Hey guys.

We’ve been getting a ton of comments about our Achilles interview. In fact, one of our friends got his first ever close after simply listening to it! He took Achilles advice to talk to every hot girl you see, no matter if you’re sarging or not. And what do you know!

Now Arash Is Having A Bootcamp With Matador Of Venusian Arts Fame On Novemeber 11 – 12!

Matador is a legend in The Game, having taught thousands of bootcamps all over the world and being a personal wing of Mystery since the beginning.

After watching The Pickup Artist on VH1, Achilles seeked out Mystery. So impressed was Mystery of Arash that he decided to introduce him to Matador. That’s now Achilles became Matador’s personal wings. And a legend was born.

Fuck! If I was anywhere near San Fran I’d take this bootcamp in a second.

However, As You Know From  Our Interview, Achilles Is Very Picky With What Students He Teaches. Punk Ass Bitches Need Not Apply.

He needs someone who has heart. Who’ll see their way through no matter what it takes.

Think you got what it takes?  Check out the youtube video above and then send an email to Arash at contact@seductiveinstinct.com for consideration.

Woo! Latinstylez.com’s first ever video interview!

We got to speak with Arash Dibazar (aka. Achilles) of SeductiveInstinct.com. This guy has a lot to say and you’ll watch a few gems in this interview.

Bolo:  Alright guys. This is Bolo from Latinstylez.com with my friend Arash, who’s currently… Uh, where you at?

Arash:  I’m in San José, California baby!

Bolo:  He’s in San Josey.  [LAUGHS] Arash is also known as Achilles from The Game. And he’s an up and coming PUA. And it’s a privilege to talk to you Arash.

Arash:  Thank you for having me. And uh, I’m glad to be alive.  Let’s go.

Bolo:  Alright, cool. Alright, first question. Most people don’t know that much about you.  You’re coming up.  And I’m just curious. Like, how did you get into The Game? How did you get into Pick Up?

Arash:  It’s a long story.  Let’s make it short. Well, I grew up and when I was six years old I had to leave my country which was Iran. And between the age of 6 and 11, I lived in Iran. I live in Turkey, in Syria, in Kuwait, in London, and Nebraska, and California.  In about 5 years I moved that much.  And uh, naturally, when I got to the United States, I wanted, you know, I started liking girls. And I wanted to have beautiful girls around me. And I liked the white, pretty cheerleader type. But they weren’t going to talk to me because I was a complete, just culture shock. You know what I mean? Like, everything was wrong about me at the time.

Arash:  So anyways, I got into the martial arts at a very young age. And I was interested in two things. One – how to defend myself. Two – how to get chicks. Which is survival and replication value, if you know anything about it now, right? So I spent all my life, every moment I could get my hands on, studying something about the mind, whether it was NLP, hypnosis, Dianetics. Anything you could think about. And martial arts. Because, one, I was getting beat up in school. So I had to learn how to defend myself. And two, I wanted the girls and nobody wanted to talk to me. Not the girls, not the boys.

Arash:  Until about two and a half years ago, I came across Mystery. It’s a really cool story how that happened. And, whatever, we got to talking and I became his student. And Matador, if you know who he is, James Matador, ended up becoming my personal mentor. And now I am a mother fucking beast. Beep. You know, without [INAUDIBLE], but we do cuss in California, San Jose.

Bolo:  Alright. That’s fine. You can cuss as much as you want here.

Arash:  Okay.

Bolo:  Alright. So how long have you been doing Pick Up for? Like 2, 3 years or something.

Arash:  About 2 and a half. Two years and four months, learning game. But prior to that, everything I studied, I tried to apply to picking up girls. I just didn’t have a structure or anything. So I was successful getting chicks but I didn’t know there was a group of Pick Up Artist. A community that was working at it. I understood that there was such a thing called Game. Being taught at two years and three months ago.

Bolo:  Interesting. So you use to be a dork and everything and you didn’t get any chicks. What’s your life like right now?

Arash:  [LAUGHS] Well, I did get chicks because at some point I achieved high status in the martial arts. And I was really bold and I, you know, I was the shit. So I would get girls, but it was so direct. And it was, again, lucky. But I would go after the hottest chicks. So I got girls after a certain point. When I was around, I think, 18 was when I got my really hot girlfriend and then it just moved forward.

Arash:  I’m 34 right now. But the difference is, the life that I live now… I’ll be honest with you, if I explained it to you, it would be out of reality and it wouldn’t fit. So if you could take the book The Game and go to the end and watch Neil’s life and what happens to it, I could tell you that’s very real to me. You know, when I first met Matador, after the first night he said to me, “Arash, you could live like a rock star. You could have so many women in your life that you won’t have time for them. And you wouldn’t know what to do. And that is what I have right now in my life. And I have a current, I have a girlfriend also.

Bolo:  Really nice dude. And it only took you two and a half years to get there?

Arash:  Yeah. It’s still a journey. I’m still evolving man. My game is still tightening up and I don’t think it’ll ever end. Just like martial arts. But it’s pretty high level. It really is. You ask some of the people who have seen me do stuff or talk to people who I have taught, who have been taught by the best in the world, and they’ll tell you I’m better than everybody right now. And I know that to be true.

Bolo:  Very nice. I’m curious, like, about your style. Like, do you have a dating philosophy? You know, like in the community, there’s all these different styles. Direct, indirect. You follow Mystery Method or what?

Arash:  Mystery’s my original teacher. And his method is the base for everything. I believe who is very successful at Pick Up has that as a base. So, my style is my style now. But it has Mystery Method as a base, for sure. Does that answer your question?

Bolo:  Yeah. Yeah, it does. Okay. That’s cool. Now, I’m curious, how did you become good enough at dating to become an authority at it?

Arash:  An authority is somebody who can do the job. That’s an authority to me. You know what I mean? It’s not someone who has a certificate. It’s not someone who other people think knows. It’s the person who can do the job. I can do the job. I’m surrounded by 9s and 10s. Now, in the Bay area, people thought they knew what 9s and 10s were until I got into the Game. Now, the guys, the guys that are the legit Pick Up Artists and quote, are some saying, you hear them, they meet around, they say, “No, we don’t get girls like Arash does. Those are 9s and 10s.” So I’m an authority in quotes, first, because people listen. But more importantly because I can get the job done. I can take someone and teach them from zero to be able to get hot chicks. And I can demonstrate it in my life. I live a life of Pick Up. You know?

Bolo:  Very nice. Like, when you first started, I mean, were you just going out every single day or…

Arash:  No. Well, let me explain something else on that. I just popped in my mind. I think the moment that it became really clear to me that I was okay to teach was when I was out with Matador and he introduced me to Laurence Fishburne. I think he was the black actor from The Matrix.

Bolo:  Yeah. Yeah. Ne-, Morpheus. Yeah.

Arash:  That’s right. And he introduced me. He said, “This is my former student, Arash.” And he goes, “The reason I say former student is because he is a master of Pick Up.” And that was a big moment for me. And there was many conversations after that. So being acknowledged by him, bona fide like that, I was like, “Okay.” You know? And I know I can really change people’s lives. ‘Cause this shit is powerful dude. You know what I mean? It’s fucking powerful. You can change a person’s life. Completely turn it around. No matter what is going on in their live; men are struggling with women. And I’ve seen it.

Bolo:  That’s interesting.

Arash:  I missed the other question you said.

Bolo:  Yeah. Just… What was it? How did you get good enough to become a dating authority? How did you start out? Were you just going out a whole lot or…?

Arash:  I actually barely went to the clubs. On this, I was in LA visiting and I would go with Matador. But other than that, here, my game was created in a way where when I would go shopping I would game everybody there. I would go eat, I would game all the waitresses. Then I would go and, let’s say I’m working out, I would game everybody there. Wherever I was I would game. So, then I created this thing where, for me, game and life are the same. It’s a lifestyle. For me it’s not like, “Oh, now I’m gonna go to the club and game.” So you said, did I go out every night and game? I didn’t go out, but I gamed almost every moment when I was around a chick. Almost every moment. You know? It was unbelievable. So I got very good at it. And my hired gun game is pretty ridiculous. What I can…

Bolo:  Oh. Really nice. Like, do you teach boot camps or what exactly, what type of coaching do you do?

Arash:  Oh yeah. We do boot camps. We do Skype coaching. We do webinars. I have a boot camp coming up this weekend. We do one on ones. Man, you name. I’m just interested in creating the next generation of incredible Pick Up Artists. I benefit from that. It’s important to me.

Bolo:  Yeah. You’ve had a lot of students at this point, right?

Arash:  A lot, you know, is a relative term. No, I don’t think so. I’ve had students and they’ve been very successful. But I was very picky and I still am. I don’t teach everybody. There’s a lot of people that want to learn, but they don’t want to learn. You know what I mean? So I teach people, we go put them in the interview. We find out what they’re all about. If they have a passion for this. If they really want to do this. If they do, I meet with them. And I accept them as students and I change their life. And if again, if they’re not a good student while I’m teaching them, I actually will get rid of them. And I did that to four people.

Bolo:  You’re kidding.

Arash:  No, I can because my name is on it. It’s a brand. You know? I’m a brand name. I’ve done martial arts long enough. I have a very successful martial arts business. And this is now my business in Pick Up. And I want to have a brand. I want it to be, if you were trained by Arash, if you were trained by Achilles, if you’re from SeductiveInstinct.com, you are good. Or you’re on your way to being very good. I don’t want people to say, “I studied with him, but I don’t get any chicks.” No, no, no. Not me. So I’m very selective. The ones that don’t make it, I give them a few chances. You know, if they’re not doing their reading, if they’re not doing their practice, if they’re not showing up, they need to go somewhere else. I don’t care how much they pay. It’s just not the way that I do things.

Bolo:  Okay. Like, during the interview process, what are you looking for, like, in a prospective student?

Arash:  A few things. One is that they really have to want to make a change. They’re not just talking. You know what I mean? They have to have a passion for doing it. They have to be willing to go through rough times. It’s not roses man. Are you kidding me? It was difficult getting good. Very difficult. Thank God it was difficult because now if it wasn’t, everybody else would be running around getting chicks. I put in my time and my dues. So those are the basics. More than that. It’s a vibe, you know? Lucky, he does the interviews and I trust his judgment. So he does the interview and you’d ask him what he specifically goes for. What I look for in a student are those things. Passion. A person who’s willing to go through the ups and downs. And a person who really wants to make a change in their life. Then I’ll make it happen.

Bolo:  Sounds good dude. Now, what about the guys who don’t make it. The four guys you had to kick out? Like, what common traits do they have?

Arash:  Well, they can go fuck themselves as far as I’m concerned.

Bolo:  [LAUGHS]

Arash:  You know what I mean? Probably looking at the pictures of my girls online. But anyways, they, the traits they have is they don’t want to get better man. They don’t do it. You know, you have to take the next step. That’s it. You know? So if they don’t do their reading, if they don’t show up, if they don’t look like they really want to get better, they just want to sit around and talk about it. No dude. This is an action based activity. There’s theory and there’s application. You gotta put them together.

Arash:  There’s people that can sit there and talk all theory all the time. But they can’t demonstrate shit. On the other hand, there’s some guys that get chicks, but they don’t know any theory. So when they teach, there’s a guy, a joke, you know, he was like, you know, I did a seminar, and then he did one right after me and he was like, “Well, just go out there and be yourself. And just be ballsy and be confident.” I’m like, “Dude, you’re a joke. Get the fuck outta here.” You know what I mean?

Bolo:  Yeah.

Arash:  How are you going to teach someone that? That’s not game. That’s ridiculous. You’re the good looking guy. So he gets to do that. I wasn’t a good looking guy. I’m an interesting looking guy, I know. But I’m not a good looking guy.

Bolo:  Yeah dude. I know what you’re saying. It’s a little too, too much esoteric, you know, advice. Like, “Oh, be yourself. Grab your balls and just go.” You know?

Arash:  Yeah. Find out who you really are. It’s like, “Yo man. If I knew the answer I’d be Buddha right now.” You know what I mean?

Bolo:  Yeah. [LAUGHS] Yeah dude.

Arash:  Don’t fucking go there. Give me some specific technique, like look over your shoulder, lean away, smile, tell them you gotta take off in a minute, and ask a neutral question. Those are techniques any person can apply. And that technique will improve their chances just by doing that, talking to a chick. And that was directly from the Mystery Method. An open.

Bolo:  Yeah. Now, what do you think the greatest mistake guys make with women is? Just like in sarging in general.

Arash:  They show too much interest too fast.

Bolo:  And what can they do to correct that?

Arash:  Well, keep doing it. Keep losing the chick. Keep doing it. Keep losing the chick. And then some point get sick of your sickness and say, “Fuck! What am I supposed to do?” At that moment, stop showing her so much interest. So she has to earn, she has to earn it from you. Honestly, that’s the very first thing I ever learned in game when I started studying it. That was the first thing. I applied it that night and it completely changed my experience with women. She has to earn you. You know?

Arash:  They demonstrate interest when they walk up. Already opening a girl you’re showing interest. So as quickly as you can you gotta calibrate and take that away as soon as possible. So she knows that okay, well, you were playing on level ground with her. Or even you gotta be higher really. You gotta have more value. So I think the biggest mistake is they show interest too quickly. The way they can correct is just recognize that’s not the way to get the girl man. It’s just not. I mean, where do you get that from? It’s not proven. It’s lucky. I don’t want to be, I don’t want to get lucky when I get chicks. I want to have skill. You know what I mean?

Bolo:  Yeah.

Arash:  It’s like do you want to be lucky if the parachute opened or do you want to know you fucking put that shit together. You know what I mean? And you put the parachute together. You check everything. And then you jump. Even then, some people’s chutes don’t open. Just like Pick Up. You could be a master Pick Up Artist. Sometimes you ain’t gonna get the chick dude. You gonna fuck up. Big deal. But you do all the pieces right and your chances are greatly improved. And you jump, still with adrenaline, but trusting your chute which is the game. Damn, that was…

Bolo:  Okay. [LAUGHS] Yeah, I’ve jumped out of a couple airplanes before and it helps to be prepared.

Arash:  Oh. Have you really jumped out?

Bolo:  Yeah. I’ve done AFF and Tandem. You do AFF by yourself , you go train for like 10 hours. Like, I had to go at 6 in the morning. Didn’t jump until like 6 in the afternoon.

Arash:  Wow.

Bolo:  It’s a fun time dude. You should give it a shot.

Arash:  I will never jump out of a plane unless it’s burning. Otherwise, I’m good. I’ll just take it from one place to the other.

Bolo:  Well, any tips or techniques you can give the guys? Like, any newbies listening here. Or any, like, you know, just any, anything that your particularly like to do.

Arash:  Yes. Yes, I have so many fucking hints and techniques and shit. So let me just go over a few basic ones. This goes, talk about for everybody, inner game is so important man. Inner… That’s what I had. That’s what… You asked me what made me so good. I had monster inner game. Monstrous. Because of martial arts and the study of the mind that I had all my mind been doing.

Arash:  So ,anyways, let’s get into this. Just like anything worth achieving, whether it’s a black belt in a legit martial arts or its surgeon, become a surgeon or anything legit, you have to put in your time.   And you gotta be willing to do what it takes and go through the hard times. So anybody picking up Pick Up for the first time should understand, you  know, you are going to get the chick one day. You’re totally going to get the chick one day, but you better be willing to go through some shit to get there. Like, really go through it. You gotta put yourself out there, so if you’re not willing have both sides of the coin, my teacher would say, Manu, that was his name, then you can’t have one or the other. You can’t just study game and go get all the hot chicks.

Arash:  The guys who are getting the supremely hot chicks using game, the way it’s taught, have put in their time. Personally, me, I’ve been picked out of two restaurants in San José because I was miscalibrated. Manager came up, “Sir. You’re going to have to leave.” And it’s fucked up. It’s an uncomfortable, uncomfortable experience. That’s the least of it man. I’ve got story after story of shit I’ve done. Boyfriends threatening me. Husbands threaten to kill me. It’s, like, fucked up.

Arash:  But now I’m at a point where it’s rare to get any reaction like that. So the advice is to recognize what you’re getting into, but it’s worth it. If it’s worth it for you to be able to get super-hot chicks and handle this part of your life once and for all. Once and for all, where you just know you have some skill. Then do it. For more advanced Pick Up Artists, I tell you this, straight up, if you have not studied and understood the Mystery Method, you’re missing out. And I guarantee you’re not as good as you could be. I guarantee you’re not as good as you could be, okay? You gotta study it and understand it, even if you’re good.

Arash:  I have Pick Up Artist here who are already good. And now they’re all going back and their game is tremendously improving. Because it’s scientific method. It has a structure where you can always find out where you are if you’re fucking up. It’s incredible. That’s for the people that have been studying game and maybe haven’t had the experience of the Mystery Method done correctly. A lot of people talk about it. They can’t demonstrate it, right? Find a good teacher. And thirdly, for people who have and they’re still struggling, you need to find a good teacher. You got to find a good teacher. How many good teachers do I know? I know four. You and Mystery and you know Matador. ‘Kay? The other two? Don’t worry about it. [LAUGH]

Bolo: [LAUGH]

Arash:  Legit, legit teachers. You would never in the field of martial arts, if your life is on the line, if someone’s gonna knock you out or break your limb or choke you out, you’re not going to go to some shmoe who hasn’t demonstrated his skills before. Doesn’t matter how many certificates he has. No matter what kind of website he has. You need to find a legit teacher who can teach and has already demonstrated who he is.

Arash:  That’s why it’s important for me to have a family tree. Mystery taught Matador. Matador, Arash. Good. We can trace that shit. I didn’t come out of nowhere, right? And if you call him up or if you see Matador, you say, “What do you think of Arash’s game?” He’ll tell you. It’s the way it is. That’s life, right? So for everybody else who’s been studying, maybe stuck somewhere, find a real teacher who can help you. Period. Simple. Done.

Bolo: Oh, very… Yeah dude. Very nice. Like, you seem to live a really kick ass life. You’re an accomplished martial artist. You met all these famous guys. You met Mystery. You met Matador.

Arash:  Ross Jefferies.

Bolo: You met Ross Jefferies before. Manu. I looked up his stuff on youtube. He was on the A-Team!

Arash:  Yeah. Manu was incred-. Man. Yeah, I’ll talk all day about Manu. But yes, he was my original teacher. Everything I can do is because of him as a base I have. Manu Tupou.

Bolo: Like, I’m curious. How did you build up this lifestyle. How did you meet all these people?

Arash:  That I still… Hey. Your voice, by the way, is really faded. So if you could fix it ‘cause I’m trying to desperately hear you, right now.

Bolo:  Can you hear me?

Arash:  That’s better.

Bolo:  Alright. I’ll just have to hold up my mike up like this. Alright, so yeah. How did you meet all these guys?

Arash:  I really can’t answer that with a fact because I thought about that question all my life. I don’t know. I don’t know. I do know when I met them , I instinctively knew how to act. And they saw something in me that they appreciated. And I dedicated, like, really dedicated myself to these teachers. I really did.

Arash:  Right now I’m doing Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu with them, one of the best Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu masters in the world. And I’ve dedicated my whole life to the guy, you know? For the last 10 years I’ve been studying with him. September is 10 years. That’s, I love that. I love being a good student. You know? So, I don’t know how I met them. I really don’t know. If you try to work out the math of it, it’s impossible. So, I can’t figure out how I met them, but after I did I knew what to do.

Bolo:  Like, I’m sure a lot of these people, like, they have students all on them. Wanting to be, you know, their students personally. Like, what do you think separate you from the other guys?

Arash:  You gotta ask them that question. I can only guess. You know what I mean? I know my qualities, that if I was, you know, I am a teacher. As a teacher, I would see this sincere determination, desire and passion of this person to really learn and give proper acknowledgement to that teacher. That’s very important. That’s why I keep dropping Matador’s name or Mystery’s name because, and even Manu who’s passed away 7 years ago. That’s important to me.

Arash:  People have lost that tradition. You have to give respect to the people who came before you. There’s people who have said to me,” Man, your game is so great.” You know, it’s better than so-and-so. I say, “Listen. I don’t even compare myself to Matador. I don’t even compare myself to Mystery. I would be foolish. I don’t even… Who cares? Who cares?” Without them, there would be no me. So let’s just get that straight. Right? But it’s this Western mentality of, like, step over everybody. Get to the top and blah blah blah. And be the best. Shut the fuck up. You know? So, I don’t know. Maybe that’s what they saw. I don’t know. You would have to ask them. I think I would see this in myself. A guy who knows that he’s going to do whatever it takes to be the best.

Bolo:  Very nice. Alright. I looked up some of your videos on YouTube, you know? And are you, like, a club promoter?

Arash:  No, I’m not. I’m not. I actually use the game to create a lifestyle of a rock star. I want to be on the stage. I want to have a mike. I want to have girls around me. I want to perform. But I don’t have a voice. Besides what you hear. I can’t sing worth shit. So , it’s my secret how I did it. But I used game to position myself where I’m at now. I do shows. I get hired as an artist to go into a club and put on a show. A promoter is someone who promotes people to go to the club and get paids off of it. I get hired by the club as an outside. I go in. I do a show and I leave. That’s what I…

Bolo:  Okay. Can you drop any hints if one of the guys wants to do something similar?

Arash:  Absolutely. Hints are this. First of all, I have skills. You know? I’m on stage. I’m capable because of Manu. I’m a theater, master of theater. I know what I’m doing. And so you have to have something, right? So I can produce. I can produce a show. I can direct and produce shit. So that’s what I have. But the big hint in regards to game is if you have beautiful women around you, enough of them, it opens many, many doors for you. And I knew that. So I knew that having that, I could open doors. And I did.

Bolo:  Okay. So, like, social circle.

Arash:  You better believe it man. You wouldn’t believe my life. You should add me on Facebook. You literally… I tell you. I bet you there’s nobody else, nobody else in the world that we know that has a Facebook like me unless it’s Hugh Hefner. There’s nobody surrounded… Because even the celebrities bro, they get chicks, but they don’t have them in their social circle the way I have them. You gotta believe… We’ll you’ll see it for yourself.

Bolo: Okay. I saw your Facebook. You do… I saw, like, I think your Picasa web photos. Yeah, I can attest to what you’re saying.

Arash:  That’s my life. That’s what I do.

Bolo: Like, how did you build up your social circle? How do you get that many females around you?

Arash:  By having very tight, meticulous game. Very tight game. That’s it. Because…

Bolo: It all just goes back to game.

Arash:  If you know the structure of the Mystery Method , there’s comfort in the middle, C2 is deep comfort and connection. If you have a comfort and connection with a beau-… And I just did it with the 9s and 10s. Now, just like that, every relationship will end eventually. You gotta know how to end it. So girls will come and go. But the core group keeps getting stronger and stronger.

Arash:  My vision is to one day have, be the guy who establishes what is sexy in our current culture because of the way I look and who I am, I’m a rebel. You see how I look. And my girls are the new playmates. They’re the new, you know what I mean, the new Playboy Playmates. They’re the IMC Sinful Angels. That’s who we are. And you’ll see this. ‘Cause it is in our area, we’re known as the hottest girls in the Bay Area our under Arash. So now all we gotta do is get the word out to bigger than Bay Area. And it’s happening already. You know?

Bolo:  Very nice. Like, I’m curious though. What do you think is your biggest sticking point right now?

Arash:  Hmm… Good question. At the moment, I haven’t… My confidence has not caught up to my game. If that makes any sense. My confidence is lower than my ability to do game. So I’m starting to see that at some point they’re reacting to my game, which is really tight. But I start to fuck it up because my confidence is not there yet. And that incongruency  has been killing me. And now I’m getting it.

Arash:  That’s what I’m currently working on right now, is to see myself as they see me. Because I still have in me that little boy who was fucked up, with a lot more confidence now, but I see it come out at times. Somewhere in that structure that shit comes out. And now I’ve been in the progress… It’s funny you ask. For the last 3 days, I’ve seen it. To just nuke it out. It’s, like, it’s incongruent. That’s it. And you may never see. My lifestyle and what I can do, but that’s why I’m stuck, what’s what I need to fix right now.

Bolo:  Okay. Well, what about, like, the rest of your life. What other goals do you have? I mean, you seem to be doing pretty damn well already.

Arash:  You know who Lil Wayne is?

Bolo:  Yeah.

Arash:  My goal is to achieve material and fame, success higher than him. He’s the one, his picture is in the background for that purpose. It’s in the back. Point to him. There.

Bolo:  Yeah. I see him.

Arash:  Yeah. To spread the teachings of my teachers and help, honestly, because that seems to be the one activity that fulfills me at the end of the night, more than anything else is when I help people. And it’s very selfish. And it’s not all fucking vain and shit, “Oh. He wants to help people.” I only want to do it ‘cause it actually makes me feel better.

Arash:  The final analysis; that’s what it is. And to really just open my eyes and see… There’s a lot of goals. I’ve very goal orientated and shit. But in the big picture, Lil Wayne status and higher. Than use that and what I know to help as many people as I can. And on a personal level, just continue evolving as an individual and see, see what it is man. I mean, like, you know, it’s quiet a journey – living. It’s a trip. You know, it’s a trip. So I enjoy thinking about life and philosophizing about it and seeing what it’s all about.

Bolo:  Okay. Yeah. Sounds good to me dude. Like, what’s your day to day life like nowadays?

Arash:  I have a very strict schedule, I’ll tell you. I get up a 9AM every single day. I make myself some kind of smoothie juice for breakfast. I go and I do Jiu-Jitsu from 11. I finish at 2. I get home. I showered. This is every day. I shower. Hang out with my girlfriend till around 4. Some days at 3:30 or 4, I come to this office, what you’re seeing, and I teach game on Skype or meet with people. At 5 I’m in my martial arts academy teaching till 8:30. At 8:30, I head back to this office. Teach. Lecture. Or hangout with a friend. This goes Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday. Friday is very similar to that except at the end of the night I hang out with my girlfriend. Saturday I teach in the morning. I have an open schedule in the middle of the day, where I hang out with a friend or go out gaming, whatever. And then I hang out with the girlfriend. Sunday I hang out with the girlfriend, having a meeting. Sunday night, hang out with a friend. Literally every single week is like that. And it’s been like that for years now.

Bolo:  What about your products? Can you tell us, like, just what you have? Like, you got boot camps? What else do you have?

Arash:  If a person if interested in learning from me, it’s really easy. They go to SeductiveInstinct.com. Can they email us there? They just shoot an email and they say what they want to learn, okay? Then somebody. 48 hours is my turn around time for everything man. If you haven’t heard in 48 hours from us, we didn’t get it. Straight up. Two days is long enough to go to another country and come back, you know? So, they say what they want. Based on that, we’ll email them. And say, “Look. Here are the options dude.”

Arash:  You know, and money is an issue for a lot of people. I don’t know from where you are, but in this economy in the United States it is. And I don’t give a shit about that too much. It has to be fair. It has to be something where, you know, I feel like it’s worth the time. You know, I gave you my schedule. Somewhere in there I fit somebody. That’s it. Straight up. That’s my schedule.

Arash:  So there’s an infinite number of products because it’s tailored to the person. Now, on the other hand, there’s, we just released that Alpha Male series. It’s a 6 DVD set. 5, 6 DVD set. I don’t remember. And that’s really cool because  that has so much, so much information, up and down the scale, on alpha males. And there’s language patterns, and there’s everything. Okay? So that’s for somebody who just wants to check it out. And there’s also, you know, again, webinars. We have this thing called Secret Diaries, where I interview some of these 9s and 10s. And you can see me talking to them and there’s a lot to learn. So those are some of the actual products that are out.

Arash:  But what I like my business to be is someone contacts us, we develop a personal relationship, find out what they’re all about. Based on that, we give them a few options. The one that fits their budget, they take it. I change their life. They go out and they tell the world how incredible I am. And then Lil Wayne can be my little bitch afterwards.

Bolo: [LAUGH] Alright dude. Sounds good. Anything else you want to say to the audience from here?

Arash:  Yeah man. First of all, thank you for doing this. You get the word out. You know what I mean? We all have our jobs. So now because of you more people are going to have an opportunity to learn from me and the stuff that I know. To the audience, any final messages, bottom line, and it’s going to sound weird and cheesy, but it is what it is. Let’s just make it a better place for everybody. You know what I mean? Somehow, someway. Whatever your skills are. Whether you’re, you know. Whether you work as a doctor. Whatever the fuck you do. You sweep the streets. You know, let’s wake up and go to bed and try to make it a little bit better for everybody. You know what I mean? Then it’s worth it. Teacher Manu would always say, “Be the best and fuck the rest.” So that’s the message. Be the best and fuck the rest.

Bolo: Alright. Thank you Arash and it was good talking to you.

The shit that comes out of this guys mouth is incredible!

Sasha is a PUA based out in London. He’s one of the guys behind the Direct Dating Summit. Talking about sex within 2 minutes of opening her? That’s what Sasha does.

I really like the beginning where Sasha talks with the model. He doesn’t fawn over the fact that she’s a model. The part where he imitates her like, “Oh, I’m a model. Look at me,” is fucking hilarious. It’s also a very realistic view on what Pick Up looks like. No super fancy ninja moves. No flash game to impress the Lair (well…maybe a little bit) Just a guy having fun. Sasha is the very definition of self amusing. Watch the video, it’s worth it.

If you like the video or just want to know more about Day Game in general then be sure to check out Sasha PUAs website.

I didn’t make any plans. Didn’t even look up where I would stay. I just packed my bag and headed to the Train Station.

Getting There

If you take the regular train (aka. the slow one) it takes about 6 hours to arrive. The bus is about the same, depending on traffic. The high speed rail takes only 2.5 hours.

First Impressions – Nice Weather

First, the weather is a billion times nicer than Taipei. When I left Taipei, it was raining like crazy. I took my umbrella but still got soaked. Kaohsiung was nice and sunny. I was felt carrying my umbrella looking like one of those guys who wants to keep his skin milky white.

From what I understand it doesn’t rain much in Kaohsiung.

Chillax Ppl But Not Many Sights To See

The city is a lot slower and laid back than Taipei. MRT’s only come along every 4-6 minutes. When they do arrive you’re almost guaranteed to find a seat. I’ve been told that this MRT is hemorrhaging money.

If you exit Kaohshiung Main Station and head towards the MRT, you’ll see a building up ahead. It’s where you can pick up a map detailing all the sights to see here. Stuff is pretty Taiwan typical. Night markets and uhhh….. more night markets.

However, there is Monkey Mountain. The name is self explanatory. I didn’t go because there’s no easy way to get there. You pretty much have to have a scooter or hire a taxi to go there. Plus I didn’t want a monkey jacking me for my backpack. I’ve seen Congo. Fuck that shit.

Sarging

Pick up wise, I feel like Kaohsiung has tons of potential. I asked two different girls for directions and they actually gave me a scooter ride to where I wanted to go! Fucking unheard of in Taipei. In fact, one of the girls started calling up her friends and asking them if they wanted to take me out. Fucking incredible. I tried to make something happen with her but it never did.

Clubs

There are two main clubs here. I didn’t go to either. But here are the locations copied from the wikitravel article.

Lamp, 3F, 42 Zihciang 3rd Rd (MRT Sanduo Shopping District Station Exit 1, across from the 2 legged skyscraper)
Dreams, 125 Nantian St (MRT Sanduo Shopping District Station Exit 4, behind Sogo,)

I really want to try out night game here.

A lot of the sets I opened were really keen and eager to talk to me even on the street.

Long Term Stay

Kaohsiung is much cheaper than Taipei. I talked to some foreigners and they said to rent an apartment at a happening place like “Kaohsiung Area” costs about 5000NT or so.

Short Term Stay

The E Shie Hotel is a place I found near the two clubs. Rooms start from 600NT a night.

I ended up staying with some random person I met. I was walking around “Central park”, which is like Ximen and ended up meeting another foreigner who ran a hostel type of deal. He charged me 300NT to stay in his spare bedroom. At his place I ended up meeting his roomie and he invited me to go kick it in Kenting. It was fun. You never know what’s gonna happen when you travel.

The guys card is below:

On Friday, I was standing outside Room 18 with RedPoleQ and Latinstylez. RedPoleQ had called me in to help him wing. I did my thing and number closed the girl I was talking too. That set ended and I turned around and saw a girl with her hair up looking at me getting ready to leave. I waved goodbye absentmindedly and chatted with the guys. Then I felt someone tap me from behind. It was the girl I had waved goodbye too. She asked “Can I have your phone number?” Whoa, direct game. We exchanged numbers and she left.

The next day I gave her a call. She sounded sleepy and told me that she had gotten home at 10AM. This one is a party girl. She’s also a nurse and often works late nights. I set up a day 2 for coffee on Sunday because she had to go to work. It’s suppose to be a thyphoon day but hopefully the weather wouldn’t be too bad.

On Sunday, it’s raining hardcore. She texts messages me and suggest that we go watch a movie. I tell her to meet me at Dunhua. We meet up. She’s an hour late but hot damn! She’s got some big ol’ titties! I spin her causing her to giggle and we head to the coffee shops.

I pay for both of our coffees and we sit down. I run through my usual attraction routine. I show her different types of handshakes, we play thumbwar, run the cube, etc .

At one point, I tell her went to art school for 4 years and draw caricatures. When I was living in Barcelona I use to draw people pictures for beer money. Then I took out some paper and a pen and start drawing her. After a few minutes I show her my picture and reveal that I’ve drawn a stick figure. She laughs. I tell her to draw a picture of me looking like Superman. Then I took both pictures and made them talk to each other.

Picture of her: “Oh Bolo! You are so sexy! I must have you! *kiss*
*Made the two pictures kiss each other*

After roll playing for a bit, I seeded in going to the Hookah bar. We take off. I take her hand. Walked and talked for a bit. I asked about the tattoo on her back. Told her I wanted to get a giant Doreamon on my stomach.

We get to the hookah bar and I start telling her about my life adventures while applying different frames. I tell her about the time I wandered into a random bar in Seoul, realized it was a gay bar, and managed to hook two guys up. (Shows that I’m not judgemental about sex). Tell her the story about my sister going out with her boyfriend and I didn’t tell Mom. (Shows I can keep a secret). Then I ran the strawberry fields to frame her as someone who enjoys sex and taking what she wants.

I’ll admit that I’m super rusty with telling these stories. I stuttered and forgot exactly what to say and how to say it to get the response I want. Regardless, she still laughed.

While we were talking she just puts her head on my shoulder and we cuddle for a bit. I don’t find out too much about her. She doesn’t seem like the super talkative type. I mess around with her iPhone and look at all her pictures. Our conversation is winding down so I decided to seed in going to a DVD room. I ask her what type of movies she enjoys watching. Then I say “Let’s go watch a movie.” We bounce and she pays for the hookah and drinks.

I run the question game while we were walked. She’s had 5 lovers. The last time she had sex was 2 weeks ago. She likes rough, passionate sex. She’s dated foreigners before.

We get to the DVD room. I choose a random action movie and go watch it. I wait for a bit and then started caressing her hand. Then kiss her. Clothes off. No LMR. Nice.

This was an easy lay. I probably didn’t even need to do sexual framing with her. She was into me and the only thing I had to do was not say anything to stupid and to have my logistics down. I gotta say…I’ve never had a girl open me directly like she did. The total number of girls who have opened me at a club…I can count on one hand. It’s pretty cool. Makes me want to spend more time at the gym.

http://www.taiwanstoryland.com.tw/

These are the types of museums I like. No looking at a 1000 year old Chinese bowl or Jade carved out to look like a vegetable. Rather, Taiwan Storyland is like going back in time to 1960s Taipei. Streets, shops, and roads are recreated down to the smallest detail. You can take mug shots in the local police station, play miniature pool at the bar, and look at the variety of pliers at the dentist. Great place for role playing.

I’d come here even if I wasn’t on a date. But if you do happen to bring a girl then I can tell you that there aren’t that many people around and there’s quiet a few private spots to get cozy. Also there’s an Alley Cats Pizza right near the entrance.

I’m not gonna write too much about this place. I rather you go experience it.

Times: 10：30 ~20：30 daily ( access no later than 20：00 )

Cost: 200NT per person

Where: B2, No.50, Chung Hsiao W. Rd., Sec., Zhongzheng District, Taipei
Right next to the Shin Kong Department store.

Taipei Times article
http://wandering-taiwan.blogspot.com/2009/10/taiwan-story-land.html

Your tits look great

If you’re in London then you’ll want to check out the Direct Dating Summit seminar. My friend Sasha is putting on a conference. Sasha is a Day Game dating coach who is also a standup comedian. He was Mystery’s original wing long before anybody knew just what they were doing. He’s also friends with Cajun from Love Systems.

Sasha is bringing together some of Pick Up’s biggest direct game gurus. Legends like David X and Alan Roger Currie will be there. Holy fucking shit! I wanna go. Alas, I nowhere near rainy London. But if you are there on November 20 and 21st then you should definitely check it out.

There’s a fun interview between Sasha, David X and Alan that I recommend you listen too.

http://directdatingsummit.com/amazing-private-conversation/

Basic Questions

1) How did you get into pickup?

I wasn’t exactly a Casanova in high school. I got a few dates but nothing compared to the success my natural friends were having. In fact, my lack of success turned me into kind of a selfish asshole for a few years which actually got me two girlfriends and a few lays but I wasn’t getting the QUALITY women who I wanted most. Then one night at a party I bumped into LatinStylez and we talked about picking up women a bit and he introduced me to the seduction community. Shortly after I resurrected The Tallahassee Lair, improved my game substantially, and eventually began coaching.

2) What is your dating philosophy?

My first rule is that there are no rules. Most “gurus” who teach only teach a style that works for them and people similar to them so the majority of people probably can’t use their advice congruently nor effectively. Also every woman is different. Sure they have some commonalities however they have to each be treated differently since they are individuals. My overall philosophy is to just be social, fun, and most importantly be a MAN and then all the skills necessary just fall into place.

3) How did you get good at dating to become an authority on it?

The same way anyone gets good at anything; by dozens of hours of practice, taking a lot of risks, going out of my comfort zone, figuring out what works, and sticking to it. Another big contributor to my success was feedback from my attractive female friends. If anyone on this planet can properly diagnose a guy’s game, it’s an attractive female who is close to him.

4)What do you think guys greatest mistake with women is?

The don’t act like MEN when the crucial time to act like one arises. Society has programmed our cultures for generations to be effeminate and dogmatically abide by society’s rules and restrictions, which goes against what we are genetically programmed to do. Obviously this is necessary to function as a culture, however when it comes to dating a man has to act like a man. If he sees a girl he’s interested in he should approach her and say hi. If he thinks a girl looks sexy he should tell her. If he wants to kiss a girl he should.

5) In your experience, what is the best place to find a quality girlfriend?

This topic is debatable since different cultures provide different venues and different men have different definitions of “quality”. In my opinion though the best place to meet a quality woman is during the day time in a venue that you are going to anyway; that way you two already have things in common. As popularized as picking up women in bars and clubs have become, many of the women either have problems with insecurity, drinking, or drugs and those types of women usually don’t spend a lot of time in daytime situations.

6) What are some ways to enlarge your social circle?

Network and host get-togethers. At the peak of my partying days I was inviting friends from my work, school, and other organizations to my house parties and club parties. The more people you meet, the more you will get “introduced” to more people and especially if you are hosting events and being the source of everyone’s good time.

7) What was your life like when you weren’t good with women? What is it like now?

Before I was good with women I was lonely. I would see people in romantic relationships in the media or hear about my friends hanging out with hot women and I felt left out. Nowadays I literally have so many women in my life I don’t have time to schedule them all. It got to the point where I had to make a digital spreadsheet of all the women I knew and prioritize them based on which ones were the most fun and like me the most. Even if you have dozens of numbers from hot women, there’s no point in following up with them unless you also enjoy their personality and they are making an effort to keep the interactions alive and fun. Now I have the option of not only dating physically attractive women, but selecting the ones who also have great personalities.

What is one of your favorite techniques/tactics?

Just say what’s on your mind. “Your tits looks really nice in that top.” “I’ve always wanted to own a pirate ship.” “Let’s go get some chocolate cake.” A lot of guys underestimate how fun and interesting they are so if you just say what’s on your most of the time women will appreciate the honesty and sometimes laugh playfully. And the magic of it is that they aren’t responding to some “line” you read somewhere; they’re responding to YOU and are attracted to the person that YOU really are. It’s very genuine.

9) Do you use props? If so, what gets the most reactions?

Every once in a while if something looks cool, however nothing is ever planned. For example I was at the bar the other night with a girl and pulled her straw out of her drink and started casting Harry Potter spells on people. She thought it was hilarious. It was nothing I planned out; I just saw it and thought about doing it so I did.

10) What is your biggest sticking point?

My biggest sticking point is actually sometimes not approaching hot women I see around campus during the daytime and justifying it based on lame excuses like I have to get to class or there’s people watching or I’m already dating 3 other girls and don’t have time for another. The truth is that if you are a quality man, you deserve a quality woman, and the only way to find the highest quality woman possible is to try out a bunch of them.

11) What pick up artist has inspired you the most? What did you learn from them?

A combination of David DeAngelo, Mystery, Adam Lyons, and Sinn. Firstly David DeAngelo taught me the basics of flirting, which is extremely fun and often overlooked in the dating community. I learned from Mystery how to treat meeting women in clubs like a video game; approach the group, meet everyone, get the girl you want alone. Adam Lyons taught me the importance of being social and normal and also the benefits of being friends with a lot of women. Sinn taught me a lot about how to help women feel sexually comfortble early in the interaction. However, the person I have learned the MOST from has been myself and my experiences. All of us are different and the only way we can figure out what works best for us to is document our experiences over a long period of time and figure out what all the commonalities to our successes and failures are so that we can optimize our game.

12) Describe the moment when your realized you need to work on this part of your life.

Probably in my first years of college when I hit a “dry spell” for several months. I went several months without getting intimate with any women in a college town full of attractive and horny women and decided it was time to make a change and get this part of my life handled and ultimately mastered.

13) What advice do you give to newbies starting out?

Write down all of the things that make you a QUALITY man and understand that you deserve quality women. Also realize that there are literally thousands of attractive women are there longing for an experience with a quality man like yourself. Also understand that there is no such thing as “rejection”. A woman can reject your approach but she can never reject you as a person because she doesn’t know you. All women are DIFFERENT and there is no magic formula to picking up all of them. In fact, a lot of the attractive women you approach will have immature personalities and things won’t work out, however you MUST go through the process of meeting a LOT of these women to find the good ones and when you do, none of the others will even matter.

14) In your experience, what is the biggest issue for guys getting attraction from women?

By my coaching experience, the biggest issue for them is simply having the guts to approach the women they want and to be social. Once they understand that in most cases they actually have more to offer the woman than she does and to just relax, be themselves, and smile the rest usually falls into place naturally.

15) What are you goals for the community? Your life?

My goal is to simply be happy and take the good opportunities I am presented with; whether that be approaching attractive women, sleeping with them, dating them, or potentially marrying one my goal is to simply make the right decisions when I’m given the right opportunities. In life I hope to ultimately be financially independent and stable, have love in my life, and to use my talents to make the world a happier place for everyone I meet.

Specialized Questions

1) Can you relate a success story about one of your clients?

Recently I was having a consultation with a regular client and he told me about how I helped him get past a sticking point of his. He is a great guy who has a lot to offer and just didn’t know how to project it properly given his current situation so I helped him get past that and he told me that it changed his life. When I receive tat kind of feedback from clients it is worth more to me than anything money can buy and I am overwhelmed with a sense of content that I am making the world a better place for both men and women.

2) Why did you choose the name Falcon?

It was really random actually. Everyone else I looked up to in the community at the time had aliases so I just thought of something that was free and at the same time aggressive so a falcon was the first thing that came to mind.

3) What are your fundamental teachings?

Be a man, be social, and go for the women you deserve. One of the main differences from my teachings and those of other instructors is that most of what I teach has been PROVEN by scientific methods in the fields of social and evolutionary psychology. I don’t endorse any “methods” or “formulas” and just take what has been proven and published by accredited Universities and project it through the prism of dating.

4) How do you differ from other dating coaches?

I had both friends and success with women before discovering the dating/seduction community. Because of this I teach a lot of things I learned from my friends who re NATURALLY good at meeting women. Also as mentioned above, I teach principles that have been SCIENTIFICALLY PROVEN by accredited Universities in the fields of social and evolutionary psychology. No theories nor complex models or methods; just the scientifically proven facts.

5) How are you viewed within the community?

Depends on who you ask haha. Some people call me a guru, dating coach, a seducer, or professional pick-up artist while others simply call me a guy who is good with women, a cool guy, or a friend. If you ask me though I’m just a normal guy like everyone else. I simply have a genuine appreciation for amazing women and have put in a lot of time and effort figuring out how to have them in my life.

6) Do you blog?

I don’t blog very often actually. I am currently a senior in the mechanical engineering program at my college university so that is currently my highest priority, followed by spending time with friends, spending time with the women I’m dating, and keeping up with my hobbies like working out at the gym and watching sports.

7) Tell me about your products.

I currently host and speak at dating seminars around the United States and provide one-on-one coaching in Tallahassee Florida and those are my only “products”. Meeting and dating women is a fun part of my life and definitely something I have put in a lot of time and effort getting good at, however right now there are other important parts of my life I am focusing on, so I’m not really trying to make a career out of it or do mass marketing. I am happy to meet with new people whether they are other coaches, pick-up artists, inquiring students, women who are interested in my coaching, or just normal guys who would like someone to talk to whether it be about their dating lives, my dating life, or anything else. I consider myself very friendly and approachable and have been through a lot in life so I can relate to most people on a genuine level regardless of their situations and I always enjoy meeting new people.

I’m opening a new Lair with a focus on pick up in Taiwan. It’s going to be TaiwanLair.com.

I’ve been living in Taipei for the last couple of months. The sarging has been pretty good. Girls in Taiwan dress like it’s a tropical country, which means you get to see skin. The cultural attitude towards sex seems to be less conservative when compared to places like Korea. I went on a coffee date with a white girl and she told me how it’s hard to be a western women here because Taiwan girls tend to have sex on the first date………..apparently I’m doing something wrong. Regardless, I have an easier time sarging because I speak enough Chinese to get girls to giggle and have basic conversations. If you don’t speak any Chinese then fear not. Like other developed Asian countries, most people here can speak basic English. It wasn’t like when I was in South America and the only language people could speak was Spanish.

I do have some minor complaints though. Closing locations aren’t that plentiful compared to Japan and Korea…at least from what I’ve seen. When I was in Korea, there was a DVD bong (private DVD room) on nearly every street. Japan was littered with love hotels. Taiwan also use to have several DVD bongs (called MTV) but most were torn down for some reason or another. Also, sometimes when I open, the girl won’t say anything at all. They’ll just stare straight ahead and wait for the painful stimulus to go away. It’s happened to be in Korea and Japan too. You get use to it. Lastly, I haven’t found any really good Day Game locations. I enjoyed the large coffee shops in Korea. They tended to be multiple stories with tons of girls in them. The coffee shops in Taiwan are much smaller – usually a single story and jam packed with middle and high schoolers doing homework. I’ve been doing mostly street and subway game.

At first, I was mostly sarging solo. In some ways I prefer sarging solo but it can really help if you have a decent wing by your side. However, wings seem to be hard to come by here. There were no lairs, forums, or any type of Pick Up Community that I could find. In fact, I met my first wing while browsing Taipei Craigslist. Then I met a few other Pick Up guys in other forums. Groovy but not what I’d consider a community. I remember Korea Lair and how becoming part of that changed my life. I met guys who were like me; on this journey of self discovery. K-Lair brought the entire Korea Pick Up Community together. Friendships were formed and lives were changed. Korea Lair allowed me to meet people I otherwise would have never met. I wanted something like that for Taiwan.

So here it is. TaiwanLair.com is going to bring us Taiwan PUAs together.

I’m also going to start updating Latinstylez.com with good venues for sarging and Day 2s. So tell your friends in Taiwan and if you stop by then let’s sarge together.

Those are the eyes of a man who has died on the inside….

Found these photos of Mystery with his baby mama and daughter. It’s interesting to see him like this…and scary. I wonder if he planned this out or if his baby mama planned it out…

Lately I’ve been reading books like “The Predatory Female” and “The Manipulated Man” in preparation for taking the Relationship Mastery Seminar offered by Pick Up Asia. They’re both pretty eye opening books that show females aren’t just sugar and spice and everything nice. Nuh uh, they can be cold and calculating ready to suck you in so you have to support them no matter what.

I’ve been reading into divorce laws and see just how much a marriage can truly cost you. The woman can get half your pay check, your retirement and your kids if you get a divorce. It doesn’t matter if she had nothing to do with your job. Somehow she’s entitled to half your pay check.

These recent events with Tiger Woods are a good reminder to be careful where you stick your dick. All of a sudden all these chicks are coming out of the wood work claiming to have fucked him. His wife stands to get $100 million dollars is she gets a divorce. Is you for fucking real? How the hell does that even make any sense? She didn’t earn any of that.

I wonder if something like that happened to Mystery. I remember watching some seminar videos where he talks about his daughter and how she was unexpected. He might not have expected it but I wonder if his baby mama did. She has a lot to gain from having his child.

Whatever the situation is with Mystery, I hope he’s doing ok. The dude changed my life and he’s also a warning to make sure your jimmy hat is on tight and to screen your women…because you never know if you have to deal with them for the rest of your life.