Social Circle Tips from an All Star Club Promoter

Want to be the star at the club?

“If you start doing this every week I’ll pay you for it.”

“Doing what every week?”

“Bring bus loads of girls to our parties!” That is the conversation that a popular local night club promoter and socially savvy pick-up artist, Godfather, had with me when I was reaching the peak of my social circle game mountain. Get paid to be surrounded by beautiful women? Where do I sign up?

Four years ago, I moved to this college town with no friends and am now known and liked by the majority of the regulars at the hottest local night clubs.

No matter what your skill level is with women or the pick-up artist community, it is universally accepted that it is EASIER to begin a conversation with a woman through an introduction from a mutual friend rather than dealing with the anxiety of the initial approach and using “lines” to buy yourself enough time to continue the interaction. There are many ways to quickly become skilled in the art of the social circle game.

The first part is the easiest which only requires that you make FRIENDS with an attractive woman. “Birds of a feather flock together” so more often than not, attractive women will have attractive friends. The best way to establish this friendship is to first disqualify yourself as a potential mate and secondly show that you have value to offer her.

Frequently in the young adult community a great way to do this is to host parties and provide music and beverages. Having people at your party shows that you have healthy social relationships and that you are essentially “leading the pack” and are the source of their good time.

Once you begin building rapport with friends at parties, they will start to introduce you to their attractive friends and you can focus more on conveying the attractive qualities of your personality and playing “the game”.

Another great way to befriend attractive women is to initially display your attractive qualities, build comfort and rapport, and never escalate the situation sexually. Often times men will actually do this by mistake and end up in the “friend zone”.

For those familiar with cold-approach game, many of the same principles can be utilized and be most effective in a “diluted” way, such as dressing more conservative and being more “yourself”. Often times to convey attractive qualities about yourself that will win you the girl, you have to do/say things that are not considered socially acceptable, which is why it is important to get your target into isolation where you can exchange attraction without compromising your social statuses.

It is with these concepts that my talent was recognized by the best-of-the-best in the area and further improved to the point where I have been able to go out to the hottest night clubs every night of the week without paying a cover charge for almost a year now. It is with these concepts that one can truly achieve a lifestyle with an abundance of amazing women and multiply one’s opportunities of mating with the highest quality of women.