LR: SDLR “Do you know where Twilight is?”

Posted on May 26, 2011 by Latinstylez

That was my opener at the bookstore near Zhongxiao Dunhua when I noticed this really cute red haired chick looking over in my direction. She had this Japanese style to her… I walked towards her, and had no idea what my opener was going to be. I opened with “Do you know where Twilight is?” She jumped at the opportunity to help me, but quickly went to get someone to help. “Oh no she’s probably going to get one of the staff to help” I thought. She came back within a few minutes and told me “follow me.” She directed me to an English section with books like The Godfather. I asked her if she read it, and she told me she didn’t. I found out she just finished a job interview, and I asked her if she had any plans for the rest of the day. She said “I’m free the rest of the day.” That let me know a major thing. Insta-dating probably wouldn’t be difficult since she wasn’t busy. “Let’s go grab some lunch downstairs” I told her. “Ok” she said.

We went downstairs to this Japanese place and looked at the menu. Turned out HB J-Style (26 years old) was from Kaohsiung and also studied Japanese. She was very interested in Japanese fashion. The two of us looked at different restaurants then we sat down for a minute. I looked at my phone and noticed that Bolo called. I gave him a call back right away, and found out that he had a package for me that I needed to mail out. HB J-Style offered to help out so we went over to Bolo’s place to pick up the stuff I needed to get. I thought to myself “Wow this girl is really friendly doing this for a stranger.”

Afterwards, we went over to mail out the package. I had already seeded dinner near my place since she was hungry. We took the MRT to my station which was Liuzhangli. I asked her “What do you want Western food or local food?” “Western food” she said. “I know just the spot” I told her. We walked over to Carnegie’s which was in the area. I actually forgot to get there so we had to walk back and forth for a little.

Carnegie’s is a nice chill pub to take girls too. I like to go there when I have a craving for Western food. HB J style said “It’s been a long time since I’ve had Western food so I’m excited about it.” I ordered us two drinks a Corona for my target and a San Miguel for me. For dinner, we ordered a Shepard Pie and Fish N Chips. During dinner, I found out that she had a boyfriend for one month. But, something told me inside to stick with it. I began seeding my place to watch movies and she mentioned how she had to get up early tomorrow for her first day on the job. “Wait, what time do you need to be home?” I asked her. She told me “Maybe 1AM or earlier than that if I’m tired.” We split the bill then left the venue.

We walked towards my place and she mentioned she was tired, but it looked like she was going to come over. I didn’t kino too much, but I did notice she was a bit resistant to my kino. Could that be a bad sign? We arrived to my place, and took the elevator up. She said something in Japanese before entering my place. We took off our shoes and went inside. Here’s where things get interesting. To be honest with you, I didn’t know if I would be able to close this chick tonight. The outcome was a bit of a surprise, and I’m going to let you in on what happened.

She looked around my place then sat down on my mattress, and took off her socks. One thing I learned from a previous LR, was that if a girl goes for the bed/mattress first stay in that spot. That is just what I did. I f**** things up by escalating too quickly instead of easing off. I touched her a bit, but she didn’t seem like she was into the kino. I put some music on my computer and later she asked me questions like “Do you always sleep with girls on the first night?” I responded with “I’ve slept with other girls before on the same night, but I had a connection with them. I think a connection can be formed quite early when meeting someone. I usually know pretty early when I’m interested in a girl.” She mentioned how she’s Christian and doesn’t do that kind of stuff anymore.

Anymore was the key word that let me know she’s probably slept with other guys on the same night before. She mentioned how she was ending her relationship with a guy while dating this current guy. I asked her when was the last time she’s had sex which was two days ago. I rolled out strawberry fields to frame her as sexual. I told her that “I’m a keeper of secrets and a story about it” to diffuse her bf talk. I framed myself as a “secret guy” then she laughed about it. The secret guy was used so that she can see our experience as fun… I did all of these things which helped me lead into sex. To be honest with you, I didn’t think this girl was down at the beginning of the sarge. She was very resistant to my kino.

What told me that she was DTF? It was the fact that she was lying down on my bed, and not leaving. I remember back in Korea when I thought this girl wasn’t keen because she kept resisting my advances. RPQ told me “She’s staying the night right?” she’s obviously keen. He said something to the extent of that. Anyways, HB J-style was still at my place and pretending to sleep on my mattress.

I cuddled under the blankets with her then started to kiss around her neck and lips. She slowly warmed up and before you know it she took off her pants. I turned off the lights, and we made out a bit more. She then asked me the golden question “Do you have a condom?” “Yes” I told her. I had grabbed one earlier. Eventually, I took off her top/bra then things lead into sex smoothly. When I took off her panties, she was very wet…

Wow is all I can say… Things were going against me here. She wasn’t really in the mood for sex, she had a boyfriend, and she claimed she didn’t do this kind of stuff anymore. However, I managed to close based on learning from previous experiences. Take this LR as an example that you can go out there and make s*** happen.

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Restaurant Review: Ippudo Sannoten in Fukuoka

Posted on May 16, 2011 by Latinstylez

I wanted to check out some of the recommended restaurants in Fukuoka, and I decided to try out the ramen. I heard from many people that the ramen in Fukuoka is worth trying. I was thinking about going to this fast food spot, but I decided I better try the ramen.

I went over to this popular restaurant named Ippudo Sannoten near the hostel. It was on the staff list of restaurants to check out. The restaurant is near Sinnou park make sure to ask for a map from the hostel. It’s about a 10 minute walk. When you walk outside of the hostel, make a left then keep going down until you see a big intersection. Look across the street and you will see the restaurant. The sign to the place is made out of wood.

Once you go inside, you will be greeted by the staff. Take a seat. There are plenty of chairs and the restaurant has an open kitchen so you can watch the chefs in action. One of the cooks, handed me a Japanese menu then another cook came over and gave me an English menu. Even if you get the Japanese menu, it has pictures on it. The benefit of the English menu is that it has the descriptions of the different types of ramen.

For a bowl of ramen, it’s going to run you around 8,000 yen. I gave it careful consideration and chose the Akamaru Modern. While I was waiting for my food, I tried the delicious side dish which were red bean sprouts. They also gave me some tea to go along my meal.

When my big red bowl of noodles arrived, I was ecstatic. I went over to grab my camera and took a picture. I then realized I was letting the food get cold so I took my first bite. The noodles were thin and it was garnished with fatty pork and scallions. It was absolutely delicious. The broth was amazing and had a meaty and smoky flavor to it.

The best part of all was that I could slurp the noodles, and no one thought it was rude. It’s okay to slurp your noodles in Japan. I finished the entire bowl of noodles then I went to pay. The cooks blurted out something in Japanese, and I paid for my meal. I said “it was excellent” with a thumbs up to the employee working there. He said “thank you.” I’m sure they get a lot of foreign customers there as it’s a delicious restaurant!

They also serve: mentaiko rice and manten gyoza (pan fried dumplings).

Hours of Operation: 11AM-1AM

Link for map: http://www.tripadvisor.com/Restaurant_Review-g298207-d1535307-Reviews-Ippudo_Sannoten-Fukuoka_Fukuoka_Prefecture_Kyushu_Okinawa.html

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LR: HB Engineering…

Posted on May 9, 2011 by Latinstylez

Initial Sarge:

This was one of my last sets of the day as I was getting out of my subway. I noticed this really cute girl with long dark hair waiting for her subway. I asked her about how to get to the brown line, and she said “Here let me walk you.” Off we were to the brown line. What I liked about her was that she bt spiked well, and her English was also good. I think wearing the suit today gave me added value since she asked me “Are you here on business?” Like Bolo mentioned “The suit demands respect.” I missed my train purposely so I could chat with HB Engineering more. During that time, I set up a timebridge for this weekend to meet up with her. No msn’s and no business cards were given. It was just a phone number. “Alas I numberclosed” I thought to myself…

Sidenote- She lived in Australia for two years and had a bit of an Aussie accent.

Day 2

We set up the meet for today @ 4PM and I chatted with her during the week via MSN. I reconfirmed with her today for the meet, and it was on. When I saw her, I was like “Yes” this girl is cute. She was wearing a pretty white dress and long black stockings. That’s why I love day game because it gives you the best choice of women and you are also sober. No beer googles going on! As far as a logistical game plan, I didn’t really have one. That showed when I met her and she asked me where are we going to go and I hesitated saying “Ughh we can go to this area or another area…” She even asked me “Are you nervous?” I rebounded by picking an area for us to go.

The first thing I noticed was that she grabbed my arm. This has always been a good sign for me when a girl initiates the kino. Any others with this experience? We walked for a bit down this side street near my place, and I came across a nice cafe. We went inside and ordered some sandwiches and coffee. I found out that she was 29 and only had long-term relationships. Her longest relationship had been eight years and she also hadn’t been on a date for over a year. Her reasoning was that she worked too much. Regardless, she was out to meet me so I didn’t let that bother me.

Another thing, she had a curfew of 12AM. Her parents were the traditional/strict type she mentioned. You would think that a girl being 29 would not have a curfew, but that wasn’t the case. We chilled in the coffee shop for a bit, and she was even laying on my shoulder. The seat I got was in the front where two people could sit down together. This makes it better for kino since you don’t have to sit across from each other. She took off her shoes and was laying on my shoulder again then I told her “Let’s go outside.” She went to the bathroom and paid the bill then we were off. I had seeded my place for movies and she showed no resistance in coming to my place.

There was one last stop to the convenience store to grab us two beers which she also paid for. She mentioned she wasn’t much of a drinker and that was evident when her face was turning red after half a beer. We took the elevator up to my place. We sat down on the couch and I showed her some pictures that I printed from my travels. It’s good to incorporate pictures because you can add a story element with each one.

I threw on a travel video with Anthony Bourdain. After a bit of time watching it, I went for the k close while shod to have physical pictures because you can tell a story with each one. The kino was like it was from the cafe. I suggested watching a travel video at my place. After the video, she was laying on my shoulders. There was no resistance, and she was actually a great kisser. She had very nice lips!

I continued to make out then go back to the show a few times. I asked her about how many relationships she had and she told me four. Finally, she told me “It’s been a long time.” Referring to the last time she had sex. The interesting thing is that I didn’t even have to mention sex. She knew what it was leading to from there, and it was just a matter of leading on my part. I DID NOT get any resistance from her. I passionately started making out with her and took off her dress then she took off my shirt. She went to the bathroom shortly after then that’s when I moved to the mattress which was next to the couch.. It was more making out then I progressed to f-closing. It was my fault for not defining the context of the relationship because she asked me “Are we dating?” during sex. I told her “Yes.” I will need to be more clear about defining the relationship with girls I am sarging during Phase 2. We took a shower afterwards.

What I liked about this girl was that I was REALLY attracted to her. She had a very nice body and cute face. It’s good to go after girls that are 8′s or higher because when you are sarging them it makes your game stronger. I liked how she paid for everything and had a motherly nature about her. When we went to the night market later, she used tissue to clean my hands after I ate the food. We hung out till a little bit after her curfew then I got her on a cab home. I do plan on seeing this girl again. She’s a KEEPER :)

LS

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FR: Sleepover

Posted on May 1, 2011 by Latinstylez

Still tired from my trip to Manila I set off to Kaohsiung for the lantern festival to meet a few girls I knew. One of them, I met online and the other target was a friend of a friend. Before I was heading to the HSR station, I went on the MRT in Taipei and opened a couple sets. The first set had luggage with her and I asked her “Which stop is the main station?” She told me she was also getting off at that stop. She seemed a bit reserved at first, but I cracked a few jokes. Bt spiking works well when in attraction phase. I also made sure to write down some Mandarin phrases to write down and practice using in set. Thanks for the advice Blue.

We walked out of the MRT and I asked her “Can you help me get to the HSR station?” She walked with me and showed me where it was. Before I was about to leave, I asked her “Let’s get some coffee @ Starbuck’s you can teach me some Chinese hehe ;) ”She gave me her number and then I went to pay for my ticket to Kaohsiung. I wanted to grab some food before I made the trip so I went to look for an ATM since the person at the convenient store wouldn’t let me use my card. I went upstairs and walked past another convenience store… That’s when I ran into another cutie.

She walked out of the convenience store and I decided to open her. “Where’s the nearest ATM?” I asked her… She was looking around to help me find it, but after walking around the station she offered to get me some lunch. Pretty cool I thought. We walked over to the 7/11 and she asked me “What would you like?” I pointed to this pork and rice dish. “Thanks” I told her. I suggested to her we should hang out sometime and I took down her number.

I was off to Kaohsiung. The trip was relatively quick and when I arrived I had planned to meet with two different girls. In the MRT, I opened another set named HB Shiny. I call her Shiny cuz that’s what her nickname was. She was pretty cute and I asked her “How do you get to the cultural center?” She showed me and the thing I liked about her was her good energy. She lived in Tainan so I took down her contact info and told her we could plan a time to meet.

My logistics weren’t good since I didn’t have a place lined up for the night, but one of the girls I met in Taichung said her parents were okay with me staying the night @ her place. I wouldn’t really call that the greatest logistics, but I was tired and wanted a place to stay so I agreed.

I met the first chick then I made a bold last minute decision to have the two girls meet each other. This would be interesting because I sarged the two of them, but I wanted to try something different. We all met at Kaohsiung Train Station. We went around to a night market then over to the lantern festival, which was really cool. I highly recommend checking it out. They had street performers, a night market, and a fireworks display.

Afterwards, the three of us left the night market. The funny thing is that both girls were kinoing me and they also offered me their jackets since it was cold. I wanted to get isolation time with the girl that was hosting me. The other chick had a curfew anyway so once we got to the main station she left. I did find a nice Spanish restaurant on the walk back that I’ll do a write up on next time I’m in Kaohsiung.

I was tired, and HB Tall (tall, stockings, boots, blue contacts, nice makeup/style) and I went over to my locker to get my stuff. “You do want to stay the night here right?” she asked for verification. I told her “yes.” I had another option, which was get a hotel room, and then head there… I was quite tired though so I went with her back to her place. I also plan on meeting her this Thursday since I’ll be in Taichung then.

I had good kino compliance when we went back to her place by locking arms. We went inside her house and her mom was inside. I greeted her with “Ni hao ma.” She gave me a nice smile, but was on the phone. HB Tall went and set up my room for me while I went in to her brother’s room to check some emails. Her brother was gone @ the time.

When she came back in her brother’s room, I joked with her and said “You could sleep with me.” She laughed and said “I would, but my parents will get angry.” After I was done on the computer, we went over to her room where I would be staying. She was going to sleep in her brother’s room. I had some light kino with her (holding hands, hugs) while we drunk some Taiwanese aboriginal wine. We both gave each other massages and I went for the k close but she pulled back saying “No, not now.”

The door was shut at this time, and I knew that we were @ her parent’s house so I told her “I respect that and I know your parents are in the other room.” I was so tired that I fell asleep right after she went over to her brother’s room.

The next morning I awoke to her lightly saying “Wake up.” Her parents were gone for the day, but she had to leave around the same time I was heading to Taipei. She asked me “When will you be heading to Taipei?” I joked with her and told her that “Oh you want me to leave so soon?” She said “no” I just wanted to know. Her dog (the cockblock Chihuahua) I would like to call it kept coming in the room and ran around seeking attention.

She brought me some dumplings for breakfast and I had light kino with her. To make a long story short, I did go for the k close and we ended up making out. The dog kept running around her brother’s room during this time. It didn’t progress pass the make-out. She even referred to me as “dangerous” when I asked her to get the dog out of the room so we could be alone. Later, when we left her place to go to the train station she said something to the extent that’s she’s not a good girl in a playful way. What I also thought was interesting is when I touched her in certain places she made a moaning sound. Def an indicator of her being sexual…

She has her own place in Taichung, but with 5 cats. I am allergic to cats so that won’t work out. I asked her to book me a hotel room for that night near her place. We parted ways at the train station. She even bought me a huge Japanese style cookie… Very cool girl and I look forward to meeting her again.

When I reflect on this, I think that I should have lined up a hotel room. I also don’t know if it was a good idea that I met both girls at the same time, but it was nice to experiment with something different. I could sense a little bit of jealousy with the two of them during our time out. Nonetheless, it was a fun experience crashing @ my targets parent’s place.

LS

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7 Ways to Never Run Out of Things to Say

Posted on April 24, 2011 by Falcon

We’ve all been there. You’re sitting there, talking with a hot girl, and all you can think is, “This is a hot girl. I want her to want me. And I don’t want to say something stupid and mess this up.”

Here are a few solutions that I use pretty regularly:

1) Observations. Make an observation about ANYTHING around you. It could be, “Isn’t this weather great?” if you’re day gaming or, “Hey look at those two over there ya think they’re gonna hook up later?” if you’re at a nightclub. Women LOVE talking about people so if you can make a comment about people around you then they will have fun with it.

2) “So how do you and your friends here know each other?” Anyone who have ever been in set with me a lot knows I use that line about as frequently as Charlie Sheen uses prostitutes. It’s a SOCIAL question that will get your target talking and she will eventually say something you can easily make a comment on to continue the conversation.

3) LEAD her somewhere. Those of you who know what I teach or are familiar with social psychology know that I’m a big fan of INVESTMENT. Basically the more she says, “yes” to your requests the more likely she will be to say “yes” later. SO if you say something simple like, “Let’s go to the bar and get shots,” or “Let’s go outside for some fresh air,” or “Let’s find somewhere we can sit down and hear each other talk better,” not only is it something NEW and FUN to do and demonstrating that you’re a leader; it’s also making her start to invest in you.

4) Say something you notice about her OTHER than her looks. For example, all the time I tell women that I appreciate a woman with a sense of style or a woman who actually has a REAL passion for something and is going somewhere in life. Saying something like that to a woman will help establish the type of connection she possibly hasn’t had all her life. She probably gets compliments about her hotness 10 times a day but NEVER about where she’s actually going in life and spends most of her time during the week working towards.

5) Basic flirting. There’s a million ways to flirt; my favorite is playful cockiness and role-reversal and pretending like she keeps trying to have sex with me. Kill the silence with, “Listen I know my good looks are distracting but it’s okay to talk with me also,” or something like, “You know what we should do. We should travel the world teaching people how to be awesome. If we did that years ago then there wouldn’t be so many idiots on TV like the Jersey Shore and the Kardashians.” Yes I know, my lines are brilliant, however the important thing isn’t to use lines; it’s to understand the PRINCIPLES behind them because then you can create your own on the spot!

6) Just shut up. Seriously. A lot of my female friends complain about when they meet hot guys and then the hot guys talk too much and it comes off as insecurity and they get turned off. Enjoy a few seconds of silence by just looking around and smiling and she’ll probably eventually say something to you. Thinking SUCKS and it’s against our male nature so the less thinking you do the more comfortable you will feel and the more opportunities SHE will have to speak and ask the right kind of questions she needs to ask to feel comfortable enough to hook up with you later.

7) Preparation. Before I have REALLY good nights I’ll usually get ready 2 hours before I plan on going out then for the hour before I go out I’ll have an energy drink, listen to some good music, and IMAGINE every possible situation I could get into that night and how to handle it properly. If you are prepared for every possible situation then you will win every time. If you KNOW how you’re going to open groups and singles, what conversation topics you can start, you know the venue you’re going to be gaming at, what you can say to get your target’s friends on your side, how you’re going to handle possible AMOG’s, have possible closing locations in mind and prepared if you’re going for a same night lay, and you’ve set up every advantage possible then your game is going to be better than 99% of the other guys who you will be competing with you for that target and you will be her best option.

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