While Gambler and AFC Adam may be some of the best pickup artists in the world, they can not out-game the people of PUA Training Korea for one reason: PUA Training Korea are more familiar with Korean culture, and thus, understand Korean women better than anyone else.

This boot camp will not teach any canned routines, and instead, will focus more on teaching natural game, teaching a man how to teach his own natural charm instead of acting like someone he’s not. Each trainee will be paired with a trainer who speaks fluent English. This trainer will be one who’s character is most compatible with that of the trainee. There will hours of theory sessions, teaching a person how to show their attractive qualities. This will be followed by intense field training. This field training will include day game in the coffee shops, bookstores, and streets while night game will be in the clubs, in which the trainees will be given VIP access.

After the training, the trainee may call his trainer to wing with him. This service will be free for the first three times during the first two months after the training. He will wing with you, hook you up with girls, and give you feedback on your performance.

This bootcamp by PUA Training Korea, which is normally 1,180,000 won for Koreans, will only cost 800,000 won for foreigners. You can apply by writing an email to info@puatkorea.com. Tell them you’re interested in the boot camp, and write a bit about yourself, dating experiences, level of pickup skill, weaknesses and strengths of character, and motivation for doing this bootcamp.

I think of limiting beliefs as a major deterrent in developing your game. It’s always easy to make an excuse right. I’ve been in the game for a while, and you wouldn’t believe the excuses I sometimes here guys make.

1. “I don’t want to talk to her because I don’t know what to say”- Alot of guys get caught up in the opener. They think that they must have some amazing opener so they can attract the girl. Not really actually. If you have trouble deciding what to open with, just ask for the time or the directions. Make it seem natural as to the reason why you are talking to your target.

2. “What’s the point in wasting my time talking to women”- You aren’t wasting your time. Your developing a skill set, and over time you will develop relationships with women. You have to look at it as a time investment. We invest time in approaching women to reap the rewards later as our skill set improves.

3. “What if she doesn’t want to give me her number?”- I know the truth that many guys are afraid of rejection. When I first started picking up, I also felt bad if a girl wasn’t interested in me. You know what I do know? I don’t let it bother me if she doesn’t want to have further contact with me. I go out there and approach more girls because at the end of the day I will find a girl that wants to invest in our relationship.

4. “I don’t know how to talk to girls during the day.”- Many PUA’s focus on approaching at night. As a matter of fact, I specialize in day game these days for that very reason. There is less competition when you are out there during the day. Alot of guys need some beer to give them the courage to approach. When I first started approaching girls during the day, I had alot of approach anxiety. It took months and months of practice to get more comfortable approaching during the day. So my advice for this limiting belief is to get out of your shell, and just start talking to a few girls a day. Set a goal of how many women you want to approach. Start small then work towards bigger goals.

Those are a few limiting beliefs. If you can think of some more you have had or you know others have had, post them on here.

LS

Now what’s the first thing you think about when you see a hot girl? “Wow I’d love to fuck that,” is probably a popular thought. It’s probably my first thought – that’s for sure.

Sometimes pick-ups don’t always happen they way you plan them though. Sometimes your game is off. Or sometimes maybe she just isn’t in the mood and you THINK you did something wrong when you actually didn’t. It’s dilemmas like these that make picking up chicks confusing at times and seem to not make much sense.

Rather than trying to make sense of everything though (which I understand can be difficult being a man) you can still rebound from a failed pick-up with a hot chick by keeping in contact with her and doing a lot of other great things that do wonders for your social intuition and lead to more success in the future. Personally I have benefited more from feedback from my female friends and introductions through my social circles than any cold approach skill I have ever learned.

Am I saying you should take pick-up advice from women? Fuck no. That’s like asking me for relationship maintenance advice. Whenever you consider learning anything from anyone you should always ask yourself, “Is this person QUALIFIED to give me advice on this topic?” Most women have never spend a day in their life trying to pick up another woman so taking their advice on how to proactively do it makes about as much sense as going to a doctor without a college degree.

One way befriending women CAN benefit you though is by providing helpful feedback by correcting shit you’re definitely doing wrong. If your hair or clothing style is whack, a woman will tell you the truth about it. If you try to pick up a chick and fail, another chick can probably tell you how you fucked it up. If you get last minute resistance and explain the story to a chick she can probably explain how the other chick was feeling because she can relate. Women are terrible for giving pick-up advice but great for making corrections and providing feedback. Hope that makes sense.

Another way befriending women can benefit you is by providing access to their social networks! Women, by nature, are more social than men and probably have a lot more acquaintances than you do. Probably half of my lays or more are a direct result of being introduced through another woman with whom I am friends with. The reason female introductions are so powerful is because women can relate to each other better than men, therefore if a girl tells another girl that you’re cool she’s going to believe it A LOT more than if some guy says it.

Many of you are probably aware of the “power” hot women have in nightclubs. They have the CHOICE to either talk to guys or not to talk to guys and there’s nothing (legal) we can do to change that. We can’t MAKE anyone do anything, which is why attraction is so valuable. If we want to take a walk, we can take a walk. If we want to go get some fast food, we can get some fast food. If we want attraction from a woman, guess what it’s not as easy and THAT is why we value it so much and THAT is why women at nightclubs are so powerful.

Did you know that women are accepted as currency in more countries than Visa? Well, guess what having hot women at the club with you is: club currency (as I like to call it). If you see a guy at a nightclub with 10 women around him you will probably think he has more “status” than a guy at a club by himself or with a few of his guy friends. And the REASON we think that is because we can OBSERVE and UNDERSTAND more about him than anyone else without “social proof”. Check out my article on social proof for more info. The point is that befriending women can be the difference between you being “just another guy” at a social event that nobody pays attention to and being a rock star that everyone wants to meet.

Understanding this takes empathy. Imagine you are a hot girl. Some guy you barely know introduces his guy friend to you. What are you thinking? “These guys are probably friends and wingmen and this guy is probably trying to help his buddy get in my pants.” Now imagine if one of your girlfriends you’ve known for years introduces you to a guy. You’re going to think, “Wow my friend approves of this guy SO MUCH that she’s actually introducing him to me to make me happy.” Notice the difference.

NOW you need to develop the social intuition to know whether a hot girl is better off as your target or as your friend because BOTH are great opportunities and you don’t want to fuck up either of them. Obviously “fuck her” is going to be your first choice because that’s just how we men think. If you go TOO FAR though with the pick-up attempt she’ll probably never want to see you again afterward. At the SAME time if you get in the friend zone with her you probably aren’t ever getting out and MIGHT have fucked up your only chance to fuck her.

So how do you know?

The best way to know is to know whether or not you DEFINITELY have attraction and we are all familiar with the “games” women play which makes it seem fucking impossible to tell sometimes whether she is into you or not. The reason for that is simply because every woman is DIFFERENT therefore we can’t expect them to be as consistent and reliable as our guy friends are with our behavior. Women are full of complex emotions so trying to “herd” them all into one category with a logical solution is just shooting yourself in the foot.

What is the best way to know if you have attraction? Simple.

IS SHE FOLLOWING YOUR LEAD?

The more she follows your lead the more she is investing in the interaction and the more she is convincing herself to like you. Ever hear a woman say to anyone, “Why the fuck am I with this guy?” The answer is because she has INVESTED so much in him, it would be very discomforting to know that she invested in something that failed and for her it is actually EASIER to go along with her consistent behavior than to take a massive hit to her ego.

The more a woman will follow you, the more attraction you have. Did she actually follow you to the bar to get shots when you suggested it? Did she go with you to sit on a nearby couch? Did she give you her number? Did she agree to a date? Does she text back quickly or answer when you call? Did she actually meet you somewhere for a date? These are all questions you can ask yourself to KNOW how much she is REALLY into you.

I have had women not seem to like me AT ALL but they still followed my lead. We had no emotional connection or rapport whatsoever and I still took them home and got the lays.

On the flip side I have also had women seem TOTALLY into me and then flake on me or not come back to my place when I suggest it. Well guess what, she just wasn’t that into me.

By my experience, whether or not she “follows my lead” and how often she says “yes” to my requests has been the ONLY clean cut way to determine whether a woman has been into me or not and when you look back on YOUR past experiences you will probably notice it too and a light bulb will turn on in your head.

Isn’t it awesome when things make sense?

SO the choice is up to you. If she is following your lead, she is probably attracted to you on a romantic or sexual level and wants you to make some moves. If not then she is probably just not that into you and you can gain a lot of benefits from being her friend. Obviously there is more to the “game” than just making her follow you, such as how to generate attraction, how to date, and how to close the deal, but understanding whether or not she is following your lead is a great way to determine whether or not she is CURRENTLY attracted to you, and whether you decide to keep going for that attraction or to benefit from friendship.

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Sincerely,
Falcon
Tallahassee Lair Chief