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		<title>The Common Problems Asian Guys Have When Dating and How To Overcome Those</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Mar 2010 07:09:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ryker Koh</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Asian men have been stereotyped in the media as been asexual, and lacking the masculine quality that has long been associated with Caucasian men. Today, we shall investigate some of the common problems that Asian guys face when dating and &#8230; <a href="http://www.latinstylez.com/the-common-problems-asian-guys-have-when-dating-and-how-to-overcome-those/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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<p>Asian men have been stereotyped in the media as been asexual, and lacking the masculine quality that has long been associated with Caucasian men.</p>
<p>Today, we shall investigate some of the common problems that Asian guys face when dating and how to overcome those.</p>
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<p>One of the biggest problems that Asian guys face is that they are too shy and too much of a nice guy. It could be because of the conservative culture that Asian males were brought up in, a culture that emphasized harmony and peace, obedience and conformity rather than conflict.</p>
<p>As such, most Asian males bend over backwards to please a woman and rarely open up and speak their mind for fear of being labelled as out-spoken or to avoid standig out. The end result is that they disappear into annoymity and are often overlooked by women and simply ignored.</p>
<p>The next biggest problem that Asian guys have is that they are sometimes too much of a follower and rarely stand up and take charge of a situation. That extends to standing up for principles that they believe in and challenging those who do not treat him with the basic respect he feels he deserves.</p>
<p>Once again, it could be because of the umbrella-culture of conformity that many Asian households preach and raise their children in. Any wise comment back is greeted with a swift slap across the face and from young, the child is educated to simply follow orders and stay quiet.</p>
<p>The end result is a noticeable stiffness in social interactions, being too much of a doormat and never contributing to the interaction with personality and humour. It is what is often referred to as the Asian Man Poker-face, a stoic expression that betrays no emotion.</p>
<p>Women, as a result, often over-look the Asian guy for the more colourful, expressive and masculine Caucasian male who is smooth, confortable in his own sexuality and can convey and evoke the different emotions necessary to attract a woman&#8217;s attention.</p>
<p>The solutions for budding Asian males who want to improve their relationships with women are simple. To first be re-acquainted with their inner masculine self and get in touch with their core personality and show-case it effortlessly.</p>
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<p>But with all the limiting beliefs that exist and years of disuse and lack of practice, doing so might be far easier said than done.</p>
<p>One product on the market that can help Asian men overcome those mental strangleholds that hold them back is Asian Dating Superstars.</p>
<p><a title="Asian Dating Superstars" href="http://www.latinstylez.com/asiandatingsuperstars" target="_self">Asian Dating Superstars</a></p>
<p>It is a 13-part interview series conducted by its creator Ryker Koh and 13 of the world&#8217;s best Asian dating coaches and ladies&#8217; men.</p>
<p>With keen understanding of the problems and challenges Asian men face in the world of dating, Ryker has systematically gotten all 13 coaches to reveal the precise steps that Asian guys can use to immediately be rid of limiting beliefs and turn themselves into confident, attractive men.</p>
<p>Some of these methods include how to react in social situations, how to approach a beautiful woman of high value even though you are not the most muscular, tall or good-looking guy around, how to overcome the dreaded Asian male stereotype and set yourself apart immediately and more &#8230;</p>
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<p>Some of the 13 coaches are household names and they include DJ Fuji, Daniel Rose of the Sex God Method, William of ABCs of Attraction, Johnny Wolf, Xavier, Troy Dizon and more.</p>
<p>One thing they all agree is that all Asian men have an equal chance of being successful with women, if they know exactly what to do.</p>
<p>Asian Dating Superstars can be that shortcut for all Asian men out there who want phenomenal success with women to transforming themselves into naturally attractive, charismatic men.</p>
<p>Go ahead and click the link below to find out more today.</p>
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		<title>How Asian Guys Can Become Attractive To Women Of All Races</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 08 Jan 2010 06:41:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ryker Koh</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Asian men have often been giving a rough ride by the media in general. The negative stereotypes like having a small penis, being short, asexual and lacking in confidence have resulted in many Asian men mistakenly assimilating that identity and &#8230; <a href="http://www.latinstylez.com/how-asian-guys-can-become-attractive-to-women-of-all-races/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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<p><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-normal;">Asian men have often been giving a rough ride by the media in general. The negative stereotypes like having a small penis, being short, asexual and lacking in confidence have resulted in many Asian men mistakenly assimilating that identity and condemning themselves to a lack of success when dating. </span></p>
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<p><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-normal;">Today, we are going to investigate how Asian guys can become attractive to women of all races and exude the same kind of eye-catching charisma that naturally arouses a woman&#8217;s desire and sets her pulse racing. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-normal;">1. Develop Sexual Confidence. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-normal;">Daniel Rose of The Sex God Method lists this as the most important factor to a man&#8217;s confidence when it comes to dating women &#8211; the deep knowing that when she goes to bed with you, you will be more than capable of satisfying her. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-normal;">In fact, you would be the best she has ever had. You will literally rock her world and make her hit new heights she had never imagined possible. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-normal;">With sexual confidence and sexual prowress, you always know that you are a man that can make a woman satisfied, in more ways than one.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-normal;">2. Convey your personality</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-normal;">Being smooth, charming and witty comes with being comfortable and at ease in social settings. Many Asian guys get tense and nervous in social situations and thus clamp up in the corner and are over-looked by women. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-normal;">By taking improv classes or by being in social settings regularly, you will learn that it is okay to be adventurous and to chime in with a wise-crack or two to set the entire table laughing. It is perfectly okay to freely convey your personality and that women open up when they see you at complete and total ease at yourself. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-normal;">3. Turn your culture into your advantage</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-normal;">Instead of hiding your cultural roots and pretending that it is something to be ashamed about, the best Asian seducers in the world use them to their advantage. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-normal;">Asian culture is rich in exciting tales of adventure and romance, so feel free to share them with the women you are with, in a way that they can relate to. Educate her on exotic Asian cultures and customs and she will be enchanted.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-normal;">Also, the Orient has produced more than one sex manuscript of note &#8211; from the Kama Sutra to the secrets of Tantric Sex. Feel free to discuss these with her and you will soon be reaping the benefits of doing so.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-normal;">4. Don&#8217;t let race be such a big factor</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-normal;">Many Asian guys get too caught up in the whole issue of race and thus contrain themselves with these internal, mental limitations. Yes, racism does exist but not in the same degree that most guys imagine in their minds. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-normal;">Obsessing over racial disparities will do nothing but hurt your confidence and then again, another man&#8217;s lack of success does not mean that the entire race is at fault. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-normal;">Understand that at the end of the day, women will always be biologically attracted to a real, masculine man, regardless of height, looks or race. Sure those may matter, but being a real man with a charming personality will guarantee you success, wherever you go. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-normal;">One product that can help you unleash  the natural, charming man hidden within you is Asian Dating Superstars.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-normal;"><a title="Asian Dating Superstars" href="http://www.latinstylez.com/asiandatingsuperstars" target="_self">Find out more.</a><br />
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<p><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-normal;">It is a 13 part interview series conducted by Ryker Koh and 13 of the world&#8217;s greatest Asian dating coaches. In it, Ryker grills the coaches on how average, everyday-looking Asian men can drastically improve their dating success and win the hearts and minds of the women they fancy. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-normal;">The coaches peel back the curtain and reveal never-released-before secrets, usually reserved for private instruction clients who pay $1000s of dollars and lay out the exact blueprint Asian guys can follow to become massively MORE attractive to women, in a few simple, easy-to-follow steps. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-normal;">Some of the 13 coaches are household names and they include DJ Fuji, Daniel Rose of the Sex God Method, William of ABCs of Attraction, Johnny Wolf, Xavier, Troy Dizon and more.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-normal;">But one thing they all agree is that regardless of height, look or money in the bank, Asian guys have the same, equal potential to be attractive to women of all races, if only they knew how to do it. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-normal;">Asian Dating Superstars is the missing answer for Asian men so go ahead and click the link below to find out why it has been praised as the &#8220;missing ingredient for Asian men to achieve massive success with women&#8221; </span></p>
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		<title>Why The Thoughts You Have About Interracial Dating Might Be Killing Your Chances Of Getting The Girls You Want As An Asian-American Man</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Dec 2009 06:23:00 +0000</pubDate>
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<p>Many Asian men have mixed opinions when the issue of inter-racial dating is brought up. They point to the mismatch and double standard that exists in society. In the study conducted in the popular book, Freakonomics, an average Asian man had to make a whooping $200,000 more than an average white guy in order to be seen in the same light by women.</p>
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<p>Imagine that! That means at least $15,000 more in monthly income, to be seen as a mere equal to a white guy.</p>
<p>In sharp contrast, many Asian guys point to more Asian women and Caucasian male pairing as a sign that there is a huge interracial dating disparity and double standard that exists. In fact, they get extremely upset when they see Asian women dating white males. One guy even remarked that he was angry that white guys were &#8220;stealing our Asian women&#8221;.</p>
<div id="attachment_1373" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 210px"><img class="size-medium wp-image-1373" title="White male Asian female" src="http://www.latinstylez.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/10/interracialcouple-200x300.jpg" alt="If this pisses you off then it's time to make a change." width="200" height="300" /><p class="wp-caption-text">If this pisses you off then it&#39;s time to make a change.</p></div>
<p>It is precisely this thought that traps many Asian men in a victim-mindset and condemns them to a complete lack of success in dating.</p>
<p>The real way out is to understand that women will date anyone that is a confident, attractive man who triggers the attraction switches within her. Even though race sometimes comes into play, universal biological attraction switches will remain eternally the same.</p>
<p>So the real answer to this question is for Asian men to stop worrying so much about the whole mis-match of interracial dating and start transforming themselves into more confident and masculine men, who are naturally attractive to women.</p>
<p>In that case, he will never have to worry about race being a disadvantage or that he is somehow excluded because of his Asian ethnicity.</p>
<p>One such product that can accelerate this whole process for Asian males is Asian Dating Superstars.</p>
<p>http://www.latinstylez.com/asiandatingsuperstars</p>
<p>In it, the creator Ryker Koh specially posed this challenge to 13 of the world&#8217;s greatest Asian dating coaches &#8211; How Can Asian Men Become More Confident and Sexually Attractive To Women Of All Races?</p>
<p>And each of the 13 Asian dating coaches revealed the exact, step-by-step methods that any Asian guy can immediately use to turn his life around and transform himself into the man that women are naturally drawn to.</p>
<p>Some of the 13 coaches are household names and they include DJ Fuji, Daniel Rose of the Sex God Method, William of ABCs of Attraction, Johnny Wolf, Xavier, Troy Dizon and more.</p>
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<p>Universally, they all agree that Asian men can definitely be attractive to women of all races if only they know how.</p>
<p>Asian Dating Superstars peels back the curtain and reveals the exact &#8220;how-to&#8221; and has been described as the missing dating manuscript for Asian men. Go ahead and click the link below to find out why it has been praised as &#8220;one of the most important dating products for all Asian men out there&#8221;</p>
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		<title>Mental Barriers Asian men have when Dating</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Nov 2009 05:36:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Asian men have long been depicted in movies and the mass media in a distinctly unfavorable light, resulting in the rise of many stereotypes like the nerdy, geeky Asian or the asexual Asian. Society rarely expects Asian men to stand &#8230; <a href="http://www.latinstylez.com/barriers-asian-men-have-when-dating/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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<p>Asian men have long been depicted in movies and the mass media in a distinctly unfavorable light, resulting in the rise of many stereotypes like the nerdy, geeky Asian or the asexual Asian.</p>
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<p>Society rarely expects Asian men to stand up for themselves, much less have the confidence to approach beautiful women of high value. The resulting outcome is that many Asian men have placed themselves in a few mental lock-holds that restrict their success with women.</p>
<p>The first is bitterness and anger. Many Asian men have resorted to blaming the media for its negative stereotypes and often blog and write in rage at these unfair protrayals. They attribute their failures to external factors but rarely take any real-life action besides rage-driven posts.</p>
<p>Behind their rage is an inner self-loathing and acceptance of the fact that they are an inferior race and that being Asian is a distinct disadvantage.</p>
<p>The second is to stay seething but silent. Many Asian men who feel this way walk around in angry, silent desperation. They hate the fact that they do not have the desire they want but rarely take any action to change their situation.</p>
<p>Their self-pity builds up to an extent that one day they either suffer a breakdown or they lash out in uncontrollable rage. Whatever the case, theirs is a low-burn suffering on a daily basis.</p>
<p>The last is the escapist. The ones who give up altogether and do not play the game. They either engage in mail-order brides or take off into becoming sex tourists and never have any real connections with women.</p>
<p>The real way out of these negative mental barriers is to understand that continual thinking in this manner will never really result in real success with women. Instead, one should first disengage from these negative thoughts and pursuits.</p>
<p>The removal of negative influences &#8211; negative friends or media will accelerate the recovery process and aid him in improving his self-confidence and relationships with women.</p>
<p>What would really make a real difference is to find mentors or shining examples of other Asian guys who have succeeded before and use them as a benchmark, to break the whole stereotype and shatter the limiting belief.</p>
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<p>A product available that might be of phenomenal help to Asian men is &#8211; Asian Dating Superstars.</p>
<p><a title="Asian Dating Superstars" href="http://www.latinstylez.com/asiandatingsuperstars" target="_self">Click here to find out more.</a></p>
<p>In it, the creator Ryker Koh asked 13 of the world&#8217;s greatest and most successful Asian dating coaches to break down the steps on how they managed to transform themselves from bitter, unsuccessful Asian males who could not get a date or a kiss to confident men who could enjoy wonderful relationships with an abundance of women they desire.</p>
<p>Some of the famous Asian dating coaches include DJ Fuji, Daniel Rose of the Sex God Method, William of ABCs of Attraction, Johnny Wolf, Xavier, Troy Dizon and more and one thing they all agree on is that once Asian men realize that they can be attractive, they will automatically regain their confidence and become naturally attractive to women.</p>
<p>Asian Dating Superstars reveal how any Asian man can easily and effortlessly do that and transform himself to the confident, charismatic, masculine Asian man that had always been inside him.</p>
<p>Go ahead and click the link below to find out more.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.latinstylez.com/asiandatingsuperstars">Asian Dating Super Stars</a></p>
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		<title>Why Asian Men Suffer When Trying To Date Attractive Women</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 21 Nov 2009 03:48:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ryker Koh</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[We&#8217;re having a special guest post from the guys at Asian Dating Super Stars. As a Chinese American I know what it&#8217;s like to have that self hate when it comes to dating. I use to blame the media or &#8230; <a href="http://www.latinstylez.com/why-asian-men-suffer-when-trying-to-date-attractive-women/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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<p><em>We&#8217;re having a special guest post from the guys at Asian Dating Super Stars. As a Chinese American I know what it&#8217;s like to have that self hate when it comes to dating. I use to blame the media or culture for my lack of a social life. It wasn&#8217;t until I discovered the Pick Up Scene did I finally take my dating life into my hands. That&#8217;s why I&#8217;m glad to see guys like Ryker helping get rid of these limiting beliefs for Asian men. Take a look. He was some important things to say.</em></p>
<p><em>-Bolo</em></p>
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<p>Many Asian men fail to get the success they desire with women and many when asked why usually attribute their lack of success to racism and the fact that they are Asian.</p>
<p>Just how true is this statement?</p>
<p>The real, honest fact is that sometimes race does something to do with it. Women do notice which race you are and what you look like but not as much as you think so. Of course there are women out there who are not into Asians, but then again, there are women out there who are into white guys, black guys and every other race on the planet.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s just simple human nature.</p>
<p>So what&#8217;s the real problem here?</p>
<p>The real problem is that many Asian guys have convinced themselves that the women they desire will not find them attractive.</p>
<p>They have assimilated this limiting belief from young, perhaps from the media stereotypes or from being raised in an overly-conservative household and having had no success from young, they are convinced that they are doomed to fail when they approach beautiful women of any race.</p>
<p>The sad truth is that Asian guys who think like this simply don&#8217;t allow themselves the permission to follow their biological instinct and heart to date the women they honestly desire. The pain and frustration they feel lowers their self-esteem and makes them feel worthless and asexual.</p>
<p>The only way out is to find mentors or shining examples of other Asian guys who have succeeded before and use them as a benchmark, to break the whole stereotype and shatter the limiting belief.</p>
<p>One such product that might help is a product called Asian Dating Superstars.</p>
<p><a title="Asian Dating Superstars" href="http://www.latinstylez.com/asiandatingsuperstars" target="_self">Click here to see it.</a></p>
<p>In it, I interview 13 of the world&#8217;s greatest and most successful Asian dating coaches who proceed to answer every single question Asian guys have about overcoming stereotypes and how Asian guys can have phenomenal success with women of any race they desire.</p>
<p>Such famous dating coaches like DJ Fuji, Daniel Rose of the Sex God Method, William of ABCs of Attraction, Johnny Wolf, Xavier, Troy Dizon and more reveal the exact, precise, step-by-step methods on how they overcame stereotypes and became confident, attractive men who could stroll into another place, walk up to any woman fearlessly and attract her in mere minutes.</p>
<p>One thing they all agree on is that it is possible for Asians to have great success with women &#8211; and all guys have to do is to follow what they have learnt and discovered and success could just be a click away.</p>
<p>To find out more about this product and how you can now become a better, more confident Asian man with an abundance of wonderful relationships with the women you fancy, go ahead and click the link below.</p>
<p><a title="Asian Dating Superstars" href="http://www.latinstylez.com/asiandatingsuperstars" target="_self"></a></p>
<p><a title="Asian Dating Superstars" href="http://www.latinstylez.com/asiandatingsuperstars" target="_self">Asian Dating Superstars</a></p>
<p>I highly recommend it and it could be one of the best products ever created to help Asian men transform themselves into the real, rock-solid, confident man they have always wanted to become.</p>
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