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5 Keys to SNL Game

Latinstylez — Wed, 15 Jul 2009 16:23:07 +0000

8 hours? Try 30 minutes.

Lately, in the community there has been more of an interest in SNL Game. Here’s the misconception. Many guys believe there is a 7 hr rule that you must follow to getting the close. Take that and throw it down the drain. There’s guys closing in less than 4 hours and my SNL’S usually average about 4-5 hours with my last one being in 2 hours. Well, Latinstylez what are the keys to SNL Game?

1. Logistics

Yup, this is where most guys fail. A friend of mine by the name of RedpoleQ always stresses logistics. If you have a solid game plan, of where you will take the girl from point A-Z, then you will be that much better off when you are running game. Combine that with being comfortable in the venues and also knowing the people there. Guess what that creates? It creates a person who is comfortable within himself in the areas he goes to and it shows by the way you act and also by the way you talk to other people in the venue.

Tip: Start looking around your area for some good venues to bounce your girls to. Think of at least 3-4 venues that you can rotate between.

2. Use plausible deniability to bring her back to your place

Plausible deniability is created when she doesn’t feel responsible. Again, my buddy RedpoleQ and BlueM stress this in their teaching. I have used this technique and have been able to escalate at a quicker pace and also deal with less LMR when I pull her back. A good example would be to tell her about vacation photos that you want to show her or some funny you tube videos. What this does is it doesn’t make her responsible. Remember the man is responsible!

3. Escalate

Escalating is where most guys fuck up on. You have a guy who is clearly interested in the girl he is sarging but when it comes to kinoing her he freezes out. Afraid to touch her the guy goes into a state and loses out on the girl he is interested in.This is one of the most important parts of SNL game because physical touch is very important in the HB feeling comfortable with you. Without touch, there is nothing!

Escalation tips:

Start small. This can be your hand on her shoulder or lightly touching her arm and progressing. RedpoleQ teaches a bootcamp where he goes over this with guys. Remember to continue progressing!

4. Sexualize

Well what is sexualizing, Latin? Here are some quick sexualization tips. Make sure to run Questions Game later on in the sarge. This is typically done at the seduction location or prior to the seduction location.

You want to make sure to find out how sexual she is…

Start by asking questions on how many people she has kissed and slowly progressing from there. The key here is to progress with each question.

Strawberry Fields is another great way to sexualize typically in the bounce location before the seduction location or you can roll it out in the seduction location. Sexualizing takes practice; I am still working on getting it tighter.

5. Pull the trigger

She’s laying there in the bed looking at you all sexual. You look down and decide that you “feel” right now is not the time after you have progressed this far in the SAME DAY! We’ve been there. This is the main reason I am writing this post. Well, don’t just sit there looking at her pull the f…. trigger… Go on that bed and play with her hair and give her a kiss.

I’m sick of hearing crap about all these games in the community. Just go in for the k close and escalate. Pulling the trigger means going after what you want. Do you want that girl? Then pull the trigger!

SNL Game:

Just a few tips from someone who has experience in SNL Game. Most of the time I don’t even go for the SNL’s they just happen. They happen because of some of the steps I have listed above. There is much more to expand on this topic and we are working on ways to make our game harder, better, faster, and stronger. Most commonly in SNL Game, faster!

Latin

Korean Girls: Different Than Girls in General?

BlueMystery — Sat, 06 Jun 2009 05:20:12 +0000

I’ve been talking to a few people from around the world, and we were debating about whether or not Korean women, are different than women from anywhere else around the world.

First, I talk about the differences between the East and the West. Having lived, met and dated women in both parts of the world, I can share with you some of the differences in both history, culture and dating expectations.

In the West, we are taught to stand up for ourselves and be seen an individual. In the Orient, the saying goes that “if a nail stands up, it will be hammered down”. If you read the book Geography of Thought by Professor Nisbett , you will learn about this in depth. This difference in paradigm is the core of why gaming Oriental vs Occidental women is different.

You can easily see this in Asian movies such as Hero with Jet Li, or The curse of the Golden Flower with Chow Yun Fat.

I’ll throw out a few examples, and let me know if there’s anything in particular you’d like to know about.

* let’s say you’ve approached a girl in a bar and have gone over the opener.

In the West, approaching a girl is not that much of a deal, and doesn’t generate enough attraction on it’s own.

In the East, it’s very rare to see guys approach girls. In fact, only us Westerners do it in the daytime. This causes you to have to re-calibrate, and be careful about not shying her away, because she will feel self-conscious.

* Let’s say you are talking to a girl in a bar who is with her friends. She likes you, it’s painfully obvious. Her friends come, but they see you going well with their friend.

In the West, your target is more than likely to stay talking to you, and her friends are more than likely to let you guys do your thing, unless they can tell that she’s not having a good time.

In the East, your target is more than likely to notice her friends in their own group, and feeling like she’s going against her group, she will excuse herself in spite of liking you.

* Let’s say you’re building comfort

In the West, girls tend to talk about a variety of things, and have many different goals and stories that they are more than willing to go into.

In the East, you begin noticing certain common patterns on what they want, and say they want, or just say, and they keep it short. Sometimes, it’s like sarging the same person over, and over again. Neutral

Now let’s talk some about Korean women.

What can I say? I love them. It’s not just their looks that
get me going, but also their personalities. They are reputed for being the prettiest women in the world, and I can’t agree more. Sure, Japanese women put more make up, and being a foreigner with Chinese women has more pull, but Korean women are still my favorite.

Take it from me, I am speaking from my personal
experience: In general, they’re fun, energetic, CARING -
I used to have pleasant surprises on my birthday: all my
girls used to bring me gifts including wine and
champagne, not to mention the massages and of course,
good ol’ fun sex.

I really want you guys also to experience similar
situations – I want to be lying on a beach with my girl,
watching you guys having a blast with yours.
On the other hand, Koreans can be quite bratty (you’ll
come to love this though, or get tired of it), whiny,
and if you don’t own the context of the relationship, they
will own your wallet AND your time.

This is because they have what’s known as the ‘공주병’ which stands for ‘princess disease’. In general, they act whiny and bratty when they don’t get when they want, and some of them use their whining like kids to get men to bend to their will (and I recommend staying away from these ones).

What you need to understand, however, is that unlike Japan or China, being a foreigner in Korea is something ‘cool’ but something ‘different’. You won’t get bonus points for being a foreigner. In fact, it can be a lot harder for you because Korean girls will shy away at not being able to communicate.

On the other hand, Korean women are the best at speaking English in North-East Asia, aside for Hong Kong. English is so popular here that you can tease them for NOT speaking it!

All in all, living and dating in Korea has taught me a lot about women and myself. I love being surrounded by them, and wish the same for you.

Until then, have fun!

BlueM

–To see more of BlueM check out his blog. He also has a book on dating Korean Women.

Pick Up Asia- Who Are Kid 44 and RedpoleQ?

Latinstylez — Sat, 23 May 2009 23:46:33 +0000

Find out about RedpoleQ and Kid44 as you learn from their experiences and how their mindsets have taken where they are today.

See more of them here and you can find bootcamp information if you are in Asia and are interested here

PUA Documentary: Featuring the Pick Up Asia Crew

Latinstylez — Mon, 13 Apr 2009 00:08:22 +0000

Check out this really good documentary which has RedpoleQ and BlueMystery. RedpoleQ discusses PUA and BlueM works a set in the video. It also covers the first Hong Kong PUA school. Pick Up Asia on TV They also have a … Continue reading →

Interview with RedPoleQ- One of the Top PUA’S in Asia

Latinstylez — Fri, 16 Jan 2009 19:09:07 +0000

I hope you guys enjoy this special interview. I have gotten a chance to interview one of the top PUA’S in Japan known as RedpoleQ. He is a personal friend of mine. We will be working together on some projects in the future as well.

Basic Questions
1) How did you get into pickup?

I went to an all boys school, so I didn’t have the opportunity to get experience with girls and the other guys around me didn’t know much more than me, so I was always looking for information I could use.

When I came to Japan after University and breaking up with my first girlfriend, I started going out to clubs a lot and started meeting other guys who were out picking up girls too. They weren’t using any “community” technology, but we just traded experiences and personally developed systems and learned from each other.

We were all trying to get better, and one of those guys sent me a David Deangelo article. A few months later I ordered his Double Your Dating book, which was helpful. But it got me only to the point where I could get any girls number. And which girls I ended getting out on a date was a total crap shoot.

About 9 months later, another friend was reading The Game, and that’s when I really got into “the community”.

2) What is your dating philosophy?

I’m not sure if I have a “dating philosophy”, but if I did, I’d say that it’s to realize that your unique life experience is what makes you valuable and if you don’t think that that’s enough, get that sorted first.

Then once you think you’re an awesome guy who can bring value to a lot of women you should learn pickup. Having said that, I really do believe that just the fact that you’re moving forward and changing means you’re a high value male because most guys and most people are just sitting on the couch.

3) How did you get good at dating to become an authority on it?

A lot of BAD experiences. Every time I crash and burn, I learn something new. Or rather I learn yet another thing that doesn’t work which leaves me with fewer options. So maybe I have a situation, and crash and burn. The next time I’m in that situation, I’ve now got one less way to try and handle that situation. Hopefully, I get it right the next time, but sometimes it might take me 3 or 4 or more tries before I figure it out.

That’s what’s gotten me so good.

4)What do you think guys greatest mistake with women is?

Not realizing that there are so many women out there that they should be a lot more focused on finding the kind of woman they want than just finding “a” woman. Women like to know that you see them as special and unique.

5) In your experience, what is the best place to find a quality girlfriend?

This is a funny question. I don’t think there is a “best” place. I personally prefer clubs for meeting women, but a lot of guys prefer bars or cafe’s, or book stores. During our boot camps, guys get experience in all of those venues.

Regardless of the place, the most important thing is that there are a lot of women to choose from.

6) What are some ways to enlarge your social circle?

Going out to the same places regularly, whether that means clubs, or bars, or cafe’s and knowing about cool, exciting places and events that you can invite people to is great.

I’ve personally never been that big on having a large social circle. I don’t like to organize people, but if you’re into that, meet a lot people wherever you go(both guys and girls) and invite them out.

7) What was your life like when you weren’t good with women? What is it like now?

I remember being really envious of a lot of my friends who were naturals. And I was involved in some unhealthy relationships because I had to take what I could get. My first girlfriend used to lock herself in the bathroom when we had fights and use the iron to burn herself.

Now, I would never be in a relationship with this kind of woman. Plus, it took me weeks of virtually stalking her(I infiltrated her social circle) before we had sex for the first time. I also had some hangups about sex, because I felt bad having sex with girls I didn’t really like, but I felt I had no other options.

Now, I feel really, really lucky to be able to have the women in my life that I do. I can really appreciate them for who they are rather than for how they make me feel about myself. And trust me when I tell you that sex is A LOT better when you really like the girls your doing it with and find them sexy.

What is one of your favorite techniques/tactics?

I’m not much of a technique/tactic guy but I guess shaking a girls hand and then spinning her is probably my favorite, especially when I couple it with putting her arm around me. It’s great fun.

9) Do you use props? If so, what gets the most reactions?

Early on I used to “peacock” a lot but now it’s pretty subtle. The comb in my hair is pretty distinctive and gets good reactions almost everywhere I go.

10) What is your biggest sticking point?

Hmmm…I’ve been working on getting a threesome for the past year or so and have been unsuccessful so I guess that would be it.

11) What pick up artist has inspired you the most? What did you learn from them?

Maybe Tyler Durden–his archive really broke down the micro-calibration that explained a lot of what I was seeing in my own experience but didn’t have a reference for. But I really learned a lot more from my crew in Osaka because they were here with me everyday as we went out and figured out how to make pickup work in Asia.

Especially kino, which is hard to learn except by seeing it live and working with language barriers.

12) Describe the moment when your realized you need to work on this part of your life.

There was never a “moment”. I always liked girls, and when I did have a chance to meet them it didn’t go anywhere, so obviously I needed to improve.

13) What advice do you give to newbies starting out?

Pick a proven system, learn it and stick to it. Go out regularly. Experiment. Change. Hang out with guys who are better than you. Watch and learn.

14) In your experience, what is the biggest issue for guys getting attraction from women?

It depends if you mean “normal” guys who haven’t learned any pickup or guys who are already familiar with the principles.

For “normal” guys the problem is that they’re more concerned with maintaining their comfortable life than they are with going after what they want, so they blend in with all the other guys.

For guys who are studying pickup, the biggest problem is that they are afraid to open themselves up to true rejection. They can use pickup techniques and tactics as shields to take the blame for failure rather than taking it personally.

What that means is that the techniques and tactics are dead because they don’t have the force of the guys personality in them, and that’s the real key.

15) What are you goals for the community? Your life?

I don’t really have goals for the community. Some guys like what I have to say, and they want to work with me. If I can help them, I think that’s great.

Personally, I have a huge list of things that would be nice, like learning to fly an airplane and going scuba diving. But I’m not such a goal oriented person anymore. Whatever I’m working on in the moment will build me towards my future.

So right now, that means expanding PickUp Asia to more countries, like Thailand, Hong Kong, China, Australia and Taiwan for starters, and launching The Amazing Man Intensive Training Course later this year. I don’t really think of them as goals though. If I want them to happen, I’ll keep working on them. If I don’t, I won’t.

Specialized Questions

1) Why did you choose to come to Korea/Japan/etc?

My University wanted someone to apply for the Fulbright Scholarship which is a study abroad scholarship. The application for Japan was shorter. I meant to get around to applying ot some Latin American contries, but I never got around to it and here I am.

2) Can you relate a success story about one of your clients?

Hard to pick just one. We’ve had a 23y.o. virgin who got blowjob in the bathroom, then pulled the girl to a love hotel. Then there was a 25y.o. virgin who was born with three fingers on each hand and 2 toes on each foot who lost his virginity about 2 months after his boot camp.

Then there’s the 46y.o. divorced guy who met 6 Chinese girls at McDonald’s while they were in Japan as tourists. Last year he married the one in the group he wanted–she was 21 years old! And I wish I could say this guy was good looking for his age…they moved to Houston and he’s starting a private hypnosis therapy practice.

There are other guys who after realizing they can have this kind of success with women, get a lot of confidence to pursue other goals also. One guy quit his banking job to travel the world and pursue a stand up comedy career. Lots of other guys have started their own businesses.

3) Why did you choose the name RedPoleQ?

I’ve been using that name since Junior High School. I got it from a science fiction book–so, yes, I really was a geek. I just thought it sounded cool and have been using it ever since.

4) What are your fundamental teachings?

There are a lot of fundamental teachings. Some of them we teach explicitly and some of them the students develop as they progress and gain experience.

Here’s a few though:

Reward good behavior, ignore bad.
You can’t control how other people react, only what you do.
Stead effort will lead to gradual progress and ultimate success.
Spend your time finding women that you really like and want to be with, rather than just have sex with.
Have a plan
Logistics, Logistics, Logistics
Use a model–it will tell you what you need to do next, what you need to do now and allows you to troubleshoot your unsuccesses
Become a pro at patting yourself on the back for the small successes

5) How do you differ from other dating coaches?

This is a tough one. Because I never got into this thinking about what the dating coaches were doing. I would say that I differ because I focus on finding women you genuinly like and having relationships rather than just sex a few times here and there. That’s nice, too, but I’ve always preferred to be dating 4 or more women simultaneously over thrill of picking up a different chick every night.

6) Tell me about your products.

We offer 3 day boot camps that run over 25 hours. Only about 5 hours of that is spent in seminar time while the other 20+ is spent in set, getting as much experience as possible under coaching. We have the Sexual Mastery Seminar which is really popular as well and focuses on developing sexual confidence–having the skills to be able to please any woman, and being able to live out your sexual fantasies. I just put out a 40-minute audio, called “Debunking 7 PickUp Myths” that does just that by discussing some of the big controversies in the pickup community like that around “natural game”, “negs”, and indirect vs. direct openers. You can find it a www.redpoleq.com

LR: SNL- Welcome To Japan

Latinstylez — Wed, 01 Oct 2008 16:42:21 +0000

I’m re posting some of my favorite LR’s on my blog this one 8/2/08. A combination of online game, vacation, and proper logistics execution … Enjoy reading it….

Putting my logistics into play

I wake up in the morning and meet up with RedPole. I talked to him about helping me with my logistics of the area in case I were to a pull an HB back to my place. I spend 30 minutes in the heat of the day memorizing the area and location. This would be useful later on in the evening.

Meeting with online HB

I decided to run some internet game before I came out here. A cute HB 6.5 J-Girl in the photos, but looked better in person might I add… We meet at the station Shinobayasi around 1030 (I know I probably spelled it wrong, but I will correct it later.) I see her waiting for me outside the station. She’s looking nice- nice outfit and great body….

Kino right away and set the stage

I made sure to kino her right away by playfully holding hands. She took my lead which was great. Now, my logistics in this area were not in place, so I get a call from my buddy RedPoleQ leading me to a bar in the area. We do some walking around and she likes to talk. Great, she keeps the conversation going which I’m keen for.

Bounce to Bar

We are near Club Pure, but bounce to the bar in the area first. I order a Captain and Coke and she orders a pineapple drink. I was glad to see they had Captain in Japan! I kino her here and I talk to her about my stories about bartending… I love making drinks one of my specialties… She asks what is one of my special drinks…. Wouldn’t you like to know I tell her… Haha she’s loving it. I continue to escalate the kino with some hand holding and putting my arm around her.

Redpole shows up and we have to wait for another wing to show up. We switch seats for better kino buildup. Eventually, our wing is at Club Pure and we meet him there.

Club Pure- Escalation and Planting the Seeds

Club Pure is a great venue. At the cost of around 25 dollars, I got an all you can drink cup. Sweet, I order a Cuban Libre and continue to plow away on my target. In my mind, I am visualizing the sarge here. (Seeing things ahead my buddy BlueMystery likes to put it.)

I make sure to move around the club with my target. Not to mention that, but to make exits to the bathroom and also talk to my friends to build social proof. Inside the venue, I am the prize and it’s the visualization of it she is seeing. I took her to the dancefloor and danced to some good music. The venue was lively and I was feeling the vibe from this place. After dancing, isolating her in an area, I made sure to go for the K Close. A few minutes later, I went for the kiss on the lips close.

All the compliance tests were checking out here, and I knew it would be time sooner or later to bounce her out of the venue and to my place. During the sarge, I made sure to play less on the dance floor and to communicate with her. I wanted to hit her emotional needs and not just some guy who wants to dance and drink the night away.

Limiting my alcohol intake is something I have done of late. It has been a benefit factor due to your awareness while running sets and when you have locked into your target. I planted the seeds to come back to my place in a casual way. We can go back later and check out my music on my laptop…. “Your music, you brought your laptop?” I replied with a yes I did and we’ll go soon. I was reinforcing it in her mind and she was visualizing it. Great, she was keen. All I needed to do was finish my drink.

RedpoleQ comes over to me and whispers to me that I need to bounce her. “Ok” I reply to him. I knew it was time to bounce my target and I did as you are thinking.

Bouncing from the venue- Taxi Cab and Convenient Store

Once we left the venue, I made sure to kino her right away and take the lead. Sure, I’m not from Osaka, but with proper logistics in play will make this sarge run more smoothly. I remembered a good landmark in the area and that was the cue with her to tell the taxi cab driver.

The first cab driver was going somewhere else, however the second one took us to our destination. By the way, cabs in Japan are pretty expensive lol…Once we were dropped off, I remembered exactly where we were and how to get the destination. Mapping out my logistics earlier in the day, made me more comfortable in the sarge.

We stop by a convenient store on the way. I made sure to build on the kino here and pointed out some things they don’t have in Korea and do in Japan like Axe Body Spray lol… We finish up at the convenient store and I lead her to the seduction location.

Seduction Location- Thinking Ahead Pays Off Well!

As soon as we get to the place, I made sure to throw on some music and get the vibe going here. I throw on some reggaeton and she’s dancing away. We dance in the living room and let me tell you this girl can shake it hehe… After listening to music, I told her I had to show her something in my room. She obliges and we head into the room. By this point, I had already made out with her in the living room. Once in the room she lays on the bed and I throw on some more music.

I show her some photos of me in my travels and make sure to connect with her, listening and engaging her. She’s keen and I’m keen. I turn on the knobs and escalate more. Pulling out the D-Move early when it was time, was money here. She did resist. The only resistance i got was when we were about to fuck and she’s like “I’m not that kind of girl.” I respond with I know and continue escalating.

Eventually, we are naked and you know what happens here. I hit it good for some time. She was great in bed and laying there asleep right now as I’m writing this

Lessons Applied

Mapping out logistics
Thinking things ahead
Taking the strong lead

Lessons Learned

I could have pulled it sooner, but dragged on….

Thanks for reading guys….

LatinStylez