiting. We talked for a bit I would have continued with the set but her bus was leaving soon and she was married with kids. I prefer girls without kids and who aren’t married. Just one of my preferences and qualification standards…

On to the nightime… More to post