We went downstairs to this Japanese place and looked at the menu. Turned out HB J-Style (26 years old) was from Kaohsiung and also studied Japanese. She was very interested in Japanese fashion. The two of us looked at different restaurants then we sat down for a minute. I looked at my phone and noticed that Bolo called. I gave him a call back right away, and found out that he had a package for me that I needed to mail out. HB J-Style offered to help out so we went over to Bolo’s place to pick up the stuff I needed to get. I thought to myself “Wow this girl is really friendly doing this for a stranger.”

Afterwards, we went over to mail out the package. I had already seeded dinner near my place since she was hungry. We took the MRT to my station which was Liuzhangli. I asked her “What do you want Western food or local food?” “Western food” she said. “I know just the spot” I told her. We walked over to Carnegie’s which was in the area. I actually forgot to get there so we had to walk back and forth for a little.

Carnegie’s is a nice chill pub to take girls too. I like to go there when I have a craving for Western food. HB J style said “It’s been a long time since I’ve had Western food so I’m excited about it.” I ordered us two drinks a Corona for my target and a San Miguel for me. For dinner, we ordered a Shepard Pie and Fish N Chips. During dinner, I found out that she had a boyfriend for one month. But, something told me inside to stick with it. I began seeding my place to watch movies and she mentioned how she had to get up early tomorrow for her first day on the job. “Wait, what time do you need to be home?” I asked her. She told me “Maybe 1AM or earlier than that if I’m tired.” We split the bill then left the venue.

We walked towards my place and she mentioned she was tired, but it looked like she was going to come over. I didn’t kino too much, but I did notice she was a bit resistant to my kino. Could that be a bad sign? We arrived to my place, and took the elevator up. She said something in Japanese before entering my place. We took off our shoes and went inside. Here’s where things get interesting. To be honest with you, I didn’t know if I would be able to close this chick tonight. The outcome was a bit of a surprise, and I’m going to let you in on what happened.

She looked around my place then sat down on my mattress, and took off her socks. One thing I learned from a previous LR, was that if a girl goes for the bed/mattress first stay in that spot. That is just what I did. I f**** things up by escalating too quickly instead of easing off. I touched her a bit, but she didn’t seem like she was into the kino. I put some music on my computer and later she asked me questions like “Do you always sleep with girls on the first night?” I responded with “I’ve slept with other girls before on the same night, but I had a connection with them. I think a connection can be formed quite early when meeting someone. I usually know pretty early when I’m interested in a girl.” She mentioned how she’s Christian and doesn’t do that kind of stuff anymore.

Anymore was the key word that let me know she’s probably slept with other guys on the same night before. She mentioned how she was ending her relationship with a guy while dating this current guy. I asked her when was the last time she’s had sex which was two days ago. I rolled out strawberry fields to frame her as sexual. I told her that “I’m a keeper of secrets and a story about it” to diffuse her bf talk. I framed myself as a “secret guy” then she laughed about it. The secret guy was used so that she can see our experience as fun… I did all of these things which helped me lead into sex. To be honest with you, I didn’t think this girl was down at the beginning of the sarge. She was very resistant to my kino.

What told me that she was DTF? It was the fact that she was lying down on my bed, and not leaving. I remember back in Korea when I thought this girl wasn’t keen because she kept resisting my advances. RPQ told me “She’s staying the night right?” she’s obviously keen. He said something to the extent of that. Anyways, HB J-style was still at my place and pretending to sleep on my mattress.

I cuddled under the blankets with her then started to kiss around her neck and lips. She slowly warmed up and before you know it she took off her pants. I turned off the lights, and we made out a bit more. She then asked me the golden question “Do you have a condom?” “Yes” I told her. I had grabbed one earlier. Eventually, I took off her top/bra then things lead into sex smoothly. When I took off her panties, she was very wet…

Wow is all I can say… Things were going against me here. She wasn’t really in the mood for sex, she had a boyfriend, and she claimed she didn’t do this kind of stuff anymore. However, I managed to close based on learning from previous experiences. Take this LR as an example that you can go out there and make s*** happen.

This was one of my last sets of the day as I was getting out of my subway. I noticed this really cute girl with long dark hair waiting for her subway. I asked her about how to get to the brown line, and she said “Here let me walk you.” Off we were to the brown line. What I liked about her was that she bt spiked well, and her English was also good. I think wearing the suit today gave me added value since she asked me “Are you here on business?” Like Bolo mentioned “The suit demands respect.” I missed my train purposely so I could chat with HB Engineering more. During that time, I set up a timebridge for this weekend to meet up with her. No msn’s and no business cards were given. It was just a phone number. “Alas I numberclosed” I thought to myself…

Sidenote- She lived in Australia for two years and had a bit of an Aussie accent.

Day 2

We set up the meet for today @ 4PM and I chatted with her during the week via MSN. I reconfirmed with her today for the meet, and it was on. When I saw her, I was like “Yes” this girl is cute. She was wearing a pretty white dress and long black stockings. That’s why I love day game because it gives you the best choice of women and you are also sober. No beer googles going on! As far as a logistical game plan, I didn’t really have one. That showed when I met her and she asked me where are we going to go and I hesitated saying “Ughh we can go to this area or another area…” She even asked me “Are you nervous?” I rebounded by picking an area for us to go.

The first thing I noticed was that she grabbed my arm. This has always been a good sign for me when a girl initiates the kino. Any others with this experience? We walked for a bit down this side street near my place, and I came across a nice cafe. We went inside and ordered some sandwiches and coffee. I found out that she was 29 and only had long-term relationships. Her longest relationship had been eight years and she also hadn’t been on a date for over a year. Her reasoning was that she worked too much. Regardless, she was out to meet me so I didn’t let that bother me.

Another thing, she had a curfew of 12AM. Her parents were the traditional/strict type she mentioned. You would think that a girl being 29 would not have a curfew, but that wasn’t the case. We chilled in the coffee shop for a bit, and she was even laying on my shoulder. The seat I got was in the front where two people could sit down together. This makes it better for kino since you don’t have to sit across from each other. She took off her shoes and was laying on my shoulder again then I told her “Let’s go outside.” She went to the bathroom and paid the bill then we were off. I had seeded my place for movies and she showed no resistance in coming to my place.

There was one last stop to the convenience store to grab us two beers which she also paid for. She mentioned she wasn’t much of a drinker and that was evident when her face was turning red after half a beer. We took the elevator up to my place. We sat down on the couch and I showed her some pictures that I printed from my travels. It’s good to incorporate pictures because you can add a story element with each one.

I threw on a travel video with Anthony Bourdain. After a bit of time watching it, I went for the k close while shod to have physical pictures because you can tell a story with each one. The kino was like it was from the cafe. I suggested watching a travel video at my place. After the video, she was laying on my shoulders. There was no resistance, and she was actually a great kisser. She had very nice lips!

I continued to make out then go back to the show a few times. I asked her about how many relationships she had and she told me four. Finally, she told me “It’s been a long time.” Referring to the last time she had sex. The interesting thing is that I didn’t even have to mention sex. She knew what it was leading to from there, and it was just a matter of leading on my part. I DID NOT get any resistance from her. I passionately started making out with her and took off her dress then she took off my shirt. She went to the bathroom shortly after then that’s when I moved to the mattress which was next to the couch.. It was more making out then I progressed to f-closing. It was my fault for not defining the context of the relationship because she asked me “Are we dating?” during sex. I told her “Yes.” I will need to be more clear about defining the relationship with girls I am sarging during Phase 2. We took a shower afterwards.

What I liked about this girl was that I was REALLY attracted to her. She had a very nice body and cute face. It’s good to go after girls that are 8′s or higher because when you are sarging them it makes your game stronger. I liked how she paid for everything and had a motherly nature about her. When we went to the night market later, she used tissue to clean my hands after I ate the food. We hung out till a little bit after her curfew then I got her on a cab home. I do plan on seeing this girl again. She’s a KEEPER

LS

On Friday, I was standing outside Room 18 with RedPoleQ and Latinstylez. RedPoleQ had called me in to help him wing. I did my thing and number closed the girl I was talking too. That set ended and I turned around and saw a girl with her hair up looking at me getting ready to leave. I waved goodbye absentmindedly and chatted with the guys. Then I felt someone tap me from behind. It was the girl I had waved goodbye too. She asked “Can I have your phone number?” Whoa, direct game. We exchanged numbers and she left.

The next day I gave her a call. She sounded sleepy and told me that she had gotten home at 10AM. This one is a party girl. She’s also a nurse and often works late nights. I set up a day 2 for coffee on Sunday because she had to go to work. It’s suppose to be a thyphoon day but hopefully the weather wouldn’t be too bad.

On Sunday, it’s raining hardcore. She texts messages me and suggest that we go watch a movie. I tell her to meet me at Dunhua. We meet up. She’s an hour late but hot damn! She’s got some big ol’ titties! I spin her causing her to giggle and we head to the coffee shops.

I pay for both of our coffees and we sit down. I run through my usual attraction routine. I show her different types of handshakes, we play thumbwar, run the cube, etc .

At one point, I tell her went to art school for 4 years and draw caricatures. When I was living in Barcelona I use to draw people pictures for beer money. Then I took out some paper and a pen and start drawing her. After a few minutes I show her my picture and reveal that I’ve drawn a stick figure. She laughs. I tell her to draw a picture of me looking like Superman. Then I took both pictures and made them talk to each other.

Picture of her: “Oh Bolo! You are so sexy! I must have you! *kiss*
*Made the two pictures kiss each other*

After roll playing for a bit, I seeded in going to the Hookah bar. We take off. I take her hand. Walked and talked for a bit. I asked about the tattoo on her back. Told her I wanted to get a giant Doreamon on my stomach.

We get to the hookah bar and I start telling her about my life adventures while applying different frames. I tell her about the time I wandered into a random bar in Seoul, realized it was a gay bar, and managed to hook two guys up. (Shows that I’m not judgemental about sex). Tell her the story about my sister going out with her boyfriend and I didn’t tell Mom. (Shows I can keep a secret). Then I ran the strawberry fields to frame her as someone who enjoys sex and taking what she wants.

I’ll admit that I’m super rusty with telling these stories. I stuttered and forgot exactly what to say and how to say it to get the response I want. Regardless, she still laughed.

While we were talking she just puts her head on my shoulder and we cuddle for a bit. I don’t find out too much about her. She doesn’t seem like the super talkative type. I mess around with her iPhone and look at all her pictures. Our conversation is winding down so I decided to seed in going to a DVD room. I ask her what type of movies she enjoys watching. Then I say “Let’s go watch a movie.” We bounce and she pays for the hookah and drinks.

I run the question game while we were walked. She’s had 5 lovers. The last time she had sex was 2 weeks ago. She likes rough, passionate sex. She’s dated foreigners before.

We get to the DVD room. I choose a random action movie and go watch it. I wait for a bit and then started caressing her hand. Then kiss her. Clothes off. No LMR. Nice.

This was an easy lay. I probably didn’t even need to do sexual framing with her. She was into me and the only thing I had to do was not say anything to stupid and to have my logistics down. I gotta say…I’ve never had a girl open me directly like she did. The total number of girls who have opened me at a club…I can count on one hand. It’s pretty cool. Makes me want to spend more time at the gym.

This is the first time I’ve closed a Filipina chick!!!

How I met her:

I was doing beach game for about an hour and opened a few sets. It wasn’t going all that great, and I decided that I would grab a few groceries then call it a day. While I was walking towards the grocery store, this really cute chick (5’0, nice body tone) passed me in a two piece blue bikini and red flip flops… I decided to turn around and I’m thankful I did. I said hi to her then asked for her name. She was really friendly and mentioned to me that she was just walking around. This was good because it let me know that she had some time to hang out. I asked her if she wanted to go grab some coffee and she said “sure.” She seemed a bit surprised, but we went for a walk on the beach.

I didn’t really have a logistics plan which I normally like to have, but the hell with it. She mentioned pretty early on that she had a boyfriend who was in the American military. I didn’t let the fact that she had a boyfriend affect me and the discussion would come up earlier. She also had one 5-year-old daughter that her mom and brother took care of. She was 25 years old. After a bit of walking on the beach, we sat down for a bit and just talked. I mentioned that we could head over to Bulabog Beach near where I’m staying. She didn’t hesitate about coming. First, we stopped by the grocery store so I could take care of my errand of the day. On the walk to Bulabog Beach her friend kept texting her. She asked me “Is it okay if my friend comes?” I told her “Your friend can join us later.”

We went over to the beach and checked out the kitesurfing. She asked about where I planned on taking my groceries, and I told her “ We can take it back to my place later.” That didn’t go well with her, and she didn’t want to come over at all… She was even walking away like she was going to leave. I should have given more plausible deniability about going back to my place, but I went direct so I had to deal with it. She calmed down for a bit, but her vibe seemed off. We sat down on a rock and looked at the beach. It was a bit quiet… Then something happened. There was light rain falling from the sky. I actually never said anything to calm her down it was the rain that calmed her down.

HB Filipina said I’m going to have to go home it’s raining.” I told her “Okay let’s go home.” I said this way and pointed to the right. We walked up the hill to my place and were followed by a gang of little kids who found me amusing. Saying “hello” and “Can you give me some money?” They followed us all the way back to my place and even said “See ya” mimicking me as I walked into my building.

Once in my building, I thought that the people at my property weren’t going to let my target in because she didn’t have her ID with her, but I just told her to continue walking up with me. I looked at them and said “She’s my guest.” We went inside my place and she was pretty impressed with the set up. She walked outside to look at the view of the place. I asked her if she wanted a drink and got her a Coke. We hung outside for a bit then went back inside. I put on some National Geographic and tried to kino more, but she resisted my attempts saying I’m too close and mentioning the boyfriend. Later, I ended up pouring her a few rum and cokes and we danced for a bit around the apartment when I played some music from my laptop. That loosened her up a bit. I eventually put my arm around her and then I neutralized the boyfriend by telling her that we’re both on vacation so we can live in the moment. Then I asked her “Do you like me?” And she said “Yeah, your cute.” That was the last time we talked about him.

A little bit later she asked if she could take a shower. And I got a scary movie that she wanted to watch. The movie was the new Nightmare on Elm Street which had a few spooks. After she got out of the shower, she went outside for a bit to dry her hair then came back inside and asked “Why did you turn off the TV?” I told her “We’re going to watch it on my computer come on to my room.” We lied on my bed and started to watch the movie. During the first scary scene, she jumped. She was laid on her back and I got on top of her and then started kissing onto her neck. It was pretty much game on from there. One last thing, she mentioned having a period. I tend to have a habit of closing new girls when they are on their periods. “I’ll get a towel” I told her, and that was the end of it.

I ordered some food after that and we finished watching the movie. She’s only going to be here one more day so I will try to see her before I leave. I got her contact info before she left my place. This lay I’m especially proud of because it was done during the same day.

LS

The meet-up

We exchanged a few messages online and set up a time to meet. While eating with Lumiere, she mentioned she was at the bar (Heckle and Jeckle) located in Makati (Manila) with her friend. I was surprised because she never mentioned bringing a friend but hey “What are wings for?” Lumiere and I head to the bar and I didn’t notice her so I sent her a text. This is funny because it went back and forth on text messages because she didn’t want to come inside the bar and meet me. She wanted me to come meet her. I asked Lumiere about it and he mentioned that I should have her meet me. So after some text exchange which included me mentioning that I’m watching my friend play pool and that she should come inside to meet me, she went into the bathroom then texted me because she didn’t know who I was. The funny thing is Lumiere and I checked her out as she was walking into the bathroom. She had a very nice body and was tall with high heels on.

She came out and greeted me. My initial impressions were that she was good-looking, good height (5’6 w/o heels) and friendly. She had a nice smile. She mentioned that her friend was outside so if we could join. Lumiere winged me and I established the vibe. Later, Lumiere left to sign up for a poker game. My target asked me questions about where I traveled, where I planned to travel, etc. She gave me that “eye.” Over time, I have developed a keen sense to tell when a girl is into me… I noticed they give this look at me when they are attracted to me. They also ask a lot of questions. We talked about Taiwan and I busted out some Chinese for her. “Ni hao ma (how are you)” “sheh sheh (thanks)” , and “Piao Liang.” (Cute) She laughed at my Chinese… The whole time here I made sure to have light kino.

After, we went inside to watch Lumiere play poker. Lumiere wasn’t that into the friend so he went off. This was good because my target’s friend was bored and eventually left. Now, this left me with my target. I had mentioned going to the club, but at this point I wasn’t going to go there. I had a good opportunity here. She lives by herself (company paid apartment). Essentially I could set myself up with the proper logistics. I didn’t have a private room at my hostel so my gameplan was to end up at her place. How I was going to do that? I still had to figure out.

I suggested we go to a lounge in the area. At this point the kino was pretty good and she said the only lounge she knew was near her place in the Makati area. We grabbed a cab after walking around looking for a lounge .(shouldn’t have done that should have just gone straight to the one near her place) Remember to check the meter which I had the cab driver put it on. It seems like they hold off on putting the meters in the cab.

We went to this nice lounge in her area that served Bacardi cuba libre’s. I began to step up the kino now that we were in an isolated location.

Here’s the main gist from this venue
1. She had a bf (Indian Portuguese guy) for 5 years was single
2. I basically told her that I’m staying at her place tonight and I’ll cook for her another time.

By me telling her that I was going to her place, was a direct move. This was good because if I would have tried to go to her place after leaving the venue it could have made it difficult for me to bounce there. Afterwards, we left for her place. It was a really nice company paid apartment with a nice view of the area. We had some beer (I was pretty tipsy at this point so I had some water too) and I stepped up the kino a bit. Most of the time was chitchat for a bit… Later, I went for the kiss on the neck and she didn’t resist. I escalated past making out then told her “Let’s go to your room.” She said ok… I played some music for us on my Ipod. On the bed I ran strawberry fields and she had a low fence, lots of strawberries , and said “thank you” to the farmer. Strawberry fields is good to use when sexual framing. At that point, I escalated to more make-out then pulled the D-move. Dimmed the lights later. It was game on from there.

In the morning, she had to go meet a friend who rescheduled to meet her later in the afternoon. I looked out the window and thought to myself “It feels good to be in Manila.” She made me some cereal we watched some of America’s Next Top Model on her flat screen TV. We left the apartment later and took the elevator down and went outside. She left me with a parting present a huge hickey on my neck ☹

Welcome to the Philippines, Latin

This is my first close since coming back to Taiwan and it feels good. Before I left Korea, I hit a pretty nice hot streak closing a few girls. When I came to Taiwan, I thought to myself “Oh it’ll be pretty easy to get the next close.” Well, I was wrong. I met a lot of girls during the last three weeks here and I pulled a good amount back to my place, but they weren’t DTF. I even had one chick I pulled back the other night that I made out with, but when it came time to progressing past the make out she said “I can’t do this.” She left after that as I escorted her outside. This similar situation happened the day after that when a girl I met from night game I brought back and we made out… Then I went to escalate past the make out (Day2 planned Day3) and she stopped herself again. She told me she had to go so I walked her to the MRT Station. This can do a lot to your psyche when you go through these rough patches. You start to think to yourself “When will it end?”

Finally, it ended last night! This was a Day 3 close that I met from online game.

The Day 2

HB Smiles and I met at the MRT Station and went over to Carnegies which is a local pub in the area. She had a good vibe and bright smile. Her English was also really good since she lived in the States for a bit. I got this from Lumiere since he asks chicks “What do you think of Taiwanese guys?” I decided to give it a try and she mentioned their ok, but she liked American/Western guys since living in the States. Here’s where the title of the LR comes into play. I asked HB smiles when she would be free and she mentioned Saturday and Sunday was busy. I also tried to seed my place that night but she had to wake up early for work in the morning. So I asked her how about Friday “Sure, I don’t have any plans then.” I had some logistical things to cover she lives far away, but I neutralized that by telling her she doesn’t have to work the next day.

The Day 3

We met for the Day 3 and things picked up where they left off. My original bounce location had no seats so I chose this Japanese spot near my place. The music wasn’t that great, but I just carried the convo the entire time. Mental note- DO not to use this venue next time. The best venues have dim lights and good music ( I prefer house music or Top 100) Afterwards, I mentioned we were gonna get desert in the area. Grabbed some to go/went by the convenience store (beers) near my place. I had already seeded watching movies at my place so there weren’t any issues coming in. I did have Lumiere crashing with me which I’ll mention that story later…

Once inside, I showed her my pics from my travels and had light kino. We also talked about previous relationships. I escalate a bit quicker this time because I wasn’t getting any resistance from her. I think every girl is different. Some girls you can escalate quickly with and they won’t say anything as you escalate those types are my favorite. There are other girls that throw minor resistance, but you can get through it by using push pull and “keeper of secrets, hero story” can help… Then there are the types that will give u lots of resistance (these can be the most challenging.) My target fell into the no resistance category all I had to do was shift things to end up on my bed so I could escalate. We went from the desk to the couch then the couch to my mattress to watch a movie. I started kissing her early on, but I kept pulling away when I saw she was enjoying it. Once on the bed, I worked the neck then took off her clothes. There was no resistance along the way. The funny thing is Lumiere and I had some miscommunication and he knocked on the door as I was fucking her… Pretty funny. Remember to check wing communication if you are sharing an apartment.

I attribute this lay to making a date adjustment with her. Since I am only here on vacation, it’s best to get the dates you will meet girls on squared away. I was able to do that. Hopefully I’ll have more fun stories to tell you on my travels around Taiwan…

LS

Wanted to share an LR from you in Taiwan where wingmanship was at play. Remember that you always have to have your wings back no matter what.

This LR is in dedication to my wingman Bolo. Without him, this LR would have not been possible!

Bolo and I decided to head over to Roxy 99 last night. We grabbed a few beers outside and Bolo opened his first set. It went well and right then something clicked. You know it’s always good having a wing cuz it motivates you to sarge harder. I told myself ok I gotta get in there and run some sets.

We go in the venue and we circle around and there are a bunch of guys there. We look harder and see some sets scattered about. I go in and open a single set and it went pretty well… English was good. I bt spiked and stayed in set for a bit. Her friend came and Bolo ran obstacle for me, but her friend was not having it. I had a number close so I eject…

Next, I see a pretty hot two set… Hb shortie good fashion and her hb friend. I go in high energy. Do high fives… Ask them if they know any good house clubs in Taipei… The whole time I was high energy… Remember in nightgame you have to bring the party! Bolo comes in and takes the friend.

Set goes very well I did the spin move to lock into position. I had really good kino compliance. We didn’t move around the venue much. The next thing was to cover logistics. We move over to the bar area where I get a couple drinks for Bolo and I… Turns out her friend had to work in the morning so I made a suggestion for us to go do some karoake… My goal here was to bounce outside of the venue! Her and her friend talk for sometime and Bolo is like I’m losing the set. My target asks me later if I have a place where her friend (lesbian friend who was upstairs the other friend left) can sleep. I tell her “Yeah we have a hotel room…”

The sad part was that the friend who was a lesbian had to come with us. I owe Bolo so much for this because he handled it well. We all leave the venue and head over to Zhongxiao Dunhua. The girls were mentioning going to a club, but Bolo and I knew better than that. We head over to a lounge in the area.

Here, we just have a good time, and I build on the kino… Bolo and I kept making eye contact about how we were going to separate. The plan was to head over near Luxy after chilling out at the lounge.

Once outside of Luxy, Bolo occupies the obstacle and I take my chick up to the elevator to get a hotel room. She had mentioned if I had a room I told her I had to get one. I pay and there were no issues. We go inside and well you know the deal… There was no resistance and she was fun. Turns out I was only the second guy she has ever had sex with… We grabbed breakfast in the morning and had sex again. I future projected well and only have till Saturday to see her again. I do plan on being back in Taiwan hopefully in January.

Damn I’m loving this place…

Some background info on her:

university student
lived in the US for a few months- good English level
good sense of fashion I joked with her about studying fashion, but she wants to be a nurse

This LR is in dedication to my wingman Bolo who will always be my go to guy! I owe you one….

LS

8 hours? Try 30 minutes.

Lately, in the community there has been more of an interest in SNL Game. Here’s the misconception. Many guys believe there is a 7 hr rule that you must follow to getting the close. Take that and throw it down the drain. There’s guys closing in less than 4 hours and my SNL’S usually average about 4-5 hours with my last one being in 2 hours. Well, Latinstylez what are the keys to SNL Game?

1. Logistics

Yup, this is where most guys fail. A friend of mine by the name of RedpoleQ always stresses logistics. If you have a solid game plan, of where you will take the girl from point A-Z, then you will be that much better off when you are running game. Combine that with being comfortable in the venues and also knowing the people there. Guess what that creates? It creates a person who is comfortable within himself in the areas he goes to and it shows by the way you act and also by the way you talk to other people in the venue.

Tip: Start looking around your area for some good venues to bounce your girls to. Think of at least 3-4 venues that you can rotate between.

2. Use plausible deniability to bring her back to your place

Plausible deniability is created when she doesn’t feel responsible. Again, my buddy RedpoleQ and BlueM stress this in their teaching. I have used this technique and have been able to escalate at a quicker pace and also deal with less LMR when I pull her back. A good example would be to tell her about vacation photos that you want to show her or some funny you tube videos. What this does is it doesn’t make her responsible. Remember the man is responsible!

3. Escalate

Escalating is where most guys fuck up on. You have a guy who is clearly interested in the girl he is sarging but when it comes to kinoing her he freezes out. Afraid to touch her the guy goes into a state and loses out on the girl he is interested in.This is one of the most important parts of SNL game because physical touch is very important in the HB feeling comfortable with you. Without touch, there is nothing!

Escalation tips:

Start small. This can be your hand on her shoulder or lightly touching  her arm and progressing. RedpoleQ teaches a bootcamp where he goes over this with guys. Remember to continue progressing!

4. Sexualize

Well what is sexualizing, Latin?  Here are some quick sexualization tips. Make sure to run Questions Game later on in the sarge. This is typically done at the seduction location or prior to the seduction location.

You want to make sure to find out how sexual she is…

Start by asking questions on how many people she has kissed and slowly progressing from there. The key here is to progress with each question.

Strawberry Fields is another great way to sexualize typically in the bounce location before the seduction location or you can roll it out in the seduction location. Sexualizing takes practice; I am still working on getting it tighter.

5. Pull the trigger

She’s laying there in the bed looking at you all sexual. You look down and decide that you “feel” right now is not the time after you have progressed this far in the SAME DAY! We’ve been there. This is the main reason I am writing this post. Well, don’t just sit there looking  at her pull the f…. trigger… Go on that bed and play with her hair and give her a kiss.

I’m sick of hearing crap about all these games in the community. Just go in for the k close and escalate. Pulling the trigger means going after what you want. Do you want that girl? Then pull the trigger!

SNL Game:

Just a few tips from someone who has experience in SNL Game. Most of the time I don’t even go for the SNL’s they just happen. They happen because of some of the steps I have listed above. There is much more to expand on this topic and we are working on ways to make our game harder, better, faster, and stronger. Most commonly in SNL Game, faster!

Latin

The cool thing about Florianopolis is that it’s a rich resort. Tons of people speak English so I haven’t had to deal with as many frustrations as I did with the rest of South America. Although I’ve been told that the girls here weren’t as friendly as other parts of Brasil. Not sure how true this is because damn near every set I’ve opened has been warm and friendly. If the girls are friendlier elsewhere then I imagine they’d take you in, feed you dinner, then blow you under the table (Hmm…I have heard of those places here.)

Anyhoot…

I was at the bus stop with my wing, Brasil Pirate, when I saw a petite, black chick with curly hair standing by herself. I asked her what time it was and she told me…in perfect English! “Oh! You speak English!” I said. She said you had spend time in the US and many other countries. I told her about my South American travels and joked about how I was surfing on the sidewalk because there’s been so much rain here lately. Then I asked her where she has traveled. America, Germany…and China! “Do you speak Chinese?” I inquired. Then I started speaking to her in Chinese. To my surprise she replied back and we had a full conversation in Chinese. Having commonalities like this is fucking killer.

Soon the bus same and we both got on. We stand up and continue our conversation. A good sign since there was an empty chair for her to sit next in. I told her it was cool if she said but she insisted on standing. I told her about how my love for foreign places started when I moved out of America when I was 12. She told me she was born in Brasil and left for Germany when she was three years old. After that she moved to China.

“I bet you’re going to meet a Brasilian guy and had 20 Brasilian children…all of whom will be boys. You’ll have your own Brasilian soccer team!” She laughed and said she rather move to China and meet a
Chinese guy. SCORE!

Then I ran the cube on her. She was really into it and closed her eyes to visualize. I got to the flowers when the bus got to my stop. “Damn, looks like I can’t finish the test.” Brasil chick looked really disappointed. That’s when Pirate informed me that we were getting off on another stop. Cool. False take away.

I finish the Cube and asked her if she really wants to know the results. She was practically begging me to know the meaning. I tell her, being sure to ask questions to draw out the conversation longer.  Then I number close and ask her where she’s staying. Same area as me. Logistics. Check. We end up getting off at the same stop.

As we were about to part, I could see her giving me the doggy dinner bowl eyes and she said she would call me.

The next night I give her a call. Turns out she lives about a 20 minute walk to me but agrees to walk to my location. I see her and immediately pick up her and spin her in circles then carried her across the street.  After I put her down, I run the trust test and say good when she follows my movements.

We sit at a park bench and I tell her about my family. She tells me a bit about her daughter. Now I know she fucks. I start to wonder how old she is and joke about how she’s probably only 16. Ahh, she’s 25. Then I bounce to a bar. Brasil girl is worried and says beer is expensive. Don’t worry babe, I’ll take care of it. At the bar my hero story comes out and I saw she was touched by it.

I find out she lives with her sister and brother in law. Big sister is pretty conservative and my girl has a curfew. Alright, gotta wrap this one up quick. I seed in taking a walk on the beach and we leave. As we walk she tells me how she plans to move out with a couple of gay guys. Perfect time to tell my non-judgmental story about stumbling into a gay bar (Why do all the guys have their shirts off?) and hooking two guys up.

She grabs my hand and I know it’s on. I stop, give her laser guys, pull her in and we kiss. I toss her off of me and say that’s enough. Then push her against a wall and make out some more. Just to be safe I run Strawberry Fields. Then seed in pictures at my place.

Pull her into the pad, show pictures, make out some more, and carry her into my bedroom.

Background: I met this girl a year and a half ago when I was running promoter game. Back then, I had a few chances to close, but I never pulled the trigger. She clearly wanted it, but because I didn’t fully escalate she wasn’t going to. To sum it up, we made out in my bed and I got a handjob from her. She stayed the night, too.

What I learned now that would help me- Sexualizing the sarge, building on storytelling

Sent her a message on facebook that I was in town. I number closed and ran textgame throughout the week. Tonight I messaged her and asked her what she was doing. She replied back that she wanted to hang out and needed a ride. Thanks to Tallahassee Lair Member Tallanasty for picking me up to get her and take me to the pre party

I pick her up and she’s looking cute dirty blonde hair and a nice little black dress on. She’s a 7.5 in my book. We get in the car and head to the pre party at Falcon’s frat house. Talked to her while she was in the back seat about catching up with everything in the time frame we missed each other….

Logistics

1. Pre Game
2. McDonald’s
3. Club
4. Walk back to pad

I didn’t have a car but luckily the venue was close to where I am staying. My plan was to walk with her there.

Started out at the frat house talking to everyone introducing her to Falcon and my other friends and interacting with other ppl. From there, we bounced to the party bus… I had some kino on but I made sure this time to start the sarge from scratch like the advice from my fellow Tallahassee Lair member.

1st Bounce

I made a promise to get her in for free at the venue, but my contact would be there later. Perfect time to bounce. She had hurt her hand so I told her I would take care of her and we could get some ice at McDonald’s… In there, I ran some solid kino, did the kids test off the palm read (sexualizing quicker now but calling her sexual from her relationship line), talked about my travels, and general vibing with the set…

She had some ice in the cup and was putting her hand it. She talked about how she’s clumsy and lights herself with cigarettes. ” I better stay away from you when you are lighting a cigarette!” I told her. She was laughing and kinoing my arm more…

Texted my promoter friend and he was @ the door of the venue Baja’s Beachclub.

2nd Bounce- Baja’s

My Original plan was to stay in the club for a brief period of time. My friend had a table with bottles in the best part of the club. Awesome set up may I add.. I was working a lot of pre-selection in the venue, because even after one year I still know a lot of people. I was introducing her to people left and right, making exits to talk to other people, and talking to other girls. Poured her drinks from the many bottles (DHV)

Highlights of Club Game-

Ran Questions Game- This turned the furnace on sexualizing the sarge. My first question was “Where is the craziest place you’ve had sex?” Her: at the frat house in the bathroom, Partners this year:3, Favorite position: Depends on size

As you can see, her responses showed she was a pretty sexual girl.

Bounce out of the club and back to the place

I had already seeded hookah back at the pad to which she was down for. The venue was near closing although still packed. We walk outside and I have her grab my arm and we walk back to where I am staying. She told me she needed to catch a ride home to go on a jog in the morning- she likes to exercise. I don’t have my car here so she would later call her roommate. Time constraints all over the place. Could I escalate in enough time?

In the pad

** She mentioned inside that I have changed since the last time we met. She said I have more confidence and that I looked like I was in more control. Looks like all the PUA stuff has changed me and she could tell.

Got her some water and we lit the hookah. My goal was to get her upstairs and sexualize it more. I had time on my hands as she texted her roommate to come get her pretty soon. After a few lights of the hookah, I tell her “I’m going to give you a tour of the place come with me.” I grab her hand and bring her upstairs.

Once in the room, we start making out and she’s keen. Then she says “Let’s go downstairs and finish the hookah.” Ok so we go back downstairs and she talks about how her roommate is on her way…

I had sexualized this before and I got her to agree to have sex with me.  I say to her ” Let’s have sex we don’t have much time.” She says, “I don’t usually have sex with guys on my period but ok.” Once upstairs, it was on. I cavemanned her and threw her on the bed and got on top of her to make out. From there, she grabs my cock and starts to give me head…  Then, she takes off the panties and I grab the condom.

Problems Getting it up

I think the alcohol I got for free all night impaired me (this normally doesn’t happen.) I couldn’t get it up for long after she was giving me head. I think the longest I fucked her was 5 minutes before going soft. I feel so ashamed and tell her it’s cuz of the alcohol. I could have gone in bareback, but I don’t take risks. She respected that.

We try a few more times to no avail. But, she wants to hang out again when we are sober… Her friend picks her up and I give her a kiss goodbye.

Lesson Learned: If you are on a Day 2 and you have a good chance of closing, don’t drink too much. The effects of alcohol can impair your judgment and also lead to having whiskey dick.

Things I need to work on

1. Even if the drinks are free, drink less

Things I did well

1. Getting her to agree to have sex with me and to hang out after not pulling the trigger a year and a half ago
2. SEXUALIZING the sarge from the get go…