Poll: What would you like to see more of on this blog?

9 Responses to Poll: What would you like to see more of on this blog?

1. GermanGuy25 says:

   December 15, 2008 at 2:11 am

   I voted for travel reports…being interested in travelling myself and wondering in what places a tall white guy such as myself would be considered exotic and get an advantage looks-wise. I know I probably would in most asian countries, but have heard the same about chile for example. But then again you look hispanic, so it would be hard for you to tell in Latin America, right?;)
2. latinstylez says:

   December 15, 2008 at 10:36 pm

   Thanks for the input GermanGuy25!

   I’m trying to figure out exactly what you are asking me in the question. It is hard for me to tell what?

   As far as looks, that’s only the beginning. If you really put your mind to it, you can do well anywhere.
3. Dating Tips for Guys says:

   December 17, 2008 at 7:00 am

   Ill choose either Travel Reports or Pictures on the field. I guess the words explains why.

   -John
4. GermanGuy25 says:

   December 17, 2008 at 9:32 pm

   Sorry for the late reply, I forgot about this post I made..Anyway, sure if you put your mind into it, you can do well anywhere.

   However, I find it really interesting that there are basically different “market segments” in the “dating market” (not trying to come off too geeky, but I’m in marketing, so I think of it that way).

   For example I’m 6’3 tall..and I guess being tall is helpful with women in general, I’ve found that to most girls it doesnt matter a lot whether a guy is 6’3 or 5’11…however, girls who are in the 5’10-5’11 range always end up going for me. How come? the majority of women want a guy who is (preferrably significantly) taller than them. Tall chicks arent any different, which limits their choices by a lot…I bet a normally attractive guy at 6’3 would have an easier time getting with hot tall chicks (say 5’10) than a handsome guy who’s the same height as them…

   And I think with different countries/cultures it’s very similar. I’ve heard from more than a few people (including asian girls themselves) that they “have a thing” for white guys (and I mean japanese, korean, hong kong..thus not exactly third world countries where they’d consider a white guy a rich man).

   I also know that what’s considered beautiful in one country/culture isnt considered beautiful in another culture. For example here in Germany having a ‘tan’ is considered beautiful whereas I’ve been told in vietnam it’s considered ‘ugly’ and heard from a korean girl that women over there used make up to look more pale.

   I also have a few black friends (some of them not overly good-looking..not to say overweight) who had an easy time getting with women at hiphop clubs, etc. (I guess because in the hiphop “culture” all the “alpha males” are black guys and girls are influenced by that – if kung fu/martial arts was extremley popular in Germany, than maybe asian guys would do well here).

   Actually, I remember hearing that in France, (many)women used to have a thing for Asian guys a few decades ago, because they were considered exotic.

   I also know a brazilian girl here who told me, women would consider me ‘exotic’ in the part of brazil where she’s from (because of being white and tall).

   I guess it’s hard for me to describe what I really mean hehe, but as I’m interested in travelling/different cultures, etc., I’m really fascinated with the fact that the same person without changing their looks, will be considered a lot better (or worse) looking in other parts of the world, because of what’s considered good-looking or exotic in a country.

   Another example would be this guy called wu-tang financial (remember him from the sosuave forums?) who used to complain about not being able to get with any girl, because he was too short (though I think at 5’8 he wasnt really that short…), went to chile and realized he was apparently considered a lot better looking over there, because he wasn’t considered “short” anymore (as he was probably average height or so in chile).

   Maybe youve been to a place with mostly caucasian people before and were considered exotic (in a positive way) by quite a few women, because of having latin/hispanic looks?

   Anyway, that stuff really fascinates me, but I guess if youre travelling in southern America and are latino yourself, you wont be able to say much about that hehe .

   Makes me wonder if you realized anything like that in korea, though?

   I’m not simply interested in the “looks” thing, but also how women in other countries/cultures act differently. It seems to me that brazilian women for example (I only know like 3) are a lot less into “playing games” than women in the US or Germany are. I know this brazilian girl who told me she’d get upset when her german friends danced with guys at a club acting like they were into them and then just left (normal behavior in Germany, and probably in the US, but apparently not where she’s from). I’ve also heard that brazilian women (probably depending on where you meet them, of course) contrary to popular belief over here were actually not as “easy” as everyone thinks, but harder to get a ONS or a fling with than American/German girls, and more into LTRs (though perhaps very sexual with their b/fs lol). Or that they had less of a pretentious bitch shield than women here, etc…

   Rambled quite a lot, but I guess you can tell now what I meant by this? I’m interested in how things (or well women) are/act differently in different countries around the world. Not sure if the rest of your readers would find that interesting enough, so that you should write a post about it
5. GermanGuy25 says:

   December 17, 2008 at 9:34 pm

   Holy smokes, teachers used to hate me, because I always wrote exactly 100 words if we had to write papers of 100-200 words or whatever..what happened ?!lol
6. latinstylez says:

   December 19, 2008 at 6:04 pm

   Thanks John. I will definitely be posting more content on this blog. Your feedback is very valuable to me as I expand this blog in the future.

   GermanGuy25 it took me some time to look through everything you had to say. Please do not be offended by anything I tell you here. It is all constructive criticism. Here’s the deal, I think you are looking into it too much as far as height and characteristics.

   Take all of that and toss it out of the window. Here’s why? I have dated and have seen others date women who are shorter and taller than them. You have to look at each person individually and not make a personal judgment based on some girls you or your friends have dated.

   Yes, things are different from country to country. That’s the main reason I started this blog in the first place. I remember in Korea hearing from girls that having a tan wasn’t in like it is in the U.S. That doesn’t mean that a tan guy can’t do well with them.

   The same goes for people who have told me that Black people cannot do well in Japan or other Asian countries. I have black friends who
   I have witnessed who have done well…

   Yes, in the States I have dated girls who had a thing for “Latin guys.” Even a Korean girl I was dating did, too. In some instances it has put me at an advantage. However, I do not base it on solely that. I run concrete game. Suppose I didn’t know what I was doing?

   If I had a Day 2 with these girls who had a thing for Latin guys, but I didn’t know how to escalate what do you think would have happened? They surely wouldn’t have held my hand and helped me lol…

   I have also hooked up with girls who never experienced anything with a Latin guy. I attribute this to running concrete game. Concrete game is the foundation of what I base the majority of my trip in South America on.

   GermanGuy25, a good place to start is to just start talking to people without thinking about any of the things you mentioned like looks and skin color. When you get a chance, take a look at the M3 model by Mystery. This really helped clear up a lot of things for me.

   To sum it up: attraction- you want to build attraction with your target. You can do this by using qualifiers, negging her, etc….

   Comfort- this is where the game is played. You will spend a lot of time in the comfort phase. During this phase you will use more stories and build comfort with your target.

   Seduction- this is the last phase. You will want to have different locations for the phases. A seduction location would be your place or an apartment you are renting while you are traveling.

   This is just a summary. Check it out on the net where it is explained in full detail.

   Now, the game is played differently in different countries. Like here in Latin America you can kiss your target on the cheek during the day 2 meet up. This is a sign of hello and we use it commonly down here in Latin America. I would not do that in Korea though.

   My goal here is to look at the cultural differences in relationship to pickup. Once we have that figured out, we can look at the processes of how to put the sarge together. I’m just as curious as you are about Brazil sex is viewed very liberally there. In countries like Korea, sex isn’t usually openly talked about. But, if you use the questions game, I have gotten girls to open up about it there.

   I wrote a lot here too GermanGuy25. I think we have some stuff to work with. Trust me, I will find out everything I can here during this trip to help everyone who is traveling down to Latin America.
7. g10vann1 says:

   December 21, 2008 at 7:17 am

   Facinating reading. I’m Italian and can relate. Many women have been attracted to me based on that. I am also from NYC and a metrosexual for sure. This has also helped. Women love my manicured hands and that I love to shop. They are facinated when I tell them I also have done much martial art training. But clothes are the key. Women love my scarves, shoes, shirts and expecially my (25 pair) jeans. I also have 5 leather jackets. Women also love to dance with me. Sorry to talk so much about me, but I find it facinating to hear another guy talk about women and making it with them. This has been a live long thing with me. I love women and have dated many nationalities.
8. latinstylez says:

   December 21, 2008 at 5:41 pm

   g10vann1 looks like you have the wardrobe down man…. We need to meet up sometime and go game some girls haha….
9. Gguy25 says:

   December 21, 2008 at 6:58 pm

   Hehe..not offended, thanks for the input. Anyway Im looking forward to what else youre going to post here esp. about Brazil