PUA Openers
PUA Openers
As most PUAs are aware, an “opener” is the first thing a man says to a woman to begin the conversation. Think of a relationship as driving a car. Before you turn the key, start the ignition, put it into gear, and start operating the steering wheel and pedals you have to open the car door. Whether you consider yourself a part of the seduction community or not, you have used an “opener” before. Similarly whether you think you are “gaming” or not, everyone is playing the game because relationships can’t function without compromise. When men want to improve their relationships, they join this dating skill “subculture”.
Even though our community is publicly coined as the “seduction community”, very few of us are actually “seducers” and those of us who are believe it is mutual and comes after forming a genuine relationship. Most men have been in healthy sexual relationships with women and seen that cute smile they sometimes give when she is “in the mood”. That is a form of seduction. Essentially seduction is simply a mutual process occurring during a healthy sexual relationship, however “driving the car” cannot occur until the “car door is opened.”
One of the main factors that sets us apart from men outside the community is we have the guts to start conversations with complete strangers. We never have to think about “what could have happened” because when we are interested in women, we “open” the conversation. Conversely, most men who depend on their natural abilities to attract women often “wait” to get introduced through social circles or otherwise. In movies when the man sweeps women off her feet and they fall madly in love, it is often because he initiated the conversation with her as a complete stranger. The reason life can’t be like the movies for most women is because most men don’t have the skills to “open”.
The best type of opener is something clever a man comes up with on the spot relating to the current situation, hence the term “situational opener.” The key to using a situational opener is saying something clever or interesting rather than something boring that she’s heard 50 times before such as “What’s your name,” “Where are you from,” or “What is your career,” or some variation of these boring “interview” questions. You are better off making an interesting or funny statement rather than asking a question. For example, last week I saw a beautiful woman in the mall and opened with, “Hey I’m looking to buy something for my mom for Christmas and don’t know whether to get a nail care set or a body wash set.” It was simple, honest, and was relevant to the situation. I ended up sleeping with her he next time we got together exclusively.
The Love Systems Routine Manuel tells you exactly what openers to use and what to do afterward.
An opener is very different than a “line,” which is a planned group of words that non-community guys use because they think it’s clever. As a member of the seduction community you are going to hear some of the top guru’s give examples of clever and interesting phrases that you should try out. To get you started on being clever and interesting to women take a look at the Love System’s Routines Manuel. It’s great for novices and experts alike.
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