Interested in being the next top pick-up artist?

Being a pick-up artist, isn’t only about picking up women. It’s about building a lifestyle around you where you will be happy and achieve the goals you desire. When I first joined the community in 2004, I thought that being a pick-up artist was just about picking up women. Sure, we do have a goal in mind and that is picking up women, but there are many other factors involved. Like, what type of pick up artist you will be?

Now, in 2009 I have a better idea of who I am as a pick-up artist to give new people an idea about this community and what we do. So, you want to pick up girls? Well, my first advice would be to find a reputable company that offers bootcamps. I waited until later to do this, but I wish I would have done it earlier. First, it offers you a good support system. Second, bootcamps offer you a program that will not only make you a better pick-up artist, but change your life. There are good companies offering bootcamps in the States.

Besides taking a bootcamp, what other factors can you improve on? I liked to take my weaker areas and improve on them. I was always good at nightgame, but I wanted to improve on my daygame. Daygame is where you go to meet girls during the day. This can be done at coffee shops, bookstores, and the street. Daygame is fun because most guys don’t approach women during the day. And the cool thing is, you can have success from approaching a girl during the day. I recommend approaching in high traffic areas. For example, coffee shops that get lots of traffic.

I mentioned nightgame previously. This is where I started my journey in pick-up. Nightgame is easier for most guys because they can have alcohol to approach. This is something that they can’t do during the day. When I go out, I try to limit my alcohol intake. This is because drinking too much can make your sarges sloppy. Then, the next day you will be thinking did I really do that? The good thing is if you limit your alcohol intake you can do better.

There is also social circle an advanced form of game, but one of the better ways to have women in your life. Social circle is great because once you have it the work is done for you for the most part. Going out to a club or a bar with tons of people including good looking girl can trigger attraction switches in other girls around the venue. Not only that, but you always have your social circle to rely on. A good tip for social circle is to just start going out and meeting people. Be cool and social and invite them out with you. There’s a lot more ground to cover, but if your seriously looking at becoming a pick-up artist or have thought of it you have come to the right place.

Want to approach her? You can.

I haven’t been posting lately and this is because I have been going through a transformation since my bootcamp. I’ve been out constantly sarging and bettering my game…

An interesting thing happened this week. You know when I started pick up I ran social circle and alot of nightgame… I have run day game some of the time, but this week I went through a realization.

I ran a street pickup and bounced the hb to a coffee shop. I was able to close her on the Day 3 it could have been a Day 2 close, but there were time constraints. The sarge was done entirely during the day. From opening to closing it was run during the day.

Now, I am more determined than ever to improve my day game. Street game probably has the lowest probably of the different types of day game. However, I find street game the most exciting

There’s so many things going on with my game right now but the main focus on this post is day game.

Day Game Tips:

1. High traffic areas- make sure to hit up high traffic areas since this has the most amount of people and potential sets to open

2. Street Game- although street game is an area I am improving I have noticed if you move the sarge quickly (kinoing early, locking in, bouncing) you can have a higher rate of success

3. Bookstores- bookstores are a great place to game during the day. One thing I have done lately is take hb’s to the travel section of the bookstore and pick out the place they would most like to travel to. From there, we sit down and look through the pictures in the book (good for kino). Also, you can bounce around other areas of the bookstore.

4. Coffee shops- these are good as well. Make sure not to talk to the hb’s from a standing position for a long time.

**Know your bounce locations during the day. You never know when you will have a set that will go well. Then, if you don’t know your bounce locations, you will be walking around looking. This is not good trust me I have been there.

Don’t be afraid to kino during the day either. Kino’ing was one of my weaker areas after my bootcamp, but I have gotten my kino calibration tighter now. Kino works well after your bt spikes…

A few tips for day game. Keep on Sarging!

By the way, the new David Guetta cd is hott!

See more of them here and you can find bootcamp information if you are in Asia and are interested here

We head over to another members place and he says here’s your first guys. One of them, I found out later had a g/f, and didn’t want to go into PUA just yet. However, the other newbie was interested and took in everything. The coaching started earlier in the day with a friend of mine going over the Mystery Method and actually working some sets with him in the coffee shop. He texted me the next day astonished at this stuff and was thanking for me to introduce him to it…

Back to newbie. We go over his history and we discuss game. This was totally informal as I didn’t have anything really prepared and didn’t even know about the coaching opportunity… I go over general game with him and let him know about how it has changed my life.

Venue-  Club Rayn

We head over to the venue. 3 PUA’s, 1 newbie in training, and another one who was “curious.” Once in the venue, it is pretty slow. I remember going over the new Mystery Project Hollywood and he mentioned even if the venue was slow to open whoever. Newbie is watching me and I open a 3 set with the “Drunk I Love You’s Opener”

The opener goes like this

PUA: Hey Quick Question, Do you think Drunk I Love You’s Count?
Her: No
PUA: My friend called his girlfriend last night when he was drunk and told her that he loved her. This morning he called her back and said he was taking it back…
Her: Always receives an emotional response

I worked my target for a few, but didn’t call in the newbie yet. I went over wing rules with him and walked around the venue with him as I was greeting other people.

I open another set obstacle for Falcon- HB 8 Colombiana. This girl was pretty hot and visiting from Ft. Lauderdale. I talked to her about my recent vacation to South America and was running the set in Spanish. Did some cold reading, qualifying, and hit my DHV stories that I have been working on. I get occupied and another girl I know walks past me. I introduce the two of them and say bye to Colombiana and go off with the other girl. I had gamed this HB the previous week. I sit down and she sits down next to me. I would use her later in the night as a pivot in other sets.

One area I would like to work on is taking advantage of using pawns/pivots in my sets more.

I have newbie open a set and he goes in with no AA. Good job he calls me in and I talk to the obstacle HB8 Dental Hygienist. This girl was cute and Southern, too. She had a nice lil Ga accent. Newbie stays in his set for a bit then ejects. I stay in with mine ran some cold reads, qualification, and went into DHV Stories… Number closed her…

I compliment newbie on opening his set and gave him some tips on opening game and how to approach a set better IE not leaning in and not fidgeting… I was really impressed at the fact that he had very little AA and would approach. His opening game needs work, but he has a lot of potential.

The rest of the night I was focused on helping newbie open more sets and getting to know him as a person. He was a great guy and we will be working together tonight. I will have some planned material to go over with him before we head out to the venue… We head to IHOP and all debrief over the night. You could tell we made an impact on him.

Things I did well

1. Got a dose of my first on the field coaching experience
2. Even though the venue was slow, I approached what was there and made the best of it
3. I showed the newbie some stuff that could potentially change his life

Things I need to work on

1. Work more on my coaching skills- I’m new to this
2. Continue to work more on my bi-wing game
3. Using pivots/pawns more in sets

There will be a bootcamp on May 15th that I might be helping with if I am in town. I really enjoyed this and would like to continue coaching other guys…