Anyone who has read any community material has been promised by PUA’s that their model for attraction or closing is the BEST one. The truth is that their models are the best for THEM and possibly a large amount of newbies, however the TRUTH is that there is no perfect model for any of this. The truth is that each INDIVIDUAL has his own model. We aren’t all club promoters, magicians, or comedians so I am about to teach you how to come up with your own model completely based on your individual personality!
Today I was sitting in one of my mechanical engineering classes designing a cruise control system. Like most engineering applications, the way to design a system is by starting with the end result. For our purposes, that end result is CLOSING. The reason a cruise control system is complicated is because there are factors that are always CHANGING such as the speed the motor is putting out due to the change in drag from the wind. What a cruise control system does is continually account for these changes by using a system. Like the wind, in game no 2 situations are similar.
The best way to adapt a model for attraction or closing is to backwards-engineer it the same way you would with a cruise control system. Look at the END RESULT you want and look how you achieved it in the past. If you have never achieved it, ask people who have and model the similarities.
For example, let’s say you fclosed a few girls and want to do it more often. Obviously you can’t do exactly what you did the first time because the next time will be a different situation. What you CAN do is take a look at the actions you took the previous times and the way you acted to get the situation as similar as possible.
What most models of fclosing and attraction DO is give you sequential control of the actions that take place.
If you want to fclose a girl, the best way to do it is to start at the END and model it after previous closes. For example, let’s say one time you fclosed a girl. What did you do before that? You most likely got her into ISOLATION away from other people. Before that you might have taken her to your place. Somewhere in the interaction you probably kissed her. Before that you might have caused attraction by being confident, breaking rapport, or having social proof. Before that you began the conversation. FLIP that around and you have your model for closing!
Although this is just an example, I guarantee if you write down your end result and follow the steps you took BACKWARDS, you will notice similarities and generate your OWN model for your end result. Let’s say you mess up somewhere in your model. Imagine the end result and start backwards engineering how it could still happen! Now obviously microcalibrating all the time is impractical because you aren’t a robot, so simply come up with your PERSONALIZED model in this manner and try it out! The more end results you get, the better you will detect similarities and the better your model will become!
