SNL Game

Single Night Lay Game

Many guys want to achieve their maximum potential with women ultimately with intentions of finding an optimal mate. In order to do this it often requires meeting MANY women and figuring out what works and what doesn’t work for that particular individual. Success is only possibly if one is willing to spend a LOT of time in the “field” doing this. Some men who want to get particularly good at meeting women decide to skip getting the phone number, skip the dating process, and engage in sexual activity the same night they meet a woman. In the seduction community we call this “Same Night Lay” game rather than one night stands because we allow the possibility of sleeping with these women again in the future.

There are many benefits of SNL game. Firstly the quicker a woman sleeps with you the quicker she will start to like everything else about you. To avoid feeling like a slut, which is simply a negative term invented by her social peers, she will backwards-rationalize all the logical reasons she did sleep with you so quickly, although in reality it was an emotional reaction to your charm.

Because most SNL’s take place in bars and clubs, much of what is taught by other instructors is also effective in this situation such as projecting attractive qualities, disarming obstacles, and sexualizing. Firstly a woman needs to feel comfortable with you approaching her so if she realizes you are a social person, she will be more comfortable with your approach. One of the best ways to do this is to SHOW her that you have healthy relationships with others by simply talking to other people who are in her visible range. If she sees other women displaying attraction for you, this will be even more powerful, whether these other women are attractive or not. Most bars and clubs have dozens of women “dolled up” with make-up, high heels, and revealing clothes so very rarely do they feel like the hottest girl in the place, even though to you she might be. It is important to understand this before approaching and you will feel much more confident.

Most attractive women arrive to the venue in groups. Because it is your objective to get her alone, the best way to do this is to make friends with the group she is with. This can be easily achieved by talking to her male friends about sports and/or giving her female friends compliments or telling the group funny stories. In SNL game the woman you like NEEDS to feel sexual early in the game so one quick way to do this is to use sexual cold reads. A cold read is simply a situation where a woman provides you with basic information about herself and you interpret what it says about her personality. This principle is based on a Japanese study called “kokology” and there are many books on it. After a woman shows you something about herself, such as her astrological sign, her profession, or her choice of clothing or accessories, you can say something like, “Uh oh I shouldn’t even be talking to you right now.” When she predictably asks “Why not?” you reply with something sexual such as “Because girls like that are always horny and just want to have sex all the time.” Other than influencing her to immediately think about sex, this displays several attractive qualities about you such as social intuition, a break in rapport, sexual experience, and possibly having a history of dating women similar to her. During the attraction phase it is also very important to be touching her physically more and more, which is a process that the community refers to as “kino escalation”.

Once she is clearly displaying indicators of attraction, she should verbally agree to do something with you after the bar/club closes and you should have this planned out before you go out for the night. One easy offer is to “Continue the fun at your place” or suggest other after-hour activities such as hookah, wine, and/or a hot tub. A woman needs a REASON to leave with you so make sure you provide her with some kind of justification other than having sex with you. If she is definitely attracted to you and still hesitant to leave, you must do whatever is necessary to be with her after the venue closes. Many women make up “rules” such as “no going home with a guy the first night” so you have to bypass this. One way to do it is to say, “Hey I don’t have my car here so since we’re getting along so well it would be great if you could drop me off at my place.” If she agrees then simply tell her to park and assume she is coming inside. You might want to say something like, “I will give you a quick tour of the place however I have to wake up early so you can’t stay for long.” Again women make decisions based on their emotions so if complications ever come up in your game, remember to “change her mood, not her mind.” When most women say, “I can’t leave my friends” most guys would give up or take her number and go home alone, while a pick-up artist would say something like, “Don’t worry I’m sure your friends are having a great time. Just text them in a bit and let her know you’re safe. I’m sure they’ll do the same.”