But now that I’m a little bit better, a lot of those old mindsets just don’t match up to reality.

Looks are the first thing she sees. She judges in an instant if she is attracted to your look or not. Just look at internet dating for all the proof you need. First thing people look at are the pictures THEN read the profile.

Sure. Even if you don’t have a great look, you can convince her to sleep with you. I have. But then some other guy comes along with the look she desires and her ass is gone.

Women enjoy sex more then men. Women and sex is a fucked up topic. Why? Cuz women have been killed for who they’ve had sex with and how they’ve had sex. Our society puts a lot of fucked up messages about sex in women’s mind. That said, it is true that women have a sex organ dedicated solely to sex.

However, women don’t have testosterone coursing through their veins like men. Estrogen can’t even measure up. If women wanted sex as much as men then they’d be tearing their clothes off instead of spending so much money on them.

As a wise PUA once said “1. Humans are terrible at controlling their strong urges and addictions. 2. Women are, by and large, able to control their sex drives. 3. The urge for women must not be horribly strong.”

Close! Yes, fucking girls defines a PUA. But it’s not the best way to keep a girl who you actually like. Also, sex means shit to girls.

The community is to centered on closing and I totally agree with you. It’s not geared towards maintaining healthy relationships with beautiful women. That’s a whole different area we need to explore. I’m up for the idea of sharing some ideas sometime. I will be posting my perfect regular statement later today.

Email me at latinstylez@gmail.com

PS- I’ll try to blog more often

What happened to sleeping with someone cuz they drive you crazy and you really like them… where the passion is mutual and you rip each other’s clothes off?
Shit – hitting on girls straight away is kinda low value.
Aren’t you getting laid already? Why are you so horny? You don’t even know this girl, why do you want to fuck her?

A guy who’s already dating a couple of sexy, awesome girls isn’t just going to try and bang a girl straight away. He’s qualify and screen the SHIT out of her to make sure she’s worthy. Just like girls are doing to us.

This seems really obvious, and yet the entire community is based around trying to fuck girls as quickly as possible. I think this is kind of poisoned me. It’s not normal. The longer I’m in this community, the more I want to actually want to be into someone to fuck them. Sure if a girl’s really fucking hot and you just wanna bone her one time, fair enough. But is just seems like the “community” message is FUCK GIRLS, FUCK GIRLS NOW!! FUCK GIRLS BEFORE THEY KNOW WHAT’S HAPPENING!!

It’s fucking bullshit.

I’ve been talking with my friend Marcus about this too and we’ve come up with some ideas … We’re thinking that they key is to have them as friends first – but just keep the sexual tension in there, you know? Have them know that you’re a sexual threat.

1) Not hit on girls too soon….. and possibly

2) Put girls in the friend zone – then escalate anyways. Throw in “I like you, but as a friend. Is that O.K?” … this drives them nuts. then keep escalating…. so they know you wanna hook up but you’re just “Friends”

Will be hard from me – I’m all about direct game! sigh…

I’ve love to hear the changes you make in your game that leads you to keeping more quality girls around. And blog more often dude!!

Peace and love from the U.K…

Sasha

(Not the daughter) -The mother.

You sick bastards

The universe has a sense of humor giving him a daughter.

U think he looks happy there? I doubt it. I feel bad for the kid with his mother smoking by him. It’s sad. My only hope is that Mystery can rebound from this. He has been an inspiration to me and my journey in pickup.

Heard a lot about your from Lumiere and Ginger. Hear you’re damn good at day game. Looking forward to sarging with you cuz Night Game is over rated. If you’re ever in Korea or Taiwan then holla at us.

Have been doing a lot of daygame for the last couple of years… just a quick top for anybody who wants to have success with it:

If you want to approach some hottie who’s walking down the street:
Make sure to approach from the side and touch the girl (gently, above the elbow) BEFORE you start speaking to her.

If you start talking while walking – often the girl won’t even know you’re talking to her… or if she’s not sure (and doesn’t want to take the chance that you’re some weirdo) – she’ll just pretend she didn’t hear you.

But, if you touch her first (smile) and THEN run your opener – she HAS to acknowledge you… there’s no getting away from the interaction! This increases your chances of stopping her by 300% (probably more!)

Remember: Girls are like horses: If you approach from the rear – or straight on – you can freak them out! Smile, touch first – and you’ve got a chance!

Good luck and have fun everyone!