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Asian men have been stereotyped in the media as been asexual, and lacking the masculine quality that has long been associated with Caucasian men.

Today, we shall investigate some of the common problems that Asian guys face when dating and how to overcome those.

One of the biggest problems that Asian guys face is that they are too shy and too much of a nice guy. It could be because of the conservative culture that Asian males were brought up in, a culture that emphasized harmony and peace, obedience and conformity rather than conflict.

As such, most Asian males bend over backwards to please a woman and rarely open up and speak their mind for fear of being labelled as out-spoken or to avoid standig out. The end result is that they disappear into annoymity and are often overlooked by women and simply ignored.

The next biggest problem that Asian guys have is that they are sometimes too much of a follower and rarely stand up and take charge of a situation. That extends to standing up for principles that they believe in and challenging those who do not treat him with the basic respect he feels he deserves.

Once again, it could be because of the umbrella-culture of conformity that many Asian households preach and raise their children in. Any wise comment back is greeted with a swift slap across the face and from young, the child is educated to simply follow orders and stay quiet.

The end result is a noticeable stiffness in social interactions, being too much of a doormat and never contributing to the interaction with personality and humour. It is what is often referred to as the Asian Man Poker-face, a stoic expression that betrays no emotion.

Women, as a result, often over-look the Asian guy for the more colourful, expressive and masculine Caucasian male who is smooth, confortable in his own sexuality and can convey and evoke the different emotions necessary to attract a woman’s attention.

The solutions for budding Asian males who want to improve their relationships with women are simple. To first be re-acquainted with their inner masculine self and get in touch with their core personality and show-case it effortlessly.

No more Mr. Nice Guy

But with all the limiting beliefs that exist and years of disuse and lack of practice, doing so might be far easier said than done.

One product on the market that can help Asian men overcome those mental strangleholds that hold them back is Asian Dating Superstars.

Asian Dating Superstars

It is a 13-part interview series conducted by its creator Ryker Koh and 13 of the world’s best Asian dating coaches and ladies’ men.

With keen understanding of the problems and challenges Asian men face in the world of dating, Ryker has systematically gotten all 13 coaches to reveal the precise steps that Asian guys can use to immediately be rid of limiting beliefs and turn themselves into confident, attractive men.

Some of these methods include how to react in social situations, how to approach a beautiful woman of high value even though you are not the most muscular, tall or good-looking guy around, how to overcome the dreaded Asian male stereotype and set yourself apart immediately and more …

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Some of the 13 coaches are household names and they include DJ Fuji, Daniel Rose of the Sex God Method, William of ABCs of Attraction, Johnny Wolf, Xavier, Troy Dizon and more.

One thing they all agree is that all Asian men have an equal chance of being successful with women, if they know exactly what to do.

Asian Dating Superstars can be that shortcut for all Asian men out there who want phenomenal success with women to transforming themselves into naturally attractive, charismatic men.

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Single Night Lay Game

Many guys want to achieve their maximum potential with women ultimately with intentions of finding an optimal mate. In order to do this it often requires meeting MANY women and figuring out what works and what doesn’t work for that particular individual. Success is only possibly if one is willing to spend a LOT of time in the “field” doing this. Some men who want to get particularly good at meeting women decide to skip getting the phone number, skip the dating process, and engage in sexual activity the same night they meet a woman. In the seduction community we call this “Same Night Lay” game rather than one night stands because we allow the possibility of sleeping with these women again in the future.

There are many benefits of SNL game. Firstly the quicker a woman sleeps with you the quicker she will start to like everything else about you. To avoid feeling like a slut, which is simply a negative term invented by her social peers, she will backwards-rationalize all the logical reasons she did sleep with you so quickly, although in reality it was an emotional reaction to your charm.

Because most SNL’s take place in bars and clubs, much of what is taught by other instructors is also effective in this situation such as projecting attractive qualities, disarming obstacles, and sexualizing. Firstly a woman needs to feel comfortable with you approaching her so if she realizes you are a social person, she will be more comfortable with your approach. One of the best ways to do this is to SHOW her that you have healthy relationships with others by simply talking to other people who are in her visible range. If she sees other women displaying attraction for you, this will be even more powerful, whether these other women are attractive or not. Most bars and clubs have dozens of women “dolled up” with make-up, high heels, and revealing clothes so very rarely do they feel like the hottest girl in the place, even though to you she might be. It is important to understand this before approaching and you will feel much more confident.

Most attractive women arrive to the venue in groups. Because it is your objective to get her alone, the best way to do this is to make friends with the group she is with. This can be easily achieved by talking to her male friends about sports and/or giving her female friends compliments or telling the group funny stories. In SNL game the woman you like NEEDS to feel sexual early in the game so one quick way to do this is to use sexual cold reads. A cold read is simply a situation where a woman provides you with basic information about herself and you interpret what it says about her personality. This principle is based on a Japanese study called “kokology” and there are many books on it. After a woman shows you something about herself, such as her astrological sign, her profession, or her choice of clothing or accessories, you can say something like, “Uh oh I shouldn’t even be talking to you right now.” When she predictably asks “Why not?” you reply with something sexual such as “Because girls like that are always horny and just want to have sex all the time.” Other than influencing her to immediately think about sex, this displays several attractive qualities about you such as social intuition, a break in rapport, sexual experience, and possibly having a history of dating women similar to her. During the attraction phase it is also very important to be touching her physically more and more, which is a process that the community refers to as “kino escalation”.

Once she is clearly displaying indicators of attraction, she should verbally agree to do something with you after the bar/club closes and you should have this planned out before you go out for the night. One easy offer is to “Continue the fun at your place” or suggest other after-hour activities such as hookah, wine, and/or a hot tub. A woman needs a REASON to leave with you so make sure you provide her with some kind of justification other than having sex with you. If she is definitely attracted to you and still hesitant to leave, you must do whatever is necessary to be with her after the venue closes. Many women make up “rules” such as “no going home with a guy the first night” so you have to bypass this. One way to do it is to say, “Hey I don’t have my car here so since we’re getting along so well it would be great if you could drop me off at my place.” If she agrees then simply tell her to park and assume she is coming inside. You might want to say something like, “I will give you a quick tour of the place however I have to wake up early so you can’t stay for long.” Again women make decisions based on their emotions so if complications ever come up in your game, remember to “change her mood, not her mind.” When most women say, “I can’t leave my friends” most guys would give up or take her number and go home alone, while a pick-up artist would say something like, “Don’t worry I’m sure your friends are having a great time. Just text them in a bit and let her know you’re safe. I’m sure they’ll do the same.”

Now, I have come to the realization that I have just gotten so much into pickup that I have lost sight of the fact of enjoying myself and having more fun with these girls. I have been running my game in a sequential model and it has made me seem more robotic than fun. I’m also going for closes too quickly and my average time has been 4-5 hours.  Slow down, Latin! Slow down, Latin! What happened to the Latin that had girls feel anticipation? It has turned into a Latin more focused on getting the close than enjoying the actual relationship.

I want to have girls stick around in my life and I don’t want them to just leave. The last girl especially hit me hard, because she was what I was looking for: she was sexy, smart, open minded, and had an awesome vibe. Then I got the dreaded text message after a few days of closing her saying  “I had fun with you Latin, but we don’t really have a connection.”  This hurt and now I’m going to do something to fix this from happening again. What will I do? I have taken advice from some of the greats who are close personal friends and have listened to myself inside. I am looking at the positive things I have: I’m healthy, I have a great social circle, I have great friends, and my game is really strong. It’s strong in the sense of I can close quality women and know what to do, but it’s not strong in the fact of keeping them around.

We all go through different phases and now I am going through mine. I remember reading David D’s ebook when I first started on my road in pickup. Back then, I had a much more fun vibe and kept more girls around than I am now. I’ll be re-reading his ebook again. After talking to Falcon, I realized I need to go back to having fun and not looking at these from an entirely sequential model. Sure, I will continue running some of the same techniques, but I am going to be gearing my game more to keeping these quality women in my life and not having them leave after I close them. The pain is there and I have to fix this. Keep updated with me as I go on the mission of finding the perfect regulars for me.

The criteria is simple: higher quality at least an 8. I need to be able to show her off to my friends and be happy she’s around. Stay tuned!

Those are the eyes of a man who has died on the inside….

Found these photos of Mystery with his baby mama and daughter. It’s interesting to see him like this…and scary. I wonder if he planned this out or if his baby mama planned it out…

Lately I’ve been reading books like “The Predatory Female” and “The Manipulated Man” in preparation for taking the Relationship Mastery Seminar offered by Pick Up Asia. They’re both pretty eye opening books that show females aren’t just sugar and spice and everything nice. Nuh uh, they can be cold and calculating ready to suck you in so you have to support them no matter what.

I’ve been reading into divorce laws and see just how much a marriage can truly cost you. The woman can get half your pay check, your retirement and your kids if you get a divorce. It doesn’t matter if she had nothing to do with your job. Somehow she’s entitled to half your pay check.

These recent events with Tiger Woods are a good reminder to be careful where you stick your dick. All of a sudden all these chicks are coming out of the wood work claiming to have fucked him. His wife stands to get $100 million dollars is she gets a divorce. Is you for fucking real? How the hell does that even make any sense? She didn’t earn any of that.

I wonder if something like that happened to Mystery. I remember watching some seminar videos where he talks about his daughter and how she was unexpected. He might not have expected it but I wonder if his baby mama did. She has a lot to gain from having his child.

Whatever the situation is with Mystery, I hope he’s doing ok. The dude changed my life and he’s also a warning to make sure your jimmy hat is on tight and to screen your women…because you never know if you have to deal with them for the rest of your life.

Taiwan Homeboys protesting against couple.

Asian men have often been giving a rough ride by the media in general. The negative stereotypes like having a small penis, being short, asexual and lacking in confidence have resulted in many Asian men mistakenly assimilating that identity and condemning themselves to a lack of success when dating.

Today, we are going to investigate how Asian guys can become attractive to women of all races and exude the same kind of eye-catching charisma that naturally arouses a woman’s desire and sets her pulse racing.

1. Develop Sexual Confidence.

Daniel Rose of The Sex God Method lists this as the most important factor to a man’s confidence when it comes to dating women – the deep knowing that when she goes to bed with you, you will be more than capable of satisfying her.

In fact, you would be the best she has ever had. You will literally rock her world and make her hit new heights she had never imagined possible.

With sexual confidence and sexual prowress, you always know that you are a man that can make a woman satisfied, in more ways than one.

2. Convey your personality

Being smooth, charming and witty comes with being comfortable and at ease in social settings. Many Asian guys get tense and nervous in social situations and thus clamp up in the corner and are over-looked by women.

By taking improv classes or by being in social settings regularly, you will learn that it is okay to be adventurous and to chime in with a wise-crack or two to set the entire table laughing. It is perfectly okay to freely convey your personality and that women open up when they see you at complete and total ease at yourself.

3. Turn your culture into your advantage

Instead of hiding your cultural roots and pretending that it is something to be ashamed about, the best Asian seducers in the world use them to their advantage.

Asian culture is rich in exciting tales of adventure and romance, so feel free to share them with the women you are with, in a way that they can relate to. Educate her on exotic Asian cultures and customs and she will be enchanted.

Also, the Orient has produced more than one sex manuscript of note – from the Kama Sutra to the secrets of Tantric Sex. Feel free to discuss these with her and you will soon be reaping the benefits of doing so.

4. Don’t let race be such a big factor

Many Asian guys get too caught up in the whole issue of race and thus contrain themselves with these internal, mental limitations. Yes, racism does exist but not in the same degree that most guys imagine in their minds.

Obsessing over racial disparities will do nothing but hurt your confidence and then again, another man’s lack of success does not mean that the entire race is at fault.

Understand that at the end of the day, women will always be biologically attracted to a real, masculine man, regardless of height, looks or race. Sure those may matter, but being a real man with a charming personality will guarantee you success, wherever you go.

One product that can help you unleash the natural, charming man hidden within you is Asian Dating Superstars.

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It is a 13 part interview series conducted by Ryker Koh and 13 of the world’s greatest Asian dating coaches. In it, Ryker grills the coaches on how average, everyday-looking Asian men can drastically improve their dating success and win the hearts and minds of the women they fancy.

The coaches peel back the curtain and reveal never-released-before secrets, usually reserved for private instruction clients who pay $1000s of dollars and lay out the exact blueprint Asian guys can follow to become massively MORE attractive to women, in a few simple, easy-to-follow steps.

Some of the 13 coaches are household names and they include DJ Fuji, Daniel Rose of the Sex God Method, William of ABCs of Attraction, Johnny Wolf, Xavier, Troy Dizon and more.

But one thing they all agree is that regardless of height, look or money in the bank, Asian guys have the same, equal potential to be attractive to women of all races, if only they knew how to do it.

Asian Dating Superstars is the missing answer for Asian men so go ahead and click the link below to find out why it has been praised as the “missing ingredient for Asian men to achieve massive success with women”

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As most PUAs are aware, an “opener” is the first thing a man says to a woman to begin the conversation. Think of a relationship as driving a car. Before you turn the key, start the ignition, put it into gear, and start operating the steering wheel and pedals you have to open the car door. Whether you consider yourself a part of the seduction community or not, you have used an “opener” before. Similarly whether you think you are “gaming” or not, everyone is playing the game because relationships can’t function without compromise. When men want to improve their relationships, they join this dating skill “subculture”.

Even though our community is publicly coined as the “seduction community”, very few of us are actually “seducers” and those of us who are believe it is mutual and comes after forming a genuine relationship. Most men have been in healthy sexual relationships with women and seen that cute smile they sometimes give when she is “in the mood”. That is a form of seduction. Essentially seduction is simply a mutual process occurring during a healthy sexual relationship, however “driving the car” cannot occur until the “car door is opened.”

One of the main factors that sets us apart from men outside the community is we have the guts to start conversations with complete strangers. We never have to think about “what could have happened” because when we are interested in women, we “open” the conversation. Conversely, most men who depend on their natural abilities to attract women often “wait” to get introduced through social circles or otherwise. In movies when the man sweeps women off her feet and they fall madly in love, it is often because he initiated the conversation with her as a complete stranger. The reason life can’t be like the movies for most women is because most men don’t have the skills to “open”.

The best type of opener is something clever a man comes up with on the spot relating to the current situation, hence the term “situational opener.” The key to using a situational opener is saying something clever or interesting rather than something boring that she’s heard 50 times before such as “What’s your name,” “Where are you from,” or “What is your career,” or some variation of these boring “interview” questions. You are better off making an interesting or funny statement rather than asking a question. For example, last week I saw a beautiful woman in the mall and opened with, “Hey I’m looking to buy something for my mom for Christmas and don’t know whether to get a nail care set or a body wash set.” It was simple, honest, and was relevant to the situation. I ended up sleeping with her he next time we got together exclusively.

The Love Systems Routine Manuel tells you exactly what openers to use and what to do afterward.

An opener is very different than a “line,” which is a planned group of words that non-community guys use because they think it’s clever. As a member of the seduction community you are going to hear some of the top guru’s give examples of clever and interesting phrases that you should try out. To get you started on being clever and interesting to women take a look at the Love System’s Routines Manuel. It’s great for novices and experts alike.

For more information about PUA Openers and what to do after you open. Click here.

Anyone who has read any community material has been promised by PUA’s that their model for attraction or closing is the BEST one. The truth is that their models are the best for THEM and possibly a large amount of newbies, however the TRUTH is that there is no perfect model for any of this. The truth is that each INDIVIDUAL has his own model. We aren’t all club promoters, magicians, or comedians so I am about to teach you how to come up with your own model completely based on your individual personality!

Today I was sitting in one of my mechanical engineering classes designing a cruise control system. Like most engineering applications, the way to design a system is by starting with the end result. For our purposes, that end result is CLOSING. The reason a cruise control system is complicated is because there are factors that are always CHANGING such as the speed the motor is putting out due to the change in drag from the wind. What a cruise control system does is continually account for these changes by using a system. Like the wind, in game no 2 situations are similar.

The best way to adapt a model for attraction or closing is to backwards-engineer it the same way you would with a cruise control system. Look at the END RESULT you want and look how you achieved it in the past. If you have never achieved it, ask people who have and model the similarities.

For example, let’s say you fclosed a few girls and want to do it more often. Obviously you can’t do exactly what you did the first time because the next time will be a different situation. What you CAN do is take a look at the actions you took the previous times and the way you acted to get the situation as similar as possible.

What most models of fclosing and attraction DO is give you sequential control of the actions that take place.

If you want to fclose a girl, the best way to do it is to start at the END and model it after previous closes. For example, let’s say one time you fclosed a girl. What did you do before that? You most likely got her into ISOLATION away from other people. Before that you might have taken her to your place. Somewhere in the interaction you probably kissed her. Before that you might have caused attraction by being confident, breaking rapport, or having social proof. Before that you began the conversation. FLIP that around and you have your model for closing!

Although this is just an example, I guarantee if you write down your end result and follow the steps you took BACKWARDS, you will notice similarities and generate your OWN model for your end result. Let’s say you mess up somewhere in your model. Imagine the end result and start backwards engineering how it could still happen! Now obviously microcalibrating all the time is impractical because you aren’t a robot, so simply come up with your PERSONALIZED model in this manner and try it out! The more end results you get, the better you will detect similarities and the better your model will become!

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Many Asian men have mixed opinions when the issue of inter-racial dating is brought up. They point to the mismatch and double standard that exists in society. In the study conducted in the popular book, Freakonomics, an average Asian man had to make a whooping $200,000 more than an average white guy in order to be seen in the same light by women.

Imagine that! That means at least $15,000 more in monthly income, to be seen as a mere equal to a white guy.

In sharp contrast, many Asian guys point to more Asian women and Caucasian male pairing as a sign that there is a huge interracial dating disparity and double standard that exists. In fact, they get extremely upset when they see Asian women dating white males. One guy even remarked that he was angry that white guys were “stealing our Asian women”.

If this pisses you off then it's time to make a change.

It is precisely this thought that traps many Asian men in a victim-mindset and condemns them to a complete lack of success in dating.

The real way out is to understand that women will date anyone that is a confident, attractive man who triggers the attraction switches within her. Even though race sometimes comes into play, universal biological attraction switches will remain eternally the same.

So the real answer to this question is for Asian men to stop worrying so much about the whole mis-match of interracial dating and start transforming themselves into more confident and masculine men, who are naturally attractive to women.

In that case, he will never have to worry about race being a disadvantage or that he is somehow excluded because of his Asian ethnicity.

One such product that can accelerate this whole process for Asian males is Asian Dating Superstars.

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In it, the creator Ryker Koh specially posed this challenge to 13 of the world’s greatest Asian dating coaches – How Can Asian Men Become More Confident and Sexually Attractive To Women Of All Races?

And each of the 13 Asian dating coaches revealed the exact, step-by-step methods that any Asian guy can immediately use to turn his life around and transform himself into the man that women are naturally drawn to.

Some of the 13 coaches are household names and they include DJ Fuji, Daniel Rose of the Sex God Method, William of ABCs of Attraction, Johnny Wolf, Xavier, Troy Dizon and more.

Dj Fuji

Universally, they all agree that Asian men can definitely be attractive to women of all races if only they know how.

Asian Dating Superstars peels back the curtain and reveals the exact “how-to” and has been described as the missing dating manuscript for Asian men. Go ahead and click the link below to find out why it has been praised as “one of the most important dating products for all Asian men out there”

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