
Interested in being the next top pick-up artist?
Being a pick-up artist, isn’t only about picking up women. It’s about building a lifestyle around you where you will be happy and achieve the goals you desire. When I first joined the community in 2004, I thought that being a pick-up artist was just about picking up women. Sure, we do have a goal in mind and that is picking up women, but there are many other factors involved. Like, what type of pick up artist you will be?
Now, in 2009 I have a better idea of who I am as a pick-up artist to give new people an idea about this community and what we do. So, you want to pick up girls? Well, my first advice would be to find a reputable company that offers bootcamps. I waited until later to do this, but I wish I would have done it earlier. First, it offers you a good support system. Second, bootcamps offer you a program that will not only make you a better pick-up artist, but change your life. There are good companies offering bootcamps in the States.
Besides taking a bootcamp, what other factors can you improve on? I liked to take my weaker areas and improve on them. I was always good at nightgame, but I wanted to improve on my daygame. Daygame is where you go to meet girls during the day. This can be done at coffee shops, bookstores, and the street. Daygame is fun because most guys don’t approach women during the day. And the cool thing is, you can have success from approaching a girl during the day. I recommend approaching in high traffic areas. For example, coffee shops that get lots of traffic.
I mentioned nightgame previously. This is where I started my journey in pick-up. Nightgame is easier for most guys because they can have alcohol to approach. This is something that they can’t do during the day. When I go out, I try to limit my alcohol intake. This is because drinking too much can make your sarges sloppy. Then, the next day you will be thinking did I really do that? The good thing is if you limit your alcohol intake you can do better.
There is also social circle an advanced form of game, but one of the better ways to have women in your life. Social circle is great because once you have it the work is done for you for the most part. Going out to a club or a bar with tons of people including good looking girl can trigger attraction switches in other girls around the venue. Not only that, but you always have your social circle to rely on. A good tip for social circle is to just start going out and meeting people. Be cool and social and invite them out with you. There’s a lot more ground to cover, but if your seriously looking at becoming a pick-up artist or have thought of it you have come to the right place.


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I think you make a good point about deciding which type of pick up artist you want to be. Do you want to get laid or do you want to find the woman of your dreams or do you just want to date a lot of women and have fun. As long as you go after any of these with honesty and integrity you can’t lose.
Funny, I have been in this since 2004 as well and for me its been a huge disappointment. I have done the bootcamp route (a couple from good companies – top companies and they were a total joke – no demos, big egos,ect), ebooks, consultations and I still have a terrible time getting any good results. Its been a real drag.
I have not found the support system to be effective as well. When you do have problems, everyone just tells you “oh its limiting beliefs” or “just do 100 more approaches” – I am sorry but they are so off the mark. I have found the whole community pretty much out to make money and sell what they can.
Hey Mel.
I know how you feel. For the first two years I was pretty aimless. Watched a ton of videos, read books, and even took my first bootcamp. I had better success but wasn’t f-closing much at all. I think in the first two years I had f-closed maybe 2 girls. Fucking frustrating as hell.
It wasn’t until I took the Sexual Mastery Seminar from Pick Up Asia did I start getting results. I kept practicing and got better and better at isolating girls and closing.
I highly recommend taking a look at Pick Up Asia. Yeah…it’s another Pick Up Company but what I like about it is the fact that they had advanced courses for guys who want to continue their education. It’s like having levels you can move up and see your progress. The teacher, Kid44, use to be a student of Richard Bandler and is a Master NLP practioner. He is probably the best teacher I’ve had ever.
Take a peak. It’s given me the confidence to know that I will close.
http://www.latinstylez.com/2009/05/23/pick-up-asia-who-are-kid-44-and-redpoleq/