We walked out of the MRT and I asked her “Can you help me get to the HSR station?” She walked with me and showed me where it was. Before I was about to leave, I asked her “Let’s get some coffee @ Starbuck’s you can teach me some Chinese hehe ”She gave me her number and then I went to pay for my ticket to Kaohsiung. I wanted to grab some food before I made the trip so I went to look for an ATM since the person at the convenient store wouldn’t let me use my card. I went upstairs and walked past another convenience store… That’s when I ran into another cutie.

She walked out of the convenience store and I decided to open her. “Where’s the nearest ATM?” I asked her… She was looking around to help me find it, but after walking around the station she offered to get me some lunch. Pretty cool I thought. We walked over to the 7/11 and she asked me “What would you like?” I pointed to this pork and rice dish. “Thanks” I told her. I suggested to her we should hang out sometime and I took down her number.

I was off to Kaohsiung. The trip was relatively quick and when I arrived I had planned to meet with two different girls. In the MRT, I opened another set named HB Shiny. I call her Shiny cuz that’s what her nickname was. She was pretty cute and I asked her “How do you get to the cultural center?” She showed me and the thing I liked about her was her good energy. She lived in Tainan so I took down her contact info and told her we could plan a time to meet.

My logistics weren’t good since I didn’t have a place lined up for the night, but one of the girls I met in Taichung said her parents were okay with me staying the night @ her place. I wouldn’t really call that the greatest logistics, but I was tired and wanted a place to stay so I agreed.

I met the first chick then I made a bold last minute decision to have the two girls meet each other. This would be interesting because I sarged the two of them, but I wanted to try something different. We all met at Kaohsiung Train Station. We went around to a night market then over to the lantern festival, which was really cool. I highly recommend checking it out. They had street performers, a night market, and a fireworks display.

Afterwards, the three of us left the night market. The funny thing is that both girls were kinoing me and they also offered me their jackets since it was cold. I wanted to get isolation time with the girl that was hosting me. The other chick had a curfew anyway so once we got to the main station she left. I did find a nice Spanish restaurant on the walk back that I’ll do a write up on next time I’m in Kaohsiung.

I was tired, and HB Tall (tall, stockings, boots, blue contacts, nice makeup/style) and I went over to my locker to get my stuff. “You do want to stay the night here right?” she asked for verification. I told her “yes.” I had another option, which was get a hotel room, and then head there… I was quite tired though so I went with her back to her place. I also plan on meeting her this Thursday since I’ll be in Taichung then.

I had good kino compliance when we went back to her place by locking arms. We went inside her house and her mom was inside. I greeted her with “Ni hao ma.” She gave me a nice smile, but was on the phone. HB Tall went and set up my room for me while I went in to her brother’s room to check some emails. Her brother was gone @ the time.

When she came back in her brother’s room, I joked with her and said “You could sleep with me.” She laughed and said “I would, but my parents will get angry.” After I was done on the computer, we went over to her room where I would be staying. She was going to sleep in her brother’s room. I had some light kino with her (holding hands, hugs) while we drunk some Taiwanese aboriginal wine. We both gave each other massages and I went for the k close but she pulled back saying “No, not now.”

The door was shut at this time, and I knew that we were @ her parent’s house so I told her “I respect that and I know your parents are in the other room.” I was so tired that I fell asleep right after she went over to her brother’s room.

The next morning I awoke to her lightly saying “Wake up.” Her parents were gone for the day, but she had to leave around the same time I was heading to Taipei. She asked me “When will you be heading to Taipei?” I joked with her and told her that “Oh you want me to leave so soon?” She said “no” I just wanted to know. Her dog (the cockblock Chihuahua) I would like to call it kept coming in the room and ran around seeking attention.

She brought me some dumplings for breakfast and I had light kino with her. To make a long story short, I did go for the k close and we ended up making out. The dog kept running around her brother’s room during this time. It didn’t progress pass the make-out. She even referred to me as “dangerous” when I asked her to get the dog out of the room so we could be alone. Later, when we left her place to go to the train station she said something to the extent that’s she’s not a good girl in a playful way. What I also thought was interesting is when I touched her in certain places she made a moaning sound. Def an indicator of her being sexual…

She has her own place in Taichung, but with 5 cats. I am allergic to cats so that won’t work out. I asked her to book me a hotel room for that night near her place. We parted ways at the train station. She even bought me a huge Japanese style cookie… Very cool girl and I look forward to meeting her again.

When I reflect on this, I think that I should have lined up a hotel room. I also don’t know if it was a good idea that I met both girls at the same time, but it was nice to experiment with something different. I could sense a little bit of jealousy with the two of them during our time out. Nonetheless, it was a fun experience crashing @ my targets parent’s place.

LS

Vang Vieng is a strange place. It is located in the middle of Laos, yet people come from all around the world to party. The main attraction of Vang Vieng is tubing; people sit on tubes and float down the river, stopping at bars along the way. There are many bars along the river, but only about 4 or 5 that people go to where you’ll find crazy parties. People start at the first bar and end up at the last. Not only are there bars, but there are also ziplines, rope swings, and water slides. Drunk people going on ziplines is always a good idea… This party begins around 1PM and ends at 6 or 7PM, or whenever the sun goes down over the mountains. By 4pm most people are too drunk to stand straight. After tubing,people eat dinner, then get ready to party again at night. The thing with Laos is that due to government regulations, bars must shut down by midnight. Some bars stay open later, but they either have a late license or do so illegally.

My first night out in Vang Vieng I saw this guy handing out free shots. I said that I’d be interested in working; 2 minutes later I found myself talking to the owner of the bar and agreed to start working the next day. In exchange for work I’d get free accommodation, free food, and all the free alcohol I wanted. The bar wasn’t particularly crowded, but why not. I’m always down for a new experience. I showed up at the river the following day at 12:30 PM. My job on the river was to hand out free shots, tie wrist bands around people, and promote for the night time. I got completely shit faced my first day on the job. Later that night I went out to the bar and got completely shit faced again. At 11:30 PM I was done for the day and was able to either stay out partying, or go to sleep.

I hadn’t gotten laid since I left Korea and was going on a 5 week dry spell. I was a bit rusty, to say the least. The good thing about working at the bar forced me to talk to A LOT of people in a short period of time. After a few days of work I started getting more on point and was making out with a new girl every day. My first make out was with this cute South African broad. The following night this Australian girl approached me and started making out with me about 8 seconds later. I was starting to get more on point.

One night at work I noticed these 2 Korean girl walking around the bar taking pictures of themselves. Surprising to see Asian girls taking unnecessary pictures of themselves, huh??? Haha. One of them was hot, the other fat. I approached them and asked if they were from Korea. They were surprised that I knew that they were Korean (I spent 5 weeks in Korea recently and live in the northeast of the USA, so I know damn well what Korean girls look like). I told them I spent 5 weeks in Korea and that I crashed at a friend’s place in Gangnam. They were Gangnam girls, so it was instantly on. I started talking about bolgogi and kimchi after this. They asked if I worked at the bar, and I said what I said, then offered them jobs at the bar. Of course my main motivation in doing this was to fuck the hot one. They started working at the river the next day.

The following day at the river I spent a lot of time talking to the cute one (as well as every other hot girl that came to party on the river). Great thing about working on the river was that it was an easy way to meet every girl who stopped by. When a girl hung out at my bar on the river and I actually had a conversation with her, if she came out to my bar later that night it was easy to continue where we left off. In addition to this, working at a bar is a great way to gets lots of social proof. Working at a somewhat low-key bar is nice because it makes it easy to meet everyone there. Working at a crowded bar is probably great, but it’s less obvious to the girls that you work there so you don’t stand out as much.

Later that night at the bar, it was me, my chick, her friend, and my friend. I suggested that we all go back to my room and smoke a joint. After the joint my friend and his chick went off to his room to fuck, so it was me and my chick in my room. She wasn’t ready to fuck that night. I went for the make out and got D-NIED. She went to her room after this. The following night I found myself in a hammock with her. We went back to my room and I got whiskey dick. I drank a bit too much. The next night we went back to my place again, except this time I railed her out really hard. After that night we fucked every night until she left. If I ever go back to Korea I’ll rail her brains out again.

Every day at the river this German girl would come down. This girl was absolutely gorgeous; cool girl too. I’d basically talk to her the entire time she was at my bar. I’d always tell her to come out to the bar at night, but she thought I was just promoting and not being sincere about it. Finally on her last night she came to the bar. She said to me “would it make you happy if I kissed you?” I said sure, and made out with her. I tried pulling her back to my hostel but she declined, due to a 5 AM bus ticket the next morning. This was also the Korean girls last night in town; luckily she showed up late… this gave me plenty of time to game the German girl. However I probably would have gamed the German girl regardless of if the Korean girl was there or not. Shortly after the German declined my attempt to go back to my hostel the Korean girl showed up. Being honest seemed like the best thing to do in this situation so I said to the German “I’ve been sleeping with this girl for the past week, but I want you tonight. Let’s go back to my place now.” She said no. She was getting ready to go to sleep anyway. We made out again, and she left. Not closing this girl was painful though. If I ever go to Germany I’ll finish what I started…

This was a cool night for me though. In the first part of the night I was making out with a hot German girl, and after she left I hung out with my Korean girl and banged her. It’s as if all of my hard work in the past was paying off right before my eyes…

The day after my Korean chick left town I moved into a new hostel. A hostel called Spicy Laos. I HIGHLY recommend this place if you ever visit Vang Vieng; it is by far the best and easiest place to meet new people. There’s a common area where everyone hangs out, and the beds are separated by nothing more than thin bamboo walls and mosquito nets. Very cool place but a bit cold at night. Plus, it’s literally the cheapest place in town and there’s free wifi, free breakfast, and hot showers. (There’s also a Spicy Laos in Luang Prabong. I highly recommend this hostel for all backpackers visiting Laos).

So pretty much everybody had quit working at the bar except for me and my English friend. He was ready to quit and move to a new bar, but I told him that the rewards would be GREAT if we both stuck it out… we both moved into Spicy Laos at the same time. Seize the day and jump on good opportunities. Shortly after moving into my new hostel I found myself talking to this cute Aussie girl. At the time she was travelling solo, but her friends were arriving the next day. Our conversation was very casual and pretty short. My English friend and I told everyone to come out to our bar later that night. Another benefit of staying at this hostel was that it was a great location for us to promote the bar to everyone.

That night the bar was decent, but I was exhausted. At 11:30 PM, I was ready to go to sleep. One of the Lao guys who owned the bar told me that I should stay until 12. I said why not, and stayed… at about 11:35 PM everybody from the hostel showed up, including the Aussie broad. She came up to me and was ALL over me. We went to the dance floor… I was wearing these thin Thai-style pants, and she was wearing those stretchy black pants (I fucking love those things). She started grinding on me and I told her “be careful… these pants are REALLY thin…” After this she suggested we go to a hammock. Hammocks are a fun place to take girls. She jumped me and started kissing my neck. I had to physically push her off to make her stop. After she stopped, I said to her “I’m going to FUCK THE SHIT out of you later…” She liked this. I found myself with the biggest hickey of my life, on my neck. I said that we should go back to the hostel. She replied with, “we’re going to end up there anyway, let’s wait a bit. This quote really stuck with me; it’s a great mindset to have, one of patience. We went back to the hostel 15 minutes later. No resistance. Only problem is that I got whiskey dick (story of my life). I fucked her for a solid 20 seconds then lost it. Get a good night sleep and don’t get too drunk! After this she was not sexually attracted to me anymore. It wasn’t awkward between us and we’d still talk, but she didn’t want to fuck again.

The night I pulled the Aussie girl was particularly fun for me though. My English friend I worked with was the next bed over from me. He had a new girl with him and I had a new girl with me. At one point he goes “Travolta, is that you?” I said back to him, “Yep. What’s up?” and continued with my business. Good good times.

The day after I sort of banged the Aussie broad I felt like the man. I was overly exhausted from partying so much and was feeling narcissistic. I didn’t want to do anything but sit around all day and not speak to anyone. About 3 days later I quit working at the bar; it was far too draining for me to be around drunk people all day. I could not deal with that shit any longer. Two days after I quit I left Vang Vieng and went to Luang Prabong. The cool thing about working in a bar is that is teaches you to be unreactive to all of the external stimuli going on around you. Everybody would be getting drunk and going crazy, but I’d be standing there completely chilled out. I was used to the environment from working there, so it had absolutely no affect. Girls would approach me every night because there was something different about me and everyone else in the bar. I miss working at a bar… I hope to do it again someday somewhere else.

My 2 weeks spent in Vang Vieng was the time of my life, hands down. I made out with some really hot girls, banged 2 different girls, and also did some amazing things. I went rock climbing and went on this intense and dangerous trek through the mountains. Traveling Southeast Asia made me discover that I love hiking through the mountains. It has actually inspired my near-future plans to go to Nepal. In Nepal I am planning on taking a 2 week trek to the base camp of Nepal. The majority of people go to Vang Vieng for the sole purpose of partying. The partying is great, but the best thing about the place has got to be the scenery. The town is surrounded by tall, steep limestone mountains. Every day I was there I’d stare at the mountains and they never failed to amaze me.

Vang Vieng was amazing, but I have no plans on returning for AT LEAST another few years. Go there if you ever get the chance. I could write another few pages about the rest of my experience in Laos, but I don’t want to get carried away.

Infamous scene from Fargo

Asian men have long been depicted in movies and the mass media in a distinctly unfavorable light, resulting in the rise of many stereotypes like the nerdy, geeky Asian or the asexual Asian.

Society rarely expects Asian men to stand up for themselves, much less have the confidence to approach beautiful women of high value. The resulting outcome is that many Asian men have placed themselves in a few mental lock-holds that restrict their success with women.

The first is bitterness and anger. Many Asian men have resorted to blaming the media for its negative stereotypes and often blog and write in rage at these unfair protrayals. They attribute their failures to external factors but rarely take any real-life action besides rage-driven posts.

Behind their rage is an inner self-loathing and acceptance of the fact that they are an inferior race and that being Asian is a distinct disadvantage.

The second is to stay seething but silent. Many Asian men who feel this way walk around in angry, silent desperation. They hate the fact that they do not have the desire they want but rarely take any action to change their situation.

Their self-pity builds up to an extent that one day they either suffer a breakdown or they lash out in uncontrollable rage. Whatever the case, theirs is a low-burn suffering on a daily basis.

The last is the escapist. The ones who give up altogether and do not play the game. They either engage in mail-order brides or take off into becoming sex tourists and never have any real connections with women.

The real way out of these negative mental barriers is to understand that continual thinking in this manner will never really result in real success with women. Instead, one should first disengage from these negative thoughts and pursuits.

The removal of negative influences – negative friends or media will accelerate the recovery process and aid him in improving his self-confidence and relationships with women.

What would really make a real difference is to find mentors or shining examples of other Asian guys who have succeeded before and use them as a benchmark, to break the whole stereotype and shatter the limiting belief.

A product available that might be of phenomenal help to Asian men is – Asian Dating Superstars.

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In it, the creator Ryker Koh asked 13 of the world’s greatest and most successful Asian dating coaches to break down the steps on how they managed to transform themselves from bitter, unsuccessful Asian males who could not get a date or a kiss to confident men who could enjoy wonderful relationships with an abundance of women they desire.

Some of the famous Asian dating coaches include DJ Fuji, Daniel Rose of the Sex God Method, William of ABCs of Attraction, Johnny Wolf, Xavier, Troy Dizon and more and one thing they all agree on is that once Asian men realize that they can be attractive, they will automatically regain their confidence and become naturally attractive to women.

Asian Dating Superstars reveal how any Asian man can easily and effortlessly do that and transform himself to the confident, charismatic, masculine Asian man that had always been inside him.

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Everytime I see this image I want to choke someone.

We’re having a special guest post from the guys at Asian Dating Super Stars. As a Chinese American I know what it’s like to have that self hate when it comes to dating. I use to blame the media or culture for my lack of a social life. It wasn’t until I discovered the Pick Up Scene did I finally take my dating life into my hands. That’s why I’m glad to see guys like Ryker helping get rid of these limiting beliefs for Asian men. Take a look. He was some important things to say.

-Bolo

Many Asian men fail to get the success they desire with women and many when asked why usually attribute their lack of success to racism and the fact that they are Asian.

Just how true is this statement?

The real, honest fact is that sometimes race does something to do with it. Women do notice which race you are and what you look like but not as much as you think so. Of course there are women out there who are not into Asians, but then again, there are women out there who are into white guys, black guys and every other race on the planet.

It’s just simple human nature.

So what’s the real problem here?

The real problem is that many Asian guys have convinced themselves that the women they desire will not find them attractive.

They have assimilated this limiting belief from young, perhaps from the media stereotypes or from being raised in an overly-conservative household and having had no success from young, they are convinced that they are doomed to fail when they approach beautiful women of any race.

The sad truth is that Asian guys who think like this simply don’t allow themselves the permission to follow their biological instinct and heart to date the women they honestly desire. The pain and frustration they feel lowers their self-esteem and makes them feel worthless and asexual.

The only way out is to find mentors or shining examples of other Asian guys who have succeeded before and use them as a benchmark, to break the whole stereotype and shatter the limiting belief.

One such product that might help is a product called Asian Dating Superstars.

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In it, I interview 13 of the world’s greatest and most successful Asian dating coaches who proceed to answer every single question Asian guys have about overcoming stereotypes and how Asian guys can have phenomenal success with women of any race they desire.

Such famous dating coaches like DJ Fuji, Daniel Rose of the Sex God Method, William of ABCs of Attraction, Johnny Wolf, Xavier, Troy Dizon and more reveal the exact, precise, step-by-step methods on how they overcame stereotypes and became confident, attractive men who could stroll into another place, walk up to any woman fearlessly and attract her in mere minutes.

One thing they all agree on is that it is possible for Asians to have great success with women – and all guys have to do is to follow what they have learnt and discovered and success could just be a click away.

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Pissed Off Asian

Hey guys. Bolo here. As some of you may know, I’m an Asian guy. Some of our non-Asian readers may be asking, “So what?” Well I’m tell you…being an Asian guy in the dating world can be tough. All around us we see Asian girls with all types of guys…white, black, brown…but we don’t see Asian men with other races. Why is this? I use to blame the media, family upbringings, Asian tradition…But blame is useless and took the power out of my hands. So I began my PUA journey…3 years later and my life has changed. Nowadays, it’s easy for me to go out and get girls.

Then I came across Asian Dating Super Stars….This is the resource I wish I had starting out. It’s a dating product designed especially for Asian men. My man Ryker Koh has brought together the best Asian PUAs together to share their secrets. This is something I wish I had when I first started getting into Pick Up. I caught up with Ryker…

Ryker Koh Interview

1. Tell Us A Little About Yourself And How You Got Into Pickup

Hey my fellow Asian readers, my name is Ryker and I entered pickup and seduction by complete and total accident. I first decided to aggressively improve this area of my life after I witnessed the phenomenal success of one Asian friend of mine.

This Asian dude was just a ordinary, confident yet somewhat quiet guy, but when it came to talking to women, he was a freaking beast with women. This guy was absolutely sick.

He was one of those guys who was born with pin-point precise natural ability to just enter a conversation with just about any girl he met and get her attracted in minutes. And he wasn’t even doing any magic tricks, any NLP patterns, any direct-game. Heck, this was back in 2000 before the community was famous.

All this guy did was talk about plain, simple stuff like hobbies and her life, and his life and fashion and entertainment, just about pretty normal stuff. But man, did these girls stick to him like bees to a honey.

And all the time, I stood there wondering, man, these topics he talks about are plain as peas and even sometimes about as interesting as watching grass grow but how the heck was he getting all these crazy results.

So I cornered the guy and decided to ask him and the thing was this dude had no idea what he was doing right, so everytime I started asking him for advice, he would squint and look really confused and feed me pretty feeble advice like “Just be natural, just be cool” which thinking back now, was precisely what he was doing. But because I was so way off the mark in my own skills, I still wound up getting no success.

And it was until I began aggressively studying and practicing “live” in the field, crashing and burning multiple times before I actually got good. But every since I was young, I have been blessed with a pretty thick skin, so even though I was humiliated and left embarrassed more than a few times, I licked my emotional wounds and soldiered on.

Now, all the time, I had another group of Asian friends who were also studying pickup and these guys really bought just about every course on the market. And these guys were really studious, they flooded their brains with pickup theory and could recite routines backwards in their sleep.

But their dating lives were still disappointing. No love, no girls and they still led pretty sad and lonely lives.

So one day, I asked them – “Yo guys, you have been studying this stuff for close to 2 years now, why do you still go home to a dark, empty house and sleep in your bed alone every night?”

And then, slowly, they began revealing a lot of limiting beliefs they had about being Asian, the whole Asian culture, Asian parents, Asian upbringing and as they did so, I winced and felt their pain because I too am Asian, and I had to overcome these same issues too.

And I thought to myself – hey, it’s time for the Asian man to stop feeling sorry and pathetic for himself. It’s time to get some respect, hence I created Asian Dating Superstars.

2. Why do you think Asian men have such a hard time dating and can’t get white girls? And why do Asian girls always seem to go with white guys?

This is a freaking awesome question.

Now let me break this down.

Why do Asian men have such a hard time dating?

Here’s the 3 biggest reasons.

Firstly, they spend too much time worrying and fearing that girls will mock them and dislike them straight away because they are Asian. No kidding, before they walk up, they feel the girls are already against them.

Now, most guys I know have 2 reactions to this. The first group decideds to resign himself to this sad fate and they slink away into the darkness, too afraid to approach. The second react in anger and outrage, and they approach over-aggressively, like they have a point to prove, and therefore scare the poor girl off.

Both positions assume an immediate “under-dog” mindset – that being Asian is some limitation to overcome.

Now most Asian guys feel this way because the media has been a total asshole and has flooded movies with a ton of negative Asian male stereotypes. Asians in movies are either the loser who is teased and mocked at by guys and girls alike, or the kungfu master who spends the whole show kicking ass and mouthing heavily-accented Chinese.

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Both of which are not the most attractive of male characters.

And prolonged watching of this Hollywood garbage means that most Asian guys have slowly assimilated this poisonous identity. Add to that the very lack of positive Asian male stereotypes and you have a growing generation of Asian men who think that being nerdy and geeky is the meaning of being Asian, which is a bunch of horsecrap.

Now the whole Asian upbringing by our parents and the whole Asian culture as an entity is such that we value obedience, harmony and respect, more than being vocal, over-expressive and opinionated.

Most Asian guys reading this know that when you are young and you decide to get too cocky, your boldness is not praised but immediately punished with a slap across the face.

After a while, you learn that the best way to live is to be quiet, be obedient and not say too much. We play it safe, we don’t over-step the boundaries, and we work hard – which is all and good, but it is absolutely destructive when you bring that attitude to meeting women.

The common complaint white girls and even just girls have in general about Asian guys are they are just too quiet, too stoic, too non-expressive. They sit in the corner, have barely nothing to say, just stare at the girl and after a while, the girl is either creeped out or she just plain overlooks you and thinks you are transparent.

Heck, sometimes she might even forget your name, and that you even existed. And that sucks.

Finally, as a culture, Asian guys are born thinking and analyzing a lot more. Just look at the number of computer scientists, engineers and mathematicians we produce as a culture, we are born analytical and we can break things down quickly.

Asian men vs. White men

Now, while that’s good for getting through college, that sucks for talking to girls because most Asian guys spend the whole time, plotting their next move like playing Chinese Chess. They try to over-think the interaction, second-guess the girl when they should be paying attention to her.

The end result is the conversation gets awkward, or the girl just feels she is ignored and that you are not paying attention to her and she walks off in an angry puff, leaving you there standing all alone with your drink in your hand.

Now why do Asian girls go with white guys? It’s not a race issue, I am not going to over-generalize here because I know there are Asian girls who are only into white guys but most Asian girls as a whole have no specific preference.

They are just into confident guys who make them feel good. And since Asian guys are not doing as good a job as white guys, Asian girls naturally pick the next best alternative.

As a culture, Asian guys should stop hating on white guys for “stealing” Asian women, neither should we be hating for Asian women for being “traitors” and “sleeping with the enemy”. It’s precisely that kind of thinking that leads to Asian guys struggling and failing with women.

3. What are some things Asian men can do to improve their dating lives?

Great question again. Here’s what I suggest Asian guys do.

Firstly, the only and best way to break a a stereotype in your head is to find a strong role-model, so dominant and so completely different that just watching or listening to him completely and permanently smashes all limiting beliefs you ever had.

When you feel such a role model, so strong, so capable, so full of confidence and ability and you hear his stories, his thoughts and listen to him talk, you will immediately realize that all you once believed was false, and that being Asian is not a handicap, and that Asians can get good with women.

In my product Asian Dating Superstars, I don’t just provide you with one role model – I provide you with 12!

No kidding, 12 Asian guys who have had to rise from deeper ashes than most probably all the Asian readers reading this right now.

Some of them had to endure more shame, teasing, mocking, racist Asian comments than you can ever imagine, but each of them rose above these to become successful.

So when you listen to their stories and their thoughts, you begin to think – hey these guys are Asian, they understand how I feel but they too manage to succeed, maybe I can do this after all!

And you bet they understand how you feel, because they have the same, (if not deeper) emotional scars to prove it – and having walked the path you have walked, they can fix your issues faster than anyone else can.

The next important thing is to understand that reality can definitely be shifted and changed, but ONLY if you know how.

A lot of Asian guys have gone through their entire lives so far with no success with girls, and they automatically assume it’s lights out and game over for them. They assume they are destined to die single, and that no girl will even take a fancy to them.

WRONG!

Look, the 12 Asian dating coaches on my product each started in about the same bad shape as most Asian guys. Rejected left and right, girls avoiding them or toying with them before breaking their hearts, they have all been there.

But look where they are now, the same guys who used to laugh at them are now their students. You can be just as successful if you know how.

What I have done with Asian Dating Superstars is gotten them to reveal their own personal journey and transformation, and the very best of their personal learnings – and along the way, shatter every single one of the common limiting beliefs most Asian guys have that prevents them from succeeding.

Quite a few Asian guys carry a ton of emotional baggage when it comes to meeting and attracting women and you bet the women can sense it. They can smell if you have low-esteem, if you are afraid, if you don’t think much of yourself.

The key is after listening to the Asian Dating Superstar series, you will learn to drop a lot of this emotional baggage you’ve been carrying for so long, and begin to feel better about being an Asian male, regardless of what your past history is.

It’s like that strange moment of total clarity when you realize that yes, I can actually do this and you feel absolute self-confidence.

And one final piece of advice is this. You have to take risks.

Quit being too safe, too obedient, there are times when there is an opportunity you want right in front of you, and you have to squash everything else and go and grab it.

Screw being obedient all the time, sometimes when fear pops up, you gotta kick it in the balls and just charge forward to get what you want. You gotta be bigger than your fear.

Go do it, and don’t think. Who cares what they think? Please yourself first, and if you really want to do something, go ahead and do it, without fear or need of approval.

In Asian Dating Superstars, I get the 12 Asian coaches to reveal how they used highly-effective techniques to re-wire their previously negative and harmful thinking, and enable them to achieve great confidence with women.

With this, you will learn how to get in touch with your natural masculine self and build unstoppable confidence. The fears and insecurities you had previously will melt away and you will find that your hands stop shaking, your teeth stop chattering and you stop shivering or stammering when you talk to girls.

You will be more expressive, more fluid and more natural.

I have not seen any other program out there this specific for the Asian population. I am Asian and I have been in the dumps before, girls rejecting me like I was invisible and transparent so I know exactly how Asian guys feel.

I am going to go one step further and say this – if you want to stop being rejected by women, stop feeling insecure about being Asian, stop leaving parties and social events feeling shitty and disappointed with your lack of confidence, you will find the solution right here.

Do it for yourself. You deserve it this time.

It’s time for Asian men to stop feeling sorry for themselves and to dust themselves up and get the respect we have always deserved, both as an individual and as a culture.

And I feel the journey begins here.

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(For more information on how you too can overcome the negative self-beliefs you have about being Asian, and permanently eliminate almost all the Asian-related insecurities you have to become more confident and attractive to women, visit Asian Dating Superstars now. It could very well be the answer you were always looking for.)

Click here to read our Asian Dating Superstars review.

Asian Dating Superstars

It’s not everyday you come across a product specifically for Asian men only. I mean Asians have it hard sometimes, the media’s not kind on them and then there are stereotypes like having a small dick and stuff like that.

That said, some of my best friends are Asian and they are some of the biggest pimps I have ever seen. They just seem to exude confidence from their skin pores.

Stereotype, what stereotype?

Anyway, most Asian guys I know aren’t all that smooth and charming. Some of them have crappy body language, bad handshakes, are nervous wrecks around women and give in too easily.

It could be the whole “Asian” culture and the whole Asian upbringing and strict discipline and stuff but I have no idea.

That said, I had a chance to review a product by a guy named Ryker Koh. Ryker had interviewed 13 of the world’s top Asian PUAs and asked them Asian-specific questions. It was a literally a product made by an Asian for other Asians.

Instead of FUBU, it’s FABA! (For Asian By Asian, lol)

Click here to find out more.

If you are Asian, you better read this.

If you ever wondered whether being shorter than a white guy, or being less muscular is an issue … or if you ever wondered whether white women find Asian guys attractive…. or if you ever thought that being stereotyped with a small penis is a problem – guess what, this is your answer right here.

I heard the first 5 interviews and this Ryker guy really drills these Asian dating coaches hard. It really looks like the guy has done his research here and man, some of the questions he asked were so specific and right-on-the-money I was nodding in approval.

Even from a non-Asian perspective, this product is value for money. First of, the cast Ryker brought together is insane.

It’s DJ Fuji (who just won the PUA Summit 2009′s Best Fresh Blood PUA), Daniel Rose of Sex God Method fame, Jeremy Soul (Day Game Expert from LoveSystems), the mysterious Mr M whose legendary Playmate pickup has become big news around the community, Troy Dizon, William from ABCs of Attraction and even an Asian-American PhD Professor of Evolutionary and Mating Science.

What are you taking for? Get Asian Dating Superstars.

The content is not just for Asians too, ’cause it deals with limiting beliefs as a whole. I remember the time when I thought being short was a problem and after listening to the series, I struggled to remember why I even let that thought affect me in the first place.

All I can say is this – if you are Asian and you are reading this, you will do well by checking this product out here. Hey, if anything, Ryker has gotten these coaches to surrender some of their best lay-reports and articles – some of which I have never seen anywhere else before and I hear are only given to their private-instruction clients, who pay freaking thousands of dollars to get.

And I was browsing some of these lay-reports and *pleep*, some of the stuff inside is GOLD, GOLD, GOLD man …. read it and see if you won’t just agree straight-away with me.

And if you are not Asian, it’s definitely still worth checking out. You will learn something from the all-star lineup and clear some of these small, nagging limiting beliefs that sometimes pop up and bite you in the ass.

After listening to it, I guarantee you will feel a deeper sense of clarity and self-belief. Well, I certainly did.

Anyway, check it out here –> Click me!

I went through the whole set, and I highly recommend it. Read the sales-letter too, it’s one of the funniest, most sarcastic sales-letters I have read in a long, long time.

Once again, it’s here –>  Asian Dating Superstars

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8 hours? Try 30 minutes.

Lately, in the community there has been more of an interest in SNL Game. Here’s the misconception. Many guys believe there is a 7 hr rule that you must follow to getting the close. Take that and throw it down the drain. There’s guys closing in less than 4 hours and my SNL’S usually average about 4-5 hours with my last one being in 2 hours. Well, Latinstylez what are the keys to SNL Game?

1. Logistics

Yup, this is where most guys fail. A friend of mine by the name of RedpoleQ always stresses logistics. If you have a solid game plan, of where you will take the girl from point A-Z, then you will be that much better off when you are running game. Combine that with being comfortable in the venues and also knowing the people there. Guess what that creates? It creates a person who is comfortable within himself in the areas he goes to and it shows by the way you act and also by the way you talk to other people in the venue.

Tip: Start looking around your area for some good venues to bounce your girls to. Think of at least 3-4 venues that you can rotate between.

2. Use plausible deniability to bring her back to your place

Plausible deniability is created when she doesn’t feel responsible. Again, my buddy RedpoleQ and BlueM stress this in their teaching. I have used this technique and have been able to escalate at a quicker pace and also deal with less LMR when I pull her back. A good example would be to tell her about vacation photos that you want to show her or some funny you tube videos. What this does is it doesn’t make her responsible. Remember the man is responsible!

3. Escalate

Escalating is where most guys fuck up on. You have a guy who is clearly interested in the girl he is sarging but when it comes to kinoing her he freezes out. Afraid to touch her the guy goes into a state and loses out on the girl he is interested in.This is one of the most important parts of SNL game because physical touch is very important in the HB feeling comfortable with you. Without touch, there is nothing!

Escalation tips:

Start small. This can be your hand on her shoulder or lightly touching  her arm and progressing. RedpoleQ teaches a bootcamp where he goes over this with guys. Remember to continue progressing!

4. Sexualize

Well what is sexualizing, Latin?  Here are some quick sexualization tips. Make sure to run Questions Game later on in the sarge. This is typically done at the seduction location or prior to the seduction location.

You want to make sure to find out how sexual she is…

Start by asking questions on how many people she has kissed and slowly progressing from there. The key here is to progress with each question.

Strawberry Fields is another great way to sexualize typically in the bounce location before the seduction location or you can roll it out in the seduction location. Sexualizing takes practice; I am still working on getting it tighter.

5. Pull the trigger

She’s laying there in the bed looking at you all sexual. You look down and decide that you “feel” right now is not the time after you have progressed this far in the SAME DAY! We’ve been there. This is the main reason I am writing this post. Well, don’t just sit there looking  at her pull the f…. trigger… Go on that bed and play with her hair and give her a kiss.

I’m sick of hearing crap about all these games in the community. Just go in for the k close and escalate. Pulling the trigger means going after what you want. Do you want that girl? Then pull the trigger!

SNL Game:

Just a few tips from someone who has experience in SNL Game. Most of the time I don’t even go for the SNL’s they just happen. They happen because of some of the steps I have listed above. There is much more to expand on this topic and we are working on ways to make our game harder, better, faster, and stronger. Most commonly in SNL Game, faster!

Latin

I’ve been talking to a few people from around the world, and we were debating about whether or not Korean women, are different than women from anywhere else around the world.

First, I talk about the differences between the East and the West.  Having lived, met and dated women in both parts of the world, I can share with you some of the differences in both history, culture and dating expectations.

In the West, we are taught to stand up for ourselves and be seen an individual. In the Orient, the saying goes that “if a nail stands up, it will be hammered down”. If you read the book Geography of Thought by Professor Nisbett , you will learn about this in depth. This difference in paradigm is the core of why gaming Oriental vs Occidental women is different.

You can easily see this in Asian movies such as Hero with Jet Li, or The curse of the Golden Flower with Chow Yun Fat.

I’ll throw out a few examples, and let me know if there’s anything in particular you’d like to know about.

* let’s say you’ve approached a girl in a bar and have gone over the opener.

In the West, approaching a girl is not that much of a deal, and doesn’t generate enough attraction on it’s own.

In the East, it’s very rare to see guys approach girls. In fact, only us Westerners do it in the daytime. This causes you to have to re-calibrate, and be careful about not shying her away, because she will feel self-conscious.

* Let’s say you are talking to a girl in a bar who is with her friends. She likes you, it’s painfully obvious. Her friends come, but they see you going well with their friend.

In the West, your target is more than likely to stay talking to you, and her friends are more than likely to let you guys do your thing, unless they can tell that she’s not having a good time.

In the East, your target is more than likely to notice her friends in their own group, and feeling like she’s going against her group, she will excuse herself in spite of liking you.

* Let’s say you’re building comfort

In the West, girls tend to talk about a variety of things, and have many different goals and stories that they are more than willing to go into.

In the East, you begin noticing certain common patterns on what they want, and say they want, or just say, and they keep it short. Sometimes, it’s like sarging the same person over, and over again. Neutral

Now let’s talk some about Korean women.

What can I say? I love them. It’s not just their looks that
get me going, but also their personalities.  They are reputed for being the prettiest women in the world, and I can’t agree more. Sure, Japanese women put more make up, and being a foreigner with Chinese women has more pull, but Korean women are still my favorite.

Take it from me, I am speaking from my personal
experience: In general, they’re fun, energetic, CARING -
I used to have pleasant surprises on my birthday: all my
girls used to bring me gifts including wine and
champagne, not to mention the massages and of course,
good ol’ fun sex.

I really want you guys also to experience similar
situations – I want to be lying on a beach with my girl,
watching you guys having a blast with yours.
On the other hand, Koreans can be quite bratty (you’ll
come to love this though, or get tired of it), whiny,
and if you don’t own the context of the relationship, they
will own your wallet AND your time.

This is because they have what’s known as the ‘공주병’ which stands for ‘princess disease’. In general, they act whiny and bratty when they don’t get when they want, and some of them use their whining like kids to get men to bend to their will (and I recommend staying away from these ones).

What you need to understand, however, is that unlike Japan or China, being a foreigner in Korea is something ‘cool’ but something ‘different’.  You won’t get bonus points for being a foreigner. In fact, it can be a lot harder for you because Korean girls will shy away at not being able to communicate.

On the other hand, Korean women are the best at speaking English in North-East Asia, aside for Hong Kong.  English is so popular here that you can tease them for NOT speaking it!

All in all,  living and dating in Korea has taught me a lot about women and myself.  I love being surrounded by them, and wish the same for you.

Until then, have fun!

BlueM

–To see more of BlueM check out his blog. He also has a book on dating Korean Women.