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Asian men have long been depicted in movies and the mass media in a distinctly unfavorable light, resulting in the rise of many stereotypes like the nerdy, geeky Asian or the asexual Asian.

Society rarely expects Asian men to stand up for themselves, much less have the confidence to approach beautiful women of high value. The resulting outcome is that many Asian men have placed themselves in a few mental lock-holds that restrict their success with women.

The first is bitterness and anger. Many Asian men have resorted to blaming the media for its negative stereotypes and often blog and write in rage at these unfair protrayals. They attribute their failures to external factors but rarely take any real-life action besides rage-driven posts.

Behind their rage is an inner self-loathing and acceptance of the fact that they are an inferior race and that being Asian is a distinct disadvantage.

The second is to stay seething but silent. Many Asian men who feel this way walk around in angry, silent desperation. They hate the fact that they do not have the desire they want but rarely take any action to change their situation.

Their self-pity builds up to an extent that one day they either suffer a breakdown or they lash out in uncontrollable rage. Whatever the case, theirs is a low-burn suffering on a daily basis.

The last is the escapist. The ones who give up altogether and do not play the game. They either engage in mail-order brides or take off into becoming sex tourists and never have any real connections with women.

The real way out of these negative mental barriers is to understand that continual thinking in this manner will never really result in real success with women. Instead, one should first disengage from these negative thoughts and pursuits.

The removal of negative influences – negative friends or media will accelerate the recovery process and aid him in improving his self-confidence and relationships with women.

What would really make a real difference is to find mentors or shining examples of other Asian guys who have succeeded before and use them as a benchmark, to break the whole stereotype and shatter the limiting belief.

A product available that might be of phenomenal help to Asian men is – Asian Dating Superstars.

Click here to find out more.

In it, the creator Ryker Koh asked 13 of the world’s greatest and most successful Asian dating coaches to break down the steps on how they managed to transform themselves from bitter, unsuccessful Asian males who could not get a date or a kiss to confident men who could enjoy wonderful relationships with an abundance of women they desire.

Some of the famous Asian dating coaches include DJ Fuji, Daniel Rose of the Sex God Method, William of ABCs of Attraction, Johnny Wolf, Xavier, Troy Dizon and more and one thing they all agree on is that once Asian men realize that they can be attractive, they will automatically regain their confidence and become naturally attractive to women.

Asian Dating Superstars reveal how any Asian man can easily and effortlessly do that and transform himself to the confident, charismatic, masculine Asian man that had always been inside him.

Go ahead and click the link below to find out more.

Asian Dating Super Stars

Everytime I see this image I want to choke someone.

We’re having a special guest post from the guys at Asian Dating Super Stars. As a Chinese American I know what it’s like to have that self hate when it comes to dating. I use to blame the media or culture for my lack of a social life. It wasn’t until I discovered the Pick Up Scene did I finally take my dating life into my hands. That’s why I’m glad to see guys like Ryker helping get rid of these limiting beliefs for Asian men. Take a look. He was some important things to say.

-Bolo

Many Asian men fail to get the success they desire with women and many when asked why usually attribute their lack of success to racism and the fact that they are Asian.

Just how true is this statement?

The real, honest fact is that sometimes race does something to do with it. Women do notice which race you are and what you look like but not as much as you think so. Of course there are women out there who are not into Asians, but then again, there are women out there who are into white guys, black guys and every other race on the planet.

It’s just simple human nature.

So what’s the real problem here?

The real problem is that many Asian guys have convinced themselves that the women they desire will not find them attractive.

They have assimilated this limiting belief from young, perhaps from the media stereotypes or from being raised in an overly-conservative household and having had no success from young, they are convinced that they are doomed to fail when they approach beautiful women of any race.

The sad truth is that Asian guys who think like this simply don’t allow themselves the permission to follow their biological instinct and heart to date the women they honestly desire. The pain and frustration they feel lowers their self-esteem and makes them feel worthless and asexual.

The only way out is to find mentors or shining examples of other Asian guys who have succeeded before and use them as a benchmark, to break the whole stereotype and shatter the limiting belief.

One such product that might help is a product called Asian Dating Superstars.

Click here to see it.

In it, I interview 13 of the world’s greatest and most successful Asian dating coaches who proceed to answer every single question Asian guys have about overcoming stereotypes and how Asian guys can have phenomenal success with women of any race they desire.

Such famous dating coaches like DJ Fuji, Daniel Rose of the Sex God Method, William of ABCs of Attraction, Johnny Wolf, Xavier, Troy Dizon and more reveal the exact, precise, step-by-step methods on how they overcame stereotypes and became confident, attractive men who could stroll into another place, walk up to any woman fearlessly and attract her in mere minutes.

One thing they all agree on is that it is possible for Asians to have great success with women – and all guys have to do is to follow what they have learnt and discovered and success could just be a click away.

To find out more about this product and how you can now become a better, more confident Asian man with an abundance of wonderful relationships with the women you fancy, go ahead and click the link below.

Asian Dating Superstars

I highly recommend it and it could be one of the best products ever created to help Asian men transform themselves into the real, rock-solid, confident man they have always wanted to become.

Want to add these type of girls to your social circle? You can!

First of all, I know I haven’t been posting on my progress of game lately. I recently have gone back to social circle… My reason was well I’m good at it and I like doing it… Don’t get me wrong I will be doing cold approach, however my primary focus now will be on getting my social circle much stronger…

Since going back, I have noticed how strong this method of game is.

#1- You are the one throwing the event, all eyes are on you… Talk about prizability here.

#2- Attraction triggers are automatically set. I love it because when I have my target and I want  to open another set in the social circle I can. Sets generally feel more attraction because you are around beautiful women.

#3- I’m having guys I know bring girls as well. So it’s not just me and a bunch of girls I know, I’m inviting out my wings and telling them to bring sets as well. This is working out for me because it enables new girls that are “gameable” and it increases my potential of meeting a good set. (Happened to me last night)

#4- It’s easy to create jealousy plotlines on girls you are targetting by simply talking to other girls in the social circle. This can create greater attraction for your target. More on this later, as I will be experimenting with jealousy plotlines in the coming months.

#5- It’s an engine. I think of social circle game as an engine. The reason is that this engine works by having  a constant supply of people. These people make it easier to open other sets around you. Not only that, but with these people you have your fair  share of women you can sarge.

These are just a few reasons why I have shifted back to social circle. Now, I will be posting some of my experiences with using this style of game and what is and isn’t working. Yes, you will here the GOOD and BAD as I chronicle my journey of running social circle I was looking around for products on social circle and sure enough lovesystems has a product. Check it out

Pissed Off Asian

Hey guys. Bolo here. As some of you may know, I’m an Asian guy. Some of our non-Asian readers may be asking, “So what?” Well I’m tell you…being an Asian guy in the dating world can be tough. All around us we see Asian girls with all types of guys…white, black, brown…but we don’t see Asian men with other races. Why is this? I use to blame the media, family upbringings, Asian tradition…But blame is useless and took the power out of my hands. So I began my PUA journey…3 years later and my life has changed. Nowadays, it’s easy for me to go out and get girls.

Then I came across Asian Dating Super Stars….This is the resource I wish I had starting out. It’s a dating product designed especially for Asian men. My man Ryker Koh has brought together the best Asian PUAs together to share their secrets. This is something I wish I had when I first started getting into Pick Up. I caught up with Ryker…

Ryker Koh Interview

1. Tell Us A Little About Yourself And How You Got Into Pickup

Hey my fellow Asian readers, my name is Ryker and I entered pickup and seduction by complete and total accident. I first decided to aggressively improve this area of my life after I witnessed the phenomenal success of one Asian friend of mine.

This Asian dude was just a ordinary, confident yet somewhat quiet guy, but when it came to talking to women, he was a freaking beast with women. This guy was absolutely sick.

He was one of those guys who was born with pin-point precise natural ability to just enter a conversation with just about any girl he met and get her attracted in minutes. And he wasn’t even doing any magic tricks, any NLP patterns, any direct-game. Heck, this was back in 2000 before the community was famous.

All this guy did was talk about plain, simple stuff like hobbies and her life, and his life and fashion and entertainment, just about pretty normal stuff. But man, did these girls stick to him like bees to a honey.

And all the time, I stood there wondering, man, these topics he talks about are plain as peas and even sometimes about as interesting as watching grass grow but how the heck was he getting all these crazy results.

So I cornered the guy and decided to ask him and the thing was this dude had no idea what he was doing right, so everytime I started asking him for advice, he would squint and look really confused and feed me pretty feeble advice like “Just be natural, just be cool” which thinking back now, was precisely what he was doing. But because I was so way off the mark in my own skills, I still wound up getting no success.

And it was until I began aggressively studying and practicing “live” in the field, crashing and burning multiple times before I actually got good. But every since I was young, I have been blessed with a pretty thick skin, so even though I was humiliated and left embarrassed more than a few times, I licked my emotional wounds and soldiered on.

Now, all the time, I had another group of Asian friends who were also studying pickup and these guys really bought just about every course on the market. And these guys were really studious, they flooded their brains with pickup theory and could recite routines backwards in their sleep.

But their dating lives were still disappointing. No love, no girls and they still led pretty sad and lonely lives.

So one day, I asked them – “Yo guys, you have been studying this stuff for close to 2 years now, why do you still go home to a dark, empty house and sleep in your bed alone every night?”

And then, slowly, they began revealing a lot of limiting beliefs they had about being Asian, the whole Asian culture, Asian parents, Asian upbringing and as they did so, I winced and felt their pain because I too am Asian, and I had to overcome these same issues too.

And I thought to myself – hey, it’s time for the Asian man to stop feeling sorry and pathetic for himself. It’s time to get some respect, hence I created Asian Dating Superstars.

2. Why do you think Asian men have such a hard time dating and can’t get white girls? And why do Asian girls always seem to go with white guys?

This is a freaking awesome question.

Now let me break this down.

Why do Asian men have such a hard time dating?

Here’s the 3 biggest reasons.

Firstly, they spend too much time worrying and fearing that girls will mock them and dislike them straight away because they are Asian. No kidding, before they walk up, they feel the girls are already against them.

Now, most guys I know have 2 reactions to this. The first group decideds to resign himself to this sad fate and they slink away into the darkness, too afraid to approach. The second react in anger and outrage, and they approach over-aggressively, like they have a point to prove, and therefore scare the poor girl off.

Both positions assume an immediate “under-dog” mindset – that being Asian is some limitation to overcome.

Now most Asian guys feel this way because the media has been a total asshole and has flooded movies with a ton of negative Asian male stereotypes. Asians in movies are either the loser who is teased and mocked at by guys and girls alike, or the kungfu master who spends the whole show kicking ass and mouthing heavily-accented Chinese.

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Both of which are not the most attractive of male characters.

And prolonged watching of this Hollywood garbage means that most Asian guys have slowly assimilated this poisonous identity. Add to that the very lack of positive Asian male stereotypes and you have a growing generation of Asian men who think that being nerdy and geeky is the meaning of being Asian, which is a bunch of horsecrap.

Now the whole Asian upbringing by our parents and the whole Asian culture as an entity is such that we value obedience, harmony and respect, more than being vocal, over-expressive and opinionated.

Most Asian guys reading this know that when you are young and you decide to get too cocky, your boldness is not praised but immediately punished with a slap across the face.

After a while, you learn that the best way to live is to be quiet, be obedient and not say too much. We play it safe, we don’t over-step the boundaries, and we work hard – which is all and good, but it is absolutely destructive when you bring that attitude to meeting women.

The common complaint white girls and even just girls have in general about Asian guys are they are just too quiet, too stoic, too non-expressive. They sit in the corner, have barely nothing to say, just stare at the girl and after a while, the girl is either creeped out or she just plain overlooks you and thinks you are transparent.

Heck, sometimes she might even forget your name, and that you even existed. And that sucks.

Finally, as a culture, Asian guys are born thinking and analyzing a lot more. Just look at the number of computer scientists, engineers and mathematicians we produce as a culture, we are born analytical and we can break things down quickly.

Asian men vs. White men

Now, while that’s good for getting through college, that sucks for talking to girls because most Asian guys spend the whole time, plotting their next move like playing Chinese Chess. They try to over-think the interaction, second-guess the girl when they should be paying attention to her.

The end result is the conversation gets awkward, or the girl just feels she is ignored and that you are not paying attention to her and she walks off in an angry puff, leaving you there standing all alone with your drink in your hand.

Now why do Asian girls go with white guys? It’s not a race issue, I am not going to over-generalize here because I know there are Asian girls who are only into white guys but most Asian girls as a whole have no specific preference.

They are just into confident guys who make them feel good. And since Asian guys are not doing as good a job as white guys, Asian girls naturally pick the next best alternative.

As a culture, Asian guys should stop hating on white guys for “stealing” Asian women, neither should we be hating for Asian women for being “traitors” and “sleeping with the enemy”. It’s precisely that kind of thinking that leads to Asian guys struggling and failing with women.

3. What are some things Asian men can do to improve their dating lives?

Great question again. Here’s what I suggest Asian guys do.

Firstly, the only and best way to break a a stereotype in your head is to find a strong role-model, so dominant and so completely different that just watching or listening to him completely and permanently smashes all limiting beliefs you ever had.

When you feel such a role model, so strong, so capable, so full of confidence and ability and you hear his stories, his thoughts and listen to him talk, you will immediately realize that all you once believed was false, and that being Asian is not a handicap, and that Asians can get good with women.

In my product Asian Dating Superstars, I don’t just provide you with one role model – I provide you with 12!

No kidding, 12 Asian guys who have had to rise from deeper ashes than most probably all the Asian readers reading this right now.

Some of them had to endure more shame, teasing, mocking, racist Asian comments than you can ever imagine, but each of them rose above these to become successful.

So when you listen to their stories and their thoughts, you begin to think – hey these guys are Asian, they understand how I feel but they too manage to succeed, maybe I can do this after all!

And you bet they understand how you feel, because they have the same, (if not deeper) emotional scars to prove it – and having walked the path you have walked, they can fix your issues faster than anyone else can.

The next important thing is to understand that reality can definitely be shifted and changed, but ONLY if you know how.

A lot of Asian guys have gone through their entire lives so far with no success with girls, and they automatically assume it’s lights out and game over for them. They assume they are destined to die single, and that no girl will even take a fancy to them.

WRONG!

Look, the 12 Asian dating coaches on my product each started in about the same bad shape as most Asian guys. Rejected left and right, girls avoiding them or toying with them before breaking their hearts, they have all been there.

But look where they are now, the same guys who used to laugh at them are now their students. You can be just as successful if you know how.

What I have done with Asian Dating Superstars is gotten them to reveal their own personal journey and transformation, and the very best of their personal learnings – and along the way, shatter every single one of the common limiting beliefs most Asian guys have that prevents them from succeeding.

Quite a few Asian guys carry a ton of emotional baggage when it comes to meeting and attracting women and you bet the women can sense it. They can smell if you have low-esteem, if you are afraid, if you don’t think much of yourself.

The key is after listening to the Asian Dating Superstar series, you will learn to drop a lot of this emotional baggage you’ve been carrying for so long, and begin to feel better about being an Asian male, regardless of what your past history is.

It’s like that strange moment of total clarity when you realize that yes, I can actually do this and you feel absolute self-confidence.

And one final piece of advice is this. You have to take risks.

Quit being too safe, too obedient, there are times when there is an opportunity you want right in front of you, and you have to squash everything else and go and grab it.

Screw being obedient all the time, sometimes when fear pops up, you gotta kick it in the balls and just charge forward to get what you want. You gotta be bigger than your fear.

Go do it, and don’t think. Who cares what they think? Please yourself first, and if you really want to do something, go ahead and do it, without fear or need of approval.

In Asian Dating Superstars, I get the 12 Asian coaches to reveal how they used highly-effective techniques to re-wire their previously negative and harmful thinking, and enable them to achieve great confidence with women.

With this, you will learn how to get in touch with your natural masculine self and build unstoppable confidence. The fears and insecurities you had previously will melt away and you will find that your hands stop shaking, your teeth stop chattering and you stop shivering or stammering when you talk to girls.

You will be more expressive, more fluid and more natural.

I have not seen any other program out there this specific for the Asian population. I am Asian and I have been in the dumps before, girls rejecting me like I was invisible and transparent so I know exactly how Asian guys feel.

I am going to go one step further and say this – if you want to stop being rejected by women, stop feeling insecure about being Asian, stop leaving parties and social events feeling shitty and disappointed with your lack of confidence, you will find the solution right here.

Do it for yourself. You deserve it this time.

It’s time for Asian men to stop feeling sorry for themselves and to dust themselves up and get the respect we have always deserved, both as an individual and as a culture.

And I feel the journey begins here.

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Asian Dating Superstars

It’s not everyday you come across a product specifically for Asian men only. I mean Asians have it hard sometimes, the media’s not kind on them and then there are stereotypes like having a small dick and stuff like that.

That said, some of my best friends are Asian and they are some of the biggest pimps I have ever seen. They just seem to exude confidence from their skin pores.

Stereotype, what stereotype?

Anyway, most Asian guys I know aren’t all that smooth and charming. Some of them have crappy body language, bad handshakes, are nervous wrecks around women and give in too easily.

It could be the whole “Asian” culture and the whole Asian upbringing and strict discipline and stuff but I have no idea.

That said, I had a chance to review a product by a guy named Ryker Koh. Ryker had interviewed 13 of the world’s top Asian PUAs and asked them Asian-specific questions. It was a literally a product made by an Asian for other Asians.

Instead of FUBU, it’s FABA! (For Asian By Asian, lol)

Click here to find out more.

If you are Asian, you better read this.

If you ever wondered whether being shorter than a white guy, or being less muscular is an issue … or if you ever wondered whether white women find Asian guys attractive…. or if you ever thought that being stereotyped with a small penis is a problem – guess what, this is your answer right here.

I heard the first 5 interviews and this Ryker guy really drills these Asian dating coaches hard. It really looks like the guy has done his research here and man, some of the questions he asked were so specific and right-on-the-money I was nodding in approval.

Even from a non-Asian perspective, this product is value for money. First of, the cast Ryker brought together is insane.

It’s DJ Fuji (who just won the PUA Summit 2009′s Best Fresh Blood PUA), Daniel Rose of Sex God Method fame, Jeremy Soul (Day Game Expert from LoveSystems), the mysterious Mr M whose legendary Playmate pickup has become big news around the community, Troy Dizon, William from ABCs of Attraction and even an Asian-American PhD Professor of Evolutionary and Mating Science.

What are you taking for? Get Asian Dating Superstars.

The content is not just for Asians too, ’cause it deals with limiting beliefs as a whole. I remember the time when I thought being short was a problem and after listening to the series, I struggled to remember why I even let that thought affect me in the first place.

All I can say is this – if you are Asian and you are reading this, you will do well by checking this product out here. Hey, if anything, Ryker has gotten these coaches to surrender some of their best lay-reports and articles – some of which I have never seen anywhere else before and I hear are only given to their private-instruction clients, who pay freaking thousands of dollars to get.

And I was browsing some of these lay-reports and *pleep*, some of the stuff inside is GOLD, GOLD, GOLD man …. read it and see if you won’t just agree straight-away with me.

And if you are not Asian, it’s definitely still worth checking out. You will learn something from the all-star lineup and clear some of these small, nagging limiting beliefs that sometimes pop up and bite you in the ass.

After listening to it, I guarantee you will feel a deeper sense of clarity and self-belief. Well, I certainly did.

Anyway, check it out here –> Click me!

I went through the whole set, and I highly recommend it. Read the sales-letter too, it’s one of the funniest, most sarcastic sales-letters I have read in a long, long time.

Once again, it’s here –>  Asian Dating Superstars

Want to approach her? You can.

I haven’t been posting lately and this is because I have been going through a transformation since my bootcamp. I’ve been out constantly sarging and bettering my game…

An interesting thing happened this week. You know when I started pick up I ran social circle and alot of nightgame… I have run day game some of the time, but this week I went through a realization.

I ran a street pickup and bounced the hb to a coffee shop. I was able to close her on the Day 3 it could have been a Day 2 close, but there were time constraints. The sarge was done entirely during the day. From opening to closing it was run during the day.

Now, I am more determined than ever to improve my day game. Street game probably has the lowest probably of the different types of day game. However, I find street game the most exciting

There’s so many things going on with my game right now but the main focus on this post is day game.

Day Game Tips:

1. High traffic areas- make sure to hit up high traffic areas since this has the most amount of people and potential sets to open

2. Street Game- although street game is an area I am improving I have noticed if you move the sarge quickly (kinoing early, locking in, bouncing) you can have a higher rate of success

3. Bookstores- bookstores are a great place to game during the day. One thing I have done lately is take hb’s to the travel section of the bookstore and pick out the place they would most like to travel to. From there, we sit down and look through the pictures in the book (good for kino). Also, you can bounce around other areas of the bookstore.

4. Coffee shops- these are good as well. Make sure not to talk to the hb’s from a standing position for a long time.

**Know your bounce locations during the day. You never know when you will have a set that will go well. Then, if you don’t know your bounce locations, you will be walking around looking. This is not good trust me I have been there.

Don’t be afraid to kino during the day either. Kino’ing was one of my weaker areas after my bootcamp, but I have gotten my kino calibration tighter now. Kino works well after your bt spikes…

A few tips for day game. Keep on Sarging!

By the way, the new David Guetta cd is hott!

Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday...

Pick Up Artist are generally viewed in a negative light. One PUA who courts this controversy is Roosh, who expresses his strong opinions on his blog. Roosh is a PUA who gained popularity after writing about the D.C. dating scene. Now he has moved on to South America to continue his adventures. We got to chat with Roosh.

Basic Questions
1) How did you get into pickup?

I was reading a business forum in 2001 when someone randomly posted a link to Tony’s Layguide. As I was not getting laid, I studied the guide for a couple months then tried out some of the techniques. They worked and I just kept going.

2) What is your dating philosophy?

No matter what stage of the game you are at right now or how ugly you are there is a girl out there that will fuck you and the only way to find her is to keep approaching until you succeed. The mere act of approaching is the most important thing a guy can do.

3) How did you get good at dating to become an authority on it?

I’m sure there are tons of guys who are better than me, but my skill comes in explaining it in a clear way that other guys can understand and apply it to their own lives. Everyone knows a natural who bangs tons of women but who has retarded advice like “Be yourself” or “Smile.” He can never be an authority because he has no clue what works and what doesn’t. On the other hand I feel like I  know what will help the average guy.

4)What do you think guys greatest mistake with women is?

They’re too needy. You can see it in their eyes when they’re talking to a girl—it’s like everything collapses in the background and the sole reason for his existence is to give this new girl his undivided attention. This goes hand-in-hand with confidence issues because a guy who thinks he doesn’t deserve a hot girl will wet his pants if he just finds himself in a conversation with one. He sinks her claws in her and of course it turns her off. I think a lot of guys can be served well by adopting an aloof and indifferent mindset.

5) In your experience, what is the best place to find a quality girlfriend?

It depends on the guy and what he wants. If quality to me is a Latin girl who loves to dance then I’d hit the salsa clubs. If I want a girl-next-door bookworm then the coffee shop. If I want a vapid, hot girl then I’d go to the club. A guy needs to find out what he wants and then figure out the place that has it. There is no magic place that has a neverending supply of quality.

6) What are some ways to enlarge your social circle?

Be cool. Do you think a cool guy has to think about ways to expand his social circle? No because other people are trying to hang out with him, calling him on Saturday afternoon trying to figure out his plans. The better question is how can you be an interesting person to both guys and girls so that they want to hang out with you.

7) What was your life like when you weren’t good with women? What is it like now?

I played computer games (Warcraft, Starcraft) and poker with other guys who also sucked with women. It was a vicious cycle: hanging out with guys who were just as bad as I was, our skill never improving. I still believed that one day I’d get lucky and meet a hot girl who would find my lack of confidence, self-esteem, and conversational ability endearing. I also believed that being friends with a girl first was the best way to have sex with her. It never worked. Whereas then it was a huge deal to have an interaction with a pretty girl, it’s less significant now. I work on many girls at the same time and always have options. If one girl is acting flakey then it’s no big deal because there are others I can get with.

8 ) What is one of your favorite techniques/tactics?

Breaking up with her. In the course of our first conversation there is going to be something that highlights one of our differences (e.g. she likes dogs and I like cats). Then I tell her that while we had some good times, I can’t continue the relationship and it’s best if we go our separate ways (while holding her hand or touching her in some way). I’m in Colombia now and I made sure to translate this little routine into Spanish.

9) Do you use props? If so, what gets the most reactions?

I don’t use props, but I think my beard and mop-like haircut is a prop in itself.

10) What is your biggest sticking point?

Sometimes there is a girl I want to talk to but I tap into my experience and determine that, based on my previous approaches in this type of situation, the interaction will not go well and I should just save my energy by not doing anything. In effect I feel like I can predict the future, but of course no one can and I probably cost myself quite a bit by pretending I know how things would turn out. I make things harder on myself by overthinking.

11) What pick up artist has inspired you the most? What did you learn from them?

I would say David D’Angelo. His “cocky and funny” concept was very easy to understand and implement, and did the most to help me understand how attraction works. I’ve toned down the cocky quite a bit and found that humor alone is just as potent assuming you are confident. If not then you will come across as silly or goofy.

12) Describe the moment when your realized you need to work on this part of your life.

It was my last year in college and I asked a girl out to the movies, but she said she was busy. Two weeks later I saw her on campus holding hands with another guy and I realized that I had to make some changes if I wanted to get the girls I wanted.

13) What advice do you give to newbies starting out?

Hit the gym. It’s the most reliable way to improve a guy’s confidence, and he’s going to need every bit he can when it’s time to walk up to girls.

14) In your experience, what is the biggest issue for guys getting attraction from women?

Just being normal. Lot of guys are studying all these lines and routines and it comes across as weird and sometimes creepy. If you observe naturals, they’re having a normal conversation with just a few jokes or cocky bits thrown in, but not everything they’re saying is game. Being a normal, confident guy who can have a laugh is usually all you need to get laid with cute girls.

15) What are you goals for the community? Your life?

When it comes to the community I think guys need to be careful about who they idolize. Because no one guy is going to have the answers (including myself), they should pick and choose the advice that fits their personality or lifestyle best. I understand this is a big business now but guys should be skeptical of everyone. I’m at the stage of my life where I have a lot of experiences that I can share, and that I know helps others. I like passing wisdom I’ve learned.

Specialized Questions

1) Why did you choose to come to South America?

It came down to money and language. The two other parts of the world that I was interested in was Eastern Europe and Southeast Asia, but I really loved how in South American I only needed to know two languages to get by. Plus I like women with darker, tanned features and curvy bodies, which South America has.

2) What’s the difference between sarging in North America and South America?

The logistics are about five times easier in N. America. Girls have their own apartments. They like to drink (a lot). They don’t have to be home by a certain hour. They don’t hang out in huge groups. They aren’t strict Catholics. And most importantly, they speak the same language as you do. I think a lot of guys have the view that getting laid while traveling is easier, but that’s only the case if you have a lot of trouble getting laid in your own country. If you think you’re going to visit a new city every few days and get laid in each one, you will be sorely disapointed. You’re going to need your own cell phone, you’re going to need time to find places that have the girls, and you’re going to need your own place (or at least know where there is a love motel). Otherwise you’ll be counting on luck quite a bit.

I’m still surprised that being a gringo hurts more than it helps. The quality girls that you want are not looking for some one night fling with a guy she can barely communicate with. She wants that connection too. If you don’t want to dip into the dregs with the poor girls, you’ll have to work quite hard for quality. That includes studying the local language and building roots in one city for an extended period of time.

3) What country do you like best and why? What about women-wise?

My favorite country is Brazil. The country itself doesn’t is an oddball in S. America because it’s so much more colorful and exciting than all the other countries (and dangerous too, unfortunately). It’s a happy place to be in, and while it’s the most expensive country in S. America I think it’s worth it. The women are extremely sensual. They know how to dress and walk, and most importantly of all, please a man. Once you go Brazilian, you don’t go back. And yes, they like gringos.

4) Can you relate a success story about one of your clients?

When I was in the States I was teaching a day game workshop every weekend. I had two students at a time and one of my students was attending a small college. He had practically no approach experience. I ran the lecture and then we went out to various venues like the coffee shop, clothing store, and eventually the street. Now the street is the hardest place to pick up a girl, but there he picked up a very cute girl using the material I taught him. I hear from him every few weeks and he tells me how much progress he’s making. I want to take all the credit, but of course I know that a lot of guys simply need a nudge in the right direction. He’s doing things now that I didn’t teach him and that’s because his early successes keeps pushing him to approach and continue. In only one year I know he’s going to be very good.

5) Why did you choose the name Roosh?

Roosh is my nickname that I’ve had since high school. I probably should have thought harder about using it online because girls google “roosh” often and my blog is the first result. It gets me into trouble all the time.

6) What are your fundamental teachings?

Approach indirectly in large numbers to aquire the experience needed to know how to talk to a girl and make her laugh. Learn the little tricks that take the interaction from one stage to the next. Don’t worry about quality until you get a solid grasp of how the game works.

7) How do you differ from other dating coaches?

I think I’m less of a sell out. I put out a quality book at a low price and genuinely want to help guys. Even my workshop was so cheap that a bunch of my students said I should charge more. Others have helped me when I was coming up and I want to return the favor. I’d do it for free if I had a trust fund or lottery winnings.

8 ) Your known as a misogynist / sexist pig in the community. How do you respond to that?

I think it’s disingenuous to say you love women but want to have sex with a lot of them. It’s a fact that the less you value women, the more you see them as worthless whores, the more of them you will have sex with. I’ve simply adopted the right mindset for my goals. Guys who think women are flawless princesses will not get many bangs out of the game.

9) You’re a well-known blogger (enough to get a parody site). What can you tell us about blogging and your blog?

I’ve had a blog in one form of another since college but things really took off when I focused on the Washington DC area and blogged almost exclusively about girls and nightlife. Gradually the audience grew to where I was making enough money from advertising and book sales to quit my job. I don’t make nearly as much as when I worked, but it’s enough to live in a third-world country such as Colombia or Argentina. My current blog is going on its fifth year, and while it doesn’t bring me as much joy as it used to (at times it feels like a job), I still have a lot of things that I want to share. I may blog less in the future but I don’t think I’ll stop it completely.

10) Tell me about your products.

Right now I only have my book Bang. I wrote it when I felt confident enough about the level of my game that my knowledge would be worth paying for. It has five chapters: Internal Game, Early Game, Middle Game, Late Game, and End Game, and describes step-by-step what you need to do to from the appraoch to sealing the deal. I even talk about the order you should remove a girl’s clothes in bed, something that I haven’t seen other guys do.

11) What are your plans for the future?

I’m working on a memoir now about my previous trip to South America which I hope to be done with by fall of 2009. After that I start work on a day game book, and I have other ideas for books in the future. I think book writing is what I will be focusing my time on for the next couple years, until I get into straight-up pimping.

Olalala...

This was sent in by a reader who remains anonymous. My answers are italicized in blue.

hey, i just graduated from college and was planning on going to central or south america to learn spanish for a year. I’m really drawn to buenos aires for the girls, but i’ve heard that colombian girls are pretty too. can you tell if a certain pu approach worked better in argentina than in colombia?

Hey. I’d say between the two the Colombian girls are more exotic than the Buenos Aires girls, but BA has a better nightlife. Also, the Spanish in Colombia is a bit easier to understand. Have you looked into Peru? The girls there aren’t bad either.

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Are you more about the nightlife or the women? If you are just looking for hot exotic women, then check out Colombia or Lima, Peru. But, if you like nightlife and pretty cute girls, then check out BA.
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No problem if you have anymore questions let me know. You won’t be dissapointed in Lima.

We head to the venue of the night… I arrive with some wings from the Lair… Tonight I was working on coaching my other wing in set and also my transitioning/qualification game…
Set 1

I got blown out. I opened two HB8′s with the Drunk I love You’s Opener, but I missed my false time constraint! They told me we gotta go before I even got into my opener! Ouch… Ying and Yang energy I must remain non reactive…

Set 2

Opened a 3 set with a default opener.. This time I threw in the FTC and transitioned with “Lemme guess your the good girl and your the bad girl…” Bad girl referring to my target… Then, I tell them “You can be my devil (target) and you can be my angel (obstacle)… (Love Systems Transition)Then, we can walk hand in hand…

I ended up isolating my target away from the friends for a bit… She didn’t really meet what I was looking for in qualification so I ejected the set…

Highlighted Sets

HB Pot Girl
Opened with the bar opener… “When a guy and a girl are at the bar at the same time, who should get waited on first the guy or the girl??” She starts talking… From there, she invites me to go to a party on Sunday with her friend… She talked about how she’s a pot girl hmm… lol…

My wing came in DHV’ed him he DHV’ed me then left…. Moved her over to the other side of the VIP area. Cold read, Qualify… Timebridge/number close… Said our good bye’s….

HB Venezuelan Girl

Saw this HB who I had known before from Social Circle… Started talking to her then did a bounce over to the VIP area… Went into A3 with qualification about where she has traveled then I started speaking to her in Spanish… She knew a lil, but I teased her a bit for not being able to keep up

From there, did a lil bit of kino then number closed future timebridge…

Debrief…

Ran some more sets none were worth mentioning, but debriefed with new Lair members at the end of the night…

Pool Game

We head to a big pool party in town… Pools are fun because they are a GREAT place to game (Hot Girls) plus the girls are in bikinis haha!!

I open a two set sitting down…
ME: “Hey ur tattoo looks pretty interesting! R u into music??” (She had a music design on the tat)
Her: Yeah…
Me: Transitioned about how they knew each other bad girl/good girl routine…

We had a cooler full of beers and I asked if they could watch it while we went around the pool area…. I made sure to talk to all the people I knew there including my friend who was Dj’ing the pool party…

Highlighted Sets

HB Flower Tattoo

Opened this HB with a flower tattoo who knew my friend… She was pretty interesting mainly for her artistic approach she was an interior designer who wanted to set up hotels for dogs… Her fav dog was a some kind of hunting dog with green eyes… Nonetheless, interesting set and we ended up talking for some time… Made sure to throw in my DHV spikes and kino some also ran the rings routine for more kino buildup…

Timebridged her for later tnite…

HB Towel Girl…

I sat down on a chair and this girl had a towel with her name on it…

ME: “Oh did you go to a special place to get your name imprinted on your towel?”
Her: “Yes, actually my Aunt has a shop in LA and she does it…”

We ended up talking about LA and I told her how I have some friends out there… Did some cold reads on her and then got distracted by my other friends and she had to go… Good set, though her bf was right next to us lol!

Thoughts

Pool game is lots of fun… Didn’t realize how many girls had tats!!! Easy to open during the day and most the sets were hooking…

In Club game, don’t forget to utilize your areas! For example, VIP sections to bring your targets too… It also helps knowing ppl in the venues…

So long…

I’m going to be breaking my Day 2 or insta bounce Fr’s and LR’s a bit different now. I will be using it running the M3 Model and a step by step basis of what I did with the set. If you don’t know the M3 Model, then I suggest looking over it before reading my FR’s.

Intro

I’m in Tallahassee for the weekend to visit.I met with the Local Lair guys Falcon and a newbie.  I decide on heading to a good Cuban restaurant in town, but last minute make a right at a Mexican burrito restaurant called Moe’s. We head inside and I’m thinking about what to order. Then, this HB 7.5 walks in by herself.

A1

I approached her over the shoulder. I used an on the fly opener.

Me:What do you recommend on the menu?
Her: You probably won’t like what I’m eating…
Me: Oh lemme guess your a vegetarian…
Her: I actually am
Her: What’s your name? (IOI)
Me: I give her my name
Her: Where are you from?
Me: Guess

Skipped to A3 due to massive IOI’s

I skipped to A3 because she was giving me lots of IOI’s. I stopped talking to her after we were ordering our food. My friend the newbie needed some napkins and she was heading over to the drink section. Perfect opportunity to go back into the set. I go in and began qualifying her about if she has traveled.

She met all the qualifications. She was into nutrition, spoke Spanish, (her ex was Panamanian)
traveled….

She was ordering her food to go so I set up a timebridge with her…

Me: Listen, I’m in town for the weekend… Why don’t you leave me your number and we’ll hang out tomorrow let’s say around 1?

Her: I don’t think that’s a good idea… Your cute and everything, (IOI) but I think I’m a lot older than you…

Me: I bet you can’t even guess my age…

Her: 21

Me: Wrong… Higher

Her: I’m gonna need to see some ID mister

Me: Cool, I pull out my ID

Her: K that’s cool… Well, I don’t know anyone in town I just moved here for school, so just give me a call tomorrow…

I sent her a few text messages from there and it was on. Set up the timebridge for 630PM

Continue with A3 roll into C1

I had her meet me where I am staying at. My friend let me have an extra room at his apartment complex, and I had my car there. Logistics were in my favor, so I thought.

She meets me outside and she’s lookin cute- Jewish chick from Miami with a smoking body damn their some hot 1′s. K, let’s go over to my car I have some fun things were gonna do today. Hope you like hookah I tell her. She says “of course.”

Checked her times it could be an issue she had to meet with her mom the next day to get furniture for her apartment. I only have one day so I would take it as far as I could…

Ran some more qualification. Can you cook? She does, Also, she was an aerobics instructor in the last town she lived in….

C1- Chilli’s

We head over to Chilli’s for some 2-4-1 Margaritas. I sit across from her, which limited my kino escalation….

Had some stories lined up that hit many DHV spikes like being a successful risktaker and also a vulnerability story … Here’s an overview of what I did during C1.

My Risktaker Story:

I just got back from South America. A lot of my friends thought it was pretty crazy that I went down there- especially Colombia. I know people say it’s dangerous, but you only live once. I met my friend there and we ended up backpacking all the way down to Argentina.

This opens up multiple conversational threads into several topics about my travels. I have a kidnapping story from Colombia I use for vulnerability and also helping Bolo out in times of need with Spanish as a protector of loved ones along with having a close relationship with my sister (story).

We split an appetizer and I found out her passions which was her work as a research assistant. She kept going on and on about it… I just listened and smiled and was intrigued as well with some of the things she had to tell me- she worked doing regenerative research.

The bill came and I told her I would take care of this and she could take care of the bill @ hookah. She’s cool with it and we head out of the venue…

After that, she had not seen the campus. I gave her a tour of the campus while I was driving in the car naming all the buildings and different things about it…

C2- Hookah Lounge

There’s this really good hookah lounge in town called Cafe Sheesha. Like most hookah lounges, it is a good place for kino escalation and building an emotional connection with the target thru stories and games…

We ordered a blueberry hookah and some tea. In this venue, I amped up the kino and worked more on storytelling…

The keys at this venue

1. Questions Game- It’s funny because my first question about the craziest thing she’s ever done received a response that she had sex with two guys. I didn’t even have to throw out a sexual question she did it. We talked about sex and past relationships. I can’t tell you how important this game is…

From there, it was really relaxed and it was more about vibing along with building kino. One thing I have really learned with this material, is to refrain from k-closing inside venues. I save that for the seduction location…

They had a bellydancer come out and it was fun watching girls and guys go up there and dance with the girl bellydancing… Afterwards, she clears up the tab and we head back to my place…

My friend promotes the main venues in town so he already has a group of people at his place for a pre game. I had already seeded the place so she could meet some people and to watch a movie…

She tells me I should go off with my friends. No, I’m cool I went out last night. My friends leave and it’s just her and I in the apartment- isolation…

C3- movie and make out

I throw on the movie and we watch it. I k close and she lays on my lap while watching the movie.

S1

I tell her to come with me to the room to watch some you tube videos. The room wasn’t really set up no sheets on the bed because his roommate just moved out. I worked with what I had. A blanket and a pillow. Put on some music and I tell her she can sit down… She had thrown her time constraint about her mom coming before going into the room…

I threw on some music on you tube but my itunes was not playing. I like music during seduction that’s just me… Eventually, I just play music from the speakers of the Ipod…

I cavemanned her and just went on top of her and was making out. Kissing on the ears and neck, got her horny. I made sure to do freezeouts…

S2-LMR

I ended up meeting LMR about her having to leave and how she just met me yesterday. Cool, I take a step back and change the conversational topic.

We go back to making out again then this time I dry humped her and continued making out and started playing with her titties…

I met LMR again. Another freezeout. I was going back and forth with this for some time. Normally, I can close with not that much resistance, but every set is different…

I went back in again and took it the furthest. She said look I want to change + sleep in a bed with sheets and I want you to come with me back to my place so we can….. hint hint

ONE HUGE PROBLEM

My friend left the place and I didn’t have a key. I wasn’t going to leave the door unlocked (the lock was a top lock no bottom lock you have to lock it from the outside) and have someone potentially go in his place. He would be gone till later on in the night…

Go back to hooking up on the bed again. Pulled D-move to success, but she says she has to go…

Set is over. If I had a key to the place, I woulda closed. I’m leaving tomorrow, but I’ll probably be back in a few weeks. She’s down to meet up again. I walked her back to her car. Made out some more next to her car then sent her off….

Fun night… All from opening a set at a restaurant I love this GAME!!